booradley001 Archive

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1	Married Mormon Monk Mode The goal should be to avoid getting to these second level inquiries, which you do through assertively controlling the message and framing the issue. And if the second level inquiry arises, the tool you use will vary based on the circumstances, her mood, the time of month, etc. Start becoming more comfortable with all of them, as there’s no one size fits all approach. WISNIFG needs to become your bible.	/r/askMRP	13/05/18 07:34 PM
1	Married Mormon Monk Mode Avoid drastic changes for now and just work on moderating the flow of information. Decide in advance what things you want her to know about and then filter accordingly. Also, “not responding” is a different issue. You need to be the one defining the issues and controlling the message, not reactive to her (e.g. not responding). There’s a reason lawyers want to be first to file. It allows us to frame the issues and control the message offensively instead of being in the defensive posture of respon…	/r/askMRP	13/05/18 07:30 PM