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| 1 | For everybody wondering about halloween costumes, check this dude's costume- link to comment thead | Fun Games | bossmcsauce | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 03:45 AM |
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| 7 | Let's talk Halloween Costumes.this guy... brilliant. Why didn't I think of being a stripper... | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 04:35 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First Night with a Wing, Short-Setting the Hell out of the VenueThat awkward moment when you realize you're trying to flirt with a minor. Feels bad man. I had that moment once, except she didn't tell me she was in high school until she had turned around on the dance floor and made out with me for about the last 10 minutes of this concert.... I was not happy. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Wear anything and feel good about it [inner game]I bought this pair of super skinny khaki-colored jeans for BMX riding, and they aren't my style, and I've always been a little self-conscious about how skinny my legs are. They are hilariously tight, but I wore them out on campus when I was out riding around, and just took on the "Fuck the haters" attitude about it, and felt a lot better. | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 11:22 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Part 2 - The First DateLots of good wines on here, and all very affordable. Don't be fooled by the prices of wine, and think that it has to be at all expensive to be good. Little to no correlation between price of a wine and how much you might enjoy it. One that is starting to become pretty common in grocery stores, and is in the $8-$10, and VERY tasty, is Apothic Red. It's one of my favorite sub-$15 wines, and it's a mix of several grapes, and has cocoa undertones. All the women I've introduced it to love it. | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Seriously considering going out by myself for the first time. (I've never even approached anyone before)I find that being alone makes it so much easier to approach girls I don't know. Nobody you know is watching, and you are free to go wherever you want, and don't have to worry about leaving your friends. Nobody is going to distract you. It's the way to go. | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 11:03 PM |
| 1 | The "Go Big or Go Home" Momenton the real... | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 03:23 AM |
| 0 | The "Go Big or Go Home" MomentI face-palmed so hard... | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 03:23 AM |
| 2 | How to gain social capital in collegeI recognize that not all people involved with greek life are like I described, but on my campus, a large majority of them are really just weak, scared people who gave up their individuality to fit in with a group that will make them "socially successful". Regardless of what the members of these houses are like, the greek life system is alienating, and it's elitist, which is why I am against it. It divides the student body. Something I hear all to often around campus as I pass by people talking b… | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 01:46 PM |
| 7 | How to gain social capital in collegeAlso a convenient way to weed out the people who don't have any money. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 04:09 AM |
| 27 | How to gain social capital in collegeI hate the notion of greek-life... it's fucking elitist, whether they realize it or not, and it's alienating. I would be in a frat if I had less self-respect, and could afford it. I watched a lot of my friends go through all the bullshit last year, and it was sickening. Having to put up with being treated like garbage just to be accepted by a group of people who are no better than yourself is absolute lunacy. I realize not all frats are like this, but the point remains that if you can't afford i… | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 03:00 AM |
| 1 | How to initiate kino with a table between the two of you?Yeah, cooking a meal with/for a girl is a damn good way to build some attraction. Personally, I don't have any interest in a girl who doesn't appreciate that. I need to get my house in order soon though before I can bring any women back there... it looks like white-trash central at the moment, due to workout equipment sitting in the driveway, and a bunch of yardsale shit under a tarp, ALSO in the driveway... there's also a sink basin that my mom wanted to have put in in the kitchen, but I inform… | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 09:28 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The girl next doorI am of the opinion that so long as everybody is honest, and relatively up-front about their intentions, and nobody gets their feelings hurt, it's all good. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 08:50 PM |
| 2 | What are some common hoops to present women?I think there is a fine line between "here can you hold this for me", especially if it's a drink, and a girl walking all over you. Something happened in between... There is some sort of disconnect. My advice is this- If a girl asks you to hold something for her for a short time, and it's not heavy, or she wants you to watch something of hers for a minute in public, you might as well do it. It shows she trusts you with her things. The buying a drink thing is risky though, because there's a good c… | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 08:28 PM |
| 3 | I suck at dancing, any good advice?How come Will Smith looks so much more fly doing that dance than I do? oh right... he's Will Smith. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 08:19 PM |
| 1 | I suck at dancing, any good advice?yeah, have a drink or two, then go to some dubstep concert. Fun times... I don't listen to the stuff outside of shows, but any time there's a big name at a venue in my college town, I try to go. They really are a blast when the attendance is good, and you're in the right mindset. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Getting laid vs. getting a girlfriend.Yeah, my concern is just that we might end up there faster than I mean to, and I don't want to jump straight into sex when she's fresh out of a long relationship for two reasons- I don't want her to feel like I'm taking advantage of the rebound, and secondly, I don't want to BE the rebound. I want to be around for a while, not just a couple of weeks for the sex while she's getting over her previous relationship. I've been down this road before, and it didn't work out how I want it to go this tim… | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 08:14 PM |
| 9 | [FR] The girl next door"sexual morals" is something that has always made me mad. The idea of it is just so archaic, and makes me feel like I live in some Puritan settlement straight out of 'The Scarlet Letter'. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 05:39 PM |
| 3 | How to initiate kino with a table between the two of you?If you are thinking of going out to eat, just eat in. Cook that girl a meal, or even better, cook a meal WITH her. both get your hands dirty, hella kino all up in the workspace. It's fun, even if neither of you are great cooks, plus, it makes you look like a baller, 'cause women love a guy who can prepare them a good meal. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Getting laid vs. getting a girlfriend.This whole 'get laid vs get a girlfriend' thing has me all fucked up, cause I am currently planning on pursuing something a little more long-term with this girl I met recently, and I don't want to rush the 'getting laid' shit, because the last girl I jumped straight into it with didn't really ever become anything more than a casual hookup. Basically, this girl just came out of a relationship pretty recently, and I don't want to come in and do some rebound fucking, and then screw things up due to… | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you ACTUALLY ask a girl out?Some of my favorites are taking the girl for a relaxed pace daytime hike to this state park that is a 10 minute drive from downtown, and since it's a college town, most people who live here haven't ever been there. It's a beautiful park, and I know lots of cool little places there. It lets me be totally in charge of our fates, and she has to trust that I can find our way back to the car. Another is just having a girl over, and cooking dinner either for her, or together. Like, ACTUALLY cooking a … | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 02:54 PM |
| 2 | How Do YOU meet people? I'm 23/F with social anxiety. I have no friends, and I'm SO bored with my routine life. Advice?It won't solve your problems, but it will get your blood flowing and clear your mind. It's just a nice little exercise to do when you're trying to feel comfortable in your skin. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Once you get them back to your bedroom...HELP(first post)I was fingering this girl once, and she damn near crushed my knuckles.. Like that asshole guy who always gives you too hard of a squeeze when shaking your hand... but rather by orgasmic contraction... | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Once you get them back to your bedroom...HELP(first post)Don't lie and tell her you weren't thinking about it- firstly, it's dishonest, and secondly, it will probably make her feel weird for having jumped to conclusions. Tell her it's ok, and that you don't want her do do anything that makes her uncomfortable instead. This should make her feel safe, because she has temporarily denied you something that was on your 'to-do' list, and you demonstrate that it's ok. It shows her that you respect her wishes, and lets her know that you are considerate. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 01:58 AM |
| 0 | Once you get them back to your bedroom...HELP(first post)give her some neck kisses, slowly pull the bottom of her shirt up and leave little peck-kisses up her stomach towards her boobs, then stray away, and meet her lips again... tease a little, but not too much. half the time spend lip-to-lip, the rest spent "grazing" making progress and pushing the boundaries on each pass. eventually, you will get so close to her crouch that she will be dying of anticipation, and probably escalate the rest of the way for you. Remain in control, but maintain the noti… | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Once you get them back to your bedroom...HELP(first post)Really disgusted by all the comments here that are generally giving off the vibe of "you have to just mess with their head to get the to put out". Sometimes you just need to let them know it's ok, and don't be a fucking child about it, pouting and "freezing her out" when she doesn't want to let you put your dick in her. Let her know it's alright, continue as normal, aside from the whole 'actually having sex' thing, and if she changes her mind and she's feeling it, it will become clear... | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Once you get them back to your bedroom...HELP(first post)My thought's exactly. sound's like a serious case of date-rape coming on here... sometimes a girl just wants to get a little intimate and get to know you a bit more before she gets a dicking. It's fun to get handsy, and can still be fun even if you just leave it at that. Personally, as a guy, I prefer to just finger a girl, and not bother with getting a handjob... Let's be real here for a second; We can do it way better than they can... That being said, I'm not one to turn it down, but, but I wo… | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Once you get them back to your bedroom...HELP(first post)I've been here with this girl I had a casual regular hookup with for a while. "I can't have sex with you right now...", she told me as I was on top of her bringing her shirt up and kissing her up her stomach as I went. I dropped what I was doing, smiled real big and went back up to be level with her eye to eye, kissed her lightly, with one hand on her neck/behind her ear sort of, and told her "I don't expect you to. I don't want you to do anything that you're not yet comfortable with." I nuzzled… | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 01:37 AM |
| -1 | "All you ever want to do is have sex!"does your boyfriend like girls? | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Why don't I feel anything when I hook up with girls?I'm all libido, little game. We should combine our powers. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 12:53 PM |
| 5 | How Do YOU meet people? I'm 23/F with social anxiety. I have no friends, and I'm SO bored with my routine life. Advice?Yeah, I watched the video. She made some good points, but I don't agree with all of it. That being said, it feels good. It' can't hurt any, and since there is no tried and true cure for social anxiety, she might as well do it. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 12:48 PM |
| 5 | Grabbed her ass and kind of regret it.I know that's probably the usual case, but it's just something society and the media has taught me to be wary of. Growing up in the states has made me paranoid about being sued for pretty much anything and everything, since apparently it's decidedly the best way to hand issues... | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 12:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Campus Library Day Game.yeah. Not that creepy. Pretty well known for it's journalism. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 12:45 PM |
| 1 | How Do YOU meet people? I'm 23/F with social anxiety. I have no friends, and I'm SO bored with my routine life. Advice?can't hurt. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 12:45 PM |
| 7 | When girls touch you all sneakily under the tableextend your index finger, and jab her one in the side of the neck. bam. done. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 04:53 AM |
| 8 | Grabbed her ass and kind of regret it.because growing up in america has taught us to fear civil suits as a result of sexual deviancy. That shit will fuck you up, and get you stripped of your student loans. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 04:49 AM |
| 4 | How Do YOU meet people? I'm 23/F with social anxiety. I have no friends, and I'm SO bored with my routine life. Advice?Power pose in the morning, or any time you're alone basically. Stretch your arms up as high as you can, and take up as much space as you can. Hold it for a few minutes; feel big and powerful. Assume posture like you're the boss. It just makes you feel better over a period of time. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 04:46 AM |
| 1 | How do I know when I'm being myself?Quite. I was trying to get at this, but you've stated it in a more clear manner. When I talk about knowing what you're excited for, I sort of mean what you've said here about being happy with what you have- Happy for what you have in the near future, or things that you already know you can attain, like lunch, or a nap, haha. I believe that I currently have some of those things I mentioned, because they are regular occurances in my life, regardless of if they are actually happening in the present… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 11:08 PM |
| -2 | Halloween advice? costumes, routines, and tipsyou... I see what you did there.. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 02:44 PM |
| 2 | What to do on loud dancefloors?I go to a lot of concerts with repetitive, bass-heavy music, and it's great for this sort of thing. People are getting in trances, gyrating to the music; everybody is touching everyone else due to how crowded it is. I just get close enough to her that as we move independently, there is brief contact between the front of my body, and the back of hers, and if she doesn't stray away or turn around like "wtf", then you sort make some intentional contact, and see if she sorta pushes herself back into… | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 05:10 AM |
| 3 | How do I know when I'm being myself?Grats on quitting the drugs man. I know the feels of weed you speak of. feels bad. I don't smoke at all anymore unless I'm by myself, or hanging with one or two of my closest guy friends kickin it in the back yard or something. It makes me so edgy and uncomfortable in any sort of social or public situation, unless it's like, SUPER public in some crowded area, and then I don't care so much about people, because everybody just becomes the crowd. In any case, I think I'm starting to figure our who … | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 04:55 AM |
| 2 | How to pickup without wordsI was just talking to my roommate today about how I need to learn to partner dance so i can give some fine women the lady-tingles. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Increasing sexual tension via text...It must be a european thing... | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Increasing sexual tension via text...If you've kissed before, go for it; if not, don't bother. It can be great if you've already had a couple good dates, and it's a surefire thing. I can't give you any advice unfortunately, since it's so dependent on the situation, and it relies a lot on your cleverness at wordplay. If you are witty, it should be easy enough. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Simple and basic approach strategy in public transportI wish cigarettes weren't so disgusting and socially stigmatized... Back in the 60's and 70's it must have been awesome to be able to offer a cig to a girl, then stand there and smoke them together and chitchat. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 04:16 AM |
| 1 | How to pickup without wordsI need to take some salsa classes... fuck. I'm trying to hook up with this girl who apparently is very into dance. I'm hoping its partner dance, and that she can teach me. That would be awesome... two birds stoned at once. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 04:13 AM |
| 1 | The two easiest ways to ruin your game--next time you're in the field and not having the best of luck, see if you're doing either of these two things.I do both of these all the time. It's not just limited to my interactions with girls or other people my age either. It's been something I've always done as soon as I was old enough to talk really. I've always been very stoic and contemplative, picking my words very carefully and trying to be professional in all facets of my life. I got to college, and realized that I was on a track to depression and loneliness. It's turning around now, but it's a lot of habitual behavior to reverse. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 04:03 AM |
| 6 | The two easiest ways to ruin your game--next time you're in the field and not having the best of luck, see if you're doing either of these two things.alcohol. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 04:01 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Campus Library Day Game.The last few days on campus have been pretty decent. I've met a couple girls, one I decided I'm not the least bit interested in anymore, and another that might be girlfriend material. Going for a hike soon. good shit. | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 03:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Campus Library Day Game.I need to start doing this. My library is pretty optimal for this sort of stuff. My school is a large state University renowned for it's journalism school, and it had 30,000 students total. Lots of good looking girls about. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Building attraction and escalating a relationship, by talking about death.Let the addiction begin. You need a system of chance and randomness too... | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 09:26 PM |
| 2 | First k-close and f-close ever on the same night!Awkwardness on a first date!? who would have guessed... lol But really, the whole kissing thing is a lot easier than people make it out to be. Honestly, I don't know how people can fuck it up as bad as a lot of people do. Just mimic her technique, since everybody has their own preference, and it usually can't go bad from there. It was so weird when I first made out with a girl post-breakup after my first serious girlfriend, and realized that people kiss very differently from one another. Also, t… | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 09:01 PM |
| 3 | How do you make small talk with strangers?It's crazy how easy it is to come up with questions to ask when you actually listen to what somebody is saying... lol. who would have thought... | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 08:53 PM |
| 32 | How do you make small talk with strangers?"Are you expecting any company?" "no, I don't think so" "surprise." | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 08:52 PM |
| 1 | For those of you in college.The boss is still polite and considerate. He has feelings too. I don't want to disrupt somebody's studying. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Seduction in the workplace?don't even shit in the barn where the trough is. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 01:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Hair Cut TrialWedding should be fun. Lots of women there who will probably be feeling the stress and pressure to meet a fun guy... | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 01:44 AM |
| 4 | What are good Screening Techniques for Logistics & How DTF women are?"slut" is the worst thing to happen to people being comfortable with their sexuality since Puritans came to America. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 01:04 AM |
| 1 | A gold mine this time of the year...dark, strobes, loud noises... shits fucking startling to the max. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:52 AM |
| 9 | For those of you in college.I would like to try this. I'm afraid they are just going to be pissed off that I broke their concentration on studying for something important.. lol. Probably unrealistic fear, considering how I would react if I was sitting in the library, bored as fuck, and some girl approached me... | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:41 AM |
| 1 | How much do you usually spend on dates and what do you typically do?Taking girls on nice hikes in a beautiful state park is not to be overlooked. picnic it up. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Was at a party last night, opened a girl, and everything was going well. Out of nowhere some douche swoops in and literally blocks me from talking to her. How can I handle these situations?yeah, I don't think it is good to be all possessive like it sounds like he was doing, by blocking everybody else out, but for sure a "Hey man, we are having a conversation here. Do you mind...", would have been good. I often have failed in the same way as OP due to concern of coming across as possessive. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 11:03 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Whisper to Girls While Dancing On a Loud Dance floor?In a situation like grinding on a girl from behind and loud music, chances are the music is super repetitive and makes you get all zoned out, you're eyes are probably close anyway half the time- It's a primal interaction; no sense making it more complicated than it needs to me. It's a situation that we spend the entire time with conversation and complex communication trying to get to, so you might as well roll with it once you've got it. Just keep the rhythm and let her body language do the talk… | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 09:52 PM |
| 3 | What Do You Whisper to Girls While Dancing On a Loud Dance floor?It's more fun than talking... Make the communications simpler; more primal, less cryptic. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 09:05 PM |
| 3 | What Do You Whisper to Girls While Dancing On a Loud Dance floor?Once my arms are around her hips/stomach, and if she is touching my hands/arms while this is happening, I find it works well sometimes to brush her hair back from one side, exposing one side of her neck/ear, and lean my head forward and get kind close. She will usually tilt her head as to further expose that side of her neck, and I can sorta tease her a bit by lightly grazing her neck just below her ear lobe with my lips and tip of my nose. Based on her body language, it's usually really easy to… | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 08:44 PM |
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