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boredgod/r/askTRP06/07/18 01:29 AM
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I didn’t for a long time, and it hurt like hell. Perpetually riding the rollercoaster of infatuation/pedestalization, to disenchantment, and finally to the anger phase - repeatedly. Don’t do it to yourself. Women are a different animal. They want you as an asset, an acquisition. Become what they want to acquire for yourself, and never rely on them for your sense of value, for comfort, or for “true love”. Rollo is 100% correct.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:15 PM
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Don’t cry around women, period. Or men you don’t trust. Better to remember the dead with joy, anyway.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:44 PM
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Good points. Thanks.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:21 PM
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This is ideal. I’m pretty creative. Thanks.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:20 PM
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Yes, and there is progress in every area and you feel it and people see it. For example, I have more people interested in me professionally despite not having made progress in that area because of focusing on other areas by necessity. It’s only now dawning on me the necessity of growing in that dimension of my life and character because so much dissociation - both from ourselves and between parts of ourselves - takes time to work through. There are major programs present in healthy adult brains …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 01:49 AM
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Sounds like you’re still idealizing women. You hate all the ones you meet because you still cling to the hope that one of them will love you like a mother, purely and unconditionally. But they’re not like that because nature is precise in preserving women’s maternal resources for children - as their bodies and minds both are taxed often nearly to injury, sometimes to death, by pregnancy. Until you realize some success with women - even just the beginnings of their attraction to you - you won’t b…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:53 AM
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Fucking awesome, OP. Now you have time to focus on what matters, and you can use your dick pain to further occupy your mind instead of thinking of women. Nobody talks about doing monk mode anymore god dammit.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:27 AM
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What’s helped me the most with all mental and mood hiccups is developing a mindset in which I’m always focusing on the positive and constructive things. All the negative gets a new perspective in the context of the positive. The negative doesn’t go away, but it gets integrated into a larger, healthier picture that can handle all the negative thoughts and feelings constructively, as that which adds to a realistic, progressive perspective instead of draining you into despair.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:02 PM
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I get that. I do have the problem that there is nobody I’ve ever been able to trust, but that might help me realize that everyone is out for themselves.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:21 PM
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Whole package. Frame, status, looks -within your control. I don’t even have all those. I have decent genetics and there’s something messed up inside me so I carry myself as a narcissistic asshole with a heart of gold. I don’t even know what it is. Been lifting for awhile so that’s better. Good style? Lol, like someone else said, it’s not one thing about you. It’s the whole fucked up cocktail. Nobody knows what it is. Or at least dumb women don’t. They just know when their buttons are getting sma…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 01:35 AM
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It’s miraculous. Women want alpha dick so bad that they get unrestrainably excited as they see it materializing. TRP guys sometimes say that people want to keep you down. Crabs in a bucket. It’s true - when you’re starting to climb up the sides - but when they can see you don’t give a fuck about any opposition, it’s like they’re just waiting for the bomb to drop. On vaginas. I can’t tell you about all the little invitations every day. I just got caught alone chatting briefly with a woman at work…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 12:50 AM
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You haven’t. 30’s are a great time. I don’t use Tinder because it’s easier to talk to women IRL. If you can make it work, good on you, but know there are alternatives and for some of us those are much easier.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 05:43 PM
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Excellent.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:17 AM
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Good stuff all around. Thanks
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:10 AM
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Valid point. I’ll work on that.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:09 AM
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Right. I personally don’t use caffeine for the same reason. Just respect your mind and body and be aware of where you end and the chemical highs begin. Experimenting is a good way to figure out what works for you.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 11:38 PM
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Using substances is a crutch. What happens when you don’t have your crutch? You can’t walk. Use mental strength, not pills.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:11 PM
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This is profound. She’s fucked unless she gets some serious introspection and relates to her addiction like a sober alcoholic relates to drink. 999/1000 times - not gonna happen.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 02:15 AM
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Great stuff. This responsibility used to scare me until I realized how freeing it is to decide and direct shit. It feels good. It’s addictive. Think of that. Her job is to be directed and she loves it. Your job is to direct. I can’t think of a better way things could be.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 02:10 AM
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You can have those issues and get over them. And I’ve seen women do the same. The nature of dealing with and repairing mental health issues is that it is done by one’s own choice and with a little hard work. As a result, simply by being aware, you’re irreversibly on your way to a more healthy and stable state of being, but you will meet loads of women who aren’t on their way - who haven’t taken the personal initiative to even be aware and take responsibility for their issues. Women you formerly …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 01:57 AM
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I’m going through this as well. Trust your gut and respect yourself. Crazy is not worth it.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:49 AM
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These are loose social circles, but you’re spot on regarding the discovery of more unpleasant details about these women. Makes you want the contact to be much more limited than if you’re seeing them around once in awhile. I’m still working on abundance. The mindset and the reality. I don’t think it’s too far out, though.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:41 PM
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I can see it working the other way by necessity. Unless we’re talking about purely social circles, much of our socializing will be for networking and come with status structures that must be respected and plied.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:31 PM
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At first thought I wouldn’t care. These girls are only loosely parts of several of my circles. However, some of the comments about quality reputation are making me think twice. Our associates, even sexual ones, reflect on us.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:28 PM
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These aren’t ugly, as others have said, but attractive enough to fuck but not keep around. They’re also already the periphery of several loose social circles, but using them to make other acquaintances with more options sounds much better. And thanks for the tip on isolation. I’m obviously still new to this.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:13 PM
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You’re right, and it is a desperate act for me. SMV is up and I’m making up for a lifetime of little sexual activity. I’d rather continue to work on myself to be able to comfortably pull more attractive women. Thank you.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:08 PM
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This is valuable. Thank you. I should add that I’ve had other women subtly hint disapprovingly at some of my less valuable inclinations. Haven’t messed around too much here, so I think I’m “ok”, though I don’t doubt there will be subtle repercussions. Time to clean it up.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:45 PM
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Good idea.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:43 PM
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I’ve had mild experience with this but as entertaining as it is I want to consider the long game. I think there had to be a balance between depraved indulgence and self investment.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:42 PM
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Good. Thanks.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:25 PM
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This is helpful. These girls are fuckable but nothing special.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:24 PM
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Right. “Ugly” in the words of other women but definitely fuckable. I shouldn’t listen to other women, as usual.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:23 PM
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It’s not late. It’s biology.
/r/seduction02/02/18 05:59 PM
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You were following a prescribed life plan, and now you get to find and pursue what you want. Being lost like this is the right place to be. A man has to define himself.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 10:37 PM
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What’s the “thug”? Is it another archetype? I’m guessing the gangster, the violent warlord (crossover with Chad) - the one who takes things purely by force without regard for the strategies of garnering and exploiting trust by appearing to follow rules.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 05:52 PM
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“Excuse me mom - do you mind if i call you mom? - we need to schedule a family meeting”
/r/askTRP24/01/18 01:02 PM
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Yikes. I think I would have stayed out of that club for a fucking year after that.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 01:00 PM
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I was going to look into mobile DNA kits if they’re affordable, but thanks.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 12:58 PM
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Thanks - this encapsulates everything else. My game is basically to be good looking, point my gun into the barrel of fish, and try not to fuck it up by talking like a fool. I’ve got some work to do and I can’t risk accidentally messing with someone underage.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 12:57 PM
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18 not 21 American here, and I don’t need to bother with bars atm. Day game works for now
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:20 AM
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This is what women do, and especially what single mothers do. First you hate, then you understand, and then you get over it. Give yourself some time.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 02:11 AM
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I’d say I’m just a couple steps in front of you along the same path. Keep going and it will start to solidify. Each little step you take in every area will combine with and amplify all the others. If you need to get high that much it’s because you have sold yourself short in exploring experiences and mental/emotional states that truly make you happy. Pay attention to yourself and explore what you want without judgment. It’s working for me. Being high is awesome but you can bring some of that exp…
/r/askTRP23/12/17 07:29 PM
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Which Black Dragon book? Unchained Man?
/r/askTRP23/12/17 07:05 PM
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Some women are socially inept due to upbringing or psych issues, also possibly on the autism/aspie spectrum.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 08:00 PM
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Alphas don’t have value by mere existence. Alpha is a state of accomplishment. He might have innate traits like height and good looks, but everything else is learned and embodied. People seek his value - genes, leadership, sexual prowess, etc.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 07:34 PM
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I’ve found comfort to come not only from the topics but also the way you treat their experience of things. Affirm their feelings about the topic more than anything. Even abstract or non-personal issues are personal because they reflect feelings, and everybody wants to connect emotionally - to feel like someone “gets” them and their history on a deeper level. That works for me. Starting from any random bullshit - even stream of consciousness observations about mundane things - turns into emotiona…
/r/askTRP09/12/17 05:52 PM
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Get practiced at talking out of your own stream of consciousness. Be observant and talk about things around you. Be considerate - don’t dump strong opinions with unfamiliar people because it shows you’ve no social awareness and skill. Ask questions and riff off others. Affirm their feelings with “yeahs” and “rights” etc. Be their personal supporter, but... Don’t be a doormat. Lightly challenge their opinions - it shows you’re engaged and you respect what they’re saying but you’re not just lookin…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 11:24 PM
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It feels different than a curve. Check the edit.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 09:43 PM
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I’m what you described in terms of narcissistic traits, but I wasted many years of life in pursuit of God. No more. Altering or alleviating my faults is better from a place of self-responsibility than from reading “providence” for signs that cannot be differentiated from natural phenomena. My username is even a reference to a god that doesn’t communicate with humanity. I’ve found that taking responsibility for every aspect of myself is superior to an artificial system that does all the interpret…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 08:31 PM
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This happens all the time with crazies. Leave her and learn to identify crazy so you can filter them out. She is wasting your time and you’ll never be the man you should be by letting her waste it. The only thing she needs is mental help, and if she won’t get it now then you’re letting yourself drown with her. You can’t save her. Looks like you can’t even save yourself yet. Dump her, no contact. Go to the gym.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 10:55 PM
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It’s normal in the sense that this behavior is found everywhere, but it’s not healthy. Get the fuck out of there.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 10:33 PM
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The churches aren’t infiltrated. They’ve been gone for decades. You’d have to find a tiny cult to find something different, but who wants to get pussy from there?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 06:23 PM
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It’s useless. Most women don’t pay attention to rationality. They enter a man’s frame and beliefs if/when it benefits them, but otherwise ignore information. In this case, you’re directly challenging the feminine imperative and your mother is likely to derive no personal benefit by entering your frame. She has good points - from her perspective. It’s up to your bother to decide whether that’s good enough for his life.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 03:33 PM
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Don’t shit where you eat. Wait until you’re completely gone to escalate. If she’s into you she won’t understand because she’s a woman. The timing could make this an unavoidable loss. Too bad. There are more women.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 10:21 PM
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Don’t waste much time shooting the shit. She either wants to fuck or not. Escalate until you fuck her or hit a wall. What happens will answer all your questions of “how did I do.”
/r/askTRP20/11/17 10:07 PM
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What’s worked for me is self indulgence and exploration/acceptance of my personal tastes and desires. It’s produced an unconventional personality and approach, but it feels fucking awesome to be me. Game the world according to TRP, but don’t look for acceptance or affirmation from others. Accept yourself and expect others to accept you. You’ll be surprised how well it can help you connect with others as well. You need to physically and mentally practice enjoying yourself and your own unique appr…
/r/askTRP12/11/17 09:14 PM
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I’ve been too sick lately to take medicine to stop being sick Never stop lifting OP. If you feel worse you should do more. It works well.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 09:10 PM
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chose ONE girl sex drive wanes You got what you paid for.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 09:06 PM
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Make a mental note of his tryhard insecurity. Good stuff to know.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 09:01 PM
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Better to lose “female friends” (lol) by polarizing than staying in the friendzone with all the psychological loss it entails. At some point, if you’re improving your SMV, your polarizing acts will lead you straight into some wet holes.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:50 PM
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Facial aesthetics are more like an instant attention grabber. They’re a hack that makes things easier, but which don’t constitute or substitute for the bulk of attractive masculinity. Don’t ignore them, but don’t rely too much on them. I could write a book on looksmaxing, but here’s some basics: Lift. Male faces always look better with bodily muscle. Bodyfat. Lower it if you have an average-to-small jawline. Larger jawlines can get away with more bodyfat. Clothing. Coordinate clothing to match y…
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:46 PM
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48 Laws of Power, Law 6: Court Attention at all Costs You need to court attention. You don’t exist in a vacuum. There’s a balance between outcome independence and the fact that to be in the top 20% of males you must be aware of how other people perceive you - and be willing to manipulate their perception. In your comments you said you’re doing it out of neediness. Change the way you attract attention through more masculine mindsets and behaviors, and you’ll kill two birds with one stone. You’ll …
/r/askTRP12/11/17 06:27 PM
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Golden comment. Objective traits matter, but frame and interpretation of traits is unbelievably powerful.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 06:14 PM
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Seconding this. I’m actually short (see comment below), but my frame and size from lifting are constantly growing. OP needs to get to the point where he’s proportionately more muscular than most of the male population (and don’t stop there, obviously). That’s when women start noticing. First comes the comments, then the random touching, and so on. Frame is really important but in my experience it takes longer.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 06:13 PM
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I’m very short and it’s not difficult dating taller girls. Increase all your other assets. If you’re short but still miles above the surrounding male population (or at least working on it), then height won’t be a problem. You’ll never beat a guy who has everything you do with an additional six inches of height, but you’ll beat everyone else. Be attractive Don’t be unattractive Edit: by “very short” I mean I’m barely over 5’6”. Not one of those delusional, “aw man I’m a fucking manlet” 5’9” AVERA…
/r/askTRP12/11/17 06:04 PM
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It takes practice. The more you interact, the more you become aware. Cold approach. It sounds like you’ve been socially sheltered.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 01:07 AM
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If you have to see her periodically, ghost her in every way except the bare minimum of respectful cordiality. I have had a couple creepers at my job, and this works with them. You aren’t treating them disrespectfully, but you’re giving them no ammunition to hope that you’ll reciprocate. If you’re tempted to enjoy and accept the attention then you need greater abundance. Meet other women and get used to doing it. (I’ve been there.) Coldly/innocently using female orbiters for free shit can be good…
/r/askTRP11/11/17 09:06 PM
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The OP should be replaced with this. Entirely too much defeatism present. It seems that when you take women too seriously then you’re under self-created compulsion to answer their accusations seriously: either by throwing your gender - and therefore yourself - under the bus, or by engaging the silly creature in a debate. The supposedly effective ways of dealing with the shit test are too tryhard and complicated, showing that the women’s accusations are taken too seriously. The attitude should be…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 05:24 PM
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Great addition.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 10:09 PM
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Perfect, thanks.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:06 AM
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Looks unavoidable. Just don’t want any counterproductive politically correct stuff. I have done enough crying in my lifetime. Now it’s time to work.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 01:20 AM
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Will do.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 01:19 AM
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Very necessary, thanks.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 01:18 AM
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Thanks man. Got some of this covered, working on the others.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 01:17 AM
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Awesome, I’ll look into the book. I haven’t heard of that explanation before, so I’ll keep that in mind.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 01:11 AM
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That’s interesting, but it sounds like a lot of effort to work that out. I’d rather just work through my shit.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 01:08 AM
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Isolate and escalate. TRP and the girl herself will deal with your romantic feelings if you’ve read enough to see it all for what it is.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 04:07 AM
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It's been mentioned but the guys here are usually well-adjusted enough to society from their beta days to not warrant lengthy discussion on domestic violence. Girls with abusive upbringings seem to need - and purposefully incite - violence from their men, or to gravitate towards men who will fulfill that paradigm.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 05:08 PM
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Exactly. Alphabucks doesn't exist because the fundamental sorting of the female mind. A guy appearing as an alpha who shows provider traits is instantly categorized and treated differently. There's no stopping it.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 12:26 AM
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Goddamn, this post is on point. I can't believe my attraction to women for anything other than penile stimulation has bottomed out in direct correlation to my self improvement. This is exactly why. Women are mostly losers or struggling imitators. It's gotten to the point where if I don't have sex with her fast enough, I have to drop her because I can't stomach her personality. I need to work on using my frame to turn them into worthwhile creatures... at least for a few more moments.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 02:07 PM
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I looked a good five years younger than everyone at that age. I'm a bit older now, but I have really young (too young) girls check me out regularly everywhere I go. Work on yourself. You'll get what's coming to you. Also, don't let this dissuade you from doing your thing right now. I look back with regret for being a young beta and not seeing the female interest that was there. You can look young but have a mature ownership of yourself. Or not.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:24 AM
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Don't disqualify yourself. I'm 5'7" and between skinny and toned and I get lots of interest. Even with nothing but game, you're still way ahead of most guys. It's like a breath of fresh air for women to meet a guy who isn't a bitch. Work on your game by approaching and promising yourself to learn from your mountain of rejections. I don't think it's possible to get good any other way than through the study of failures. Too many details. Also, there are many ways to dominate a woman without throwi…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:17 AM
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Going through the same thing. Practice. The rule is to give her 2/3 of what she gives you. Keep a loose memory of things in your head until you get the rhythm of it, and then it'll be second nature. Your desire to change this will ensure your success. Bitches are like sand - tighten your grip and they slip faster from your grasp. Tell yourself you'll get more of what you want, and more easily, by letting go a little.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:35 AM
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Agree with the lengthier comments above. Besides dressing to impress, make sure you maintain a masculine edge. Lifting is obviously necessary. Over time you'll get a feel for the styles out there and how you can appropriate them without losing your masculine edge, but you absolutely need to stand out from the basic "trendy" crowd you see in most places. Where I live, most men fall into three categories: dumpy masculine (no taste), metrosexual (no masculinity) or hipster (neither masculine nor ta…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:30 AM
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Tell your parents. If they don't believe it then don't whine about it, but start asserting yourself. Fuck them in the ass in hell if they take that kid's side. Their unwillingness to believe you or support you will be a greater issue for you over time than everything else that happened. They facilitated this. Make sure they own it.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:11 AM
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I've tried listening to various artists (mostly rap) to supplement an RP mindset, but I've discovered that most aggressive, RP-"aware" music actually facilitates the expenditure of my energy rather than its acquisition. I mean that shit serves to wear me out rather than strengthen me. As a result, I look for mellowing music. Stylish, non-gay sounding jazz and ambient electronic, and some movie orchestral/instrumental compositions work for me. It's all about finding the right vibe. The more I sub…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:18 PM
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You took the pill. The change can no longer be stopped. My mother and a few other women told me the same thing, and I was mad because it was like kicking a weak man when he's down. Gave it time, and now they know where I stand and where they stand. I love my mom more than ever, but playfully laugh at most of the unsolicited advice she gives. Poor creatures, women. Gotta love them!
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 01:57 AM
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Everything you said is just a list of excuses to absolve yourself of responsibility. You're trying to get out of doing what needs to be done. Remember that we all die and nothing ultimately matters, so start taking risks with your arms open to life. Tons of guys here started where you are or close to it. Do the work and learn what you need along the way. You can overcome all your limitations. I'm right there with you. Following TRP and improving myself has been the best experience of my life, es…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 04:02 AM
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It's fucking terrifying, the power they wield over men. It comes down to whether the loss is worth the gain, and I think any healthy man would be willing to take the loss to gain something greater - himself. But how did you flip the script on her. That's fucking magnificent. Lol
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 05:44 PM
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So? Who gives a fuck? I'm speaking rhetorically. I had a strong phase of suicidal ideation for many years, and it still scratches at me from time to time. What to do? Lots of commenters are recommending talking to someone, but in my experience that was a useless enterprise. Even as a decently attractive dude, I was worthless and disposable - rather, more valuable dead with my problems than alive and talking to someone else about them. What to do? You make your own life. Carve your own way upon t…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 03:59 PM
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Thanks. Every comment is another valuable piece of info.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 09:23 PM
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It'll come if you desire it. It will consume your attention and restructure your interactions because you'll be thinking in terms of your desires. You'll be surprised, then you'll want more.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 03:30 AM
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I'm 5'6". From lifting and other forms of personal improvement, like interpersonal game/charm, style, and personal interests, I'm the most popular guy I know with women. I regularly get attention from women who're taller than me and who also have boyfriends who are much taller than me - due to my looks, personality, and frame. I also have guys a full foot taller than me at work shrink up and move out of the way when we pass each other in the hallway and I take up too much space. Even guys who ar…
/r/askTRP17/06/17 10:46 PM
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Exactly. In my early 30's. Late bloomer beta, browsed TRP for a year, and now having the best times of my life. Better than all guys around me, but I'm just a normal guy. And my plans aren't even started. Passive, lazy TRP has made my life better than was imaginable. What will happen when I start to do more shit? Who knows. Life is awesome. Always keep improving and enjoying everything.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 10:08 PM
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But you can't negotiate attraction. Nothing you've done for her has made her more attracted to you. Can you see your SMV (overall physical, material, and behavioral attractiveness) objectively, and compare it to hers? Either she's using you for what you provide as a Beta Bux, or she's doing that AND you have significantly higher SMV. Either way, you're a beta by the way she treats you. If you're physically attractive to her, you can turn this around by asserting yourself selfishly and uncompromi…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 03:48 AM
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That's true, but there's also the crabs-in-a-bucket mentality: when one crab is about to climb out of the bucket, the other crabs will pull it back in. People don't want you to succeed. They'll happily use you when you're successful, and they'll draw near to you to do so, but they don't want others over them. Everyone wants to be on top. The worst spot to be in, in this regard, is one who others see rising above them. These are especially threatening. They've known you before, and they believe t…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 10:19 PM
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Great post. Added to my saved material.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 03:19 AM
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I'm working on learning from my losses while giving up feelings about my losses. It can be done because men have this ability to be emotionally detached or stoic if they exercise it.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 01:10 AM
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Keep going with TRP. You're probably an asshole because you feel like reality has burned you and leaves you with nothing. And it does, that is, until you start being valuable and attractive enough that you know longer hate reality because you are winning. It's important that we not succumb to depression, either. Just keep moving forward. Don't let yourself feel sorry for yourself. Focus on the positive in everything until it eclipses everything. I'm going through the same thing. I think most red…
/r/askTRP17/04/16 01:04 AM
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I'd keep the photos that show you together, if they're good photos and she's hot. I'd use them for Tinder or something, since photos showing preselection from other women make women more attracted. On Facebook, I'd make those photos private, but not delete them. You can still get some use out of that hoe.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 12:27 AM
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/u/COLIE53 is correct. Don't put your arm around her shoulders, because that shows you aren't comfortable enough with yourself or resolute enough in your active attraction to her. Arms around shoulders are for friends. Also, don't put your hand directly on her ass because that shows your desperation and complete ignorance of social graces. Putting your hand on her lower back is the perfect combination of intimate possession and social grace. It works wonders for me, and it's so easy. I don't rec…
/r/askTRP17/04/16 12:21 AM
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She's probably already been fucked by several guys, as she's been grinding on their bodies in nothing but a bra during the music. You think guys there are just ignoring her if she's halfway decent-looking? And do you think they're going to ask if she has a boyfriend and respect that, if she's walking around in a bra? She doesn't respect you at all. She thinks you're a little bitch who will welcome her back without asking questions because here you are getting frustrated at her in your OP, then g…
/r/askTRP16/04/16 08:03 PM
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Lean and getting more muscular by the day. Sort of the Justin Beiber body. But I don't intend to stop here. It's gotten positive female reviews so far whereas I used to be skinny as fuck and got little attention, so I'll continue improving it.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 02:39 AM
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I can help you out. I can usually pinpoint ways people can improve their appearance in precise terms, so I'll give it a shot. Feel free to include pics that show your style. Most people don't need just a 0-10 rating, but a useful evaluation.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 01:40 AM
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That is a huge red flag. Women who are committed, in as much as they are able, are eager to be felt/seen as owned by a high value man. Clearly he's beta bucks. If she won't even take his name exclusively, think about how much of his existence in general she'll tolerate. She'll bust his balls on everything for as long as he's under her heel.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 10:09 PM
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Going the same route with participation in a traditional church. It's grating on me, the reality I know and have experienced through TRP and the dictates of the faith. I'm going to make it a point to carefully observe all the marriages I see there, especially those which seem to be the best.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 02:58 AM
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Even worse is when you have an inner, programmed, second "self" that does all the work of discouragement and prophesying doom for your efforts. Failure is necessary to win.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 01:03 AM
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Yep, my mom's incapable of loving anyone, even herself. Best to love yourself and have women for fun.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 01:01 AM
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Definitely the latter if it were to my benefit, but unfortunately Hillary is a pile of shit and nobody can go near her without smelling it.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 12:59 AM
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This realization is fantastic. I've said so many shitty things to women since implementing TRP, so many things that are either uncouth or just downright offensive, but when you wear a huge grin and are attractive, it doesn't matter. I can touch girls casually, pick them up, play with them, call them stupid, flip them off, say "fuck you, bitch" -- and even regularly call them bitches, put a hand over their face and gently push them away, mess up their hair, etc., and it just drives them that much…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 12:53 AM
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Nice contribution. Not trying to be a backseat mod, but there are thread formatting guidelines on the sidebar. Only saying this because this subject is important to me and probably many others, and your information is too valuable to be deleted because you didn't format your post.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 08:53 PM
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I'm finding this advice useful not just for exes, but especially for all those girls you had a crush on or whatever. Leave them in the dust. Focus entirely on your new life, and add only new women to that life. The old ones, even the ones you weren't valuable enough to fuck in the past, are a black hole to the material of your investment. Don't enter orbit over that shit even for a second.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:36 AM
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Where did you get your ideas on parenting? I'm interested because this information doesn't occur to most people - it certainly wouldn't to me - and, probably like many others here, I got fucked in the mental department from both my worthless parent's behavior - two omegas struggling to keep their mistake child alive. I've read a decent amount of psychology material across the board, but haven't encountered your ideas, much less how to apply them to oneself in adulthood. Even if you have just a d…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 02:12 AM
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It's the same behavior, but this isn't a sub about playing fair. It's about male sexual strategy and winning the game. We might exhibit the same shitty traits as women but calling attention to female behavior helps male sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 10:39 PM
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Haha, that's a dream of false enrichment, the hope that at the end of the day the PUA will prove to be a really good guy. The only enrichment I'm looking to give is a protein penis shake.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 02:53 AM
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Excellent. I'm on a similar path. It's interesting how a dark past can lead to an enjoyably dark future.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 02:44 AM
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New piller myself, so take this with a grain of salt (the sidebar is your friend). My experience so far has been rocky but still marked by progress. The key for me has been to never let up on increasing my SMV through lifting, game, work, etc. While my knowledge of the depths of deception we've endured grows and makes me angry or depressed, constantly-increasing SMV fills the absence. While I discover how much I had been losing the old game created by the female sexual imperative, I simultaneous…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 02:10 AM
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Funny how her old songs are pathetic, female whining, while there is a new song all about an alpha fuck - the one where she doesn't expect him to stay but asks him to simply remember her. Ah, to be cared about for more than a quick fuck by an alpha.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 01:57 AM
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Romance is a male-dominated genre. Men are the true romantics. Start paying attention to women, especially singers, who try to sound romantic. They are either trying to appropriate male desires and portray themselves as fulfilling them, or they go out on a limb and try to actually portray romantic feelings - with silly, strange results. Yes, despite the beauty of the romantics throughout the ages, the female species cannot reciprocate those feelings or even understand them. Women love opportunis…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 05:36 PM
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Hate to devolve into semantics, but a "cute butt" is different than a "nice ass". Of course women love a juicy, squat-built ass. On the other hand, I know exactly the phenomenon that OP is talking about; flabby or twiggy betas with no physically attractive characteristics fantasizing about some unicorn that finds him unbelievably irresistible. "OMG look at his cute butt, and I think I see a Zelda tattoo peeking out of those cargo shorts!" You'll find this female attitude only in real life with w…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 05:20 PM
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In other words, the entire female-dominated narrative about the very identity of men is nothing more than a goddamned projection. Now for me to manipulate this to my advantage.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 11:01 PM
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AAAAND now I have to go lift for reasons of ... self-expression. Jesus fuck.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 10:57 PM
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Make a post about how to use women in marriage that accounts for the extreme risk involved. Without outlining exactly how the male sexual imperative is strengthened, promoting marriage "just if you know how 2 do it rite lol" is overt violence to men. If you have something worthy to share, do so.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 09:16 PM
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I couldn't agree more. Self-identification as an intellectual is often a weakness. The powerless hide behind moral and intellectual superiority while their superiority is self-contained, compartmentalized to a limited field of their lives. Identification with the general population brings you into their sphere, putting intellectual gifts to productive use, the acquisition of real power which is recognizable to the general population.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 07:57 PM
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Similar boat here. Oddly enough, my inborn intelligence hasn't handicapped me too much on account of mental illness. Be aware that with your intelligence you have extreme potential. I'm learning to embrace budding sociopathy, slowly turning the massive machinery of attention and analysis on others and our interactions. Creating a new thought-habit system of social encounters is a shortcut to power. Emotions find different realms of expression, removing the thought-habits of powerlessness and rea…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 07:49 PM
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Yes. I'm always interested in the intricacies and dynamics of interpersonal relationships of all kinds, LTRs included. Probably wouldn't garner a metric shittonne of upvotes like the clickbait rage posts, but it would be worthwhile to some people.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 05:22 PM
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The difference is that you still acknowledge the mistake to yourself in order to correct something that YOU believe needs correction. We men don't admit our mistakes but we mentally acknowledge them in order to improve objectively. Women don't even acknowledge it. There is little if any internal reflection since everything is solipsism and hamstering - pure manipulation of the perception of others, which requires her mind to automatically manipulate reality to her advantage.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 09:00 PM
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First, I'm going to disallow all depressive thoughts - instead of reasoning with them. Second, I'm allowing only one small sugary drink or sugary food item per day. I'm not fat, but I currently use sugar to boost my mood. Going to see what happens without it. (If anyone has psychological dietary advice, feel free to comment.) Third, I'm going to eat only meals I make. I'm going to meditate for at least 20 minutes every day.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 11:33 PM
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Excellent - the tactic in the first paragraph is exactly what I was looking for and fits my situation.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 05:43 PM
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Read this before on TRP. Thanks for the reminder.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 02:20 AM
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Two things, for me, so far. The first was explained by /u/RedPillJax already. That's the most important one. Second, I'd like to include a "trick" I have used to help myself. Try making a mental shift in the subject matter to associate what you're learning with the "fun" of having that knowledge or experience. For instance, if you're reading a book from the TRP sidebar or suggested reading threads, try to associate each part of the book with the fun and enjoyment you see yourself having as a res…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 02:18 AM
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Yep, for me it's a life full of debilitating depression versus one night drunk at the symphony last week. How does the world suddenly come completely alive with only a few martinis on an empty stomach? At that moment, I removed all fault I ascribed to my dad, who spent his life and ruined two marriages with children to drink himself away. Who could blame someone for drinking the only elixir to make life worth living? The chronically, seriously depressed are no doubt the more unusual cases, but b…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 12:58 AM
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Commenting to say this area of information is spectacularly useful. Post saved, "please sir, I want some more", etc.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 12:51 AM
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Once in awhile you see or hear of a woman who has RPish truths to teach her son, but this compromises the nurturing role that the son also needs from his mother at a young age. The healthy arc of childhood psychological/emotional development is one of receiving support, as a sort of neurological existential development, and then transitioning into independence. The nurturing creates the systems of self-care - that is, everything from proper sleep habits to eating, exercise, discipline, and espec…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 05:22 PM
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I appreciate this post and that of /u/cookiecutterbullshit. Longer, more exploratory and explanatory posts help me more than the most simplistic ones because I see the author really getting into how TRP affects all aspects of life, especially on a deeper, philosophical level. While I think much philosophy is a product of psychology, some people need more and different paths of reflection and meaning than others. The shorter, simpler posts don't stick because there isn't enough reflection to make…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 10:50 PM
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Women are mercenary in their sexual strategy. Their "love" towards men is one of material and social opportunity. As such, this woman was lying. Whether she believed what she said about sex after marriage is irrelevant. In the case she was lying and self-aware, it illustrates the complete amorality of the female sexual imperative; the deciding factor of the scope and size of her lies is not a consideration of their morality, but of their effectiveness. In the case she was telling the truth, she …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 11:43 PM
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Yep - those girls are just fresh, white canvas for Saudi poop paintings.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 11:13 PM
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This is a good, balanced perspective, but OP's points still stand. Submissiveness in women is sexually attractive for many men. That's fine if other men have different tastes, but these guys shouldn't complain when women don't want them because of their disgusting male submissiveness.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 06:08 PM
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Absolutely. Masculine women are not attractive, nor are they desirable for masculine professional roles - at least for me.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 06:05 PM
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Sauce on that quote? Tried googling a unique phrase from it, but all I got was a gay anime tumblr. I like the sentiment (of the quote).
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 01:21 AM
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It's brutal, but I can't look at anything you just wrote and say "well, no, she actually does deserve -blank-." She cheated. She doesn't deserve your hate, even, because she doesn't deserve anything.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 01:08 AM
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Keep going, man. I've been on the edge of suicide for long periods of time. I know what it's like to be stuck in a life you hate, with seemingly no way out. Stick to TRP, slowly implementing things as you can. It's rocky and risky as fuck trying to make your shit life into a source of joy, but it can be done.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 08:36 PM
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Exactly. Women cannot be trusted to ever empathize with a man or boy.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 08:12 PM
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Great summary here, especially the differentiation between sensitivity (provider traits) given as a limited reward versus beta emotional slutting, which never deserves respect.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 07:48 PM
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Awesome OP. Similar story here.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 10:22 PM
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Then you have your own issues to deal with. I had similar circumstances (see me other post in this thread). It's a difficult battle depending on your current level of functionality. Do you deal with depression? Excessive neediness or emptiness? All of these things are indicators of dysfunction that should be resolved. I can recommend some reading material if you're interested. As I said in my other comment, I am still struggling to stay afloat, but TRP and personal psychology research is keeping…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 06:53 PM
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My father was absent and my mother was neglectful, so I spent my life alone with no external sources of validation. With no reflective feedback in infancy, children can fail to develop a lot of the necessary psychological structures that shape their view of the world and themselves. With the added bonus of mental illness in both parents, it comes as no surprise that I've had a life of debilitating depression. That said, the combination of TRP and heavy psychology research has at least pulled me …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 06:47 PM
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Good post. You may want to add the required formatting as specified in the current stickied thread concerning moderation. This post doesn't deserve to get toasted.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 04:53 AM
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Absolutely amazing shit. Like another poster below, I've been into religion for a long time, specifically Christian religion, and as much credit as some guys give Christianity for being red pill, it's not. Like any religion formed in an ancient human social system, it contains bits of everything. Not that I am against the religion, but I would recommend extreme caution with the concepts contained therein, especially with regard to Christianity, even including the more traditional varieties.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 03:09 PM
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Don't think so, but I'm not sure.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 08:59 PM
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Everything's on archive(dot)is. I think there's a separate backup method through TRP's non-Reddit site, Purearchy.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 07:08 PM
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It's fucking brutal. Thanks for your hard work anyhow.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 02:16 AM
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In the BPD/Cluster B example, how does the clutch translate? She tells you an orbiter is interested in her, but she does nothing about it and doesn't follow any of your direction to remedy the situation?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 10:00 PM
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Coming late to this conversation, but I wanted to add the fact that my mother was every bit of a inept failure that yours and /u/Movonnow's were, but in a very different manner. She was distant to the point of neglectful, basically crippling me mentally and emotionally until I figured out how to get psychological help on my own as an adult. The point is that she fucked up in a way that is entirely different, and that means that there may be hope in diversity. /u/Sir_shitlord_focker's situation i…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 06:55 AM
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More power to the guys who don't need much to make a change. I'm the sort that should consider self-flagellation.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 10:46 PM
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On the contrary, the rubber band solidifies the action in your mind as a developed and reinforced choice. If one has bad psychological behaviors, one is likely to be lazy in being aware of them, addressing them, and grasping/owning one's opposition to the behavior. I know this because I experience it. Some people must add ceremony to their creation or destruction of habits, especially those that are psychological, and thus less reinforced naturally by external behavior. Memory and subsequent hab…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 09:57 PM
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Not sure why you got downvoted, but this is solid advice. The "no music" part is especially important. So many people these days can't stand to listen to their environment or to be left alone with their own thoughts.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 09:55 PM
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Thanks. I'm seeing a therapist and trying to work through exactly those issues. Will read your link.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 09:54 PM
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Thanks a lot. I will work on all of this, but the social stuff will be the greatest struggle and probably the greatest reward.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 09:54 PM
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Thanks a lot. You're right - I'm getting something from every piece of advice, as it all relates to my struggles.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 09:52 PM
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I'm definitely working hard at all of this. Having no developed "self" means that there is a huge absence where a sense of purpose and enjoyment should be, so I'm having to actually learn how to justify living without using any cheap answers like religion - not that religion is wrong, as I'm not sure about it yet, but I would rather come to a conclusion on that after I've sorted my shit out rather than using it as a crutch and leaving necessary areas of my life and person undeveloped. Thanks for…
/r/askTRP25/03/15 09:50 PM
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Awesome advice, all of it. Thanks. I'll be revisiting this thread to refresh myself with everyone's amazing responses.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 09:43 PM
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I'm working on the diet discipline a lot. I need to gain weight instead of lose it, but a shitty diet is giving exactly the same problems for this task as it would for someone trying to lose weight. I do know that I do much better on a diet of meat and vegetables rather than processed carbs.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 09:41 PM
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Thanks for all the good advice. Spot on.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 09:39 PM
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Goddamn, my life fits every bit of this description. Unfortunately, I'm only now starting to learn and enforce my own boundaries, and I'm finding that everyone I know needs to go. It's easy to handle giving them up, but it's hard not knowing if you'll ever have decent friends or family in the future. Guess you have to make them.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 07:18 PM
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It would make things better, because more men would be aware of the actual nature of intersex relations. Fewer feminists and beta bux on the bitch wagon.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:35 AM
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I'm gearing up for this in the near future. My wife is definitely the type to tell me how amazing I am when we're on good terms, but since she knows I'm pulling away she has fits of pure rage attack where she is convinced I'm the shittiest human to ever walk this earth. Fucking emotions, man. You should try to take apart everything she has said and examine it, finding reasons it's bullshit. Second, you should recognize that what she said, her emotional vomit, was coming from the irrational parts…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:25 AM
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