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| 1 | Got ghosted by someone I really like and I don't know why but I keep blaming myself for it. How do you deal with this?Yeah I'll think about it, I definitely won't re-open right now, want to give her some time to come back. Like you said, maybe giving space is the best thing to do | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Got ghosted by someone I really like and I don't know why but I keep blaming myself for it. How do you deal with this?Yeah thats the realization I'm coming to now... so is it wise to start a very casual conversation with that person after giving them time and space? Or do you just wait for them? Because I was wondering if she was in a genuine problem that she couldn't reply or commit time, and now so much time has passed that she feels awkward to reply back and is almost hoping I text so we can speak? Does that happen or am I just being delusional. But youre right, I do believe I deserve better than this | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Got ghosted by someone I really like and I don't know why but I keep blaming myself for it. How do you deal with this?Thank you for the understanding and detailed reply. Do these "avoidant" attachment type people change their mind? For example she realizes that maybe this was something genuine and she would like to take things forward or give it a try? Or is this just over? | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Just let her go and move on with next one.Thank you for this post. I am in a very similar situation, the difference is that we already met, hooked up and we told each other that we like each other. The problem is that this would be LDR, any ideas how I could approach it? | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 03:56 PM |
| 2 | How to know if its the right time to ask someone out or is it better to wait?Aight bro thanks a lot, really appreciate your help | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How to know if its the right time to ask someone out or is it better to wait?Appreciate the comment man. Yeh I guess I'll have to see how it goes in the first one, and then ask for a second one. and yeh word I have stopped texting that often. Also, do you have any suggestions for our first meeting? | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | I(20M) really like a friend of mine and I wanna ask her out, any tips?Thank you | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | I(20M) really like a friend of mine and I wanna ask her out, any tips?I can't view this community | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Should I (20M) ask my crush out on text or in person? and what are the best signs I can look for (which may increase my confidence)?Hmm interesting Yeh then I'll try to find something else, maybe a Museum? or a fair or something | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Should I (20M) ask my crush out on text or in person? and what are the best signs I can look for (which may increase my confidence)?Sorry to hear that man, hope you're keeping up | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Should I (20M) ask my crush out on text or in person? and what are the best signs I can look for (which may increase my confidence)?Thank you for your comment. But if I keep things vague, wouldn't that create even more uncertainty? Coz how would I know if we actually are on a date or anything resembling that, she could just thing we are hanging out. And yeh regarding the drinks, I'm planning to go to a park with her with some wine, she's not really into bars etc | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Should I (20M) ask my crush out on text or in person? and what are the best signs I can look for (which may increase my confidence)?Yeh she gives a lot of mixed signals, makes her seem so bipolar. Thank you tho | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Should I (20M) ask my crush out on text or in person? and what are the best signs I can look for (which may increase my confidence)?Thank you for your comment. Yeh you're right, I'm just worried tho about asking at the wrong time, for example maybe it would be better to invite her to hang out again and ask next time? Should I do it now? Etc etc , how would I know | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Should I (20M) ask my crush out on text or in person? and what are the best signs I can look for (which may increase my confidence)?Thank you for your comment. I am also really unsure how to know the right time to ask out, whether I should wait a bit more or go for it? How would I know that | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Are there any signs or hints to look for if a female friend is into you?Eye contact game strong af | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Are there any signs or hints to look for if a female friend is into you?Thank you for your reply, yeh, it's the only way to find out | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Are there any signs or hints to look for if a female friend is into you?Thanks, appreciate the morale booster haha. It's just that I was in a similar situation a couple months ago where a girl used to touch me and flirt with me all the time, but when I asked her out she said no. So I was like wtf how am I supposed to be even slightly sure from next time | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | (20M) asked my friend out, she said yes but it seemed like she thinks we are just hanging out, I wanna make sure it's a date without being awkwardYeh, I think so too. Thanks for your help :) | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 10:09 AM |
| 1 | (20M) asked my friend out, she said yes but it seemed like she thinks we are just hanging out, I wanna make sure it's a date without being awkwardYeh I'm wondering coz it'll be the first time we both will hang out alone, and outside the organization so ofc she will get to know me more, and maybe she'll like me. so at the end of the date maybe I could say that I have been developing feelings for her and enjoyed spending time, so if she wants to go on a date. The other option is of course to clarify it indirectly through text. The reason why text worries me is coz it might make her mind up from before and it probably won't change. Whereas i… | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 10:05 AM |
| 1 | (20M) asked my friend out, she said yes but it seemed like she thinks we are just hanging out, I wanna make sure it's a date without being awkwardYeh I'm definitely not going to pull something unexpected like a kiss or holding hands, I'm just confused between clarifying it on text before the Meetup? Or asking her on a real date when our meetup ends... | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 09:57 AM |
| 1 | (20M) asked my friend out, she said yes but it seemed like she thinks we are just hanging out, I wanna make sure it's a date without being awkwardThank you for your reply. Yeh Im planning to take her to a park in the evening , hopefully it doesn't rain. But yeh I guess I'll have to see during the date how she behaves, I am horrible at reading romantic signs so I try to play a bit safe tho, do you think it's better to ask first before taking any action ? | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 08:06 AM |
| 1 | (20M) asked my friend out, she said yes but it seemed like she thinks we are just hanging out, I wanna make sure it's a date without being awkwardShould I say it towards the end of the "date" ?, coz if I say it, in the beginning, it would be more awkward I think | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 05:58 AM |
| 1 | What should I (20M) say while asking out a friend (23F)? I know there could be various obvious answers but I don't want my wording to be creepy or needy, but at the same time I want to her to know its a date and not just a friendly hang outAh, sorry I forgot to mention that she is kind of a friend, that's why I'm struggling a bit with the wording etc. And she has already hinted on hanging out just 2 of us | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 08:35 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid getting into the friendzone with women?Yeh I think you're right. This is probably a dumb question but do you think it's pretty much too late to have a chance? Or should I still try. Coz I actually quiet like her | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 09:46 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid getting into the friendzone with women?Yeh but how do I signal that? I'm talking about someone that I already know and speak to (she works in the same organization as me), so it's not a stranger, so how do I signal to kind of a friend | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 03:22 PM |
| 0 | (20M) how to deal with crippling insecurity about height (5'6) and looks in general? It makes me struggle to even strike up a conversation because I feel its only going to be embarrasing since I can't compete with guys around me who are just objectively more attractive than me.The average height of people in the country I live in is 5'10 | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:53 AM |
| 16 | Went dancing at the club tonight. Something totally awesome happened!Oh yeah np, do you know my cousin Randy? lmaoo | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 09:24 AM |
| 1 | M19 struggling with self-confidence and dating lifeThanks dude | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 07:32 AM |
| 1 | M19 struggling with self-confidence and dating lifeYeh lol , hopefully it'll cover a lil bit of my height | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | M19 struggling with self-confidence and dating lifeI did break them down a couple of months ago and it only lies in my physique really | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | M19 struggling with self-confidence and dating lifeThanks for the suggestion, will look at it fo sho | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | M19 struggling with self-confidence and dating lifeYeh I'll start working out more | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | M19 struggling with self-confidence and dating lifeThanks, but is it enough to overcome looks? Coz I don't know how to take any hints or make a move coz I already assume that why would someone give me a chance anyway | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 01:47 PM |
| 1 | M19 struggling with self-confidence and dating lifeYeh I do, not as much as I play football tho. I've been playing a lot of football for several years now, but I figured I need to lift more coz when it comes to cardio stuff I am fine | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 01:46 PM |
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