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I keep hearing this language. This is where competition is lost on me. I'm the best at what I do for sure. Everyone has their bag. If there's the two of us talking to the same woman and she chooses to entertain you, the better for me because I wouldn't want someone who doesn't find me attractive enough. The best at being approachable with playful banter?
/r/seduction12/11/25 11:31 PM
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I don't think of things in terms of competition but I would be curious to see the profiles of guys whose success rates are significant. Not paying much attention to looks but in terms of style and confidence. I don't have any friends who are active in the dating apps so it is difficult to find someone to learn from. I specifically ask these (usually doms because I know they are brutally honest) to be real and not so nice so I know what's going on with my shortcomings.
/r/seduction09/11/25 08:16 PM
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Can't do anything about my height nor do I care to even think about that. My pictures are decent not distasteful (I've asked many ladies) and am very passionate about my work. I don't travel often so that might be my crutch. I only try to get dates locally but I set my distance to all around the world.
/r/seduction09/11/25 07:26 PM
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Damn, that's crazy. I've been on it and other dating apps and haven't even gotten one match in the last 3 years with being on there almost every day, let alone getting a date.
/r/seduction09/11/25 07:15 PM
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Adult life is still like high school unfortunately. You can have interests but learn to listen to what they like. They love talking about themselves just like you do. Even with a bad reputation, people thrive in the world. Just know and be self-aware that you can still learn from those experiences.
/r/seduction09/11/25 03:55 AM
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Don't need to see how you look to see how you are. I know ladies like people with a passion for SOMETHING. Unless you want to be those guys that just are looking to get laid and go to clubs. It feels so empty for someone like me. It's up to you how you want to move. I alienate myself a lot from groups so I see myself in what you're talking about. I'm doing better at listening and being engaging in conversation. It takes some work just like with anything.
/r/seduction09/11/25 03:23 AM
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For sure. I'm sure you got plenty of people giving you advice here and all can be good. Have interest in activities and focus more on what you want. School can be taken seriously too and any lady doesn't take you serious isn't worth it anyways. By the time you're an adult, you will glow up I guarantee it. I'm starting to work out again and it improves my self esteem AND helps me with my sexual energy. Less porn and more connecting with others is the goal (not just the ladies). Hope this helps.
/r/seduction09/11/25 03:09 AM
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You can be weird, just don't be a dick. What is it you think that it makes you weird enough that people avoid you?
/r/seduction09/11/25 02:55 AM
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It happens often so I'm sort of just used to it. Can be very confusing. Thank you for your response.
/r/seduction09/11/25 02:51 AM
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I'm poly so I definitely was exploring other options (albeit just the one option) and was very open with both of them what I wanted. What made it sting less was this other girl that is very down for me. It just feels humiliating. This girl I'm with now is very open with me too so it's refreshing. This disappointing endeavor wasn't very open (despite being very communicative) to tell me she was uncomfortable with the thought of being in bed with me.
/r/seduction09/11/25 02:34 AM
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Funny you posted this. Just happened to me with the guise of autism/Demi sexual. "I'm sexually attracted to you but am not willing to be intimate with you." Hmm... Never got friendzoned in that way. A whole year of "almost!" Never again..
/r/seduction09/11/25 12:56 AM
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Just be authentic, don't worry about what another person does. Apps, going out, knowing what you like (both sexually and personally)
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:05 PM
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Because they don't want a nice guy. They just say it. EDIT: Nice enough. Push and pull is the idea. For the especially traumatized people.
/r/seduction04/09/25 10:47 PM
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I tend to stay away from the clubs on the strip but if you ever wanna meet up downtown or at the arts district we can meet and see where we can go from there. I know a lot of local spots.
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:16 AM
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From here. Where you tryna go?
/r/seduction29/08/25 10:01 PM
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Yo, brown man here in US. I know what you're feeling. If I was in a Nordic country I'd be so happy 😭 I'd totally hang and try things out if I was over there. Anyways, I wouldn't worry too much. Just study and practice going out every once in a while. Mostly look for friends (maybe not in computers but whatever works) with communicating the intention of going out and meeting PEOPLE. Don't act too desperate. I just cut off a girl that was stringing me along for almost a decade. Thankfully I alread…
/r/seduction28/08/25 01:03 AM
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You answered your own question.
/r/seduction13/11/24 11:18 PM
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Ehm, probably that you're having fun? Why? Do you laugh EVERY time?
/r/seduction13/11/24 11:07 PM
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I feel like this most of the time, I wish I had a wingman or a friend like you. I never like going out alone because I never talk to anyone if it's not organic, yet I wouldn't take your effort for granted. I feel like I have confidence but to be as forward as you are stresses me out as I don't want to be a creep about it.
/r/seduction20/10/24 08:06 PM
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I have trouble with self-worth myself but I know enough to say that it's about focusing on what you like, workout and work on your mental health. Reading, yoga or meditation. These help me be a better communicator and help me with my anxiety. I am brown and was told by an ex that she thought I was Indian and it turned her on. (Albeit was a little weirded out by it) There's plenty of ladies that fetishize Indians. Just know what you like and focus on bettering yourself.
/r/seduction13/10/24 02:02 AM
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Leave all that for when you get to know someone. This is too much. "I'm open for whatever comes my way. Let's talk." Is basically it.
/r/seduction11/10/24 05:45 AM
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In my experience when someone wants to come over is usually a scam, an escort or someone trying to rob you (at least where I'm from). I only ask to meet for a drink to make sure they're not batshit crazy. I'm surprised you got someone to come to you, granted I never sext before I meet someone. Perhaps I could learn from you. I like to talk about personality which is probably why I get the friend vibe from them. Idk if this helps at all.
/r/seduction06/10/24 06:29 AM
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