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| 1 | Don't Be A Hyperconsumerist Christmas CuckThe more time passes, the more I start to be grateful for having been born and for living in a rather poor Eastern European country. Don't get me wrong, there are still a lot of negatives such as poverty and corruption that can't be overlooked. However, many people here have no dept to their names, you can still easily access locally-grown food, and there are generally not a hell lot of SJWs and feminists (although things seem to be slowly getting more "Westernized" in these regards). Funny how … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | 1 v 3 confrontation; what do?I don't train cause I am looking for a fight on the street. I train because I like training. However, what could one do if there's no other option and the other dude/dudes get physical? Fortunately, this wasn't the case with me. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 11:50 AM |
| 2 | 1 v 3 confrontation; what do?I meant I'd like to carry one as a last resort self-defense option and not for pulling it as soon as someone looks at me the wrong way. However, when you are outnumbered and if it gets physical, it's better to have a plan B. I agree that pulling it out to just because someone trash-talked you is dump. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 11:45 AM |
| 0 | 1 v 3 confrontation; what do?I have seriously been considering this but I am not from a country where you could easily get a gun license. I guess in USA it's easy, but In EU getting a gun is a pain in the ass. Still, I am considering trying to get one some time in the future. Or maybe a gas pistol - enough to scare drunk douches. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 04:04 AM |
| 1 | What does TRP say about loss and meaningFrom my current perspective, even doing stuff for the greater good (like Marcus Aurelius suggests) seems pointless. You are ultimately trying to better the life of someone who will inevitably and up suffering and dying in the end. You are just giving them something to distract them from the inevitable truth. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 07:58 AM |
| 1 | What does TRP say about loss and meaningI understand this but I feel like here is where a lot of those philosophies come together and they are condensed to their most practical points and ideas, which is why I always come back to TRP when times are difficult and I may need some guidance. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 07:55 AM |
| 4 | What does TRP say about loss and meaningI've actually been reading and listening about people talking about Stoicism for some time now and I've been meditating. I think this may have helped me a bit but I cannot tell for sure. I also (without even wanting it) have thought about the possibility of this happening and how it may make me feel - the person was sick and I feared it may come to this so the negative visualization made its way into my mind whether I wanted it or not. And when I got the call, in some perverse way, I was a tad b… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 01:40 PM |
| 2 | What’re your experiences with gay guys?I have a male friend who's gay. At first I didn't even know he was - I guess I have poor judge of character and am oblivious to obvious signs. However, the guy's chill and though he sometimes acts a bit like a girl, he's alright. In many cases, more reasonable and easy to get along with than other people I know. Overall, I think people who are gay but aren't in your face about it are just like regular people with their good and bad traits of character. And that's coming from someone who hates th… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 11:54 AM |
| 1 | "You are emotionless" shittestThat's what I'm trynna be, far from there yet but women just don't get it - they can't handle our problems and they don't want to hear about them even if they think they do. Already got burned like this once in a past LTR - I finally opened up and talked about my personal demons and all I got was dead silence. The chick had no idea what to say and probably didn't care enough to try to come up with something to say. And I get it, it's the natural order of things which is why I just don't want to … | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 11:39 AM |
| 1 | "You are emotionless" shittestThanks for the pointers. Can you also point me to some reading material on comfort tests and what those are cause I've only heard about them but have no idea what they are and how they differ from shittests. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 02:46 PM |
| 3 | "You are emotionless" shittestI agree with what you say except with the part of explaining things like that to a woman. They don't use logic, they use feelings and what you basically explained here is is logic-based. A woman will not care for it or understand it. Still, the part about "make her feel extra dumb, extra cared for if in a LTR and extra in awe of your beilef system all at the same time" makes sense to me so maybe I need to try do that. I know it's always my fault and I accept it. I don't expect a woman not to be … | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 12:58 PM |
| 2 | No one to talk toHey man, I doubt I can give you any good advice since I am still in the process of accepting the pill. However, you said u got no one to talk to and I very well know that feeling, after learning about the pill and how things really work, you enter into a world of loneliness cause there's oftentimes not many people that think the same way as we here on TRP do. The point is, if you need to have a chat with another guy who's on the red pill but not quite there yet, you can hit me up with a PM. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Understanding Female Reality as Emotion (through fairy tale)Oh, come on, you get it, I get, everybody gets what the author of the post meant and it makes sense. Well, ok, maybe the OG story is not what's the basis for the post here. I'd say the story in mind should be the Disney version and it makes sense since the Disney movie is from the 1950s - a time when this type of issues were relevant. Of course it's going to sound weird if you are referring to a story from couple of centuries ago - things were different back then. But just as we change, our stor… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/18 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Brett Kavanaugh's Tears: Women Can't Understand Male EmotionI am really grateful and highly appreciate the effort put into this long reply. Will definitely look deeper into the info presented in it. A lot of those concepts you talk about I seem to be already somewhat familiar with (mainly from reading Marcus Aurelius) but , as with most things, practice is the key here. In turn, learning how to handle different types of pain really seems to be key to making your life better in many ways. After all, those are two of the main properties of the pill - it hu… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/18 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Posting on TRP.RedI thought so, just wanted to make sure we still have a platform cause TRP is, as many have said, a life saver and we are going to need it now more than ever. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Brett Kavanaugh's Tears: Women Can't Understand Male EmotionI'd like to learn more about those more meaningful ways to address pain. Any source I could use with regards to that matter would be greatly appreciated. Could you point me towards anything that helped you in your journey? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/18 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Financial/career/job/business advice for guys in their early 20'sI can move, it's easy to move to a much better country in the EU with higher standards but I don't want to for personal reasons. When I said don't want to work some shit-ass job that takes half the day I meant something like a retailer worker or some other similar shit, been there, done that, fcken pointless. I have a job now, a good one, but the company is young and it's not clear if we will make it bigger or go under so I am trying to figure out a plan B just in case and I am ready to grind, b… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 10:22 PM |
| 3 | ComfortTHAT You said it best, only personal growth could consistently leave you satisfied with your life. Just like sharks need to move at all times in order to live so do we need to grow and improve so that our lives have a meaning and purpose. Thanks for your input | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 08:57 PM |
| 16 | Comfortreading the comments on articles and videos on the internet to elicit anger and practice equanimity commenting on political blogs on the internet and trying to maintain your cool This is gold, had me laughing out loud. Aside from that, yes, it has many times been mentioned on TRP the importance of putting yourself through voluntary discomfort and I do agree with the concept. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | MeditationsI have been trying this exactly as you explain it but I still struggle with the part of "let it go". How do you do that - the only way I could re-focus on my breathing is by forcing myself to do it. It doesn't feel like a subtle "let go" and rather like a forceful exertion of my will/mind to regain focus and this takes actual effort - not sure if that's what I should be doing or if it's the exact opposite but if I am not doing it my mind will never stop wandering. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Forget the five stages of grief, you need to the 6 steps to freedom.Some of this reminds of Marcus Aurelius' "Things to one's self" | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 11:51 AM |
| 1 | One Skill That Will Drastically Improve Your LifeI have been thinking about this same stuff for years and am glad to see that I am not the only one. Motivation isn't actually a big thing. It's something that comes and goes - it is controlled by your emotions and even though we are men, we still get mood swings. Today you feel pumped but in an hour you feel like not doing shit for some stupid reason. However, to build discipline, what I have found for myself, it's easier when you build habits. One of the simplest examples is waking up early. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 11:28 AM |
| 1 | I came here to learn how to handle women, but accidentally learned how to handle men.Sure, we guys could be really insecure, It's just I haven't really experienced that too much from my closest male friends or at least not in public. Hmm, not sure if they are decent guys or if I am just not enough of a competition to them :D | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 11:18 AM |
| 47 | The expression of LoveThis is absolutely a post I needed right now - it focuses on a side of inter-sexual dynamics that is rarely covered by TRP posts. I used to be a very beta BP person and for my Disney love was nearly the objective of my life (guess what that led to). Understanding how to hold yourself when in any kind of lengthier relationship with a woman is really important cause there are a lot of guys who are RP that, for whatever reason, don't want to endlessly spin plates and live the bachelor life. That sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/18 02:06 PM |
| 2 | The 13 Dont's of GamingMan, I was looking for another post but stumbled upon this gold and I am glad it's not archived yet. Thanks for this, systematic, simple and really true. I need reminders like this to keep me on track. As it turns out, it's really easy to go astray and forget about some core TRP principles so having them neatly bundled for easy reading is a great helping tool. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/18 12:01 AM |
| 15 | Preselection: A Killer Display of ValueI should fucking print this post, frame it and put it over my bed so I can read it every morning as a reminder how women are. Thanks for the eye-opener. I really need this kind of harsh truth to keep me on the right track. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Distrust that Particular FlavourYou should probably make this into an actual post, it really brings to our attention stuff that oftentimes goes unnoticed. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Keep her excited or someone else willThis is why it's so important to be here and to read TRP stuff. Here you are told the rules of the game and about the game itself. Whether you know about it or not, whether you want to acknowledge it or not, you are in that game and even if the rules suck and the odds are stacked up against you, you still stand a higher chance of success if you go by TheRedPill and listen to the sidebar's advice. Thanks for the reminder, great post! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 02:21 PM |
| 4 | Magic HourNever realized that or acknowledged the existence of this phenomenon. Now thinking about it, though, it really makes a ton of sense to go out early - more chicks, less dudes as most of the guys come later during the night (same as I used to do). Thanks for the new TRP eye-opener, will keep this in mind for the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 02:12 PM |
| 1 | I came here to learn how to handle women, but accidentally learned how to handle men.TBH, most of those friends you mentioned sound like insecure douches from what you've said. How insecure you gotta be to pick on your supposed friend in order to seem more alpha in front of some random chick. No decent male friend would risk a good friendship over some random skank. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/18 06:12 PM |
| 9 | My first field report, roast me.Keep it up and next time shit will go better. Also, have some sense of self-preservation, as many dudes pointed out, why'd you go to the house of a chick that has a fiancée or at least a bf who she's most likely living with. You wanted to bang but could have suggested your place or even a motel or sth - seems like she was up for anything at that point. Anyway, don't get surprised when a girl that really likes you does shit to keep you and satisfy you - that's one of the gifts of TRP. Also, consi… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 11:28 AM |
| 1 | What TRP has given meIt's a good time to get on board the RedPill - just make sure you stick to it for a while, the results will speak for themselves | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 11:11 AM |
| 1 | What TRP has given meYes, I do actually, and if you are not careful, it can slow you down big time and even if you are careful it will still affect things in your life and slow you more or less which is why I can't say I am in a LTR. Have actually been trying to keep things casual at least until I have some proof that this chick is actually worth LTR-ing. But I make sure to keep doing the things that are important to me and keep myself in line. Hopefully I won't slip up and lose my way. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/18 09:37 PM |
| 3 | LTR's dirty little secretIf you have your shit together she'd be attracted enough to you so that she won't really consider the guys at the club as an option. Ofc, there are things you can't control, you can never be certain what she does out there. Neither can she. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/18 12:38 PM |
| 1 | What Good / Nice really means and why its usually anything but Good / NiceNo more Mr. Nice Guy - a must read for guys suffering from the nice guy symptom | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/18 11:24 AM |
| 18 | Women are ironic precisely because of solipsism and lack of frame.There are definitely guys like that out there. And then again, we guys have hamsters too - might as well tell yourself the personality thing to rationalize doing it with a fatty. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/18 08:22 AM |
| 16 | LTR's dirty little secretWell, you set your boundaries man. If you are loose enough and have options lined up for you in the pipeline waiting to be plated, you will hardly give a fuck as you could go out tomorrow and fuck the next chick. It kind of depends on your perspective, I think. Sometime ago, I'd consider a lot of things that my ex did disrespectful cause I was super insecure. Some random guy texting her and she responding - fucking disrespect! Generally, I think that if she respects you, she will generally not g… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/18 08:09 AM |
| 47 | Women are ironic precisely because of solipsism and lack of frame.This post is awesome The theory that women want sex as much as men is a very imprecise statement - what they do need is the psychological stimulation, but the physical aspect of their sexuality is receptive and not a drive like that of men. This explains it so well. We need sex, first and foremost, because our body requires it - once we blow our load all sex drive goes out of the window cause we've been physically satisfied for the moment. But women, they, first and foremost, need sex at a psych… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/18 07:58 AM |
| 31 | LTR's dirty little secretGotta agree with you about asking this question - this caught my eye too. I'd say that you just gotta let it go, let her be and learn not to give a fuck - your peace of mind is more important. After all, if she has lost enough respect for you so that she'd go and flirt with the next guy, then you can't do shit to stop her anyway. I believe that if you have your shit together and are being alpha enough to her, you shouldn't worry about her going wherever. And if she does go out and hook up with s… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/18 07:45 AM |
| 8 | What TRP has given meWell, you are an intelligent being with critical thinking so you should determine it for yourself. Also, after you learn that a certain guy doesn't write or say bullshit and is actually giving solid advice, you stick to it. But you gotta be the person who sifts away the bullshit and what you don't need in order to reach the things that you actually need and that would work in your situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/18 07:25 AM |
| 5 | Three Important Differences Between the Sexes You May Not Be Aware OfOr rather, the first one for bitching, the second one for apologizing. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Gems"Young middle class men are at the bottom of a society's totem pole. We pay the most into a society and get the least out if it. Do welfare queens care that they're destabilizing the system? Did bankers care in 2008 when they asked for huge taxpayer bailouts. Did bush care when he undermined the international standing of the US with his invasion of Iraq? No. Everyone is doing what's best for them except for idealistic boys like yourself. Pleasing others to please yourself is beta male pathology,… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | What's the fucking point?Yea, well I bet your reaction would have been different if she was an 8. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Is there AWALT for men?It's irrelevant. We have flaws, absolutely, we do. It's just that intersexual dynamics are never fair and just as women could freely use their inherent advantages to get the best out of the intersexual dynamics, so should we. Nobody here says men don't have inherent flaws, nobody here says that there aren't many bad traits or amoral that most men share. It's just that it's irrelevant - we need to win and if something works for us, be it amoral or not, we gonna use it cause you can be damn sure t… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Relationship with parentsThat's the thing, there have been certain things in my life, certain moments when some emotional support from my father figure would have been highly appreciated. It's crazy how I have learned more about being a man from some subreddit than from my father. And it's not like my father is some total beta guy who can't handle his own shit. And yet I had to learn so many things first hand from my own mistakes that could have been said to me early on in my life and saved me a lot of wasted time. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Train MMAOn the one hand, I agree about training martial arts. On the other hand, however, sparring in the gym and being surrounded by several dudes that are hostile to you are two different things. If those guys really wanted it, they could have waited for you outside and no matter how good of a fighter you are, go up against 5 dudes and your chances go down drastically unless you are some experienced, battle-hardened with over 30 years of experience fighter. I have been training kickboxing for 5 years … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Personal fails/shutdownsLong comment, sry, no tldr Went to one of my fav bars one night with friends and saw an approach opportunity - two girls by themselves. Went to them alone, said hi, gave them a toast, introduced myself but they were clearly not into it - kept looking at their phones shutting me down hard. Anyway, after a while I gave up and wen back to drinking with my friends. Still I remembered the name of one of the girls, her name was Petya (this is relevant later). A week later, same place, similar situatio… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 04:27 PM |
| 2 | FR: The power of frame control.This reminded me of Chinatown and Jack "Fucking Alpha" Nicholson's character slaying pussy like it's nobody's business while sporting a big funny bandage on his nose. Srlsy, though, didn't this make it difficult to make out? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/18 02:45 PM |
| 4 | Your hair matters significantly to your SMV - do the best you can for it.Srsly, a short cut looks good on most guys and it also makes good physique stand out more (ofc, you gotta have good physique in the first place). However, looks aside, this is practical and requires very little maintenance thus saves a lot of time and also short cut hairstyles are the cheapest. The only downsides are that you might initially come off as some dump beefcake that lacks dimensions of character and also there are certain faces and head shapes that are just don't look good with short … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/18 11:29 AM |
| 11 | Those magic 4 lettersFck, I've always been against dating apps but damn, I might get a Tinder just to give this couple of field tests. Thanks for sharing | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/18 11:03 AM |
| 3 | You are trying to trick youYou know, if you've been a Nice Guy™ and have suffered from that in the past, maybe you need to start looking after yourself a bit more even if this makes you come out as an asshole. That said, the point of my post wasn't be an "uptight asshole", it was create inner borders for yourself. The same way TRP preaches we should create borders for people around us, we should also have inner borders to keep us from going astray. Hope this sheds some light on what point I was trying to make with the pos… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/18 10:52 AM |
| 3 | You are trying to trick youYou first need to go through the emotional grinding until you could be a guy who "loves the correct things". If a blue pill beta only acts on each and every emotion they have, they'd never get out of the vicious circle they're in. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/18 10:49 AM |
| 1 | You are trying to trick youThere is a TL;DR section As far as the rest of your comment is concerned, I see that the point of my post totally went over your head - If you constantly go with what your emotions say then you'd not get anywhere. Emotions aren't smart and they are irrational and illogical in many cases. If one always goes with what their emotions say, they'd never be able to overcome approach anxiety or break out of BP beta behavior. If you can't control your emotions and submit them to your rational self or at… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/18 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Beware of Beta BaitOh man, that balcony conversations video was just pure gold | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Your friends "change" after you take the pillThis is fucking sad man and it's really difficult to make him see reason... | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 06:04 AM |
| 1 | You are trying to trick youI might really need to look into your suggestions, thanks. If you got any more such resources, bring it cause I am willing to get all the help in the fight with myself that I can get. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Your friends "change" after you take the pillNobody said it's only about women but if you want to get some (and most of us do) you gotta step out there and do what needs to be done. Nobody said you only gotta care about PUA stuff but I believe that at least 80% of people here are because of female-related issues and so improvement in this area is crucial for quality of life. One of the most difficult RP things to do is stand your ground when a woman comes and tries to push you around. Happened to me and that's why I decided on reading and … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 09:28 AM |
| 5 | You are trying to trick youI have always had some degree of self-hate and self-loathing, especially for those of my qualities that make my quality of life worse. For me the struggle is against those parts of myself that need to be purged. But they are persistent and oftentimes require great amounts of effort of will to resist and fight against. However, what helped me is looking at my past self and looking at the BP/beta traits in my behavior that directly hurt me and made me feel bad which is why, now that I've seen the … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/18 08:54 PM |
| 10 | Maintaining Frame saved my lifeTRP is a life-saver in more than one ways | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/18 11:29 AM |
| 2 | You don't know your true potentialThis post gave me a boner of male pride, keep it up mate. Also, I think you'll do fine at cold approach considering all the improvements you've already made on yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/18 08:13 PM |
| 8 | You are trying to trick youFrom that perspective you are right. However, this is a conscious effort to trick yourself into doing the right thing. It's actually a way of fighting and resisting the innate tendency of your mind to lure you down the path of least resistance, which inevitable leads to low quality of life. What you described is basically fighting your BP/beta/lazy self but from a different perspective. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Slow and steady, trp does work. tell me what to improveIf you still decide to post, I'd suggest FR or Off topic or maybe Rant depending on how you formulate it but still maybe FR is the best. It's kind of difficult to put it in any specific category. I certainly encourage you to keep trying the approach thing and even take it a step further once you feel ready. You might leave this story for later and once you have done some more approaching make some sort of combined field report with couple of examples. Anyway, wish you all the best bro. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Slow and steady, trp does work. tell me what to improveDon't know mate, probably not since it might get a lot of comments such as "this isn't anything new" and thus get downvoted but give it a try if you want. If you want to make a post on TRP I'd suggest you make it broader instead of only focusing on this one occasion. Instead, focus on what you've done right since the beginning of your TRP journey. A general rule for posting on TRP is to make a post that either provides a new redpilled look at something and somehow adds to the RP theory or that g… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 10:09 AM |
| 5 | You NEED To Get Self-Disciplined ASAP. Here's How You Do It.I don't normally count the minutes but probably something between 5-10 minutes, as long as it takes me to clean myself. It doesn't really matter, especially now that the weather got warmer. Once you adapt to the water and calm your breathing it isn't that bad and I can stay in it for quite a while. For me the difficult part is the first 20-30 seconds. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/18 10:04 AM |
| 6 | You NEED To Get Self-Disciplined ASAP. Here's How You Do It.Have been cold showering for more than half an year now without more than 6-7 warm showers. Took cold showers even when through the coldest winter nights and mornings. Now, I don't know how much this helps me, to be fair, so far the only thing I've noticed is that it is much easier now to resist the temptation to get out of the shower and my body seems to be warming up quicker. I cannot say about whether or not it got my immune system stronger but lets say it might have since I haven't had a col… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/18 09:42 AM |
| 3 | Approaching fails bc my social status is too low?I agree with the other comment, social status is important but I don't think it is the core reason why you are getting rejected. Most people aren't up for a casual chat with strangers anyway so I think there are two important things that need to be present when you approach in order to keep up the conversation - approach under appropriate circumstances (again, as the other dude said) and also provide something to hold the other person's interest. If there is a suitable topic to talk about, it's … | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 09:28 AM |
| 8 | Slow and steady, trp does work. tell me what to improveMan, you are lucky you've found TRP at such an early age, by the time you get to 20 (assuming you keep it going the RP way) you will be a beast. Really cool thing you've done there, kudos. I recently started approaching after I ended a long and shitty LTR and though in the beginning it might be scary to approach a girl I think later on it becomes something you actually want to do and enjoy doing. Keep approaching, this is one of the most important things I've learned about interacting with femal… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 07:25 AM |
| 1 | How to master self-amusement?Here's what I learned about myself and approaching females. First and foremost, I like to approach females at a one of my favorite local bars. Just going there for a drink with a bro already gets me in quite a good mood since I like the place. Music I like also helps me so maybe before I go out I have a beer at home to loosen me up while listening to my some of my "getting-to-party" songs. This part might sound cringy but it really gets me in a good mood what I believe is the key to self-amuseme… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 07:16 AM |
| 7 | Stop talking about your weaknessesI learned this the hard way - there's absolutely no point to share anything about your problems with a woman you date/fuck/LTR or anything similar. That's what friends are for. A woman is pretty much incapable of giving you any advice on your male problems and also she'd rather have you listen to her ramblings instead of she listening to yours. This BP conditioning about openness is a really f-ed up illusion instilled inside us since our birth by the society and the media. Up until fairly recent… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/18 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Eliminate Your DistractionsThis is actually a really underestimated topic - time management is super important and if one doesn't know how to manage their time, they are never going to meet their full potential (or anything close to it). I'd also like to add that it is important to wake up at 8 am at the latest if your routine allows it (working night shifts obviously doesn't allow that). My work didn't require me to wake up early so I had to make a conscious effort to do it and this really boosted my performance and prod… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/18 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Your friends "change" after you take the pillThanks mate, I will look into it, I have been doing meditation for some time but not too consistently, however recently I tried to be more consistent and though I am not sure how much it helps me in everyday life, for me it really feels really nice to just silence the voices in my head for a couple of minutes of each day. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/18 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Your friends "change" after you take the pillHey bro, if you could, could you give me some reliable meditation information source? I am currently meditating for about 10 mins for my morning routine but I might want to take meditation a step further and see how it works for me so could you direct me to some basic meditation tips that have worked for you? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/18 01:47 PM |
| 11 | Your friends "change" after you take the pillThat's why I don't like going for long runs/jogging with another person - they are either gonna be faster or slower and you need to follow your own pace instead of adjusting to theirs. I really dig your metaphorical example. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Fat girls to men is equivalent to what Beta males are to females.Only thing is it takes a lot more effort to build yourself as a man whereas as a female, a lot of girls I know just have natural good looks and know how to dress and this already gives them a pool of betas to choose from. It only makes sense that a guy such as the person you describe who have spend years of hard work on bettering himself to feel entitled and worthy of something much better. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 01:08 PM |
| 10 | Your friends "change" after you take the pillI don't want to be self-righteous or anything, I don't consider myself superior just because I now know about TRP. So I never said anything about ditching or thinking I am better, quite the opposite. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 12:59 PM |
| 4 | The Sarlac Pit of being a betaDamn, this made me light up - next time start hitting on some of her female frs. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 10:11 AM |
| 34 | Your friends "change" after you take the pillOf course they fcken didn't and I too enjoy a nice match with the bros, but that night I had my sights set on other goals (pun intended). | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 10:05 AM |
| 1 | [FR] How to kill interest in 3 weeksHonest post, I hope that I'd be able to see my mistakes and learn from them in the same way. You sound like you are improving and evolving, just don't go back to BP and resist the stream of betaness that tries to flush you down, good luck! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 09:23 AM |
| 65 | Jealously Guard Your AttentionAmen to that bro, I cannot express just how much I agree with everything on this post. Recently came to this same very conclusion myself. You all know how people look after their money - what to spend it on, what's too expensive or what's too low quality to buy, etc. Well, I believe that one should be ten times more careful and considerate about how they spend their time. Time is fucking expensive, no, it is priceless, and yet we waste so much of it on absolute BULLSHIT things and BULLSHIT peopl… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 09:14 AM |
| 1 | My least favorite way to utilize red pill knowledge.I don't even understand why this was necessary to be said, I thought it was blatantly obvious and should go without saying. Anyway, couldn't agree more. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Danger of oneitis, help!Thanks bro, this video did actually made me realize a couple of things about myself and why I am the way I am. I should watch more of this guy's vids, seems like the kind of stuff I might actually need. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Danger of oneitis, help!Yes, this sums it up nicely. I just don't want to slip back into my deep, hardcore beta BP days cuz now I have all those flashbacks as you said and I remember very well how it all felt - no fucking more even if it means that a certain girl will go away, seems like there are other girls out there after all. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 11:03 AM |
| 1 | An objective comparison of the pros and cons of bodyweight (calisthenics) training and Free Weight training. Also, recommendation on what you should be focusing on!Hey, bro, I'd be grateful if you could send it to me as well | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/18 03:49 PM |
| -2 | Girls like me more when I am drunk?I am not really thinking much of this, maybe wrote it rather cringy, but yeah, I had my head up my ass for a very long time so currently I am still learning. They are no sluts, not yet that is, but I don't think much of them anyway which is why I don't really want anything besides maybe some sex if I could get it without giving too much to get it. Couple of years ago I would be thinking about it in a romanticized beta way, falling inlove and shit so i think i have improved since those days. Curr… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 11:20 AM |
| 1 | TRP truths straight from a girl's mouthHad to learn this over a period of couple years and then ended up here, read this TRP true and then it all made sense to me, wasn't even mad at that point cause I somehow already knew it, just needed to have it verified by others. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 12:17 PM |
| 2 | On Abundance Mentality and Being AloneThis is also the reason why it is so difficult for a lot of guys who come here to drop their oneitis and/or LTR which obviously sucked due to blue-pill conditioning and beta behavior - because you know that there's nothing to go to after you dump her and that's why you keep on being her little beta tampon. This is what I've learned so far. Sucks being alone but this seems to be the right path to take more often than not until you can afford not being alone without being treated like shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/17 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Question the QuestionAlright, I have a question I've been asking myself for a long time. Who is the puppeteer behind all this blue pill conditioning, who gets the most benefit out of this? Or is this something that whoever is in power, regardless of who exactly or where exactly, will benefit of - easy to control people with blue pill mindset? Or are people doing this to themselves subconsciously? After all, it isn't anything new, is it? There have always been those in power or those of higher value (what we now call… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 09:13 PM |
| 1 | TRP and lifting fanaticsMy point was that two people of similar height, weight, age, etc. - one who has only been lifting for 5 years and looks like a mountain of muscles and one who has been lifting in combination with some other activity to improve their stamina, cardio, endurance, flexibility and fighting skills (and might look less bulky on first sight) - guess who would stand a better chance at winning in the end. I am tired of comments saying I am hamstering myself into not training - all I said is that it's narr… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 08:45 PM |
| 2 | TRP and lifting fanaticsThis is the exact point of my post | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 01:12 PM |
| 1 | TRP and lifting fanaticsBy that I meant seeing a young guy who looked like a mountain of muscle getting easily beaten up by a person in his 50s who looks much less intimidating at first sight. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 12:38 PM |
| 3 | TRP and lifting fanaticsMy alternative suggestion? Combine lifting with some sport, preferably a combat/fighting sport and put in some cardio as well. You can still be big and intimidating and powerful but you will have other characteristics going for you as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 12:36 PM |
| -5 | TRP and lifting fanaticsNever said "don't do the work", what I said is there are different types of work to be had that can be equally challenging and rewarding. I have trained for years so I know what work is. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 12:33 PM |
| 1 | TRP and lifting fanaticsSigh I started lifting an year ago, gained weight, felt good about it. However, when I went to my other training where stuff like stamina, endurance, cardio, and muscle flexibility was required, I realized that those characteristics of my body have went downhill. I got tired faster, my arms felt strong but slow and easily exhausted. I am not some faggit who came here talking people out of training hard, I just shared some thoughts + some personal experience. Take out of it whatever you wish. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 12:31 PM |
| 0 | TRP and lifting fanaticsAlright, chill out there. Lifting + cardio + some other training is good and it is what I tried to say in my post. However, it seems that most commenters here focus solely on me saying "lifting is bad" - something I never even tried to suggest with my post. What I was trying to say is that if you only lift and do nothing else, then maybe you aren't fulfilling your true potential. Every form of physical training takes dedication if you want to do it right, this isn't about if you should train har… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 11:57 AM |
| -13 | TRP and lifting fanaticsNever said "don't train hard". | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 11:47 AM |
| -2 | TRP and lifting fanaticsNo, it's not fantasy, it's something I have seen happen in front of me. Alright, call me butthurt, I just don't get the outrage here, very few commenters are actually saying anything apart from basically "butthurt phag", so be it. TRP has spoken. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 11:44 AM |
| 3 | TRP and lifting fanaticsI think I said more than enough times that I am not against lifting and thoroughly explained what my point of view was. I don't get it why this topic is so black/white. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Frame: You are not a machine.From what I've read here, on TRP, I have come to the conclusion that, to have a good frame, you shouldn't feel that much. For example, if you get furious at your LTR but keep frame and keep the anger inside, it still not good, it damages you and tortures you, this anger that you hold. I have been there so many times - I kept frame (before I even knew what that was) but was furious inside. However, I was still a blue-pilled beta. I believe the key to keeping a good and strong frame is simply bein… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Approached a girl but somehow screwed up laterI like this analysis, thanks, it makes sense what you said. Some things I did right and some I didn't. After all, I am a RP newbie still. Thanks for advice. She actually wrote back 2 fcking days later saying that she doesn't know if she's going to be free as she was too busy these days which, I believe, translates to - I just don't wanna cut you directly so I hope you can take a hint. Luckily, I've been there before and know perfectly well what this means and also I am not that pathetic to go on… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Approached a girl but somehow screwed up laterActually, haven't thought about this and it might in fact be part of the reason why I screwed up. My facebook is a profile with no pics of me or anything, it almost looks like a fake profile since I am not really active in terms of social media and only use it for a limited number of things. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Approached a girl but somehow screwed up laterYeah, that's the most likely explanation. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Approached a girl but somehow screwed up laterI didn't expect anything from this, I didn't even intend to ask for any contact info until I saw there was a good opportunity. I am still satisfied by myself as this was something I know I should be doing more often. Will keep in mind the teasing part - many have already pointed that out so I guess this played a major role on how things turned out. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Approached a girl but somehow screwed up laterThanks for the tips, I can see the point that you'r both making and I got to agree. I know that number is better but I had to get off and there wasn't really time for her to tell me her number and for me to write it down so FB was the only option. Also, the jokes you offered were good but they'd be wasted on this one, there's pretty much no point at this stage for me to go on any further, all the signals of uttermost disinterest are there so chasing this would be a wast of time as well as humili… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Approached a girl but somehow screwed up laterI get it but a I see this very often here, people saying some sort of stuff like "approaching by itself puts you ahead of others since few people do it" and here, in my country, actual approaching like a normal person is extremely rare so maybe it should have gotten better results. Nonetheless, no biggie, just a field report, and also, as you said, maybe should have made it more teasy/flirty. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Approached a girl but somehow screwed up laterI have a long way to go until I get to this point of SMV. Currently it is unrealistic of me to hope for what you described. Otherwise, yes, move on, since I didn't really expect anything to come out of this, it isn't a big deal. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 01:15 PM |
| 6 | Approached a girl but somehow screwed up laterIt's not troll, I wouldn't waste time that way. Also, trust me, the texting part was held to a bare minimum so - no, it didn't really apper like that even when texting, it's just I didn't really had much to work with. Anyway, still a positive experience and a step forward, an year or two ago I wouldn't have made such an attempt or if I did, it would have gone much worse. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Approached a girl but somehow screwed up laterI guess ur right, maybe I was a bit too upfront since I didn't really give much of a fuck what happens but would have been nice to meet up since it started well initially. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Approached a girl but somehow screwed up laterYea, thought so. Still, I read here on TRP that we are supposed to offer a time and a place and then, if the she cannot, she'd say so. This one said nothing. Otherwise, as you said, it's not the wording, it's something else, either lack of attraction or she doesn't really know how to respond. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 11:31 AM |
| 3 | Couples video reveals RP truths"I AM NOT HAPPY THAT YOU TURNED THINGS AROUND" fucking gonna rage punch the wall rn, been there so many fucking times and almost broke my kunckles punching the walls out of frustration when this shit happened to me. Same fucking story. Always kept myself away from other girls' attention to validate princess unicorn's unicornness and she always had a small army of orbiters when the female population of the world around me hardly knew I even existed. Each time I tried to call her out on that bulls… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Couples video reveals RP truths1 or 3, I think. Would be interested to read that either way. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 04:22 PM |
| 1 | I never really took the RedPillThis actually happened to me too, in this same LTR. You see, it went 2 fucking years and then we broke up never ever having sex (I was levels of beta that shouldn't even exist). However, we got back after that for some reason and then I had my sex (twas hers and mine 1st times). So at least I am grateful to had that thing checked, it would suck even more if we never had a sex. Otherwise, yes, 2 initial years of fucking mental abuse and I, being a fucking nice guy waited till "she ready", for fuc… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/17 08:22 PM |
| 1 | I never really took the RedPillI thought they hit the wall in late 20s? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/17 02:38 PM |
| 1 | I never really took the RedPillThanks for that - a good reminder and slap back to reality. I have already been there, though. Many second chances have already gone into this LTR, one thing I am not going to do is I am not going to apologize for what happened and I am not going to beg for forgiveness and a way back. I might still be beta but I am not going that low again. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/17 02:37 PM |
| 3 | I never really took the RedPillI will try to do all that, maybe will make a hidden stash of couple of things that I will bury somewhere deep so it doesn't appear in front of me just to honor those 4 years' good moments. Otherwise, you are right, all else must go. Thanks for the support, being a man everybody expects you to handle that shit silently and even your closest aren't adequate at helping, I guess its nature's way. But since I don't want to rely on alcohol or drugs to get me through this as it will ruin me even furthe… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/17 10:39 PM |
| 1 | I never really took the RedPillAs much as I wish to think of her as evil (as that would help get over it) she isn't evil or bad. She has a lot of bad traits though, for instance, master at invisible manipulation and self-centered af but I contributed to a lot of that. Also, there are good traits too. However, it would really help me if I focus on her bad characteristics, otherwise I won't stop thinking "man, you missed an agreeable girl" and that sort of crap. Also, I really don't think I can handle just being friends or any … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/17 09:12 PM |
| 1 | I never really took the RedPillI agree with the Cypher reference, it is how it feels. The thing about the imagining arguments has also happened more times than I can remember. The only thing you got wrong is that she did this, no, I did this, this is why it is so difficult, taking responsibility, knowing that if I did things differently (read, in a more blue pill way) we would still be together. The LTR wasn't going anywhere but it would be much easier knowing that she'd never come back to me and that she doesn't want to have… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/17 08:22 PM |
| 2 | I never really took the RedPillFor me it works the other way around for some reason. I know I fucked up on many levels by being a clingy beta in the past. This is why I can't even be angry at her now, all my anger is towards myself. There's no enemy, no one to hate, only me, I am the enemy of myself. I'd be easier if I could just get a list of the shit things she's done to remind me why we don't belong together. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/17 08:20 PM |
| 9 | I never really took the RedPillShe's just entering her prime, so am I, we are both early 20s. I know why she said that, she did it precisely so that I can't be angry at her, she did it exactly to fuck me up more even if she doesn't consciously realize it. Still though, it had its effect. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/17 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Mental ShitholeDepends what are you talking about. I generally try to keep my gym workout explosive-focused rather than heavy-lifting since I don't need to bulk-up but rather be explosive. Maybe give examples? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/17 11:51 PM |
| -1 | Mental ShitholeHave actually been thinking about the latter a couple of times though i'd prefer to make it out on my own. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/17 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Mental ShitholeCan't, for some reason I have forgotten what do do with my free time even when I have that. Besides, I have to take care of shit as it isn't going to take care of itself. Otherwise, agree that, as you and some others already said, I need like a week of time off. Been thinking about going alone in the mountain woods, find a cottage for couple of days to stay there by myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/17 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Mental ShitholeI don't focus on heavy-lifting as I train a fighting sport and don't need all that bulk. I get that it's nice to be big and bulky but it really inhibits the agility and stamina, both qualities that I need. Therefore, no point into digging deeper into the lifting game as it isn't my main focus anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/17 03:25 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to thisThis. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Lingering Oneitis (TL;TR)Thanks for the wise words of encouragement. Can you, by any chance, give me an idea where I can find the documentary you mentioned or do you at least remember its name? Also, what do you do if you feel like you are running out of juice in this war with yourself. What if you are out of emotional energy or at least it feels like that. Pushing your will seems to be ineffective because it lasts for a very short amount of time. You get yourself to go to the gym or to work or to study but it is more d… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/17 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Your Ego.This post is gold. Perfectly described my LTR with an emotionally abusive partner who masterfully exploited what I'd like to call principles but then again, I guess a lot of those principles had to do with my BP ego. However, there comes a point when you start to realize that no matter how much you hold true to your words and how hard you try to meet her expectations, you will never get there, it is like the myth about Sisyphus, where he had to constantly push a round rock to the top of a hill, … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/17 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Woman walks out on blind date when she realizes guy won't be her beta providerI am going to fucking puke. She's like a 5 or 6 tops and that's when she's with makeup and everything. Her behavior though is disgusting. Shit, I want to punch this thing. Also, makes me sad to realize there are this sort of females out there and even though I am currently dealing with a more agreeable female, I still cannot take her shit any longer. But this, if it is real, jst no. I don't think the dude even had any expectations from this unfortunate encounter. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 10:05 PM |
| 5 | Lingering Oneitis (TL;TR)Agreed, and the advice regarding strong friendship with other mates - this does help and it lasts longer than any relationship with women. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/17 08:14 PM |
| 5 | " Let's finish it "Beta or not, men do love. I think that one of the differences between an alpha and a beta is how much one allows love to affect them. Apart from that, yea, it seems that telling her you love her is the same as handing her a bag of your balls and hoping that she'll not stomp on them. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Trying to man the fuck up regarding a LTRThanks for the words of encouragement, I will need this in the future struggles that are in line. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Trying to man the fuck up regarding a LTRPoint taken. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Trying to man the fuck up regarding a LTRThanks for advice, and yea, I used to be (mostly still am) a "nice guy". TBH, I fervently believed in the past that this was the right way to go on about when it came to females - be nice to them and they will reciprocate. The signs were all there that this wouldn't work but I didn't known any better. However, I find it extremely difficult to re-wire my brain. I need all the anger that I can generate towards her in order to get to be "not a nice guy" for about 10 minutes. And after that, "nice g… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Decipher thisTrying to get under your skin or nail you down? Maybe wants to exploit prospects for a LTR? 5 months is quite some time and you still refer to her as a plate so maybe she has other plans/ideas. Anyway, obvious shit test, don't fall for such BS. I don't see an issue here as it seems that you are good at keeping frame and it comes as no surprise for a girl to say some shit like that. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Trying to man the fuck up regarding a LTRI am not willing to try sort shit out anyway, those days are hopefully gone. Wouldn't mind occasional sex though, as long as I don't have to give anything to get it. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 02:00 PM |
| 0 | Trying to man the fuck up regarding a LTRFair point on the TL;DR. Regarding the power dynamics, here's how I see it, I embrace IDGAF, she either softens-up (have had this happen before) or she goes away, either way - IDGAF. P.S. can i put TL;DR in the title somehow, now that it has already been posted? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Trying to man the fuck up regarding a LTRThat was some time ago, now I know better. About half of what you said was true at a certain point of the LTR, but currently things are rather different, so no, that wasn't the point of what I wrote. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Sex issues in LTRSure, dread, but could that improve sex? I see your point and if it is all a psychological thing, it probably would - are there field reports where dread improved sex - is that like a widely-known fact within TRP? | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Sex issues in LTRJust to clarify - she prefers to be on top and seems to be the only time when she might enjoy it and she says having it any other way gives her some weird uncomfortable feeling that I have never previously heard about. I don't know whether there's truly something about her that makes it that way (physically) or if it is a mental thing, but what I know is that sometimes I feel like my boner's gonna die. I am not saying she purposefully doesn't want it to work out (she does want it to work out), y… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Sex issues in LTRThat's actually something that I might have needed to hear. Thanks for the words of encouragement, hopefully I will take heed to your advice. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Sex issues in LTRThat said, I still want to up my sex game and know that I am at the very least adequate. Maybe it's my ego telling me that after we dump each other, she'd go out and instantly find someone who'd give that to her, and I'd keep on sucking at it. I am being honest here, I know this is beta, I know this is even omega, but in order to have confidence in myself, I need to back it up with something. I see almost no future in this relationship, but I will still want to have sex after it and be good at i… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Sex issues in LTRYep - pretty much on point. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Instead of telling guys here not to be friends with their ex, why not just tell them to use them?As I already said, you have to first have the mindset of seeing woman as unnecessary attachments to a vagina in order to be IDGAF with regards to them. To get there, you need to be heavily red-pilled and if you aren't, you'd better not risk falling back to the web of a woman's emotional abuse, cause it's always there waiting for you. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Instead of telling guys here not to be friends with their ex, why not just tell them to use them?For an alpha, this might be achievable, however for someone who's not there yet (like myself), I'd rather advise others like me (and myself) to ghost their exes (especially if there were strong feelings involved) - they are no longer part of your world, they do not exist in your reality, they are a part of a predominantly bad dream that you are no longer dreaming. Either this or you risk getting mentally damaged unless your mind is absolutely pure and you are above shit like LTR. Else, i wouldn'… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Beta anxiety for no apparent reason - what holds me back and how can I beat it?Thanks. I know it's in my mind - this is, I guess, the challenge that I am currently in need to face (and overcome). | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Beta anxiety for no apparent reason - what holds me back and how can I beat it?Thanks for reply, but if it was that easy to simply chill, i'd be doing it all the time. I mean, chilling a bit is basically what I want but my mental state, my self-consciousness won't allow me to. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 02:16 PM |
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