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| 1 | Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency.You nean like this? https://youtube.com/shorts/HNLb3BARqg4?feature=share3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.I found this in my feed. I have been married almost a decade. So before you shout at me and call me an incel, know that. And in every city there is a group on social media to see if women are dating the same man. Why do groups like that exist with such levels of participation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 07:40 PM |
| 7 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeYours certainly won't now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 01:47 PM |
| 2 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeMy wife that met me while I was not yet that well off believed in me. And the women that didn't don't have the life we built together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsThe majority of women enter puberty earlier and stop being able to bear children. Let's continue! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsNo it has Men are encouraged to date their age. You are ridiculous here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 10:22 AM |
| – | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsSociety: "disgusting" Also society: "But liking tall men is natural" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsOne thing i can say is that our society has done its best to fight nature on this one. But when it comes to male height "it's natural for me" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winLiberal pushovers won't get on TV and tell them they should get that swimmer out of competitions. Most of us are thinking it. This is why you lose men. We love our daughters and you won't protect some things that you really should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days?Try this for yourself. https://youtube.com/shorts/HNLb3BARqg4?feature=share3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 04:02 PM |
| 3 | i’ve seen this idea tossed around that women are more susceptible than men to social trends - both genders are very susceptible to trends, let’s stop pretending its one sidedDecisions are made based on the appearance it gives on social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Debating women's preferences won't lead to women changing themNo it won't change individual preferences. But we can ask women to stop shaming their friends and forcing the height preference on them, in particular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 11:32 PM |
| -1 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?Ragebait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Do men feel "threatened" when a more attractive male enters the room?No, because I am smarter than him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 04:32 AM |
| 11 | Men need to stop using Suicide Rates in the "Oppression Olympics"If you only look at suicide rates of tall men, that difference probably disappears. Short men commit a disproportionate amount of suicides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 02:48 PM |
| 3 | The red pill men on youtube have 30 and 40 YEAR OLD WOMEN terrified of aging. Can we please normalize older women being just as beautiful as the 20 something year oldsSure let's make short men feel good too. I'll take that trade all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 02:22 AM |
| 7 | Q4W: How do you feel about other women defending passport bros?Women want men taller than them generally. In many countries, the average height of women is shorter. That at least means shorter men have more women that don't filter them out so quickly in those countries. And lots of people prefer to date outside of their race. Is it a fetish if a lady prefers black men? There is a lot of gray area here. If preferring height/weight/hair/eyes is ok, I am OK with preferring other things too. The "I need a traditional woman that is subservient" is overdone. I kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Women cannot understand how men can feel horny for women they don't even likeI think it's fair to ask people to express things like this without dragging and contributing to negative stereotyping. Short men - without much of any acknowledgment by the general public - have worse outcomes in life by a number of measures that have nothing to do with dating. Suicide, lower income for equal work, etc. I don't mind individual preferences, but the way we applaud piling on to an entire group of men for a genetic trait has real consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 03:33 AM |
| 8 | Women cannot understand how men can feel horny for women they don't even likeWhen women use that word, do they mean it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Guys with girlfriends, How did you land them?Getting a successful career and finding someone who wasn't embarrassed to be with a 5 foot 2 man. I think many found me attractive, but social expectations and peer pressures matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:56 PM |
| 2 | I feel like 80% of back and forth on here is this: A lot guys think their dating/relationship issues require drastic societal action or even government intervention while the other side argues it doesn't and should be their personal responsibility.Is it a drastic solution to ask culture to call out toxic expression of preferences? I don't think so. I am not asking anyone to change their individual preferences. But the way culture piles on and promotes certain preferences is something for which it is fair to ask people to do better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?Just to be clear, I am not at all saying we should just accept relationships where someone is being manipulated "because evolution" What I am saying is that we ought to take a careful look at obeying our primal instincts and assess whether they are healthy. And at the least, should we be encouraging them the way we do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?The evolutionary reason is fertility and ability to produce and care for offspring. It's a similar mechanism to wanting a tall man. But culturally, we have managed to overcome the desire for a younger female because overcoming it is better for society. The desirability of young women doesn't disappear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 01:25 AM |
| 1 | The Male Delusion Calculator shows just how out of touch its designers areDo you think the proportion of men you encounter are more likely to have medical problems such as being overweight? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Passport bros why are they wrong?Done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Older women flirt with much younger men all the timeThey are creeps. Oh, wait, never mind. We are only allowed to assume the worst when it's men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 03:08 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.I know someone that said the same thing. Sure, she had a modest life with all of the "parental benefits" but she now complains about all the men that won't date her. And the women that did settle down and have a mutual partnership, well, they have kids and a lot more fun. And the sex toys are even better when there is another person, I hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:58 AM |
| – | Do you actually think dating was better in the past?When women take a hundred photos and pick only the perfect one, it would make sense that their preferences in dating align with those that keep up the right appearance on social media. That part is new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Most men cause their dating issuesIt isn't just the lizard brain that creates this. Women who take 100 pictures to get one for social media are pretty common, and they are willing to put up with some shadyass dudes because they are obsessed with the appearances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 03:44 AM |
| 1 | It’s not surprising why dating sucks if you look at the statisticsYou forgot to include "doesn't understand math" when seeing where you fit in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 12:08 PM |
| – | What can guys do to not come off as overconfident, if they cannot back up their confidence?*Relaxed and accurate assessment according to their preconceived notion of your abilities, not your actual abilities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 10:59 AM |
| 1 | The belief that only a small minority of men gain access to the majority of women and take them from the dating pool (be it by serial monogamy or polygamy) is a delusion stems from a glaring lack of statistical understanding and rash generalizations from limited real-life observations.Do you have something that measures underreporting? I don't doubt that there is a degree of underreporting but it is hasty to assert this explains the entirety of the observed effect. It is double, after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 12:31 PM |
| – | Attitudes such as "No one is good for me" or "my standards are too high" or "I have very specific requirements" are rooted on arroganceTrue. When men say this they are incels. When women say these things and complain about "nobody wants a relationship", we do not commonly label it for what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 06:52 PM |
| – | A man's ability to provide supercedes other qualifications like height, body size when it comes to sexual selection.Glad you acknowledge how height affects so much. We should make an effort to stop it - instead of endorsing informal eugenics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 04:22 PM |
| – | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?They seem to be status based. Think about how hard they work on one photo. That's the main issue that nobody talks about. I have seen women act in love and then dump a guy right after they went to a wedding together. It's obvious what she was doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"There isn't an expectation of women to approach. So it is difficult to create an equivalent situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:55 PM |
| 1 | What, if any, is your concept of "fairness" in dating?This isn't asking much: When we stop shaming people because we don't find their s/o attractive. Half the problem is social media and worry that someone sees you dating a "fattie" or "short king" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | My opinion on why men sometimes date women from other countries.100%. Many Women are super concerned about which earrings they have on in a social media picture. People think they aren't concerned about the status value of their boyfriend? This "preferences" stuff is way more about that than it was 30 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 04:44 PM |
| – | Why be angry at women over their attraction?Not angry about it. What I do have a right to be angry about is the way it is often expressed: Body shaming. And I have a right to be angry when friend groups shame women for dating short men. And the way short men are stereotyped for it. Preferences aren't heightism. But all that other shit is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearanceWon't date a woman taller than you? Insecure! Incel! Entitled! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Discussion : AmI the only one who notices women hide their partner on social media more than men?Women who want to curate a perfect looking image won't post their boyfriend if he isn't tall enough/handsome enough/etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from?Because it's like anything else: men that act on evolutionary desires and advantages are scum. Women that do so just "want to feel protected" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Men are thinking about current heigh standards the wrong way.Height these days is often about status & you have a point here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Even “body positive” women have conventional standards when it comes to a man’s looksBack in the day before body positivity I would see men shame one another with the "you deserve better" when dating plus sized. Now, you don't see that. But date a short man? Oh you will get women that are vicious about this. That's the kind of thing that we need body positivity for. It isn't going to change preferences but it actually lets people have them without social penalty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you make of a woman who regularly dates older men?Hey it's true not all women want tall men and not all men want young women. But it just seems weird to me that people tend to acknowledge biology very inconsistently. And in the other case even acknowledging that biology is met with assertions of abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 03:43 PM |
| 1 | What do you make of a woman who regularly dates older men?Biology is a bitch, eh? Just like women want to date taller men, men want women who can bear children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | What do you make of a woman who regularly dates older men?It's fine. Just like men who date younger women. Or women that want to date tall dudes. Those are both biology, right? So we can extend that a bit and give women the same liberty to date older men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old?Guy in back: "what's the body count" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Men on here say women need to drop their height standards, but men are just as heightistIs this the part where we say "just be confident. It isn't a big deal like you make it out to be" ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Jonah Hills situation is proof why men cant win. He was insecure, they broke up due to his insecurity and somehow he still needs t be condemnedHe could have broken up for no reason given and nobody would question it Lesson learned, do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 03:41 AM |
| – | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Sure. But there is no reason to always say "touch grass" and dismiss the concerns of men looks really foolish. Nobody is saying the government needs to fix this. They are asking for culture to fix it. And again the comment was accurate. So many things we point to systemic sexism, racism, classism, but in this case, "my short fat uncle gets all the chicks. Go shower" reminds me of "I have a successful ______ friend." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 04:03 AM |
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