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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	[Q4FDS] What would you advise a HVM to do when dating a LVW? What exactly constitutes an LVW?	Question For Women	bordkatt	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 10:18 PM

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2	We ALL settle, in one way or another. Worrying that you don't measure up to your partner's previous partners, is silly, counterproductive, and a never-ending source of insecurity. The operative part is that Mando is still traditionally masculine and powerful, but yes, that means nothing without the fantasy of “he’s only sweet and loving to you.” The fantasy is that it’s the hot guy who is kind and gentle to her, not the short skinny twink that couldn’t hold his own in a fight. I.e. “Beta” traits will amplify women’s attraction to a man they already find sexy, but somehow I doubt they generate genuine desire for a man that she otherwise wouldn’t have found attractive in th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 10:08 PM
2	We ALL settle, in one way or another. Worrying that you don't measure up to your partner's previous partners, is silly, counterproductive, and a never-ending source of insecurity. They’re fantasy, we are real. Cop-out and you know it, fantasy often speaks to something that people want. That being said, I concede that men often misunderstand what draws women to stuff like Fifty Shades of Grey.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 10:04 PM
11	We ALL settle, in one way or another. Worrying that you don't measure up to your partner's previous partners, is silly, counterproductive, and a never-ending source of insecurity. Dunno, man, there’s a reason romance novels tend to feature pirate and vampire types rather than kind fathers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 07:48 PM
2	Do you want your ideal girl to like your superficial aspects? Yes. I've come to realize I'd also hate being liked only for my looks, but I want that to be an important piece of the puzzle for her beyond just "He's not ugly/He's not not handsome/Even if he's not hot, it's hot that he wants me." I don't think I'd stay in a relationship in which how I looked wasn't a contributing factor to my partner being turned on by me. If she were "head over heels" for me from the first date, I'd be wary, but I don't think effusiveness is a bad thing. I don't think it's b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 08:24 PM

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