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Red Pill Exampleboomerachi/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 05:12 PM
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It’s ok if your mission is earthly based. This is something that hung me up for years when I was first swallowing the Christ pill. I was meeting with a pastor that I respected who encouraged me to put aside all of my hobbies and goals that didn’t directly relate to the church or the Bible and honestly it cost me two years of getting to know Jesus. You really don’t know how the Holy Spirit is working in your life at any given moment, so if you feel passion for sharing dietary information, go full…
/r/askRPC02/03/20 02:06 AM
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Case for Christ is a good read but I wouldn’t hang my faith on it or use it as a foundation. I spent most of my 20s as a vocal atheist and there is lot of ammunition in that book for sowing doubt. Can you articulate what you feel your mission is? I’ve gone through seasons where I wasn’t living my mission and I also struggled with my faith in those times. The closer you are to living up to what God specifically wants you to do, the closer to him you will feel. And this doesn’t necessarily mean ch…
/r/askRPC01/03/20 05:11 AM
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Yikes dude. This doesn’t come up often but RP doesn’t exist while your women is pregnant. You should have been utilizing the tools before that. You can’t try to dread her while she’s a hormonal mess carrying your child. Don’t dip in your leadership, but don’t push sex or become distant while she’s preggers. Be an emotional rock and help her manage stress. I don’t dislike your response to her. You stood your ground and set expectations. As to your current situation, all I can suggest is two thing…
/r/RPChristians02/03/19 11:06 AM
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Eh everyone is angry when they find the pill and it’s really easy to buy into MGTOW when you’re angry. You have to understand that divorce isn’t inevitable. Yes modern marriages are failing and you are exposed to horror stories, but that doesn’t have to be you. RP is your toolbox to prevent that sort of massacre. Yes staying single is an option. But I think in time, once your anger passes, you’ll find it’s not all that grand. Be on your guard for unicorns if you do go this route. You’re more lik…
/r/RPChristians28/02/19 01:49 AM
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A ship is safe in harbor, but that’s not what ships are for. Yes relationships can be messy and you can get hurt, but MGTOW always just seems like an excuse not take a risk. You are worried about her being bi and then you have more competition? That just screams low self confidence. Where is the outcome independence in that? Increase your SMV, live your best life, and you shouldn’t even have to think about competition. Women can add a lot of value to your life and you are missing out by siding w…
/r/RPChristians27/02/19 10:42 AM
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Not sure I’d call this an AMOG situation. Doesn’t sounds like there was an actual agreement, but even if there was you are still at the driver’s mercy. A strong handle on logistics and being proactive are hallmark of frame, and you gave up all the control in this situation when you didn’t drive.
/r/RPChristians16/02/19 03:27 PM
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Holy ONEitis Batman. She’s probably pretty cool, but she’s one of a million cool girls out there that you’re compatible with. First step is just calm down and stop worrying so much about it. You’ve got zero outcome independence if you’re frantically asking this many questions. Step two, you both need a little more space. You are both students. Your and her top priorities should be school. Make your boundaries and help her succeed. You need to be leading more, not wrecking her studying with cuddl…
/r/RPChristians16/02/19 01:47 PM
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Not sure if this is a troll post but I’d say look into some Dave deida books. He’s got one geared towards women. He isn’t full blown red but it’ll be a good starting point. Don’t actively shit test your man extra or start doting all the time. Tests will happen organically when you need the feels. Testing too much/doting or seeming needy are going to get you nexted. There’s really two things I guess that I’d advise. Support his mission. Look at the captain/first mate dynamic. Find out what his pr…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/18 01:06 PM
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This. I figured the whole comment section would be full of oneitis warnings. Soft next
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 05:17 PM
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Sorry bro but she isn’t coming back. Get her off the pedestal and move onto the next one. Chalk it up as a learning experience. Hard next no contact
/r/seduction12/01/18 05:20 PM
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Once you cross the line of actually cheating, you can't come back. I think it's better to leave a spouse if you are that unhappy, and then start seeing other people. Actually cheating is like dread level 12 and I don't think you're anywhere close to that. Honestly I think you would regret it. Keep working on yourself and up your dread game. Read TFA's blog and make your wife into a woman this exciting. Use this experience as a confidence booster to keep growing.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/17 01:49 PM
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She's not interested. Just wanted some validation. Let her go
/r/seduction09/03/17 04:26 PM
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Why? To impress others? Great idea. Everyone will love you and you'll be an instant player Rock what you have. Be patient and it will grow eventually. I didn't need to shave more than once a week until I was almost thirty. You can still exude great SMV without a beard, but the needy feelings to have one will do the opposite. No need to wear masks anymore
/r/askTRP05/03/17 01:05 PM
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Concise and precise advice. Absolute hard next
/r/askTRP05/03/17 01:02 PM
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I think you need to do a lot more reading if you think being a bonafide player is a main goal of every red pill man. I'd give the side bar a few more reads
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:58 PM
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You control how external forces make you feel. Stop accepting the stress from your expectations and you have nothing to be angry about. The facts are you can't rely on anybody. Neighbor syndrome is real and people are lazy/selfish. Own your shit but don't try and own everyone else's. the less you need to depend on others, the better off you'll be. Only you suffer when you get angry. These friends of yours aren't losing any sleep.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:55 PM
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Give Herrigel's Zen in the Art of Archery a read. It's a quick read and your local book store should have it. It might be hard to wrap your head some of the zen babble, but the messages are about taking everyone out of the equation and focusing an entire process around yourself. You are the archer and the target. I would follow it up The War of Art. It's good that you are in honest with yourself in the regard that you play music to impress others, but that is where you need to change your mindse…
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:51 PM
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Wake 3:45 Gym by 4, try to be home by 5:15 (~7 min drive each way) Big carb breakfast Shower, dress, practice my drumming rudiments until 6:45. I can get a solid 45 minutes in most weekdays Work 7:30 to 5. Big protein and vegetable lunch. Read on my lunch breaks. Currently reading a lot on sports psychology and coaching Im on an IF protocol so no dinner. Evenings are either band practice, giving drum lessons on Skype, or practicing competition scores/more rudiments. Bed by 9:45. Some nights I'll…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 10:36 AM
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You have a good family, no debt, and dress nicely but you aren't living your purpose. The energy you are using to regret the past could be better spent finding your center today. Focus on your mission, and you won't have second thoughts about girls' n-counts or anxiety about finding ltr worthy women ever again
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