boxinsideme Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	it's called the game for a reason, and you are the player	Fundamentals	boxinsideme	/r/seduction	11/08/22 01:56 AM

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1	I’m 30 and I’ve never had a girlfriend, my face is very disproportionate and I’m on autism spectrum, could I realistically make myself attractive to women? (Pics included) Hey brother, I can totally relate to you on the weak chin bit. My chin looks very similar to yours and I also don't like going clean shaven because of that, so in a way I do think that you are better suited for a beard. I think you could let the beard grow out a little more as well as grow the hair out some more because there are probably more styles out there that could work for you too. You're not ugly, either. In fact, I know that you could be attractive to women because you have a few qualit…	/r/seduction	29/10/22 02:33 AM
4	Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned. If I go on a first date with a woman and she's beautiful and convo flows well, and she tells me she doesn't have sex till there's a strong emotional connection / a couple of months of dating, I'm totally okay with waiting. I think most guys are. The problem is we're under SO much pressure to make moves on dates, because if we don't, we typically get friendzoned rather quickly. The problem is when you are not the one maintaining the control and dynamic of the situation. You should always be makin…	/r/seduction	23/10/22 03:22 AM
1	Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned. you sound like a man who is good in bed, which is a very underappreciated aspect of seduction, at least in this community.	/r/seduction	23/10/22 02:59 AM
1	How can I stop focusing on finding a girlfriend? whatever, don't worry about that guy. Most men do much better mentally when they are in a relationship. We need women to function in many ways. I hate my own company and my lady and our child is the most fulfilling and wonderful part of all this. Family is everything. A couple things to think about: Insecurity and not being confident in who you are is a problem. You should be able to accept all the parts of who you are, including the ugly parts. Your sexuality. Your shortcomings. These are all w…	/r/seduction	08/10/22 12:06 AM
2	How can I stop focusing on finding a girlfriend? Busting a nut while I blocked her was way better than having sex with her tbf	/r/seduction	07/10/22 11:42 PM
1	How can I stop focusing on finding a girlfriend? Yes, OP needs to figure everything else out first so he can still be miserable and single when he is 29 and his life is finally approved of by a bunch of anonymous online identities. Two steps forward and three steps back is the best way to handle these types of sitchimications.	/r/seduction	07/10/22 11:36 PM
3	How can I stop focusing on finding a girlfriend? Yes, OP needs to figure everything else out first so he can still be miserable and single when he is 29 and his life is finally approved of by a bunch of anonymous online identities. Two steps forward and three steps back is the best way to handle these types of sitchimications.	/r/seduction	07/10/22 11:36 PM
11	things were going great and I told her my love for her "things were going great and I told her my love for her" bad move. learn your lesson and don't do it again. no, don't hang out with her as a friend now, c'mon man. bad move.	/r/seduction	29/09/22 03:47 PM
3	How to take the conversation in a flirting direction You've gotten a lot of great advice here already, so I'll add this one since I didn't see it - and this advice goes for both when you're on the date building attraction and later when you're in the bedroom: to create attraction you should build tension. Increase the tension between you and her incrementally up up up getting intense getting closer and so very close and then release it. Break the tension, bring things back to baseline. Let her regain her composure for a moment and then start going…	/r/seduction	22/09/22 01:19 PM
4	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) If there are a bunch of women pissed off in the comments, then you know it's a good post	/r/seduction	12/09/22 12:19 PM
1	Did I fuck up there? The person you are replying to is giving you horrible advice. I can almost guarantee that's a woman - don't listen to her. She doesn't get it - you don't want "just to be yourself" because that hasn't been working, so you need to figure out where you're lacking in your game, and it is probably in your escalation and tension. You actually have a fine situation set up here, you just need to utilize it properly to make it work. This chick has established to you already that she has interest in you,…	/r/seduction	24/08/22 05:42 AM
1	it's called the game for a reason, and you are the player I'm Seducto: The Perverted Psychopathic Clown available to work all your children's birthday parties, bahmitzfahs and bris and the young ladies quinceañera Seducto brought a bed bug infestation into my home. I wouldn't recommend.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 08:48 PM
2	it's called the game for a reason, and you are the player That is really good post. Finally someone sad it. I appreciate that! Where women wants things like anger, happiness, fear, uncertainty, validation etc. Men crave for ego boost, control, recognition, power. You are describing the need that some men have to be validated. This isn't quite the same thing. What I'm saying is that men fall hard for a woman they find attractive right away. Men are visually stimulated. Men are attracted to women based on things like status, social class etc. Women take …	/r/seduction	11/08/22 12:22 PM
2	it's called the game for a reason, and you are the player Who needs good looking friends and nightlife experience? What does that have to do with being good with women?	/r/seduction	11/08/22 07:32 AM
13	What can I do alone on a Friday night? Besides bars and club Get a part time job at a restaurant. Boom - now you're surrounded by hot girls. They are your coworkers. Much easier than cold approaching at the bar.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 07:12 AM
4	Is it ever too late to start dating and stuff if you have no experience? I’m approaching thirty and getting a bit worried about it being too late Don't listen to this joker. Thirty is when life starts for many men. Read my post and the comments: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/wlf94c/its_called_the_game_for_a_reason_and_you_are_the/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share	/r/seduction	11/08/22 07:08 AM
6	it's called the game for a reason, and you are the player Exactly. Thank you! This subreddit has really gone downhill. Look at FDS. As a man, it will make you angry pretty quick reading that stuff. And if you try to comment on FDS, as a man, you get banned immediately. That is what should happen to women in this forum. They can spectate but they should not be allowed to participate... And yes, good seduction material is supposed to make women upset... that's not the purpose of it, or anything, but good stuff makes women upset because, as you said, they…	/r/seduction	11/08/22 06:07 AM
1	How do I stop getting attached to people I meet on dating apps People don't know what the fuck they're doing anymore. First of all, both yourself and these gentlemen you are meeting shouldn't be giving it up so easily. Both parties need to be playing hard to get a bit more. When you have sex after the first meet up, that's it. You've both fully exposed yourselves to each other before you even really got to know them as a person. Man... if I really liked you a lot I would be playing my cards a little smarter. I'm gonna dangle that carrot in front of you for …	/r/seduction	11/08/22 03:35 AM
1	it's called the game for a reason, and you are the player I know this is a good post because women don't like it. They shouldn't be lurking here anyway. A woman that is annoyed by you is more likely to have sex with you than a woman who thinks you're "a good guy."	/r/seduction	11/08/22 03:10 AM
5	it's called the game for a reason, and you are the player Haha, I hope you're a woman, because that means I'm doing something right. Women typically aren't fans of good advice around here. Haha!	/r/seduction	11/08/22 03:07 AM
1	Why this "don't tryhard" advice is stupid. Dude, I agree with you 100% and have been saying the same thing about this particular subreddit for years. You're probably younger than I am, so you may have not gotten to experience the original, old school seduction community. It was so much fucking better back then. People in here these days talk shit about the old seduction community and "PUAs". Sure, it was much more misogynistic overall, but it was also a community of exclusively men (there weren't all these women here lurking back in the …	/r/seduction	11/08/22 03:03 AM
2	Why do girls do this? You want her to be fighting a mental battle over why it's been three months and you still haven't dropped the "L" word yet... ... because, I never say it first, woman.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 02:56 AM
5	Why do girls do this? Well, I mean, truthfully, I uhh... Yes.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 02:54 AM
3	How do I unlock my inner flirt? Here's some more homie: You don't want to talk about your intentions to her. You don't want to talk to her about anything sexual like that. This is done discreetly, through body language, eye contact and physical escalation. You're nervous for the wrong reasons, you're approaching things the wrong way. Just continue to talk to women just the way you do, but throw in the eye contact and physical touch. Does that make sense? This is how you let her know your intentions. Trust me, bro ;)	/r/seduction	11/08/22 02:38 AM
1	First I approach, flirt , how do I escalate to a date? Ok, so I would suggest you try to be less outcome dependent. The goal shouldn't be getting her number. Truthfully, getting her number really don't mean much by itself. Instead, make your goal a positive interaction that the woman walks away from feeling good about. Women are emotionally driven. Make her feel happy, make her feel good, make her laugh. Sounds like you're already doing that part, so you're on your way. You have two paths in front of you. You can flirt with customers, but I would re…	/r/seduction	11/08/22 02:32 AM
2	How do I unlock my inner flirt? It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Say you're talking about what you had for breakfast. Say you had a McGriddle sandwich for breakfast, and it was absolutely fucking incredible it was (I fucking love those sandwiches). Now then, you're describing how amazing the sandwich was, but in your mind your describing how desirable she is to you and how attractive you find - and how amazing it would be if you guys were to experience one another at your place, so you can make her pancakes for brea…	/r/seduction	11/08/22 02:17 AM