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freestyle rapping Dump him. The reason you are a plate is because you devalue your time and yourself by putting up with this bullshit, and I don't just mean the rapping.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 11:22 PM
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Yup! Or grocery shopping. I always take care of the grocery shopping and I have a friend at work (whom I care for but she is pretty much the opposite of how I am/want to be in every way) who has said, why don't you just give him a list and send him grocery shopping? Um, I don't "send" him anywhere. He is not a piece of postage. Although he is a great "package" lol.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/14 04:15 PM
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I do the same. One of my very close friends is a feminist and I try not to talk about anything like that when we hang out. But when we do I give my honest opinion. We watched Gone Girl together and she started talking about how misogynistic it is. I tried to explain how I saw it, that two of the main male characters were also portrayed as either batshit crazy or impulsive and self serving, and that there was also a benevolent female character (Margo) who was kind of like the main male characters…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 11:47 PM
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On Reddit, yes. But, bring on the pitchforks. I'm spitting truth. In real life, nope. Everyone just thinks I have a perfect husband. I do sometimes feel like my friends are probing for cracks in our marriage ("why doesn't he cook dinner?") because they don't want to feel any guilt for bad mouthing their husbands. They won't find any, my man is gold.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/14 11:36 PM
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I read it as, it's his week to receive pleasure without having to reciprocate. That's why it's "his" week. All about him. Which is great... IF he's your captain.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 06:20 PM
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A little furikake and some pickled ginger on the side, I'm in carb heaven :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 05:22 AM
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I would love for my husband to talk to me like that. Hot! :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/14 05:43 PM
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And they both are successful and happy and love one another. That's all you need to know. Time to leave it alone and be happy for your friend.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 03:49 PM
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In my experience the best thing to do is wait for the person in need to ask for your help. I have close friends whom I've watched make mistakes, and eventually they are so flustered that they start to ask, "How do YOU do X?" or "What do you think I should do about X?" Otherwise they will find you preachy and your advice will never be valuable to them again.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 08:18 PM
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I have a similar friend! We work together and have lunch together every day. It's so hard! She makes me feel so guilty for making healthy choices for myself - because they make her feel guilty about her bad choices. I find myself playing up the unhealthy parts of my lunches to shut her up quickly. **edit: Also wanted to add that she is terrible with her money and extremely bossy/controlling with her boyfriend. Didn't want to edit to add complaints but to further your point that it is so hard to …
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 08:08 PM
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Can't say if she is right or wrong, it sounds like she might be sick. I do appreciate you posting your schedule, though. It motivates me to do more when I get home from work. Hope your friend can improve his marriage and that his wife gets help if she needs it!
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 03:22 PM
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I loved writing this reply, such good memories! -I used to keep his favorite foods at my place and cook for him at his place. -I bought a pack of socks and underwear for him and kept it at my place so he'd always have clean ones in the morning. Once in a great while if I saw a t-shirt I though he'd like I would put it in my closet for him to find. (I still do this now) -"manly" toiletries in my bathroom/shower for him. -If I left after he'd gone to work, I would make his bed and clean his room a…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 03:16 PM
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Ha ha yep! I have a few friends who treat me like I've joined a cult. Really his principles are nothing new, more like common sense!
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 05:43 AM
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That's great! Our last debt will be paid off next march. Yes, he can be very preachy, ha ha! I look past it like you said :) thanks for responding!
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 02:06 AM
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Totally agree. You can hear in her voice how much she venerates and adores her husband for the leader that he has become, and he loves her for following and trusting him.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/14 11:17 PM
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I think it's great. I have wanted to come and talk without necessarily having enough fodder to start a thread over it. I'd really enjoy a weekly thread. Anyone else been downvoted to oblivion in AskWomen? Tough crowd, tough crowd. edit: grammar
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/14 11:40 PM
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Super new, and thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/14 11:26 PM
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But... But... He likes my tongue ring.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/14 08:22 PM
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I thought I was ready for him to propose after dating two years, but I now know I was just drinkin' the kool-aid, as they say. After dating three years we bought a house together, lived together for almost two years before we decided to get engaged. When we were dating I had grand ideas of what his proposal would be like. When I was really ready to be his wife, I just told him I was ready when he was. We went to the mall together and picked out the ring the next weekend. I wouldn't have it any o…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/14 06:27 PM
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I'm glad you were able to find something in between breaking up and going all in with fingers crossed! Best of luck to you! :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/14 06:23 PM
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Thanks for looking out for us Phantom! :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/14 04:45 PM
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Thank you for posting this!
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/14 04:37 PM
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I have a couple of other friends who do that, it's disgusting. At least your friend came out and said it rather than the passive aggressive bullshit clogging up my feed. "Sorry I'm not perfect. " "some people need to _________"
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/14 07:50 PM
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She wishes she could be with her "family". Her husband and child don't count?
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/14 07:47 PM
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My sentiments exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/14 07:46 PM
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P.S. the kid is one, I highly doubt he cares "how many" presents he has.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/14 06:02 PM
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Thanks for posting! I hope you keep commenting! You are totally correct, that girl is a slob and not an asset to her man. You on the other hand have your shit together and she could stand to take a page from your book!
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/14 05:54 PM
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My honest opinion is that a woman who cannot be self sufficient (at least before marriage) can not be an asset to her man, only a drain. You are in no place to marry this guy. Not only have you only been together a year, but he doesn't even know if that's what he wants. I'm not sure what you debt vs income is, and not sure if you feel comfortable divulging that information. But I see the worst case scenario here as: You drop everything and move in with him. You are not only broke but in debt, ca…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/14 04:06 PM
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Thanks for sharing! I don't think that's the problem. In fact I think I was pretty clingy in the beginning, ha. Thank you for chiming in though, I really appreciate it!
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/14 03:35 PM
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We are very much the same. He lets things "fix themselves", I am trigger happy with decisions and we have a great balance together. He not telling me about big deals at work, that would be a hard one to get used to since we used to work together. Not sure if that will eventually be the case for us but I will have to leave that up to him (gotta get used to that!). Thanks so much for your help, I will keep you guys updated here at /r/redpillwomen.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/14 11:22 PM
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Thank you, that's a good thing to keep in my bank of things to think before i speak :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/14 03:29 PM
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Wow, thanks! I will begin to keep my mouth shut. Now that I think about it, I do question him in front of people. Mostly little things like which route he's taking to go somewhere, but now I feel like a total asshole for it. Questions: Do you and your husband/SO still rib each other at all? Or has it just changed into a more respectful version? And did you warn him or discuss it with him before you began enacting changes? Or did he just naturally rise to the occasion? Thank again, I always enjoy…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/14 03:27 PM
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Thank you. I was raised to be very independent so it's hard for me to step back. It's not that I don't think he will deliver, it's just my instinct to get going as soon as I have a direction to go. I don't think I complain much but it's hard to say from my own perspective. Thank you, I will keep those things in mind. We really never argue. There have only been a few issues between us and we've always worked them out without raising our voices or insulting each other. But I do get extremely emoti…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/14 03:09 PM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/14 09:02 PM
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Also any general advice on how to be a badass "first mate" is appreciated :). This comment really struck a chord with me: http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1u1bjz/new_years_resolution/cedlmi8
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/14 06:27 PM
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