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Ghosting is for cowards. I think that involves saying to her face, yes in person, that you're done because of these reasons and you'd appreciate it if she would know longer contact you. Be kind but direct. No reason to lose your zen because of her behavior. I agree in principle, but not in execution. This chick is going to go nuclear drama on OP and who knows how that turns out. I'm worried he'll start believing whatever nonsense she starts spouting and get sucked back into another month of tort…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 03:30 PM
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If she's into getting them, do it. My girl was the same way, no development at all into her twenties. She had a round ass and real hips, but no tits. EDIT: Not little A cups. None. Nada. Flat. Near the end of college she got implants done and loved it. Still loves them. She felt like a woman and her body was far more visually balanced. It's been twelve years since that and I'm still the only dick she's ever had in her. It's possible for girls to get implants for different reasons. Some are defin…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 08:32 PM
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You're reducing a diverse group of people into one definition: the socially and fiscally conservative republican who wants to control the markets and women's access to birth control. The truth is that there is a true spectrum. The extremists get the most attention because they rail about flagpole issues like abortion, gay marriage, sex education, etc. At the other end is the purely fiscally conservative type (some because of ideology and others because of naked greed). The real money lies at the…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 05:10 PM
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Hold off on having kids until you get your shit together. Otherwise you'll pass on this crippling insecurity to your kids, even if you don't mean to. If she's engaged to you, odds are she wants kids with you. If you truly think she's just waiting for a chance to cuckold you because she's that awful, leave her now. If you keep acting like a pussy and thinking of reasons for her to find someone better...she'll do exactly that. You don't need to be taller, you need to be more confident.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:27 PM
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Go watch Divorce Corp on netflix and you younger guys won't even think of getting married.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 08:08 PM
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LOL? You said it depended on my goals. I'm 6'1 and looking to develop more muscle and stay in the 175-190lb range that I'm in now. I know that getting huge isn't an accident. I recognize the diet and training that I would need to go through to get to that size. LOL your fucking self.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:33 PM
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Not looking to get massive at all. I need to increase muscle strength and size, but not to be huge. I just want to know how it feels to be strong.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 07:33 PM
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Thanks. I'm using 5x5 as a springboard into another program.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 07:31 PM
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In the IRC I told them that 5x5 was useless to the average Joe to just wanted to get in shape and they flamed me for disagreeing with r-fitness I'm very curious about this. I just started doing SL 5x5 again after taking a break for an injury. Am I wasting my time?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:43 PM
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Are they suddenly being overly nice? Allowing you to watch whatever you want on TV, buying you gifts, asking if you would like to go out to your favourite restaurant. Maybe the opposite is true and they are constantly picking fault with you or accusing you of cheating. What brilliant logic. "If he's doing this, he's cheating. If he's doing the opposite, he's cheating. Ya, totes cheating. I can't even."
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 02:58 PM
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Both of the songs he had big hits with were offensive.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 01:28 PM
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Worst offender is "Boys of Summer" by Don Henley. Have fun fucking all the guys over the summer and hopefully you'll want to talk to me again after they all leave. I'll be here. Waiting.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 01:25 PM
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Remedy? No. Remediate. I think you mean vocabulary. I realize diction isn't something to embiggen but I thought the "bigger diction" joke was worth being wrong. I wasn't sure if anyone would even notice. When you use unnecessarily complex words people judge you as less, not more, intelligent. Simple and succinct is the way to go. Totally dependent on context. I don't advocate using words that others will have to research, but there is definite benefit to choosing the right words in your professi…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 06:08 PM
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I'm not saying she did anything malicious. I'm pointing out that when the husband stops to wonder what happened, which he damn well should, the general response is "don't ask", which is fucked up. Even if it's best case scenario, - she saw him being a charming fucker all through the party and it reminded her not to take him for granted - he should be figuring out what works and why it works. Then he'll have a better chance of building/maintaining a happy marriage which might make for some happy,…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 04:35 PM
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Maybe deep down inside (heh) she had a desire for a sperm war, but it's her very conscious mind that realized how fucked she'd be if she got pregnant when you weren't having sex with her. If the dude wants her and her spawn, she wins! If the dude doesn't, you're there to be the father (not knowing better) and...she wins! Cold and calculating.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 04:08 PM
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Most likely north of the wall at this point. It's cold up there.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 04:02 PM
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The common explanation is "it just happened". Hmm, where have I heard that before?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 04:00 PM
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Lea is an artist and writer living in the Southwest. She enjoys trail running in the mountains, and has an addiction to expensive tea new cock. There. That typo was bugging the shit out of me.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 06:25 PM
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I forgot about that look she gives him. Splooooosh. "Just kids having fun..."
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 08:08 PM
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He'll be posting in /r/relationships within six months: "I forgave her for cheating and didn't pressure her for sex and now she's turning her phone off all weekend. I know she wouldn't cheat on me again because we are soul mates. What does it mean?"
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:21 PM
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I'm actually very glad to be married and not have to date in this day and age. I'd end up all MGTOW with the way women these days do whatever they can to be a massive slut and justify it. I'm pretty happy with my marriage, but if I was suddenly single, or was just now heading to college, I'd take full advantage of the market. It's a fucked up market, but the pickings are really easy. I would avoid serious commitment like the plague and take the easy sex on offer. There is a certain attractivenes…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:17 PM
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"Normal life happened to me and I started feeling sorry for myself and cried like a bitch to my wife and she cold-shouldered me." Fuck. You. I never said I couldn't do it, never said I wanted to trade my problems for someone else's. Never said I was a victim of fortune. My problems might seem trivial to you, or to someone with a terminally ill kid, but they are my problems. And relative to decent smoothness we are used to, this was a lot to deal with in a very compact time period. If your logic …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 07:18 PM
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I disagree. She was near her low-point with illness and exhaustion, too. She knew that if I lost my shit she would have full responsibility for herself and sick kids.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 07:12 PM
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I've got the circle of silence, don't worry. Good, lifelong friends that can lean on each other. This is why I said I "slipped up". Shouldn't have let her see my confidence wane.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 07:10 PM
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You are conflating vulnerability with weakness. There's a distinction between the two.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 03:19 PM
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She does a hell of a lot more than an employee ever would. You can argue this point if and only if you've stayed home with multiple small children for years. Seriously. I work my ass off at my job (and freelance on the side) but I couldn't trade places with her. It's so much work.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 03:18 PM
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Yeah, in this case I wasn't crying about anything, I didn't need my bottom rubbed. I just let a crack show in the facade and she caught it right away.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 03:16 PM
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As Roissy always said, "always err on the side of overconfidence".
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:52 AM
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I don't blame you for that notion at all. Much safer bet.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:51 AM
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She's a RP woman who stays home with our kids and does a shit ton of work for our family. Extremely competent second-in-command. This happened when she was sick and feeling completely wiped out by the laundry list of shit that fell down on our family.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:50 AM
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Remember, support and responsibility is linear, it goes in one direction: Men --> Women --> Children Exactly. Reminds me of what I wrote in my first post about this topic: That's the price of being in charge. Problems and complaints flow upward; stability and leadership flow down. If this sounds terrifying to single guys out there...good. If you're not willing to put it all on your shoulders, don't have kids. Please. None of us need more kids of single mothers in the system and culture. My first…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:47 AM
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She's actually a really solid RP woman. No feminist bullshit. Very loyal. Works hard as hell for our family. But she's still got little kids to think about, and when the leader shows signs of breaking down, she subconsciously starts to plan for how she will take care of herself and the offspring. It's not like I broke down in tears or stayed in bed all day. I muttered two or three lines about "things might not get better" and it hit the wrong nerve.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:42 AM
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If you cease to be the leader, she starts looking for the door. If you hear that your employer might not make payroll, you start sending out resumes...
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:39 AM
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Don't get me wrong - she kicks ass. Does a ton of work for this family. The problems are being discussed as we go, but when she's at bottom, the kids are at bottom, and then she sees me starting to crack...her reptilian brain instincts are to plan for how she will take care of herself and the kids. She's a great woman who wants/needs me to be the leader of the family.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:34 AM
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many very low SMV beta guys are actually so desperate, that they might try to fuck these girls. Problem is, these guys don't fit the description of what is on the fat slob's profile. Therefore, they don't even try join forums like PUAHate and plan their killing spree. This shit will keep happening. You can't forcefully exclude a not-insignificant percentage of guys and expect them to not push back.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 02:09 PM
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Women are like children of wealth who get a lump sum check at the age of 18. They blow through their inheritence and suddenly in their mid thirties they find out they are broke, but they still want the lifestyle they had when they were rich. This is amazing. Perfect analogy. I see many women around town and at work who were probably pretty damn hot, partying their asses off on Spring Break in Ft Lauderdale in the late 80s. Since reading RP material a few years ago, I started paying more attentio…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 01:34 PM
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Wife is not trying to protect the friend; she's trying to avoid getting mixed up in someone else's crappy situation. He's not family, he's not a good friend.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 01:47 PM
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Never. I like my junk STD free.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 01:45 PM
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The fact that your wife is all 'Team Woman' No, she is not 'Team Woman' on this. I've known too much about this girl since before she met the current boyfriend. The wife's attitude is "we have plenty of our own shit to deal with right now; leave their shit alone."
/r/askTRP21/05/14 01:44 PM
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you could "open up" to him about how shitty your sex life in your marriage is right now I'm not going to lie to him.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 07:04 PM
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No no no no no. But...
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:50 PM
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I don't know how to bring it up in a way that doesn't clue him in to the fact that his girlfriend tells my wife every miserable detail. He's a very conservative, very private guy. He'd probably have a mini-stroke to know she runs her mouth about their non-sex. Normally I'd laugh and keep my energy out of other people's shitty lives. But he's a genuine Nice Guy™ and I could help the course of his life.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:50 PM
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Frankly, you should be more focused on the fact that your wife associates with such a woman. Very, very true. But you sure as heck can regard the fact that your wife would tolerate this female friend's conduct--and even partially excuse it apparently--as an indicator of how she views the way women should treat men. She doesn't excuse it, at all. She's tried talking to this girl a few times about the fact that guys usually need some sex in a relationship, and gets absolutely nowhere with this gir…
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:41 PM
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Unfortunately this might be the case. But after two years, in his mid twenties, of getting no ass...maybe he's receptive to the idea of the eject button?
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:33 PM
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I'm not going for a ride, just not sure if I should shout something from the curb...
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:30 PM
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If he was my friend and I didn't know her side of it? I'd use my greater experience with women and marriage to gently steer the conversation towards the realities of life. And ask if this is really what he wants to sign up for, forever. If I only knew her socially, as a friend's girlfriend, I'd be scared for him but wouldn't say anything. Love is a wicked fog.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:30 PM
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I don't think its fair to say that any of this shit is done with any kind of actual goal in mind, because that would require, like, critical thinking skills. Exactly. There's no master plan. There's no backup plan. There's no plan. They are merely repeating the bland platitudes that they are told, and which -gasp- work wonders for them. If you're a non-repugnant female you just need to be yourself and a line will form. You may not like who is in that line, but luckily they will all "be themselve…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 06:40 PM
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The one with a decent vocabulary.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 08:18 PM
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I stood my ground on all of them. Post-coitus... I appreciate the implied cause-and-effect here.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 09:40 PM
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This one: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1vajq2/reminder_she_is_not_your_shoulder_to_cry_on/ It's a lesson that stings, but hopefully we all learn from it.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 08:47 PM
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Correct answer? "It's complicated."
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 08:45 PM
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Increase of shameless attention whoring, materialism, digital substitutes, worthless pablum sucking up everyone's time, and a stark devolution of our political awareness into mere audience members in a theater of the absurd (nobody talks about the real problems).
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 03:30 PM
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You'll be alright. Do some reading, ask some questions. You're learning a harsh lesson from her: don't believe what someone says, believe what they do. Once you have some perspective, look back on what you've written in your first post and you'll see the signs. Big signs. Glaring signs. Sudden changes in behavior and habits are red flags. Also, she will likely be back. Don't take her back. She showed her true colors - time to find yours.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 08:43 PM
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So can I cry on your shoulder? Of course. Think of this sub as a nest in a tree of trust and understanding...
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 02:38 PM
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Pretty sure I had this name since before TRP existed. Or just about the same time. I was going through a period of not liking many people, male or female, and feeling very pessimistic about the death spiral of American culture.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 02:36 PM
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they have a considerable chance to get the shaft later. Especially when they find out how much she got the shaft earlier...
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 03:37 PM
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I know the Daily Mail is rubbish. I found this article while researching Charlie Bronson the prisoner, mentioned in CH's latest post. Some very interesting nuggets in this man's life. My favorite: "I wasn’t faithful to Jenny: she knew this yet she stayed with me. Funnily enough, it was only when I stopped all the playing around that she left me. There’s a moral there somewhere, but I can’t be bothered to work it out."
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 08:03 PM
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Thanks for both responses. Very well put. My wife stays at home with our kids, which is a financial sacrifice, but it really seems like a commonality in the people I find to be most well-rounded and emotionally healthy.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 07:23 PM
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dont expect your daughter to be a virgin till she is married if her mother married you after riding the cock carousel! That's a relief. Wife was a virgin until I met her. Married her six years later. edit: clarified. Met virgin, sexed virgin, dated, married.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 07:10 PM
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The post was decent, but the format of your blog makes the words difficult to read. Wrong font, too large, and white text on black background is painful for many people.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 02:21 PM
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my bud was too chicken to go with his girlfriend in a private dance, so I volunteered to go with her. Dafuq? Your bud sounds like a spineless waste of life. "Girlfriend wants to get really wet having a stripper rub all over her? Might be awkward, better let a friend stand in for me in case she gets really, really aroused."
/r/TheRedPill19/08/13 04:27 PM
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Goddammit, don't leave me hanging like that. Did you hang the fleur de lis or not?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/13 07:20 PM
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Exactly. I woke up this morning and let the dogs out, banged my hot wife, checked on my awesome kids, and headed in to my better-than-average job...and got a text from the wife thanking me for fucking her this morning because it makes her day so much better. So, yeah. Clearly I'm just an internet neckbeard virgin misogynist. While marriage has become a worse and worse deal, the principles here and from Athol, Roissy, and Rollo go a long way to creating a happy, stable marriage for me and my wife…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 02:23 PM
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banging her boss Boss? As in, a job? What incentive does she have to get a job? Surely you jest, sir.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 08:38 PM
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I was waiting to see this pop up on TRP. I'm still aggravated after reading that thread. Unbelievable. Someone suggests that he needs to put her student loans in her name next semester and his response was "She'll see that as sneaky and distrusting. Won't go over well." The guy is absolutely spineless.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 06:27 PM
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How has nobody mentioned the possible decrease in female desire, even when the change isn't explicitly known? I've read at least 2 or 3 blogs/articles about women knowing that something is off with a guy who had the snip. I remember one being from Athol Kay's blog: SEX IS MASSIVELY DIFFERENT with a man who has had a vasectomy and I would never be in a long term relationship with anyone with one for that simple reason. Now, I’m in my 40′s and in the last 5 years have dated several men who had vas…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 05:26 PM
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I've read your post and all your replies so far. Thank you for taking the time. I'm in somewhat similar circumstances: mid 30s, married for ten years, kids, and a great wife. I'm happy with my marriage. My wife is an attractive, interesting, and intelligent girl. She's worked big jobs and made lots of money, but she hates feminists and appreciates women being women and men being men. When she got pregnant the first time (surprise! thanks, cinco de mayo!) we talked about childcare and our lifesty…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 02:20 PM
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My thoughts are very similar about the last decade, and I think the culprit is social media, instant communication technology (cell phones, texting, etc), and reality television. The tech part speeds everything up: always on communication devices mean people can process each other as potential mates with higher speed. And the reality tv part has promoted the idea that everyone is a star and deserves to be the center of attention. Combine this with facebook and it's a never ending stream of atten…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 02:08 PM
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Most guys like me consider some 90-95% of women their age to be attractive. This seems shockingly high to me. Even during my high school and college days I don't remember the girls being anywhere near that attractive.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/13 08:19 PM
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I read through all that. Why do you bother? You obviously can't trick him/her into thinking you're anything other than a misogynist soon-to-be-rapist. I hope airfresh is a guy, and I really hope his girlfriend is getting railed by the guy across the street with the motorcycle.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/13 05:55 PM
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He's complicit, yes. But hank_n_spank is pretty clear in his view "made his spouse want to leave". This shit wouldn't be happening if the guy knew what he was doing and kept his attractiveness high, so it's absolutely their fault. Without complete evidence from both sides we are left woefully under-equipped to decide who is right and wrong. I'm comfortable blaming both of them for their respective misdeeds. If you (devil's advocate) think her transgressions are his fault, you're treating her lik…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 05:34 PM
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It's obviously HIS fault HE neglected the relationship, and otherwise took actions that made his spouse want to leave. period. full stop. no argument. Seriously? Is anything her fault? By absolving her of any responsibility you are treating her as a very young child or as mentally handicapped. Your views are startlingly sexist.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 02:14 PM
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