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Discussionborisisacat/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 08:14 PM
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So there's a middle ground. My biggest problem with TRP isn't with the idea of self-improvement it's the way a lot (not all) of the people treat relationships. Like there's some sort of formula that is going to work for everyone. Find genuine interests. Stop improving yourself just to get laid. If you like your bad ass facial hair keep it. If dressing well worked for you then stop dressing like a 16 year old. TBP (in my mind anyways) is a pushback against all the negative things associated with …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/17 07:30 AM
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It's because they're basing their opinions on anecdotal "facts", truth is most of the RP dudes complaining are below average. Might be physical, might be personalities but if you step outside this bubble I'd say things are pretty evenly split.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 06:19 PM
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So it is all about insecurity... worrying you can't stack up to each woman's past Ron Jeremy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 11:46 PM
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Nonexistent
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 11:42 PM
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The average American is overweight and just 10lbs or so from being obese. Opposite end of the spectrum, 6% body fat The average American household income is $51K. The average American worker makes $30K annually. I guess above average, think this is a little simplistic though. Where you live is a big factor in determining disposable income. Making 50k+ would go a lot farther if I didn't live in an expensive city. The average American household is 2.6 people. I live with housemates so 4. The avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 05:42 PM
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The word is derived from "cuckoo." Here's a link to a podcast going through the history of the word, it's ties to racism and how it wound up being adopted by the "alt-right" as a slur.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 04:51 PM
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They definitely can be and I definitely see how analyzing relationships as a whole can be helpful on a personal level. I just think it's important to realize there's a broad spectrum of people out there. While a lot of the positive traits might be pretty universal, the amount of weight and importance placed on them by any perspective partner can be all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 06:31 AM
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The book is a great representation of assault and not at all representative of BDSM or kink culture. So maybe OP is right and the character is RP. Also, completely agree. Funny part about all of this is, as far as kink is concerned a lot of subs tend to be "alpha" men which totally makes sense. It's about consent and playing around with social power structures.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 06:20 AM
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Oh I completely agree. Not saying there's anything wrong with having a preference at all. Personally, I just hate when that preference is laid out like some objective truth. I also don't see the benefit in either side putting anyone down because they're skinny/fat/high n-count/low n-count. I just tend to align as non-redpill because I think the whole premise oversimplifies sexuality and I think it can come off as being a bit manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 06:10 AM
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But isn't bp inherently more idealistic? If you don't view sex as a marketplace then there aren't really any customers to blame. I'd argue too that the fight isn't necessarily blaming anyone but social norms/standards as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 05:41 AM
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Haven't ever needed to try them, I'm busy and explain that upfront. I text when I have free time but never intentionally leave a text unanswered to fuck with someones head. Why try to fuck with someones head when there's no reason to? Perfectly happy with my current/ past relationships without adding in that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 04:25 AM
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No ones saying you can't have a personal preference. It's stating observations as objective truths that I personally take issue with. Namely "If she has a high n-count no man will want her". I'm not arguing what studies imply or the existence of any statistical correlations, just that there are plenty of dudes out there that could care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 04:17 AM
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Firstly, I consider transwomen to be women. Even if I didn't, given gender identity and sexual preference are two separate things, MGTOW hardly seem like a fitting place in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 04:03 AM
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👐
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 03:52 AM
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Honestly, this may be one of my biggest beefs with TRP. Aside from the whole "appealing to and shaping their emotional state is the way to get laid" bullshit, making claims that this belief system is somehow the norm outside this little manosphere bubble is ridiculous. Apart from the ideas about self-improvement (I see no issue with bettering yourself), the vast majority of men I interact with on the regular (myself included) would probably fall into your top 20% and share none of those ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 01:17 AM
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But only when those people are women? Or is shitty behavior from dudes just more acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 09:18 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 09:07 PM
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Or maybe the world isn't an episode of Jerry Springer and a person can have a lot of partners? If my partner somehow becomes pregnant and we've been monogamous for a year, the number of people she's slept with in the past doesn't change a thing; that babies mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 09:06 PM
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I can play with phallic and yonic metaphors too. A power outlet that only accepts one power chord is useless. Just like a power chord that only plugs into one outlet is equally as useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 09:00 PM
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I honestly have no idea what you're saying. I'm an autistic person who's excessively literal? I actually just think that keys+locks have nothing to do with human sexuality other than the fact that they're kind of shaped like human genitalia? Justifying a shitty double standard with a shitty metaphor doesn't prove anything. Also, if sex is a single thrust and turn you might be doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 08:54 PM
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My "denial" of TRP has nothing to do with how I think you dudes look. It also has nothing to do with whether or not I think it works. I just think it's a breeding ground for shitty behavior. I have no issue with those working to improve themselves. It's the idea that you need to drag other people down to build yourself up that I take issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 08:49 PM
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I guess it's a good thing people aren't keys or locks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 08:35 PM
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This! Aziz killing it like always.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 08:27 PM
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Actually properly educating people on what consent is and removing the social stigma from victims would be a great start.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 08:09 PM
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I don't think anyone is accusing you or blaming you for what other men do. Education isn't about blaming you, it's about establishing a baseline and making sure everyone is aware of it (you said it yourself some people can't read social cues, better to be safe and just educate everyone... men and women). I'm with you though man, I don't want to have sex unless I get a very enthusiastic "yes" from my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 08:07 PM
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"Crazy" gets tossed around way too easily. In my honest opinion, it's an excuse for dudes who can't hold their own in a relationship to deflect the blame onto their partner/ex-partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 07:24 PM
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Not being confined by things like gender, race or sexuality is a far reach from choosing to eliminate them. No one is saying you can pick and choose which race, culture or gender you belong to. I won't speak for everyone on this side of these issues but most people just want to be treated with the same amount of respect as anyone else. The only example you've provided where I can see any misinterpretation of "choice" being involved would be gender but that's not even correct. Sure you can make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 05:51 AM
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Virgin or 100's of partners I could care less. The amount of sex you have doesn't determine whether you're a good person or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 01:55 AM
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Couldn't the same be said in support of OP's point? Just going off what I've seen here on reddit but a lot of the people who are overly concerned about a woman's partner count also tend to be people who tend to view sex and women as a commodity. Not everyone but I mean, the whole idea of SMP, SMV, RMV all speaks to the commoditization of sex and people. If you're a person who doesn't share those views (like myself) I can absolutely see that being a red flag. Many of the people who care about par…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 01:49 AM
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Would you believe I own a successful corporation who's sole purpose is staffing medium-sized corporations?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 04:48 AM
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You misspelled "Woo"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 04:44 AM
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You brought up all my partners being the size of a medium-sized corporation, I'm just saying I don't know if I could staff that corporation better if I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 04:40 AM
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Hey, I'm not saying all men are cool with it. That corporation would probably kick some serious ass by the way, all my partners have been some pretty fucking bad ass talented people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 04:34 AM
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Oh, calling you out on your inferiority complex is a personal attack but calling my girlfriend a slut is what? I don't appreciate someone putting words into my mouth, so instead of making broad statement about no man wanting a woman that's had more than 5 partners, you should just speak for yourself. If you don't want that, totally fine. You better believe though that experience means our sex is great. Maybe I should have charged....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 04:03 AM
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Hit a nerve there bud? It's shocking that very broad social circle of yours includes escorts but not people with healthy sex lives. You better believe it, 30 People and we're going strong, crazy I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 03:51 AM
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Dude just because you're worried you can't stack up to the 5 dudes before you doesn't mean we're all that self-conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 03:28 AM
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Don't forget the women involved in Project Mercury and the Apollo 11 flight to the moon!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 02:13 AM
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Guess I'm a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 01:50 AM
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Oh by no means did I mean you're somehow obligated to have sex with someone for any reason at all. Not against that past making you uncomfortable either. What I am against is devaluing a person because they've had a lot of partners, which you're not doing at all! By all means though, if you don't wanna sleep with someone then don't! Zero judgment over here hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 01:24 AM
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See I'd never really thought about the disparity in numbers being a point of contention but I can totally see that being a thing. I guess I just don't think it's really fair to tear someone apart because of that, but that's just my view. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/16 12:22 AM
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As a sidenote, I'd avoid ad hominem attacks based on assumptions you make about me really don't help your argument. All it does is open up the door for me to insult you directly. I'm pretty damn content with what I've got and funnily enough, I've managed to do all of that without needing the affirmation of a bunch of strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:57 PM
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A Ben actually
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:55 PM
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The problem is, in my opinion your entire ideology is flawed. It's based on half the world's population having no control over their thoughts, desires or free will. The funny thing is you thinking I'm somehow "falling short" by not buying into your TRP bullshit when in fact I'm doing pretty damn well without it. I see your points and to be frank they disgust me. I find them offensive because they degrade people I care about. See my lifestyle, does nothing to harm you, or people you care about. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:46 PM
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Just did, have fun with that man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:30 PM
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Spineless? Gender-bending? Where did you get the idea I was either? Sorry for making you question your beliefs with my radioactive poison ideas bro. Good luck with life!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:29 PM
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So TRP has spoken and so it is true? Not trying to rip on your woldview here man but I just don't see why your view is an absolute truth. I've been getting along just fine without having to trick women into relationships. Is there any real evidence TRP game theory completely negates a person's free will or is it all anecdotal?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:22 PM
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What, that a comparison between women and money isn't an accurate comparison? Well for one money is non-sentient. There is no decision currency makes on whether or not it wants to spend the night in your bank account. Women are people. They do have a say in whether or not they want to spend the night in your bed. If you treat sex like currency, you completely leave out the autonomy of the other party involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:09 PM
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27 in Toronto and I have no idea what you're talking about and I'm hardly a "Chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 11:02 PM
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Yet this is a purple pill debate forum. Have fun with that worldview though bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 10:53 PM
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The whole point of me posting was to try and get some perspective on why sex-positivity would be a bad thing. I don't agree with you so I should leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 10:52 PM
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Maybe I'm wrong. One thing I can say though is sex is a lot more fun when you view your partner as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 10:48 PM
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I think that's all I needed to hear hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 10:43 PM
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Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 10:40 PM
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I'll look into it. Might be out of touch with your culture but it doesn't mean I'm wrong. Honestly, I'm pretty content and not viewing people as currency is a big part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 10:40 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 10:37 PM
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Hahahahaha oh man "powerbombed by God/Nature" just won everything I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 10:30 PM
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Also, thanks man. Didn't change my mind in the slightest BUT I think I have a better idea why people view it as an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 10:28 PM
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Hahaha while I don't necessarily agree I honestly don't have anything to refute that. A part of me feels like what sort of defines humans as a species is the ability to shake natural instincts in favor of an overall social good. Who's right and what that good is, questions for someone far smarter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 10:23 PM
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Doesn't that 'want' and 'need' have a lot to do with reinforcing socially normative ideals of masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 09:58 PM
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Societal norms and pressure can suck sometimes I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 09:48 PM
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Again, nothing bad to say about them. We were just into different shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 09:46 PM
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Oh sometimes the sex sucked but it certainly wasn't because they were bad or unattractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 09:45 PM
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Discounting sex-work it's totally different. If you want to view sex as a transaction I think you're getting into some very sketchy territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 09:43 PM
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Apart from my first time (18) I didn't become sexually active again until around 23. 27 now so it's less than 10 a year. Not slumming it at all, had a bunch of flings and a few relationships but only have good things to say about my past partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 09:36 PM
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Yeah, I sincerely hope so as well. Now, how does berating other people (from what I've seen on here men berating women) based on having "too many" sexual partners help them break that streak? (I don't mean for this to come off at all as confrontational, I just haven't been able to figure out the logic behind it.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 09:33 PM
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But the difference here is money is a commodity and women are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 09:21 PM
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What do you consider early on? I mean apart from a one-time hookup when I was 18, I was essentially celibate throughout my early 20's. I can totally attest to it not being the greatest feeling in the world. I just think a lot of that sexual frustration tends to be taken out on the wrong people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 09:19 PM
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Oh wow, yeah that definitely falls within a reasonable threshold. Truth be told I'm just as bad for not actually doing my due diligence. Probably why I'm so content sticking to my anecdotal evidence hahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 09:12 PM
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Fair, yeah I'm pretty content. Just seemed like everyone has reached a consensus about it being the worst thing possible when I know I've personally gotten a lot of positive traits from past partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 08:59 PM
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Hahahhaa sorry for contributing to it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 08:55 PM
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Totally fair. I do think it's important to be weary of studies to a certain extent as well. Not to bring up politics but there were a bunch of "non-partisan" polls that predicted a Clinton win which just didn't account for the fact that Trump voters were apparently just less likely to participate in polls. Not saying you're wrong at all, just saying data can be flawed and if you're going to make decisions based on studies you should maintain a healthy dose of skepticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 08:54 PM
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Getting those sleep hours up has been a massive priority over the past few weeks!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 08:43 PM
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The whole idea that one person has to be submissive and the other dominant in a relationship seems pretty black and white to me. Everyone is going to take away opinions, behaviors and preferences based on past relationships. I don't see why that's inherently a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 08:41 PM
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In the same boat here man. Think I was more-so just disgusted with all the shaming that was going on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 08:31 PM
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I was just counting PIV
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 08:29 PM
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Honestly, only basing my opinion on anecdotal experience so I could be entirely wrong. Maybe I've just been lucky so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 08:28 PM
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