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Club soda with lime. everyone will think it's a vodka soda
/r/seduction27/05/24 05:41 AM
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This has more risk than usual if it goes poorly. I would seriously consider whether you want to pursue. There's tons of fish in the sea - are you sure you want to go after the one that has the most complications?
/r/seduction07/04/24 05:53 AM
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If she's going to reject you for going for a kiss, it means just wasn't into you to begin with. So there's nothing lost, you just found out the truth
/r/seduction07/04/24 05:50 AM
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I think the bigger question is why aren't you making a move? Don't you want to kiss her? I don't want to be wasting my time on a relationship with no physical spark. I want to know within 1-2 dates if we're into each other. Going for the kiss is the best way to find out.
/r/seduction06/04/24 08:48 PM
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6'0" -about 6 years ago, lost a bunch of weight through running a triathlon, ended up down at 150 lbs. I was able to attract women, but I wouldn't say women were particularly going for me for my body. -about 3 years ago, I started building muscle and went up to about 160lbs. I was lean (6-pack) and decently strong. Once I uploaded my new photos to the dating apps, immediate huge improvement in matches and women's interest. -past 9 months I've been healthy bulking. I'm up to 180lbs and about 12 l…
/r/seduction21/03/24 09:48 PM
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Don't do anything tangibly, just keep escalating. Assuming he kisses you, then turn that into a passionate makeout. Then start feeling each other's body, maybe go under his shirt and feel his chest. Then just slowly start taking clothes off - can start with his shirt. At a certain point, take him to the bedroom and hopefully he'll get the idea.
/r/seduction18/03/24 03:37 AM
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It's a really bad idea to have your self-worth based on anything that is outside of your control. If you get you love and appreciation from yourself, then you aren't reliant on others for it, which lowers your neediness. Also getting your self-worth from outside things makes your more anxious because you're constantly concerned with getting rejected as it will trigger shame. Having an appreciative view of yourself (self-esteem) is one of the most attractive qualities you can have.
/r/seduction02/03/24 07:49 PM
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I'm currently abstaining from masturbation and it has been enormously helpful. Your motivation to get out there and date and meet women will be at an all time high if you can't get sexual relief from yourself. Porn is destructive - it makes you value the everyday women that you can actually get much less.
/r/seduction18/02/24 09:16 PM
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Always try to tie to an inside joke from your time together, ideally something flirty. i.e. "Hey had fun with you. btw I looked up that youtube video you recomended, you're right, ____ is as crazy he seems" You don't have to ask her out right then either. Start having her feel good again when she picks up her phone and sees your name (i.e. 1-3 texts). Then ask her out again.
/r/seduction17/02/24 03:33 AM
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