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1	Dating women as a woman with a boyfriend I think you're overthinking it. It sounds like you have the right attitude going into it. No hard and fast rules, just do whatever feels appropriate. Wouldnt hurt to put a brief explainer in your tinder bio. Better to meet girls in person though.	/r/seduction	01/08/18 09:32 PM
0	A guide to having fun & hooking up at festivals find music that you really enjoy. it will come naturally. just listen to the subtleties of the music and, loosely speaking, attach a different body part to different parts of the song. Move your hips to the hi-hats, stomp your feet to the snares, wave your hands to the melody... etc	/r/seduction	31/07/18 07:54 PM
7	A great response to "Why are you looking at me like that?" When holding eye contact. [Intermediate Mid-game] Try to imagine a scenario like the OP said. This might not be a line you'd bust out within the first 10 minutes of meeting a girl. Think about having met her beforehand, maybe even a little text game, a first date in a semi-intimate setting, and the date is going great, you're making her laugh, and you actually can't take your eyes off of her. If saying "I want you" still sounds creepy in that context, then I don't know what to tell you. Edit: ALSO. This is important. The question "why are you l…	/r/seduction	17/08/13 02:15 AM
70	A great response to "Why are you looking at me like that?" When holding eye contact. [Intermediate Mid-game] It's all about context, dude. If you're in a scenario where this would come off as creepy, don't say it. If you're in a scenario where it would come off as confident, say it. Just don't make excuses for yourself.	/r/seduction	16/08/13 10:16 PM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012 Of course. Feel free to post at /r/polyamory too. They're usually somewhat helpful.	/r/seduction	23/10/12 05:13 AM
3	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012 You really just have to be up front about being open. At first it should be pretty easy to keep things open because you guys should be keeping things pretty casual to start. Your age/history with this chick might make a difference there, but unlikely. At whatever point you guys become "official," and that should probably be anywhere from a week to a month depending on how fast/slow you play it, you'll just have to talk to her about it. Make sure she's the type of girl who would be approachable a…	/r/seduction	23/10/12 12:41 AM
8	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012 It's definitely possible to open a relationship, but it also depends on the type of girl you're dating, how you approach the subject, and your actions and behaviors as she opens up. PM me if you want more specific advice about that, though i'm not sure why you're asking if you're not in one currently. It's much easier to start something out that way. As for your first question, you should be practicing your game every second of your life, with every person you meet. Being in a relationship shoul…	/r/seduction	23/10/12 12:20 AM
6	[FR] Hilarious situation at a nude beach turns into a threesome I meant that I thought "for here or to go" was an american idiom. Foreign people say something different. But i guess he just translated it from whatever the idiom is in barcelona. Disregard, i'm just an idiot.	/r/seduction	09/05/12 04:48 AM
8	[FR] Hilarious situation at a nude beach turns into a threesome I thought foreign people didn't say "for here or to go"	/r/seduction	09/05/12 03:47 AM