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Conversationbowliat42/r/seduction04/07/24 07:05 PM
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Yeah of course I am/do, but I’m not looking for a quick root, and there’s a very slim margin of men who are at bars/on dating apps that aren’t looking for that. So yeah, I don’t feel like I can compete
/r/seduction27/07/24 03:40 AM
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I think it also affects how women perceive themselves; like I don’t go up to guys or participate in behaviour that would invite them to approach me because all men are following crazy hot OF models that I just can’t compete with
/r/seduction25/07/24 11:13 PM
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Honestly this might actually be the best thing you could do to become more attractive to women, women love men with a passion, we think it’s hot
/r/seduction23/07/24 09:35 PM
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wtf is a slut defence 💀
/r/seduction21/07/24 04:55 AM
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Thanks! Not saying you need to settle at all, but maybe if you’re only going after women for superficial reasons, it’s never going to end well. Maybe you just need to put yourself in the social circles the type of woman you’re after would be in. If you want someone in the same career (helps given you guys would be on similar schedules) then going to legal networking events might be a good idea? Or get into a sport! My country just had a ‘singles event’ run by our national sport (Australian footb…
/r/seduction21/07/24 04:54 AM
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me when I lie
/r/seduction20/07/24 10:15 AM
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Whenever men have ‘short term fun’ as a dating intention! That’s the one on tinder, each app has its own version of that though
/r/seduction20/07/24 10:12 AM
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If you’re on the apps, make sure it’s clear you’re after one-night kind of things. If you’re at bars and clubs, ask them (but don’t be a creep about it). As long as you’re open about your intentions, most women appreciate the honesty.
/r/seduction20/07/24 09:40 AM
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You shouldn’t be trying to date if all you’re interested in is the physical element. There’s plenty of women who’ll be physical with you straight away if that’s what you want, but don’t expect a relationship out of it. If she wants to take it slow, you have to respect that, or find someone else.
/r/seduction20/07/24 07:28 AM
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I comment this on almost every post I see like this: evaluate the type of woman you’re approaching. I’m about to be admitted as a lawyer too, it’s a really isolating career path (only a paralegal at the moment, but I’m still working ridiculous hours). So I understand your pain, but are you seeking out available women? I hate saying this, but are you approaching women in your league? I’m pretty bang average, but you see men always go for the most attractive woman in the room. You’re competing wit…
/r/seduction20/07/24 04:27 AM
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I think we’re both pretty on par with each other, I can dm you some photos of us if I’m deluded though
/r/seduction14/07/24 04:31 AM
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I can’t comment on your looks, but I can comment on being 16 and being very self conscious. You’re not alone in that sense, as a woman I will tell you most girls at that age are in the exact same place. If you want to send me a message you’re welcome to, but a decent woman (looking for a relationship) will go for personality over looks almost every time. Being 16 though, it feels like the opposite. I think you’ve also gotta think about what kind of girl you’re approaching, and what you hope to g…
/r/seduction07/07/24 08:02 AM
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I would actually disagree you need to be conventionally attractive, most men (just physically — not counting personality here) will do well with most women if they; wear nice clothes, smell nice, get a good haircut etc etc. You can make a hell of a difference without actually changing all that much, it’s definitely more about effort than genetics
/r/seduction07/07/24 07:54 AM
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The beach is a tricky one, my local beach has an outdoor shopping mall with kiosks and stuff, so maybe an invite to get an ice cream or something if that’s an option? Also (if you’re studying) going to the library to do university work is usually good for finding people your age. Issue with trying to meet people at the beach is people usually want to be left alone, only other thing I can think of that would work would be going to the beach with mates and playing beach volleyball and inviting peo…
/r/seduction06/07/24 10:38 PM
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Yes! Ambition is so important, me and my girlfriends always say that a guy having something he really wants (like sport, career etc.) is really really hot
/r/seduction06/07/24 02:42 PM
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Any woman worth dating is going to immediately value a good conversation over conventional attractiveness, so just going up to a girl and saying ‘hey you’re cute can I have your number’ isn’t really going to work, I know it wouldn’t work on me. Most women definitely do like to be complimented on their appearance, but speaking from the experience of me and my friends, being called funny or smart resonates a lot more. My only piece of advice is to be creative, and also evaluate the type of woman y…
/r/seduction06/07/24 02:41 PM
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The logical part of me agrees with you, but every other part of me is saying it’s gotta be physical. Like last night me and my friend were chatting to these two guys from Manchester at a bar, I’m single and she’s not, and even when they were told she’s dating someone, both of them were complimenting her, lightly touching her, (making some very English remarks and innuendos to her — really classy) and even though I know that’s not the type of guy I want, it’d be nice to feel like an option
/r/seduction06/07/24 02:25 PM
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Yeah that’s like 80% of my problem, if I really wanted a root I know where I could get one by the end of the day, but I don’t, so I’m struggling to find places to meet people that feel the same
/r/seduction05/07/24 05:15 AM
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I’m from Sydney. The whole ‘north shore’ stereotype definitely works against me
/r/seduction05/07/24 05:12 AM
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I am a very very very bad goal keeper for a women’s soccer team, but besides that I really don’t do (or have time for) much else other than work and university (probably half my problem). I don’t feel very comfortable posting a photo of myself on reddit so I’ll PM you
/r/seduction04/07/24 08:31 PM
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I’m in Germany at the moment and am definitely shocked at the cultural differences in dating (and average height), even just little things like getting smiled at
/r/seduction04/07/24 08:27 PM
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so good to hear the Aussie dating nightmare isn’t just in my head 😭 Everything is very dating app focused nowadays, and I find that the dating apps don’t help at all, I’m very much the type of person to be only chatting to one person at a time, so the whole ‘infinite option’ idea that dating apps provide really works against me
/r/seduction04/07/24 08:25 PM
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I don’t think I’m hideous, but I’m definitely not going viral by just lip syncing to a tiktok song anytime soon. I was the kid that got asked out as a joke in high school so I’ve never been the most confident, probably a little on the shyer side initially. I probably don’t make as much eye contact as I should, I just find it very difficult to believe someone would pick me over someone shorter and smaller than me, so I don’t want to embarrass myself.
/r/seduction04/07/24 07:24 PM
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