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I got some exceptional results from Photofeeler. I considered myself handsome even before testing photos on Photofeeler, so it's good to know that there's some more (albeit small) objective data that validates it. Additionally, the four photos I tested were all taken from my ex girlfriend, so I'm grateful for that.
/r/seduction15/02/19 07:58 PM
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Tinder is dead.
/r/seduction18/08/15 03:37 PM
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men are like rockets, we can go straight up when it comes to sexual escalation. women are like airplanes, they need to get some momentum first. starting with making out, then kissing your neck and collarbone while putting your hands all over her and especially playing with her boobs. If she's feeling it, take off her shirt, and make out some more. then take off her bra, and caress/lick/suck/message her breasts (but ask how she likes it here, communication bro). then slowly go down towards her le…
/r/seduction31/07/15 04:46 AM
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Yep, asking "why" or "why not" to something they said reveals the emotional/logical reasoning behind what they said. Or it will get closer to revealing it. Also, if you're completely blank, a great questions is "Any vacation plans in the future?"
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:46 PM
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This question begs being arrogant, so I'll go ahead and be honest: I'm confident I'd be the best singer next to 10 random guys. I'm confident I'd be the richest person next to 10 random guys.
/r/seduction25/05/15 07:46 PM
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Christian, specifically Independent Fundamental Baptist. But my circle and Mormons both implicitly pushed for people to get married when you finish college. I was on that path if I didn't break up with my first girlfriend when I was 20.
/r/seduction07/05/15 10:56 PM
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Pass.
/r/seduction07/05/15 09:09 PM
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I'm the same way. I grew up in a very sheltered bubble (a strict sub-denomination of Christianity that focused on being as separated from even other Christians, let alone non-Christians), so I had a very repressed sexuality. I didn't learn about sex until my freshman year in high school, and I had to learn about it on my own. My first kiss was at 19, and I'm still a virgin 6 years later. Everything in my life that isn't romance is perfect - great job, great family, I take care of my body, I have…
/r/seduction07/05/15 04:25 PM
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Haha, I was asked this recently. No lie I said on a whim "I secretly love Disney songs." We ended up talking about our favorite Disney songs and movies for a while, building even more attraction towards each other.
/r/seduction05/05/15 10:23 PM
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Dude, I'm 25 and a virgin. I haven't gotten past second base with a girl. I haven't been on a date in 5 years.
/r/seduction27/04/15 08:27 PM
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As a religious person who grew up in a VERY separated environment...a lot of couples I know (dozens and dozens) have only had sex with their spouse.
/r/seduction27/04/15 08:22 PM
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Okay, this is great and all, but what IF a person is religious? Would you just be all "Fuck your religion you mindless jackass!" like an intolerant jerk or would you at least show some love and compassion and work it out with them?
/r/seduction27/04/15 08:21 PM
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Also, read up on stoicism.
/r/seduction26/04/15 01:50 AM
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Just night. Work prevents day game.
/r/seduction22/04/15 04:45 PM
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Dude, are you me? I'm in my mid-20's, haven't gone further than making out with a girl. I made over $100k last year, in good shape, can play guitar decently well, can sing karaoke sober, and have an amazing house to bring girls back to. I grew up in a very VERY religious environment where the church I grew up in was my life up to the age of 18. I didn't have any friends outside of the church, and the first job I had at 18 opened my eyes to what the world was outside of church. I had my only girl…
/r/seduction20/04/15 06:08 PM
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Sexualizing conversations will make conversations less "adult" and more "high school locker room" but that's just the way it is.
/r/seduction26/03/15 07:19 PM
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This is literally my problem. I never go out to places where there are women. The city I live in is notoriously sides to men over women. There's like five guys for every girl.
/r/seduction22/03/15 03:50 AM
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What is it then? Because all I see when I see yoga is a hot woman stretching to become more flexible for better sex.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 12:41 AM
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Has anyone met a girl who wanted to get married and then knocked up as fast as possible before? I dated this one girl several years ago whose goal in life was to find a hot guy, marry him, and make babies with him, and fast. This girl's parents married four months after meeting back in the 80's, and this girl married a dude like 10 months after meeting her husband, and then expecting a child just over a year later, which is presently any day now that she'll have that kid. She's currently 25. I u…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 05:50 PM
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Being an effective communicator is literally the best skill you can possibly have. The best communicators know how to turn their thoughts into words, they can take concepts in their head and turn them into intuitive visuals in a presentation, they can take a complex idea and describe it to a five year old, they can persuade, they can negotiate, and they understand that body language is more important than the words spoken. Communication is position-agnostic and career-agnostic. To be successful …
/r/askTRP25/01/15 05:38 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wV2KC50rui0
/r/seduction18/01/15 10:46 PM
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What I hate is that I never have time to do a challenge during the weekdays. I wake up at 6, work from 7 to 4, head to gym, work out to ~6, go home to cook post work out meal, done with meal around 7. Now as for the weekends, particularly Saturday, that I can do.
/r/seduction12/01/15 04:05 PM
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I have had girls who'd suck me off and swallow on a first date 20 minutes after we first met FR that shit, please. I'd love to learn how you did that.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 05:25 AM
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TL; DW?
/r/seduction24/12/14 08:55 PM
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I go to a lot of house parties, and I use that one a lot. Not every opener is a bar-approved one.
/r/seduction21/12/14 11:54 PM
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"Hi, I don't think we've been introduced, I'm...." "Hey, what drink are you feeling right now?"
/r/seduction21/12/14 11:35 PM
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Wow this guy's annoying. He's trying so hard to do all the NLP bullshit with the finger snaps, anchoring, etc. Did anybody get turned off by that?
/r/seduction21/12/14 11:30 PM
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I've been binge watching Californication, and I swear that David Duchovny is the fattest person I've seen with a six pack. At some angles, he's overweight. At other angles, he's rocking a sweet six pack. At the minimum, his body is easily attainable. The ideal body that I'd like would be Charlie Hunnam in Pacific Rim. Some amount of muscle, very low amount of fat. Nutrition matters than most when it comes to getting a good body.
/r/seduction21/12/14 01:55 AM
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I have this thing with tattoos on feet. If a girl has a tattoo on her foot, I don't care how hot she is, she could be Sara Jean Underwood, I won't pursue. I have a foot fetish and the feet have to be absolutely devoid of markings.
/r/seduction21/12/14 01:39 AM
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So give us a field report. What led to such an event? How'd you pull it off?
/r/seduction18/12/14 11:54 PM
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boom, done. I'm moving over to Gmail now. That's literally all I wanted in Gmail.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 01:33 AM
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Yes, I use Yahoo Mail solely because I like the Preview Message functionality. I hate how in Gmail if you select an email message, it takes you to a different screen. In Yahoo Mail, the inbox is on the top of the screen, and the message pane is on the bottom. And because I use Yahoo Mail, I have My Yahoo as my homepage, where I see my various RSS feeds. I use Google for everything else.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 11:29 PM
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I went to /r/rateme on an alt account and I got objectively good ratings with even a chick PM'ing me after that. I have no idea what is up because it's not the pics.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 08:17 PM
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IDK what I'm doing wrong. I live in a metropolis, use Liker for iPhone to match everybody in seconds.... And I still can't get matches. And when I do get a match, the chick is ugly or fat.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 07:18 PM
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Off-topic but I feel like you're the first Daygame guru/teacher who wasn't European.
/r/seduction13/12/14 02:56 AM
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How I feel is that I don't there's very many FR's anymore when I come here.
/r/seduction13/12/14 02:47 AM
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I can't even get matches. I need some help with my Tinder pictures. Can I PM my pics to someone who can critique them? I know with with Tinder it's all about the pictures you have, so I must not have as good of pics as I thought.
/r/seduction08/12/14 04:53 PM
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What I mean is I dont want to post my pics on here (asktrp), but I'm willing to pm them to those who can give pointers.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 06:43 PM
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I loved public speaking class in college, but I don't have opportunities to speak to a group of a hundred after college.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:50 AM
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I hate articles like these because all these traits are easily breakable. Sometimes I just want to flip the bird to the world, yet according to this article, my mental toughness was compromised, because 'feeling' that way breaks one of the traits.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 10:10 PM
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there's alot of ways to re-frame her challenge. im coming up with these on the top of my head. you can say things like: "then gimme something to work for." "nice try, but I need to know if youre worth the work" "well im not one to chase and waste time" "youre only delaying the inevitable" Either turn it around on her, or change subject by telling a story or saying a non-sequitur statement like "tell my why dogs are better than cats". Remember, it's not what you say, it's how you say it.
/r/seduction28/11/14 07:56 PM
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Even better: Learn to sell. The best communicators I've met were salesmen. The best storytellers I've met were salesmen. The best persuaders, the best negotiators I've met were all salesmen. They know how to ask the right questions, they know how to frame your problem to make it seem worse than it actually is, they know how to close.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 10:17 PM
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In my experience, it's the Asians who are into white people, let alone the gender.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 05:46 PM
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I've been able to sum up conversations with ladies in a few points: Realize that girls shit test so often they shit test without realizing it, and they can be subtle For shit tests, either (1) don't acknowledge the test, just change subject immediately; or (2) agree and amplify Don't give a girl something for free, have her earn it. It could be small as a smile from you that she has to earn. Request them to do things for you, big or small, in the form of a command or statement. Instead of "Could…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:41 PM
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Exactly, take the gender out. Don't hit anyone. All the videos I see of a woman hitting man never started with the man starting as the physical aggressor. It's always been the woman being the first to hit. In no way is that a smart move, and she surely isn't defending herself, because she started it. And a woman shouldn't be surprised if the man retaliates, because she freakin' hit the guy first! Let me take out gender, a person shouldn't be surprised if the other person retaliates.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/14 07:15 PM
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Thank you! Yes, a man is not emotionally stable 100% of the time. Yes, a man sometimes cries. Yes a man may not control his feelings 100% of the time. But a man, a MAN, has control of himself when he needs control of himself. That idea gets downvoted here and I have no idea why. It's not putting all men in a narrow box, and if a person thinks that they're the ones with the faulty concept of a man.
/r/MensRights14/11/14 10:32 PM
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you could argue it's better for him to cry in private. I think this is what /u/leftajar meant by saying 'man up'. he was not able to control his emotions at that given moment Again, when he said 'man up' he most likely meant that the scientist should control his emotions then. And honestly, I agree with him. I'm just as MRA as everyone else here, but the signs of a MAN, a man's man, is one who has control of his emotions and doesn't cry in public over something like a t-shirt.
/r/MensRights14/11/14 09:12 PM
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Well since he's gay, I just figure all his songs are from the point of view of a gay man. So he's a gay blue pill dude.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 04:40 AM
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It's not so much as saying No as you giving a little defiance. In the book 'Pitch Anything', the author talks about frames (which we all know about) and one specific frame is called a 'power frame'. The person who believes they're superior to you hold the power and the frame. The best way to break down a power frame and gain control with your own frame is to defy that person, mostly through light humor. It could be a small joke at their expense, it could be 'negging' them, and a host of other th…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 11:04 PM
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I've had varying success with this line, just like every other line I've ever used. Some ladies are straight up cold no matter what I say. So guys: don't be surprised if a girl reacts with "oh really?", a gentle smile, and then turns away from you, never acknowledging you again. It happens, plain and simple.
/r/seduction12/10/14 07:25 PM
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Learn the doo-wop progression: I-vi-IV-V (G-Em-C-D, for example). This exact chord progression is found in Stand By Me, Unchained Melody, Earth Angel, Baby (by Justin Biever lol), All About That Bass, Friday (Rebecca Black lol), Wonderful World by Sam Cooke, etc. Of course the I-vi-IV-V aspect can change keys to fit your range. For example, in Stand By Me, if I play it in the key of G, the highest I'll sing is G above middle C, which for me is high. I'll play it in the key of E instead, so the p…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:45 AM
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Truth. I learned how to play Misery from Maroon 5 on acoustic and from some reason it draws people in. Here's the cover I learned it from: https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=Y72jnspw-74#t=24
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:33 AM
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I grew up fundamental Baptist. Dropped the fundamental part, and still attend a Baptist church, though I've found so much overlap between Baptist/Lutheran/Methodist/Presbyterian that it's pointless for me to choose one. However, some ideas seem to come almost straight out of the Bible, such as the husband being the head of his household, being primarily responsible for breadwinning, and the responsibility of both spouses to meet their partner's sexual needs. Truth. Men are the head of the househ…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 01:28 AM
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Cali is too big. Specify the city. I assume LA?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 06:43 PM
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This is why I'm not a fan of meeting girls at clubs. Girls who go there typically have a high partner count, which is what I don't want in a girl.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 06:18 PM
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Don't talk about it, be about it.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 11:42 PM
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What I want to know is, how awkward was it for you? Did you, like, actually know what you were doing? Did you do foreplay? Did she lead because you've never had sex before?
/r/askTRP03/10/14 08:54 AM
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This is my mindset: you have to risk being creepy, or rude, or disrespectful if you want to be good with interacting with people. My day job is sales, so I talk to people all day. My conversations with customers can't all be one huge release of dopamine, where I make the customer feel good about the product. I have to create tension as well by challenging the person, showing risk, consequences, etc. Drawing a parallel of this with pick up and seduction, you take jabs at her, challenge her, break…
/r/seduction28/09/14 03:45 AM
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One chick I banged, while doing foreplay with her, I told her I had this fantasy. "The first time I had sex, it was magical, it was perfect. I didn't know what I was doing, so the chick who deflowered me made it memorable by being so fucking dominant she practically made my dick sore for the next week. I want to fuck a girl who's dominant. Are you dominant?" She said yes. I said, "Good girl, let's try it.....later." I was saying this will kissing her entire body and all the foreplay moves. By th…
/r/askTRP28/09/14 03:39 AM
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I'm in freakin San Jose and cannot for the life of me get a single match. I need some help. I'm either not as attractive as I think I am (likely) or my pictures don't sell me (likely). If you can help, I'll PM tinder account pics.
/r/seduction27/09/14 06:38 AM
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Ugh, Tinder. I live in a huge metropolis and get like maybe one to three matches per week. And even then, maybe one every two weeks will respond to a message. Although, I only swipe hot white/Latina girls to the right because that what I'm attracted to (sorry, black/Asian girls, I find very few of you sexually attractive).
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 02:53 PM
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What if all the girls who do these things in my area are Asian and I'm not into Asians because small boobs and asses?
/r/askTRP03/09/14 01:25 AM
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Cunnilingus. Did you perform cunnilingus or did she do all the work? Seriously, unless you both were virgins, it was awkward and I'm dying to know how awkward it was.
/r/ThankTRP31/08/14 05:43 AM
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I just want to know if you pleased this chick as a virgin. Cunnilingus? Did you last longer than 5 minutes?
/r/ThankTRP31/08/14 01:58 AM
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...and I makeout with both of them. I lost you right here.
/r/trpGAME29/08/14 09:52 PM
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Geez, it really is all about frame.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 03:48 AM
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What about referring friends/family? I get not hiring them to be a subordinate, but what about alongside you, would you recommend that?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 08:24 PM
1

Is YouTube not playing this video properly for anyone else? It's keeping erroring out.
/r/MensRights29/07/14 06:04 PM
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Geez, that was more powerful the more I thought about it.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 02:27 PM
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I wish I could (actually I know I can, I just don't have a desperation to do it), but honestly San Jose is one of the best places to work, I have a great house I'm living in with other people, I'm saving a buttload of money, and I still do experience great nights every once in a while, even if it's with like 12 guys and 3 girls.
/r/seduction15/07/14 05:59 AM
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I'll pass on moving to NYC, it's already expensive living in the Bay. I don't want to move to the only place in the country that's EVEN MORE expensive.
/r/seduction14/07/14 08:52 AM
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Ain't that the troof. I've come to terms that there are two ways I can buy a house: (1) Hope for another Bay Area housing crash and buy at the perfect time, or (2) Move out of the Bay Area. 2 is my hope some day but I've only been two a few locations in the country that appeal to me. My ultimate aspiration is living on a ranch within several miles of the beach. I love surfing but I love the country.
/r/seduction14/07/14 02:54 AM
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early mid 20's is what I like to say lol
/r/seduction14/07/14 02:52 AM
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I do sales in the Silicon Valley. No official title but I do the same work like whatever other sales people are called - Sales Rep, Account Executive, etc.
/r/seduction14/07/14 01:55 AM
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The thing is that I'm quite sociable. My job is sales which required me to pick up people skills and having good conversation with people. Also I'm not a fan of that subreddit because the people who go there to me seem like autistic introverts, which I'm not. I do have friends at work and we hang out a lot, but the ones who are cool are the ones who are in relationships (whether married or not), and they're - for the sake of a better word - geeks (like Silicon Valley tech geeks, because that's w…
/r/seduction14/07/14 01:52 AM
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Went to community college at 19, at the same time started a Roth IRA, got a part time at 20 during college, liked job, became full time four years later, deferred college (still deferred), stayed at company and got raises up the ass. Lived with parents entire time until recently. Money doesn't make the women come (giggity) in my opinion. I work at it by going out to bars and shit, but again, the guys I'm with we all cockblock each other. There's one friend I have in particular who invite to part…
/r/seduction14/07/14 01:33 AM
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Doing it now. early 20s yr old with $90k in assets. Still can't get woman because the people in my social life are just bros who also worry about their lack of women.
/r/seduction13/07/14 10:29 PM
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I'm not a sexist but this apple pie is delicious.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 02:11 AM
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Anyone who advises penis enlargement devices/pills becomes extremely suspect. GLL does, and some of his videos seem scripted and he's always wearing a bandana so he comes across as a frat bro who is longing to go back to his frat but is ten years removed.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 03:30 AM
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Preach on. Never 'kiss and tell' about your previous sexual conquests (or lack of) to anyone you sleep with or want to sleep with. Odds are it won't end well for you. If you MUST be honest just sugarcoat with, "A man never kisses and tells, but I won't lie, I'm experiencing a dry spell - haven't had much luck recently."
/r/seduction06/06/14 06:51 AM
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I'd rather live in a libertarian society than any other alternative. And before you say it, Somalia isn't a libertarian society. Fuckwad. Go suck a dick.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 06:05 AM
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People will say, "Focus on yourself. Do cool things. Believe that you're the prize." While that's true, if you were to go out tonight, that won't help you. The best conversations I've had with both guys and girls are just regular flowing conversations about commonalities. We're talking about our first corporate job, the personalities we encounter, our bosses, etc. If you were to go out tonight, you need to focus on asking good questions, because questions lead to qualifying the girl. Is this gir…
/r/seduction24/05/14 05:37 PM
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I live in the Bay Area and I hate the Meetup groups. All the early-twenties people are either Indian-dominant or Asian-dominant. Is that racist to say? Maybe, depends on how PC you want to be. But I prefer diversity, and it's funny that living in the Bay Area you'd expect it, but no it's mainly a bunch of Asians who go on Meetups in the Bay Area unless it's a super non-Asian activity like snowboarding or something.
/r/seduction24/05/14 08:21 AM
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What's your height?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 05:20 AM
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aaaaand your picture is a deer getting shot in the brain. [nsfw] people.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 10:22 PM
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Smart Powders
/r/trpGAME18/05/14 01:16 AM
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I've been trying noopept recently. Wasn't feeling anything at 10mg, and tried 20mg yesterday. Still nothing.
/r/trpGAME18/05/14 12:48 AM
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Ugh, this guy is so annoying. Who keeps posting his videos?
/r/seduction04/05/14 10:59 PM
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I live in a large metropolis and my only matches are 4's and 5's. I haven't had anywhere near an 8 or higher in a loooong time. I even have that 'hot match of the day' added to my main picture and it only entices more of the 4's and 5's.
/r/seduction01/05/14 08:54 PM
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That's a hilarious one, actually.
/r/seduction22/04/14 04:18 AM
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IDK, I haven't fully downloaded the torrent yet
/r/seduction16/04/14 07:57 PM
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thepiratebay.se/torrent/9651606/PIMP_by_RSD_Julien‎
/r/seduction16/04/14 06:33 PM
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Yeah on one of the torrent webpages for PIMP, Julien made a post and only asked for a small donation if possible. Having that attitude makes me actually WANT to buy the product.
/r/seduction16/04/14 03:04 PM
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After doing my own search, yeah I figured that was the one. I managed to find a torrent for it, so I plan on downloading it later today.
/r/seduction16/04/14 02:32 PM
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Is it free and do you have a link?
/r/seduction16/04/14 06:51 AM
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There's a lot of truth in Proverbs and the words of Jesus Christ.
/r/seduction09/04/14 03:06 AM
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This is something I know, but don't know how to put it in practice. I have an amazing job, but when I come home after, I work out at home, and that's it. I have friends, but they're either married or work swing shift in opposite of my schedule. I have no friends remaining from college, which was two years ago. They're all moved away, married, or whom I've purposely kept out of contact. I don't know what to do anymore.
/r/seduction22/03/14 02:38 AM
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I did. I don't many pictures of myself, so I don't have any flattering pics.
/r/seduction19/03/14 01:40 AM
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"you better get your butt up." Was she asking you for a booty call?
/r/seduction24/02/14 12:32 AM
3

You're over-complicating this.
/r/seduction18/02/14 05:10 AM
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BUT WHAT IF YOU LIVE IN A SUBURB WITH THE CLOSEST DIVE BAR 2 MILES AWAY AND IT SUCKS?
/r/seduction26/01/14 02:45 AM
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At the risk of getting downvoting just by agreeing with the other dude, I did not think you were Asian either. Perhaps you're a half-breed like myself. Half-breeds are always goodlooking people ;)
/r/seduction28/12/13 08:59 PM
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Ignore it. If someone tells me to shut up, unless I deserve to be quiet, I don't even acknowledge it.
/r/seduction28/12/13 08:40 PM
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My text game sucks. I've read all the Text Game articles on here and I can never get girls to schedule lunch, dates, etc. Multiple times, I've been able to get a solid Thursday or something for lunch. But then I text the next day or so confirming, and she doesn't text back. I'll text the day before, no response. This has happened four times since October. Girls literally just stop texting me back. I do not develop comfort or rapport over text. I only use text to schedule things to meet. I have a…
/r/seduction10/12/13 02:47 AM
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When you say 'post-college', I'm assuming you're referring to 22 - 26 year old? Concerts are a gold mine, particularly country and that EDM shit they call music. Indoor rock climbing, although that's more late twenties, early thirties than post college grads. Bars tend to bring certain demographics. Some bars tend to bring the post college crowd. I don't know where you live but in my area, particular bars are perfect for post college, others for punk rockers, others for jazz, etc.
/r/seduction12/11/13 01:41 AM
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Tinder is super buggy right now. You can't even change your pictures because of how buggy it is. Also, my keyboard tends to put 2 'o's when I press on 'o' once. Not sure if it's the keyboard's fault or the computer's.
/r/seduction09/11/13 02:03 AM
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I don't know but it's sad that her boobs are nonexistent.
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:08 AM
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Can you provide an example conversation?
/r/seduction09/10/13 01:22 AM
1

My problem is the girl won't text back at all! I had a good first impression, text her a couple days later to meet up X location, no response. Text her a second time, inviting her out, she can't make it. Wait a week, text her inviting her out again, no response. Mind you, literally inviting girls out are the only reasons I text them.
/r/seduction04/10/13 01:24 AM
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A girl who I hit it off with really well two weeks ago doesn't even respond to my text messages. She's only gotten back to me on two of four texts. I'm thinking of inviting her out one more time, and if she doesn't respond, nexting her? Is this a good approach? Should I call her?
/r/seduction02/10/13 01:51 AM
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Sales and Pickup parallel each other a lot: Generating interest - show what your value is via banter, wit, storytelling, etc. In sales, it's a trial run, presentation, video reviews, etc. Qualifying - Is the girl even a right fit for you? Is the customer a right fit for your business? Ask the right questions. Get to know them more to find out. Closing - Get a commitment from them for a next step, whether it be a Monday lunch date or an appointment with the CEO. Always Be Closing!
/r/seduction21/09/13 07:06 AM
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The BIGGEST factor when I did OKC was my profile picture. For the longest time, I had a face only picture of me smiling. I like to think I'm a decent looking guy, but when I had it has my profile pic, I was getting 3 visits a week. Then I changed it to myself in a fitted suit, from the stomach up with a pocket square and sunglasses. I looked like a badass if I can say so myself. I started getting 3 visits A DAY, at the least, and even some inbound messages were being sent to me.
/r/seduction20/09/13 01:53 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction25/08/13 01:49 AM
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Mystery Method still works. I use it as a template. I don't give a shit about negs, though. I do tease, I use stories, I use games, etc. But most importantly, that method helped me fake confidence until I actually gained confidence.
/r/seduction17/08/13 01:38 AM
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Correct.
/r/seduction13/08/13 06:32 PM
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Because I think she 'likes' me, but those feelings are requited, and I don't want to lead her on in that sense. But I do want to keep her as a friend, I just don't want to take her out to lunch, me and her. I'm cool with other social settings, just not use two only.
/r/seduction13/08/13 06:12 PM
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I guess I worded it horribly. I got this girl's # this past weekend, but I was drunk. I saw a picture of her, and I don't think she's pretty. This is very vain, I know, but I don't want to take her out to lunch. I'd like to keep her as a friend, but I don't want to set up a lunch date.
/r/seduction13/08/13 05:45 PM
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I don't even want to go to lunch with her. She texted me first.
/r/seduction13/08/13 01:31 AM
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In a drunken state over the weekend, I got the number of a chick who I don't really want to see anymore. I got a text from her saying, "Are we really going to lunch or was that just the drunk talking?" I'm not sure what to say to this. I don't want to just say, "Yeah, it was the drunk talking. I don't want to go to lunch." I'd rather keep her as a friend because she was really cool, but I don't want to take her on a date or bang her.
/r/seduction13/08/13 12:38 AM
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Can you get more info from your friend, like his initial message and how quickly he asks for #'s?
/r/seduction05/08/13 06:50 AM
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Bro do you even vulnerable?
/r/seduction01/08/13 06:55 AM
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I don't go to loud clubs, because you can't talk to women. A large part of my routine is telling stories and playing games. You can't do that when the music is overpowering my voice. Is it possible? Yes, but it's not my niche and I don't have the skillset for it. I'll stay at the karaoke bars and lounges.
/r/seduction27/07/13 02:15 AM
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My issue with seddit is that pretty much every non-FR post that is upvoted is all about inner game. WTF happened to outer game posts? You can have all the inner game in the world, but if you if you don't know how to establish rapport and comfort and, you know, actually seduce women, you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/seduction20/07/13 01:34 AM
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Regarding night game: What are some good ways to transition a girl from isolation at the venue to your place, and if the transition doesn't work due to objections (I barely know you, my friend is my ride, etc), a way for the girl to remember you through her intoxication and potential next-day hangover?
/r/seduction16/07/13 02:02 AM
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I think the girls have disqualified themselves if they say 'I don't know' to the question "What do you want to do instead?" Move on to the next one, unless you're looking for sex rather than a relationship. The whole point of qualification is to find some compatibility with the person, which can be as simple as their hobbies. "You're fit, so you obviously go the gym. That's probably your number one hobby, huh?" She might agree, she might bring up an actual hobby, like hiking or fashion or someth…
/r/seduction13/07/13 07:32 AM
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In my experience with socializing with girls, they've already invested enough in you up to the point where you want to qualify them, and they typically don't turn the question around on you. Because if they do that, that means you haven't generated enough attraction and interest. Honestly, a simple qualification question can be, "So anything exciting happen in your life?" They can mention their work, a recent vacation, etc. And from there that gives you wiggle room into their personality. "How d…
/r/seduction13/07/13 07:17 AM
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A natural look is from a buddy of mine: http://i.imgur.com/od9zFg2.jpg?1 Slight squint, slight pursed lips, facing looking a little down but eyes up. Or, it could be because he's just a good looking guy.
/r/seduction08/07/13 08:58 PM
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Thanks, and I do own a car. Honestly, I'm saving sooo much money each month due to not paying rent. My car is old so the insurance is $400 PER YEAR. My parents don't charge me rent, but they are very conservative, and they give me a curfew of 12:30-1am. But when I have to wake up at 6am the next day for work, I rarely stay out late anyway.
/r/seduction08/07/13 08:49 PM
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Does living with my parents make me a loser in the eyes of women (I'm 23)? What if I need to stay home to pay off student loans? What if it just doesn't seem worth it to me to move out yet, considering it's the Bay Area and rent would be at the least $800 (fuck the East Bay, I'm not moving there)? I feel like more and more young people my age still live with their parents, so should I look at moving out? I don't want to stay with my parents till I get married, but you'd be surprised by the numbe…
/r/seduction08/07/13 08:40 PM
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I would ask you in return, "I don't know, what about me makes me interesting to you?"
/r/seduction19/05/13 06:56 AM
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How long did you last, considering it was your first time?
/r/seduction21/04/13 12:19 AM
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That show is not real, people. The dude who won is a legitimate actor in Hollywood. The nerdy 50-year old virgin dude who lost early is a comedian. It's fake.
/r/seduction02/03/13 11:52 PM
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Hey everyone, we got a hostile atheist over here.
/r/seduction26/12/12 05:59 AM
5

I'm dressing up as Hot Rod Kimble from the movie Hot Rod. 2 Legit 2 Quit!
/r/seduction09/10/12 05:07 AM
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Where do you live? In San Jose (since I live in the Bay Area), there's this thing called Dynamic Sports & Social Club. It's basically an organization of several team sports where the teams go drinking after. This is a perfect way to build a social network. You become friends with your teammates, get their phone numbers, friend them on Facebook, etc. Then you become friends with their friends, and so on. Do something like that. Join a league, start a hobby. Use Meetup.com.
/r/seduction14/06/12 11:19 PM
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To me, attraction is not a choice. I can't force myself to be attracted to a girl. So I don't choose the girls, in that sense. The ones I choose to approach are the ones I'm attracted to. And even then, I obviously don't approach every single girl that I'm attracted to. There a few qualifiers to approaching, like if she's available to open a conversation and things.
/r/seduction20/05/12 01:00 AM
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You asked for an opener. I gave it to you. After that, you need to use your conversational skills to produce...well, conversation.
/r/seduction20/05/12 12:58 AM
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"Do you know where X is?"
/r/seduction19/05/12 08:25 PM
1

from The Michael Scott Story by Michael Scott, with Dwight Schrute
/r/seduction16/05/12 12:15 AM
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San Diego isn't Man Diego and Los Angeles is definitely not Los Mangeles, plenty of ladies in SoCal.
/r/seduction17/03/12 03:50 AM
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It looks like he jizzed in his pants.
/r/seduction08/03/12 09:50 PM
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This is a great FR. I like reading other fellow college student's experiences here (mainly because /r/UniSeddit is lacking in threads).
/r/seduction15/02/12 04:04 AM
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The Handshake Routine Video You perform different types of handshakes that involve handshakes, pounds, and whatever. The 5 Questions Game by Neil Strauss Video
/r/seduction22/01/12 12:04 AM
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Adam Lyons had the Robot Hands. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BFOW5Kwe62M&feature=player_embedded I have the girls move their hands to the rhythm of the song being played in the bar/club. It's even better when there's a third party watching and you have them and yourself laugh at the girl. It breaks rapport, they get a little embarrassed, and they laugh. Unlike what Adam Lyons says, I wouldn't do it in the middle of the dance floor because there never is room to do it there.
/r/seduction13/01/12 04:35 AM
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Contortion is a fetish of mine. I wish to marry a girl like Lilia Stepanova (Google her) or Zlata (YouTube her). And a girl having both her feet behind her head is one of the biggest turn ons for me. If I just see a girl in that pose, I almost pass out because the blood rushes to my penis so freakin' fast. Example of THE pose where, if I know of a girl who can do this, I will marry her on the spot: http://i.imgur.com/bhJUY.jpg
/r/seduction12/01/12 02:02 AM
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"Sometimes I'll start a sentence, and I don't even know where it's going. I just hope I find it along the way. Like an improv conversation. An improversation" - Michael Scott That's the joke.
/r/seduction09/01/12 05:08 PM
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An improv conversation.
/r/seduction09/01/12 09:10 AM
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Noticed that as well. I remember going to Downtown San Jose, CA, and was pleasantly surprised when I noticed that the 3 bars I hopped to were 99% Asian. I asked someone where all the other ethnicities are and he said, "You must not be from around here. Asians love downtown SJ. If you want to hang with white and black people, you should've gone to San Francisco."
/r/seduction12/12/11 01:39 AM
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Yeah it won't matter In the long run, but I'm glad my first kiss was awesome as it was.
/r/seduction03/11/11 03:34 PM
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My first kiss was Hollywood-like. Not the setting, but the build-up and moment was. Just sayin'.
/r/seduction02/11/11 03:26 AM
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I have a lot of ideas: Antoine Dobson Wear a blue or orange suit a la Dumb and Dumber Robin Hood Zorro Daniel Craig from Cowboys vs Aliens (with the gauntlet on the arm) Tom Cruise in Top Gun Captain America Aside from the first two, I'd like to do something macho.
/r/seduction19/10/11 08:28 PM
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Barney Stinson's Platinum Rule: Never ever ever "love" your neighbor. "Neighbor" being people you see on a regular basis and that, if you break up, still have to be around (co-workers, roommates, etc). Barney also mentions what someone else said already: Don't poop where you eat.
/r/seduction17/10/11 05:34 PM
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If they have obvious physical deformity, like a weird nose or small boobs (not really a deformity) Tourette's, astigmatism, etc. A self-conscious trait, like a bad hair day, bad-looking feet, etc. Rape, molestation, etc. Their weight and acne problems
/r/seduction27/08/11 07:47 PM
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Near me, a group of guys started a 2-nights-a-week dodgeball event where 200 people show up each night. I tell my friends this and they think it's lame when it's actually quite intense. I'm trying to display this as interesting but I'm at loss.
/r/seduction06/08/11 04:07 AM
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