bourbonandblonde Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Hypersexualization of women in anime and why I won't deal with men who watch it I was waiting to see this one called out! All the worst dudes I know are into it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/21 10:36 PM
21	Thank goodness men are around to give their unsolicited approval /s Dudes are so fucking corny. Even worse than "I approve" is "This pleases me," which I've had the misfortune of seeing a few times. It is ALWAYS from lameass wannabe "Doms" trying to sound formal and intellectual, and ALWAYS on content that is not for them. Puke.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/20 11:42 PM
7	"My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?" I hope she gives him divorce papers for Christmas	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/20 09:15 PM
6	LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown. I can only imagine how good it must have felt to throw the turkey off the balcony and tell him she was done cooking for him. He's lucky she didn't throw him off the balcony, instead. As for her not cooking for him any longer, he can't even be that mad because if he eats fast food instead of leftovers anyway, nothing has really changed. She's just doing a little less free labor for him and THAT's why he's mad. Dude got off super easy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/11/20 09:58 PM
32	Take my word for it, because I couldn't take your's... Agreed. I had this experience after first signing up on OKC: 1000+ likes within the first couple hours. I turned off notifications super quickly. It was painfully obvious that there were dudes who straight up lived on the app, jumping all over any and all new profiles.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/20 04:36 AM
7	Unbelievable For that he better be at LEAST Respectful, Intellectual, Capable, and Helpful. But seriously: EW.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/20 03:49 AM
2	A word about Insta-voyeurs. Lmfao my favorite "photographer " I know (that I've blocked everywhere on social media) was super into doing a pole dance shoot which 1) he would not pay me for, 2) would have to take place in my home or outside since he doesn't have a studio, and 3)thought would be "a great way to build my modeling portfolio" (I'm not a model nor am I trying to be one). I asked to see his portfolio, and he submitted a bunch of cellphone pics of his barely legal girlfriend posing awkwardly in a bargain bin corse…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 06:02 AM
2	A word about Insta-voyeurs. TFP is SUCH a racket and 99.99% of the Guys With Cameras (oh, I'm sorry, "photographers") offering it, especially to internet models or aspiring models they are working with for the first time, are creeps. I'm not a model or aspiring model. I'm a dancer (pole and aerial hoop) and through my participation in local dance festivals I've made the acquaintance of a few dance photographers. I'm almost always down to shoot with women. I'm cagier about men, but there is one man who is an actual professi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 05:58 AM
27	For 3 years I had hope in changing my LV husband. I gave him his last chance 2 months ago and I’m finally leaving. EW. This guy sounds disgusting. Breaking women? Training women to give everything and expect nothing? Dis. Gus. Ting. You deserve so much better and I'm glad you're taking action. It's never too late to raise your standards, and it's better to be with no one at all than someone who treats you like this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/20 06:17 PM
11	have you ladies seen this? I’m laughing so hard (but also crying) Oh wait here we go: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/j4ngss/no_a_laundromat_is_not_a_date/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/20 08:30 PM
6	have you ladies seen this? I’m laughing so hard (but also crying) I was looking for the post on here so I could link it, but it was a week or two ago so I gave up on all the digging. It was a MESS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/20 08:28 PM
110	have you ladies seen this? I’m laughing so hard (but also crying) I saw it on FB and immediately thought of that poor girl who had an "amazing" date in a laundromat	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/20 04:29 AM
7	Recently got banned from r/unpopularopinion because “misandry is just as bad as misogyny” I've brought this point up around male friends before. It's great for determining who I actually should stay friends with. Turns out I knew a lot of "Equality means I can hit a girl" types.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 05:48 AM
2	I casually play a mobile game (I know) and this guy in my group has been getting on my case about me not wanting to make in-game purchases and not being into gaming. He’s stagnant in his career, usually stoned, and “doesn’t like people”- your typical gamer. He can laugh and roll his eyes all he wants, but it's not gonna make him more successful or stop him from wasting his money on dumb shit. If you enjoy mobile gaming, that's great, but do nottt pour your paycheck into it. And wtf was that Haiti comment?! I have a super addictive personality so the only "game" I let myself play is Duolingo. And I'm not paying for the plus version, lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 05:40 AM
9	I casually play a mobile game (I know) and this guy in my group has been getting on my case about me not wanting to make in-game purchases and not being into gaming. He’s stagnant in his career, usually stoned, and “doesn’t like people”- your typical gamer. I hate how men will throw out "Oh you like fAsHiOn?" when trying to diss you like...yeah, I do. Fashion is history, culture, art, economics, skill...I could go on but you get the point. What interests does this dude have in his life other than mobile gaming and throwing money down the toilet?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 05:36 AM
4	How I teach men not to talk over me: from one queen to another, when basic respect is lagging and conversations are impossible This is so smart. My bf and my sister's bf are both excitable extroverts who talk over me and my sister all the time without thinking. I have no problems calling them out when they do it, and they've both promised to be more aware of not interrupting but they still do it on occasion. I usually favor the "Sorry, did the middle of my sentence interrupt the beginning of yours?" approach, but I prefer to use that on random dudes and LVM that I don't care about. Your approach is more subtle and I thi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/20 05:52 PM