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| 3 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Our ability to be sexual at all comes from our sense of safety. We are physically incapable of getting a "lady boner" when we don't feel safe. End of story. We don't even need to "control" our sexual drive, bc as long as we are being creeped, leered-at, stalked, or in any otherwise even low-level danger scenario, there is no sexual drive there for us. Absolutely no need to "fight" anything. If men realized that one simple fact, they might change their whole approach to women at all. But my guess… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 08:04 AM |
| 14 | She "taught her husband a lesson" by not doing his laundry or grocery shopping after he refused to put away a handful of clothes from the dryer, because he's a guy and "not good at communicating". Someone pointed out basically he has no empathy and only reacts if there's consequences for him.I tried this... I just ended up living in a stanky pigsty for years. Doesnt work if your man is gross. 🤮 Nah, sis. Just leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 04:31 PM |
| 27 | Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive?First, good for you for wanting to get really clear with yourself about your boundaries! I wish I had done that at your age. To me, those stories, especially where men are intoxicated, in a city they don't know, speaking a language not spoken there, with no phone, no ID... and then bragging about it, is a demonstration of how little they even realise their male-priviledge. If I were to behave so recklessly (at any age age!), my parents/family would never let me hear the end of it. I would be so … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 07:01 AM |
| 50 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .The bots would still be there... but how do we convince the pick-me's to leave? Better yet, who in here has got hacking skills? I know there's got to be some bad-ass tech-wizard ladies in here... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 06:25 PM |
| 30 | What are warning signs that the man may become physically abusive?I had agonized for weeks about how I was going to tell my now ex-husband that I was leaving him. We had a stupid fight over nothing, half way through which I remembered that it didn't matter, bc I was leaving. I mentally checked out and when we got home I went straight to bed. Next morning I walked the dog and agonized over how I was going to start this horrid conversation and got back with still no idea. Then I saw the bathroom door. He had punched a hole in it at some point in the night. (Appa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 06:22 AM |
| 59 | Irritating mannerisms are a red flag and your intuition telling you that something is off!You're describing misalignment. There's a YouTube channel called "Observe" where he breaks down people's nonverbal communication and highlights potential misalignments. It explains in like slow motion and high detail those calculations our brains/intuition like naturally do. It helps me understand why I get that inexplicable "I don't trust this guy!" feeling around some people. Good for you for recognizing it and getting outta there. Thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 01:37 AM |
| 116 | Why is the blame solely on Meagan Markle and not Harry?Royals have been shouting "she bewitche'd him/me!" since the days of Henry VIII. Tale as old as time. Bonus points to Meagan being: a) "foreign" b) a "commoner" (read: not inbred nobility) c) possibly most importantly, a woman of colour Personal opinion: he stood up for his wife. He recognized the pattern that lead to his own mother's death-by-paparazzi and took steps to protect his wife and child. The "very not racist" family had a problem with it and dealt with it the way they deal with everyt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 01:29 AM |
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