boopsheeboo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
81	Insecure Men Will Destroy Relationships I noticed this in some relationships I had in my 20s. They clearly hated me and yet told me they loved me and begged me to stay whenever I tried to leave. It was so confusing and made me feel terrible because it made me feel like even the people who love me the most, hate everything about me, so what must people who don’t love me think about me?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/22 05:52 PM
6	Do you think you would have an easier time finding a HV partner if you were attracted to women instead of men? Have you ever dated a bi man? What was it like?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/21 05:08 PM
320	This is what we've been told sex is - and it's pretty dehumanizing Wait, the guy told her to go down on him but he wouldn’t go down on her because he didn’t love her, and she says that the sex “wasn’t particularly bad”?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/21 09:30 PM
36	LV partners who ask to see us in VERY specific lingerie If it is the sole thing he buys you for Christmas or birthday, then it is like The Simpsons episode where Homer buys Marge a bowling ball with “Homer” engraved on it: he was supposed to buy a gift for you but he actually bought a gift for himself. However, if it wasn’t presented as a gift for me, but as a favor for him, then I’d be ok with it. Like, if he bought me (sexy but impractical) lingerie on a random day and said “I would love to see you in this, would you be interested?” that would be f…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/21 05:22 PM
52	Huma Abedin on overcoming Anthony Weiner's betrayals — a high-profile LVM. So sad how Huma takes on a lot of responsibility for his actions. Wow! I didn’t know that he was her first serious relationship. I wonder if that attracted him to her, because he knew she was naive and might not spot his red flags.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/21 04:31 PM
2	Men Who are Still Friends With their Exes I think this could be ok if they are in the same industry or professional social network. When a random ex reaches out to me I assume they are up to something. But when one from my industry does the routine “Hope you are having happy holidays and your family is well” I assume they are trying to maintain a contact and doing this to other industry friends, too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 03:17 PM
82	real intimacy is so hard to find It is my understanding that different positions feel better for different women, depending on the build of the woman’s body (for example, the tilt of the cervix). There is nothing wrong with enjoying this position. If you are in a loving relationship, sex is not the only time you will receive eye contact and other emotional intimacy, so you should feel comfortable doing whatever positions physically feel good for you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 06:11 PM
397	FDSers who are married to or dating HVM, what brought you here? It explains so much confusion that I experienced in my 20s and never knew why. Also, sometimes the posts and comments are funny.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/21 09:22 PM
314	Look out for these traits in yourself, acc. a narc in therapy Omg, I have a girlfriend that has every single one of these traits and completely vanished, socially, after getting with a new man that she rushed into marriage with. I’ve had a sneaking suspicion this was due to the man isolating her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/21 02:42 AM
53	BDSM Apologist Slams Gail Dines, Claims it's Not Violent to Women And women can get injured from anal and jackhammering, which is super common in porn.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/21 06:53 PM
79	The “In capitalism, we all sale our bodies anyway” argument Men have madonna-whore complexes, so engaging in sex work can interfere with your ability to find a relationship, or do other types of jobs (like politics), for the rest of your life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/21 09:40 PM
116	What do you guys think of Botox? I worry about aging due to employment discrimination. Because of the nature of the job market, I know people who are making career changes (not just employer changes) in their 50s. It’s proven that employers have a preference against hiring people they perceive as elderly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/21 03:49 AM
8	3 minutes and 30 seconds of women lying about penis size not mattering. Just out of curiosity... how were you able to sleep with him? How did it work?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/21 06:14 AM
3	🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 In my opinion it’s not moisturizing enough for people with dry skin issues.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/21 02:36 AM