bossgoblin23 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I hate how much more power women have No one will desire you if you're so desperate that your identity lies in their desire for you. You should find something that gives you worth, that would also provide value for the woman	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/22 05:06 PM
1	I hate how much more power women have from the post and comments you've written, you seem determined and set in stone. The energy that you send out to the world is the energy you will receive. If you see woman as just objects, then that's how its going to look like in the world. You gotta change your perspective because this is not only unhealthy for you but for others too. If every man was to see woman as just objects for our own pleasure, and their value comes from sex only, bruh like i don't know what to say man. And how are you …	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/22 04:24 PM
2	What is the point in being in a relationship? I also like your second paragraph. Those are some reasons why I seek a relationship. When you talk about knowing the things we want in a partner, do you think I should just keep looking until I find someone who fills those boxes? I've never found anyone who's got it all, and I don't even think my standards are that high. What are your thoughts on finding someone who maybe doesn't have it all, but you grow together and eventually they check off the boxes? And im not saying that women have to be l…	/r/ExRedPill	05/12/22 03:54 AM
1	What is the point in being in a relationship? Hey Im just reading ur comments and theyre just really eye opening. I'm starting to try to understand relationships and love lately. I don't think I've ever felt "in love" before (I'm 20), and I always wonder like when am I gonna find someone that just ticks off the boxes, you know? It's honestly really crazy to me that I haven't found someone that I find attractive while also having those good traits. Do you think I have to lower my standards, or just be more patient and keep looking? Maybe lik…	/r/ExRedPill	05/12/22 03:46 AM
1	What is the point in being in a relationship? Yo you said this really well, this makes a lot of sense. I have partially the problem that OP has, in that maybe by standards of beauty/attractiveness is too high (might be from porn/media from when I was younger ehhh I wish I never saw that crap), but I do place high standards on personality/character. I want my partner to be someone I can be energized by and be a role model for my children, that can't be done if she is one of those party girls always seeking for validation. I'm trying to find …	/r/ExRedPill	05/12/22 03:37 AM
2	What do you think of the channel Relearning Relationships? Yeah the idea of self improvement is 100% great. Of course its good to try to improve ourselves. But the reason behind it is key. He says he's not afraid to say improves for women. And that's not a bad thing! I want to improve myself to be better prepared for relationship in future. The problem is his lens of women from red pill. He says she should be obsessed all the time, always thinking about the man. That just sounds like the woman is dependent/desperate. This is just one example I keep hear…	/r/ExRedPill	05/12/22 03:07 AM
2	Is it actually critical to maintain “masculine frame”? "I think the real issue occurs when we start being defined by a relationship instead of refined by it." amazing quote	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/22 06:11 PM
3	What do you think of the channel Relearning Relationships? Hamza was pretty decent before, but now his channel seems to be all about self improvement for women and red pill. It's like some fantasy sort of thing where once you improve yourself, you will find the perfect girl and then life will be amazing. That's not how life or relationships work...	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/22 06:07 PM
1	Tips for guy going to bar for first time? (21m) If it's ur first time drinking and all, just don't go overboard man. You should be asking yourself as well as your partner WHY you want to get "hammered". Might find some deeper truths. But at the end of the day, I'm not here to stop you, just give you some food for thought. If you do go, have fun and just be careful in bed while drunk	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/22 04:52 PM
3	Redpillers constantly say that women are "attracted to guys that are willing to walk away." I think that guys shouldn't be so attached and desperate that they cling to a girl that's showing red flags. That's why it's better to have guys that can walk away from those problems, because they know their value and worth, and don't have time to waste on girls that are playing games, not bringing value to the relationship. But sometimes red pill says how it's good that a guy is trying to always act like he can just walk away, and doesn't care too much for a girl that is actually a good one. T…	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/22 04:47 PM
2	Do I need a six pack to be attractive? Workout for health benefits. Attractiveness is a great benefit as well, but it's not the sole reason why someone would want to be with you. Work on other aspects of your life too!! And definitely if you're crying and it's causing you this much pain, then something is definitely wrong. Maybe try doing exercise/physical activity that is fun for you and not so much of a chore.	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/22 04:42 PM