bound2 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How do I have an interesting conversation over text with a girl, and then “seal the deal”? Find something she's interested in, and ask her about it. Could be something she's wearing in the picture or something she said in her profile. Expand on that. Ask a couple questions that go beyond the initial inquiry to show your interest in that.	/r/seduction	26/12/18 02:46 AM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? Look, I don't particularly like myself either. In fact there are a lot of things I hate about myself, and I'm generally awkward around other people. I don't have a skill, I work in a warehouse. But I've been with plenty of women. Had more than my fair share. And I did that because I dressed well, I put a smile on my face, and I looked and acted confident. You can have a shitty job and still be confident in yourself. You have to put that negativity aside, because that's a major turn off. You have…	/r/seduction	22/10/18 06:24 AM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? I mean, most women don't care for guys that have zero self-esteem, like you. There are women out there that like to help men like you, almost play mom for them. They take pity on you, and fuck you out of pity. But that's rare, and extremely difficult to find. You either have self-confidence, or you are celibate. That's usually how it works.	/r/seduction	21/10/18 10:55 AM
9	What are "normal" people doing differently? Most, if not all, of those people who just hit it off with the first person they ever met got really damn lucky. They didn't need technique or anything, they just met a person who they clicked with and they went with it. Stop putting so much thought into it. You sound desperate. Women smell desperation a mile away. Take a few deep breaths, relax, smile, and go chat up someone you're interested in without trying to game her. Try small goals. First goal is to talk to her, second goal is to get her…	/r/seduction	16/10/17 03:14 AM
2	Advice on getting older woman ? Just try the usual dating apps/websites. That way, you can read a woman's profile and see if she is open to younger men. If she's open to a wide range of ages, then send her a message. Women who are in the age range you're looking for are going to know what you want before you even say anything, so make your profile good, and use proper English and grammar.	/r/seduction	21/09/17 03:17 AM
1	Uber Driver's Sage Advice At this point you're just piling on. Good for you. You also proved my point - without approaching someone (if you don't play the game), you'll never find a girl (you'll never win). It's not that hard. And besides, your game might be what you say it is, but if his game sucks, he's gonna lose just as much.	/r/seduction	24/08/17 10:08 AM
-8	Uber Driver's Sage Advice You are reading way too far into it and overthinking it. You can't get the girl if you don't at least try to talk to her. Is that so hard to understand? Next someone is going to give me their dissertation as to why playing the Powerball is actually bad.	/r/seduction	23/08/17 11:32 PM
-11	Uber Driver's Sage Advice lol, ok buddy.	/r/seduction	23/08/17 10:56 PM
-21	Uber Driver's Sage Advice Uber sucks. Here's a better analogy from a professional driver: it's like trying to win the Powerball. You can't win if you don't play.	/r/seduction	23/08/17 09:38 PM
1	Where do you fuck if neither person can be brought back home? Yeah that's not cool at all.	/r/seduction	16/07/17 07:41 PM
1	Where do you fuck if neither person can be brought back home? Granted. However, when you and your girl want to get it on, you don't want to spend an hour looking for a unisex bathroom. Most fast food places or convenience stores offer a bathroom for each gender with a lockable door.	/r/seduction	16/07/17 07:18 PM
11	Where do you fuck if neither person can be brought back home? I once got busy in a Burger King bathroom. No, but seriously: convenience store bathroom (her excuse: the women's bathroom was occupied I really had to go...), a roof top, a wooded area, a park (at night, in a secluded area), or wherever your imagination takes you. Scout out some areas where hardly anyone goes. Your girl can't be as loud as she wants, but there are lots of places for fucking in public.	/r/seduction	16/07/17 05:37 PM
7	Single women and cats, there seems to be a pattern? Crazy cat ladies are a real thing. Jokes aside, cats can provide companionship and are relatively low maintenance, just keep the water bowl filled, feed them once a day, scoop out the litter box every 1-2 days.	/r/seduction	30/05/17 03:32 AM
2	I think about the past interactions I've had with girls only to realize, "Hey, I think she liked me." How do I react in the moment when this occurs, rather than realizing it much later? Anything's better than nothing. Say "Hi, I'm Aeon199, I couldn't help but notice you." Go from there. If they say they're not interested, fine, but at least you tried.	/r/seduction	19/05/17 06:27 AM
2	I think about the past interactions I've had with girls only to realize, "Hey, I think she liked me." How do I react in the moment when this occurs, rather than realizing it much later? No, I'm not socially smooth. I've struck out many times. I've had many times that I realized too late that a girl liked me. But I've had plenty of success and gotten lucky many times as well. There isn't one sure-fire way to approach a girl, because every girl is different. Which is why I say, if you think the girl is interested in you, then ask her out. Don't give in to the anxiety and the worry of getting shot down. If they say no, then move on. Don't over think it, that just leads to paralysi…	/r/seduction	17/05/17 04:56 AM
1	I think about the past interactions I've had with girls only to realize, "Hey, I think she liked me." How do I react in the moment when this occurs, rather than realizing it much later? As long as you aren't creepy or threatening about it, the worst they can do is say no. So ask her out next time. You won't know if they're actually interested until you say something.	/r/seduction	17/05/17 03:40 AM
10	How do you tell an FWB that you like them romantically? Sounds like you two are unofficially already boyfriend/girlfriend, you just haven't crossed that line yet. She's giving you all the signals. She's obviously really into you. One thing you didn't say -- have you asked her how she feels about becoming more than FWB? If you're really nervous about getting rejected, then just put the question out there tomorrow: "How do you feel about being more than FWB?" And let her answer. Then the ball's in her court, and you'll find out whether or not to push f…	/r/seduction	19/04/17 12:12 AM
1	Leaving a girl at a restaurant your number after talking to her? Has she given you any signals or hints that she's interested in you?	/r/seduction	19/01/17 03:37 AM
1	Any way to salvage from "I'll let you know"? Something happened between round two and Tuesday. I still wouldn't push too hard. Just keep talking to her, about other things you know she likes as well as suggesting the festival, saying "Hey, this festival that you said you wanted to come to, I've got two tickets for it. Meet me at my place at XX time and XX date" so you can go to the festival.	/r/seduction	06/01/17 07:47 AM
1	As a Korean guy how do you potray to western girls that your an alpha male or break the stereotype that the western media gives to asian guys? Yes, tone down the funny, goofy, "totally random" shit. Being flirty and funny is a good opener, but if you want any substance you'll have to have something beyond that.	/r/seduction	06/01/17 07:36 AM
1	Any way to salvage from "I'll let you know"? Be patient. Don't push too hard. Also, I don't know what situation you're getting "I'll let you know" in. Did you just meet them? Did you go on a date with them and then get that response?	/r/seduction	06/01/17 07:25 AM
8	In an extreme girl/guy ratio at a party, how to focus attention on one? Just pick one. Relax. Do your best. Be confident. If it works, great. If not, move on to the next one. The more you over-think it, the more you get worked up about it, the less confident you will be.	/r/seduction	27/11/16 07:48 AM
4	How do i stop wasting opportunities with women? You don't sound arrogant to me. Congrats on being attractive. Obviously you are attractive if you've got their attention and they're coming up to you. So, that's one thing you can tell yourself when you're dealing with your self-esteem. Are you afraid of rejection? I had this problem for a long time as well. A lot of times I couldn't even see that they were attracted to me and then they'd be gone before I even realized it. What got me over the hump was to just internally say "fuck it" and try to…	/r/seduction	30/10/16 09:48 PM
1	Story: After 1 year of texting, girl asks me out for drinks... decides she wants food... has a full blown meal and then gets mad when I don't pay for her Yeah, you wasted time with her. I'm sure lots of women out there expect the man to pay for dinner, but she was looking for a free meal. Probably for the best in the long run because you can just cut her off and go your own way. Honestly, I think you should have dropped her after she cancelled due to a person dying at work. Maybe it's true, but I really doubt it. You messed with her way too long. Then when she balked because you didn't want to eat with her, that would have been my last straw.	/r/seduction	29/10/16 04:40 AM
1	"We're not having sex tonight." I think you read that one wrong. She might have just had a bad experience with the last guy she tried "friends with benefits" with. Saying "we're not having sex tonight" does not make her a slut at all. She was probably just trying to calm your expectations, and gauge how you react to it, and you didn't react well by thinking she was a slut.	/r/seduction	27/10/16 10:42 PM
4	"We're not having sex tonight." When you're talking to her about coming back to your place, in my opinion. Makes you seem less like you're just trying to get her in bed, and more like you're just trying to keep the good times going. If you're trying to bring her home, she automatically is thinking that you want to tear her clothes off as soon as you get there anyway (and rightfully so). I think it would lessen any negative tension.	/r/seduction	27/10/16 10:35 PM
1	"We're not having sex tonight." Definitely number 4. I can see the other theories. Last time I heard that I was in a bar, met this gorgeous woman who was bar-hopping with a bunch of her friends. After she told me, I didn't flinch, just let it go, and got her number. I ended up spending the very next weekend with her at her place. So... yeah, if she says that, chances are high that if you don't blow it, you're going to have sex with her eventually.	/r/seduction	27/10/16 10:27 PM
1	Picked up a chick while blacked out. Dunno how to play it from here. Text her. Say hello. Chat with her. Don't let on that you were blacked out. Just say you liked meeting her and you want to see her again. Act normal. Could have been worse. Once I went to a beer festival with a woman I had met the week before. Was having a great time, and got so drunk that I blacked out as we were heading to her apartment. All I remember is a few hazy moments of wild sex, and then I woke up the next morning, both of us naked in her bed. Apparently I'm pretty good when I'm blacke…	/r/seduction	10/09/16 10:58 PM
1	[For Pros] What happens after you have slept with enough # of women that you thought you could never have? My personal opinion is: you're overthinking it, way too much. Growing up as a very sheltered kid in a very religious household, I had a lot to overcome. Left home 25 years ago, and can honestly say I've had more sexual partners than I thought I'd ever have. Crossed that marker a long time ago. And you know what? It still feels as great to get that girl as it did back then. Are you really doing it just to feel good about yourself? Yeah, sure. But why worry about that? If it makes you feel good ab…	/r/seduction	09/08/16 11:12 PM
3	What things can guys in their 20s work on right now so that as they get older, they are put themselves in a favorable position to do well with women? Education. Not just a degree but also real knowledge and common sense. Take care of your body. You don't have to be a fitness champion, but the more you take care of yourself in the 20's, the easier it will be when you're older. Take care of your finances. Don't ring up huge debt. Talk to everyone, have friendly conversations, find out what works for you. Get to know people. Be genuine. The more people you talk to, the more confident you can become.	/r/seduction	12/03/16 05:53 PM
1	5 failed dates in the past month. Don't know WTF I'm doing wrong I've simply been going out with girls I'm not compatible with This is your answer.	/r/seduction	07/02/16 06:04 AM
1	Im afraid of fucking up while having sex Most women don't give a shit if you fuck up while fucking. A lot of them are just as fucking worried as you are about fucking up, too. And the more you fucking think about fucking up, the more you're going to fuck it up. So my fucking advice would be to stop fucking thinking about how you're going to fuck up while fucking.	/r/seduction	21/01/16 01:49 AM
1	Pretty sure I got rejected but is this unusual? Not unusual. Has happened to me a couple times. Just look back on the good time you had, and enjoy it.	/r/seduction	06/11/15 12:36 AM
1	Is is possible to go out with a women if I dont have a car to pick her up? Yeah, there's a chance. If you live in an area with great public transportation and/or good taxis/uber, yes, there's a chance. If you do use public transportation, taxi or uber, then pay her way. Otherwise, find a car.	/r/seduction	12/09/15 02:23 AM
3	I'm 15, I've never had a gf or even as much as a first kiss can you guys help me. Stop worrying about it. The more you think about it, the more you worry about it, the more stress and pressure you put on yourself. You're 15. It's ok that you haven't had a girlfriend yet. If you want to meet someone, use that confidence and talk to people. Say hello, ask them how they are, be genuine, and talk with them. The more people you talk to, the more likely you are to meet someone interested in you. I know I'm being simplistic about it, but it's really the truth. Like you, I didn't hav…	/r/seduction	04/08/15 02:29 AM
1	How to reach back out to girl I just met after whiskey dick from previous night Call her up, apologize for the butt dial, then ask her out. Don't even bring up the whiskey dick, don't even mention it, act like it never happened, and don't over think it. Just be confident and act normal. The next time you're with her, again, don't even bring it up. You'll probably make up for it and then some.	/r/seduction	25/01/15 07:52 PM