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Red Pill Theoryboredatworkbored/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 06:11 AM
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boredatworkbored/r/askTRP26/07/19 02:53 AM
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boredatworkbored/r/askTRP22/03/18 03:55 AM
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Red Pill Theoryboredatworkbored/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 08:42 PM
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boredatworkbored/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:04 PM
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boredatworkbored/r/seduction19/11/19 11:08 PM
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boredatworkbored/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:46 AM
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boredatworkbored/r/askTRP24/06/18 08:49 PM
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boredatworkbored/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:59 AM
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boredatworkbored/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:19 PM
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boredatworkbored/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:53 PM
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boredatworkbored/r/askTRP03/05/18 10:36 PM
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boredatworkbored/r/askTRP18/02/20 08:41 PM
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boredatworkbored/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:45 PM
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boredatworkbored/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:46 PM
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boredatworkbored/r/askTRP04/09/18 07:07 PM
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bruh... you should get therapy
/r/seduction20/11/19 04:28 PM
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I dont want to! But you sound like my ex girlfriend ;) is your username from the anime? I loved that show when I was a kid
/r/seduction20/11/19 04:21 PM
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Whoah, a supportive comment with useful advice on asktrp instead of being called an autistic beta boy cuck who needs to read the sidebar? Almost had to check I was in the right sub lol. Thanks man, for sure I got this
/r/askTRP26/07/19 07:01 PM
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Thanks, some of you said some useful things.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:13 PM
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This is solid, good call
/r/askTRP26/07/19 03:54 PM
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Not packing up, games not over til it's over but fair point. I can get too in my head when I get close to a finish line
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:14 AM
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New to this discussion but curious: What is GLO and where can I view this video? Sounds interesting.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 07:03 PM
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A good question. Near as I can tell from lurking here for a year the objective devaluing of women is mostly a narcissistic utilitarian frame men can use to act like the prize. Which seems to work...
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 05:20 PM
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This is 100% what I'm going through atm. Started getting really good and gaining momentum and now I have more options than time and feel like I need to say yes to all of them so I can establish abundance. I want to win every battle. On the one hand I'm getting better fast. On the other hand it's making me sick of the game... might be time for a break to reassess things a bit and re-center
/r/askTRP20/09/18 10:22 PM
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I have read. A lot. You're wrong. Ive tried it. My way works
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:59 PM
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This is perfect and makes so much sense to me. It validates a lot of my assumptions. Thanks for the reply. I do have a lot of options it's new for me and am trying too hard to make them all work... thanks for the reply
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:41 PM
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How? You cant just tell a girl you don't know when and where to meet, that seems like very poor strategy. Too much room for error and very inefficient if she isnt free the day/time you choose. Asking when someone is free lets them give you their availability without revealing your own. It works 99% of the time with no ambiguity. At no point was she leading, just destroying
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:38 PM
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Thought about that, you might be right but I'm not flexing. That spot is going to another girl. I cant justify committing time to a maybe, I have too many other people to fit in.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:30 PM
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Right on. Thought so. Why though? Validation seeker?
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:24 PM
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Psychopaths don't actually have the option. They can fake empathy giving the impression that they can turn it on and off, but actual empathy is not something they have access to.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 07:57 PM
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alpha means power and people want to be around you for some reason Agreed. I think the forgone corollary here is that power and people wanting to be around you is directly tied to giving them what they want and what they need. Whosoever is able to do that the best is the one who wields the most power over them. Clooney gives charm and feelings of being adored/respected, Obama gives direction and stability, Ronaldo gives excitement and accomplishment through striving. They are all niche alphas wh…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 10:02 PM
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In the video the speaker talks about how the term has taken on a life of it's own outside of it's original meaning. Traditionally speaking, there is no such thing as an alpha outside of social power or leadership authority - whether that power/authority be over a tribe of people or (from a TRP perspective) a single plate.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 09:39 PM
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Dude, thanks for sharing your experiences and for the real talk on consequnces. Quality reply and some real good stuff to chew on.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 01:36 AM
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I mean... she asked me out and I just said yeah. Not sure how I'm chasing tbh. Couldn't really care less if we hook up but it would be a cool distraction
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:53 AM
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Oh for sure, you don't know the half of it. Won't go into it too much, but the girl has daddy issues for daaaayyyyys. Childhood trauma type stuff. I'm just trying get laid and amuse myself and give people around me a good time. Would never even consider anything beyond casually plating a girl like her. Thanks for the feedback, brother.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:48 PM
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Dude, I'm in a similar boat and it's frustrating. Doing everything right in terms of what is controllable (lifting, eating well, managing emotional health really well, being direct with my intentions, etc...) and I've been going through a dry patch that just doesn't make sense to me. Feel like I need a win and am concerned that feeling like I need a win is directly contributing to not getting a win... the hungry don't get fed. The issue could be as simple as stopping giving a shit but that's eas…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 09:36 PM
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Word. Fuck that shit, thanks for the wakeup call.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 09:17 PM
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Yeah, probably. Although I don't see anything wrong with hooking up with someone in my particular work context which I won't get into details about. She'll joke about repopulating the world with me and other sexual imagery when we hang out but I guess she's just acting sexually provocative for attention. Shit's confusing...
/r/askTRP24/06/18 09:14 PM
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The difference between empathizing and being an emotional tampon is frame. Being an emotional tampon means you are getting sucked into her frame and, in a weird way, experiencing her emotions. It's how women communicate. If you watch them talk they're constantly shifting their emotional state to match what the person they're talking to is communicating. Think of a circle trying to overlap another circle. Empathizing is when you are sharing her experience but only because you have had a similar e…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 08:04 AM
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I only flirt with them, I don't sleep with them. Don't need the drama. I'm pretty sure I probably could if I wanted to with a few of them though, they get thirsty as hell sometimes and start getting touchy.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 05:11 AM
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You're weirdly judgemental. Reeks of insecurity.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 11:12 PM
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Brother, you are in the wrong subreddit
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 09:24 PM
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Emotional vulnerability is really just sharing your authentic unfiltered emotions in public or with another person. It's vulnerable because it's risky. People might not understand or might try and use it against you. Emotional vulnerability is actually quite brave for men especially. For women it's par for the course.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 05:49 PM
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Sounds like you're having feelings of righteous indignation listening to stories about therapy students fucking each other after class and projecting ethical violations where there are none to gain a sense of power. Would you like to sit on my couch talk about that?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 05:36 PM
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Yes. Think of the artist - ideally speaking he sings/paints/dances only to express what is real to him and not to get anything out of it except for the enjoyment that the expression brings to him. It just so happens that people connect with it and enjoy. “What is a poet? An unhappy man who hides deep anguish in his heart, but whose lips are so formed that when the sigh and cry pass through them, it sounds like lovely music.... And people flock around the poet and say: 'Sing again soon' - that is…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 07:12 AM
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Yes, but you're not likely to enjoy the answer. For most men we are taught from a young age to repress our emotions that are associated with weakness - sadness, loneliness, fear, etc... Stoicism basically. Well you gotta get back in touch with that shit and learn to express it in front of others and take in the feedback you get from that experience and then learn and adapt. It took me several years of practice and deep introspection before I found a way to do it that didn't come from a place of …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 06:48 AM
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Maybe. It's more of an experiment than anything. What do you suggest?
/r/askTRP14/05/18 08:40 PM
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I'm not too concerned as being seen more powerful. She's already seen me telling people what to do and rejecting certain people from the event and I'm an alpha of this particular group. I was thinking I'd reward her for the idea of it with the opportunity to be alone for a little while and watch me build and start the fire, which could also be pretty powerful.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:57 PM
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Word. Gaming others already and its not a big deal to me, social strategy and trying to maximize odds of success gets me overthinking some times.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 09:29 PM
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I've been dating elsewhere and fucking other women. Have no intention of being friends
/r/askTRP03/05/18 10:39 PM
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You might be right. I was going for "I don't need you please leave" but it could have come off tthat way
/r/askTRP09/04/18 01:49 AM
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You're good looking enough, make enough money, and are socially savvy enough to turn women on, at least often enough. True She needed help from you to feel better about dumping you. This makes sense looking back on how I felt when she laid down. I remember feeling like she was asking me to debase myself and getting pissed. Makes sense that it would be so she could validate her decision.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:42 PM
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I'm not saying there's not red flags, there definitely are and I'm not ignoring them. Genuinely curious though, what's a red flag about her best friend coming to town and her wanting to hang out with her for a few days?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:47 PM
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You are asking a forum of anti LTR guys how to fix your LTR, bad idea. lol, I knew what I was getting myself in to. Good advice, thanks.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:22 AM
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I've thought about it. I'm honestly not sure if she's worth the trouble but I'm not positive it's over yet, though it's definitely possible. She is not my only pussy supply though. I'll be a bit low for a couple weeks to a month, but I'm in a school where the profession is 70% women and 30% of the guys are gay and I'm above average looking with my shit together. I'll be fine.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:16 AM
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Honestly if this one doesn't work out I may be done with commitment for a long time.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:11 AM
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Thanks man. I still appreciate you weighing in and appreciate what you said. Needed to hear it too tbh.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:09 AM
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This is 3 paragraph caricature of events spanning 2 weeks. You're making a lot of assumptions. Honestly, I do listen. I am real with her. In fact the rough rape-sex you think I had was her idea. I pinned her down but she said she might not be feeling up for sex sex and I told her it was fine because I was feeling a bit out of it too. She pulled me onto her. Hell, I'm also training to be a therapist. So is she. I listen a lot and I'm good at it and I make sure she feels safe emotionally with me. …
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:03 AM
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I would go completely silent for a week. I mean SILENT. If she contacts you and apologizes cool. I haven't texted/talked to her since Monday morning. Her friend leaves town tonight or tomorrow morning. I'm expecting her to call me tomorrow sometime in the afternoon to figure out a day to talk things out. Think I should just ignore her call and not talk to her until next week?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:34 AM
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