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| 4 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.Define Charming.. | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 01:25 PM |
| 1 | What do I have to do to date/sleep with girls "out of my league"?Hit the gym or pay for it. Also you’re in whatever league you want to be in. Keep trying. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How to stop telling myself I’ll approach today then I end up walking around for 2-3 hours ?Do each of these for one week while you walk around… (stop trying to get laid for a bit) do these as you pass people and don’t stop to chat. Step one: saying hi to everyone.m&f Step two: saying hi and giving them a legit compliment… brighten their day.m&f Step three: saying hi, giving a legit compliment, say something about anything relevant. Weather? Traffic? Crowd? Try introducing yourself..(Asking for directions worked for me here) like: any suggestions for a place to XYZ? M&f Step four: step… | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 11:56 PM |
| 1 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?15 minutes from meeting. | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so hard to hook up with single women?Be BLATANT but respectful. Things such as “You do know I’m flirting with you right?” Actually do work. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 10:57 PM |
| 5 | Did I give her the ick? and how to move forward.Yes but be a man about it. Don’t even mention it again. Try not to be awkward about it.. and chill out. If you’re not comfortable in your confidence you’re in her timeline… | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Did I give her the ick? and how to move forward.Not a mistake. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Step up. Be respectful and not a creep. Gentlemen first always. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 11:16 PM |
| 25 | I’m killer at making women laugh, but I quickly run into an issue in my interactionsYou stop and ask them to tell you a story… Or something like - I’ve been doing all the talking , what about you? Bring them INTO your act or you zero in focus and tonality down and switch gears….. slow down, and ask them things that get them to talk about anything. Their day, their dog, their shoes, their dress, people they hate at work…, | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 03:55 AM |
| 13 | What’s your strategy when you’re trying to arrange a date but your schedule just doesn’t align with someone’s else’s?A quick anything? Coffee? Lunch? 20 minutes- just to say you’re making the effort? | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex. We just feel immense amount of pressure to make moves on dates because we don't want to be friendzoned.Yes I know reading comprehension is tough for the short bus -basement types. I didn’t bring my crayons to explain it to you… next time ask your mom. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 11:12 PM |
| 114 | Unpopular opinion: most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex. We just feel immense amount of pressure to make moves on dates because we don't want to be friendzoned.Yup. Aggressive but not asshole. Alpha but still a gentleman. Respectful but firm. Honest but a bad boy. Willing to at least step up and try… it’s a weird dichotomy. Better to try and fail than not… | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 04:56 PM |
| 0 | How to make the jump from touches on the arm hand to the waist? What do you do beforehand to make sure the girl will be comfortable with you doing that?Dude . Just no. If it’s not clear don’t get touchy. If it’s not clear play it (are you flirting with me? -yes? dang I’m slow sometimes……No? Dam! Why not? I never get to have fun or dam are you sure? I was hoping you were!!😉) all very tongue in cheek.. Banter is a skill that will pay in all aspects of life.. practice practice practice!!! | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 08:06 AM |
| 5 | How to find out a girls sexual orientationAsk? If you are getting to know each other- why not learn that? Ask about her ex and why it ended … seems like that would be an opener… 🤔 | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Probably matched 20 girls in Tinder and got initial responses from two, then nothing. what gives?Uhmmmm because it’s a sub about tinder ? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Probably matched 20 girls in Tinder and got initial responses from two, then nothing. what gives?Post this in r/Tinder 🤭 | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:08 AM |
| 4 | do women in general see PUA or anything related to PUA as a red flag?Their opinions technically shouldn’t really matter to you. If you’re not a scumbag then your not in their targeted demo. One thing people forget is the PUA thing has helped countless men learn to socialize and break their social anxiety. Yes there are bad actors in all aspects of life…. And the concepts of “seduction” can be cold and heartless- but it’s just another way to “game” your programming to jump hurdles towards what your after. PUA crap also works in business , sales, social interaction… | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 08:27 PM |
| 17 | do women in general see PUA or anything related to PUA as a red flag?Knowing the difference between harassment and trying to meet new people isn’t rocket science. Learning better ways to do any skill and bettering your life experience is only a good thing. Sounds like the people in that blog aren’t your target audience…. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:28 PM |
| 0 | What are good non-sexual sexual words to throw in the conversation?This -or a version of this is great… but you definitely have to read them and stay in gentlemanly check while speaking. Tonality helps- which makes doing this in a loud club nearly impossible…. please disregard the 1 post 4 karma account down below telling you different. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Should I(26M) feel embarrased for not fucking a girl(27F) when on the bedroom?Snap out of it dude. You think she’s hot, she tried to sleep with you- did she say she wanted a relationship with you. 💁🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🫣 Game isn’t over, just over for now. Man kids these days. Anyway -live and learn. Also forever flirt (subtly) with her. One of you will cave eventually… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Should I(26M) feel embarrased for not fucking a girl(27F) when on the bedroom?If you didn’t/don’t have interest then why the post,why the overthinking, why question anything, why are we having this conversation? It ain’t no thing but a chicken wing. I say 🤷🏻♂️🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Should I(26M) feel embarrased for not fucking a girl(27F) when on the bedroom?You failed to mention in the original post, that she LITERALLY put your hands where she wanted them. That is about as blatant as it gets. Anyway …. Question is: Asking her out after that. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:21 AM |
| 0 | Why would this girl who i met while working give me her phone number if she got a bf?So much to be said about this tactic. A lot to unpack. A cautious man would drop bro code and steer clear. However a little adrenaline and danger makes it fun. Consider that she may be playing the bs “I’ve got a bf” angle to Keep things casual or cover for her dude that’s ok with it- if he’s a fireman he’s pulling numbers. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 10:46 PM |
| 5 | Girl I’m flirting with wants to go to Strip clubHave fun- her friends working there are probably kicking her down for bringing in people… and will pay her back a set amount that she tips … (dated many- it’s a common thing they do) So go have fun as you would any other time at a club but don’t be her “pay for it” chump…. It’s fun to goto s-clubs with women that are into it… keep your whits about you tho… | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 01:10 AM |
| 5 | MINDF*CK - Rewiring your brain for success (Letter #1)Great stuff.. writing style on point-direct and tight… a little “extra” but not offensive . 9.8/10 | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Std scareThis is the way | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 04:36 AM |
| 14 | Std scareAnd imagine ALL the ingredients in that salad… 🤐🤢 | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Std scareNo… no sex for you until you do your homework… | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 04:34 AM |
| 15 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?So which gif closed the deal? | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 09:42 PM |
| 19 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?You win the interweb today… ten points to Alabama house! | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 09:41 PM |
| 0 | How to ask if she has a BF without being weird?Facts…. I use it as part of the conversation. “Do you have a boyfriend ? THATS how you ask… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 06:37 PM |
| 7 | Going on a date with a woman more than twice my age. I think she’s beautiful and I’m very excited!Ok… so what happened last time? | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Am I a Simp for this?Jet blue. $200… go have some fun dude… | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 09:28 PM |
| 5 | She gave me her number but has a gf, whats the next stepThis is the way. Also don’t be a douche. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 08:07 PM |
| 8 | She gave me her number but has a gf, whats the next stepAlso bro code does apply- you definitely don’t want to make enemies with the GF.. also they may just keep you around if it’s an open thing. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 07:33 PM |
| 4 | She gave me her number but has a gf, whats the next stepBe respectful -if she has a GF it may be “ok” for her to play… if anything go into it open minded and be the best you. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 07:21 PM |
| 9 | She gave me her number but has a gf, whats the next stepThis is the way…. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 07:00 PM |
| 0 | This is so confusingAsk again. Dead seriously and tell her you also don’t want to lose the friendship but if that’s what it takes…. You’re willing to risk it | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Girl asked if another guy can join the date i asked her on.Why does the guy she brings have to be gay for people to be comfortable with it. Is that supposed to be less threatening or something? Anyway… tell her you don’t think that would be very romantic- but ok, you can do the romantic thing another time.. 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | I've build myself up from the ground and now I've reached the final stepFlirt ,whatever- your process is to get the conversation opened up. Reality is you don’t know a person enough from one conversation to want a relationship with them, no? Nothing wrong with saying “hey I think you’re great and would like to get to know you better…We should go out sometime…” “Seduction” and basic manipulation gets you a few things… but a genuine relationship is generally not one of them. Still approach, still talk to EVERYONE- not just women you’re trying to F, but now you’re in t… | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 08:00 PM |
| 3 | I've build myself up from the ground and now I've reached the final step“Built” Great personal progress. I get that you’re seeing this as a step by step process and that’s good from an analytical approach. I think you may be overthinking the whole thing. That’s awesome that you’ve faced your fears - it’s a skill that will carry through for the rest of your life. Just do what you’ve been doing-If you find someone you’re interested in, step up. Tell them. Tell them -you think they’re (XYZ reason) and you guys should go out sometime. If it’s relationship bound then it … | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:27 PM |
| 7 | Should I walk a girl to the apartment entrance after a hookup?Always be a fkn gentleman. If anything practice. Walk her to her car… But you do what you feel is good… | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 06:29 AM |
| 4 | Should I walk a girl to the apartment entrance after a hookup?This is the way | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Explain?So you come here for advice and argue with people? I’m going to have to agree with the “immature” statement someone else up above penned. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Explain?Wow must be good. Not one period in that whole statement…. She’s tweaking your melon buddy. Chill TF out. Why not ask her? But do it the next time you hook up. She seems to want to be in control …let her think she is | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 05:39 AM |
| 6 | A sneaky way to date a 10This shouldn’t be in this sub… | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Do people cuddle after the first time they have sex?Bro…. You just had sex- that “wanting to cuddle “ is an oxytocin response. It’s there as a bonding function. … while not horrible, “cuddling” is an after sex bonding response. (Read up a bit it’ll make sense I promise) | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Real talk: does *cold* approach daygame actually work? I’m talking sidewalk, park, grocery store, etc. I’ve heard mixed opinions.Practice in nearly anything improves the statistical outcome. Learning to talk to people is like a muscle that needs to be worked out. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 12:42 AM |
| 2 | When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer?Well after bible study we can work on affirmations and then make out. Or cake and ice cream. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 09:37 PM |
| 0 | Advice for dating/meeting not at the bar/club/dating apps?RemindMe 10days | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:45 PM |
| 0 | Advice for dating/meeting not at the bar/club/dating apps?!remindme 10 days | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | She was doing this to me at the beach, does she like me?Just would like to point out to any women reading this- guys really don’t have a clue as to intent these days and need to be hit over the head sometimes to get the hint. Dr Drew said it decently… “ women look for red flags, men look for green lights” | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl sent me a picture of her in a bikiniCa ca ca ca CATFISH! Video chat | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Fun and exciting places to have sex? Looking to spice up my marriage bc I’ve been a potatoTry camping for practice. Find a great restaurant. The gold standard is ikea. Double dog dare you…. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 04:46 PM |
| 2 | what places are an absolute no-go for cold approaching?Free clinic.. planned parenthood. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Where to meet easy girls?Not just easy he wants. Also free. 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | I have a pretty nice physique but I am lean, so I look just normal in clothes. Is there anything I can do about this to improve my chances with women?Yeah you just need shirts that fit you right.. tight to arms , shoulders, drape off chest. Not all brands are created equal.. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | [28M] 2.5 Year dry spell as a Bartender in a College/Beach town. Bartender Game advice?(Bartender for15 years) A bartender in a college town , A BEACH college town - with no day game? What do you do behind the bar when you’re working? The gig is half show/entertainment half pouring drinks…. Learn some jokes/tricks/flair….. greatest captive audience to work on talking to people ever. They’re literally sitting there STARING at you waiting to be talked to.. Books, dogs, read the news paper, tech articles, ANYTHING to give you jump off points for conversation…. Flirt flirt flirt!! If … | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | I cold approached a femboy and got publicly humiliated, what did I do wrong?And you’re telling me this why? | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | How to initiate sex outside of the own place?Gee- why not your place , a hotel, an air bnb, or your own car? I truly hope whoever you think is going to participate willingly with you sees it as creepy as we all do in this sub. I don’t know if I should be concerned or confused after reading this.. seems you’ve already scoped out the area. Anyone else see this as a red flag? | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 04:27 PM |
| 148 | I cold approached a femboy and got publicly humiliated, what did I do wrong?You still shot your shot. That’s the win. No worries… stop tripping on your height. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 02:33 PM |
| 2 | I’m a little lostSigh……. 🤦🏻♂️……. Here’s a crazy thought. Ask her out. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Find my coworker attractive, need advice on how to proceed“non cagare dove mangi” 🤨🤌🏻 | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Esoteric question to seasoned "pimps"Strange right? Collective consciousness. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 03:19 AM |
| 0 | Inducing the "boyfriend bomb" from a girlIf she has one and doesn’t tell you- she’s a cheater and he’s not that important | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 08:19 PM |
| 3 | how to be attractive for men?No way to really answer this without being looked at like a douche , will try anyway… Personally- it’s definitely not all about looks. I like a woman that takes care of herself. Doesn’t have to be all made up fancy but nice when she does. Shows she takes pride in her health and appearance. This takes on many forms and shows through in her brilliance and confidence-as it does with anyone. Being passionate about something (hobby? Charity? Pets? Cooking?Art?) scores points with all men. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | THE NUMBER 1 REASON YOU LOOK LIKE A CREEPSo demanding. Sheesh do I have to leave my chainsaw outside too? | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | THE NUMBER 1 REASON YOU LOOK LIKE A CREEPDang and I JUST got all the blood stains off my clown costume. Now what? Take a shower ? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:41 PM |
| 9 | What backlash should I expect because of my relationship? 26-year-old male dating 19-year-old female.Wrong sub. Alert! Alert!! Wrong sub. Turn back turn back…. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 11:39 PM |
| 2 | I left my number for the cute waitress and she texted me "Heyyy". What do I do?Text her back… introduce yourself, repeat your offer… ask if she’d like to do whatever: coffee, food, hike, Rob a bank, start a revolution.. at some point when hanging out do tell her you’re new at all this and don’t have a lot of experience. Be honest. It helps cover anything you think may be awkward… | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | I left my number for the cute waitress and she texted me "Heyyy". What do I do?This is the way…. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I not give this a fuck?Id skip it. You’ll find in life the people you grew up with become less and less important as you move forward in life… put yourself first, and have a fabulous life - | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 08:47 PM |
| 6 | Is it normal to be handsome and not have game…Practice. Also you could play up the naïveté and rookie status. Women love handsome projects.. if you have the looks- then hit the gym- and practice being a well rounded human being. Do you have anything you are knowledgeable about or a cause you are passionate about? Roll the convo towards that. Most importantly don’t be a douche,stand up straight and learn eye contact… | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 02:29 AM |
| 3 | 😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches)This is the way..z | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 01:20 AM |
| 2 | How Do You Deal With Arrogant Women?Well it worked because she’s got you thinking about her… this was the end game. She was tweaking you /mild frustration and making you think you had a say or mild chance but blew it…. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 04:38 AM |
| 4 | How to stop looking at women when at the library?This is the way | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:30 PM |
| 4 | When it comes to looking for a girl that is wife/gf material would it be a red flag if you fooled around with her on date 2? Think everything but no sex and no bjTotally ok. The weird part is you thinking it’s something . Nobody cares it only matters if you think it matters | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:24 PM |
| 44 | I have no idea what to talk about when I meet a girl at a party/pubToe dip subjects until you get an interested response… if you get nothing, talk about something everyone likes or hates - likes- funny dog or cat stories. Hates- traffic ? Bad fast food, parking tickets/meter maids. Warning: going down the negative road only works conversationally if they find that stuff funny- … | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Help me unsell the bag.Because she can. So you’re friends…. No biggy . Time to lower priority and find other stuff to do….. give it a time off. No contact see how that goes..and then next time you talk , see how it goes. Wait for her to contact you… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Help me unsell the bag.So what do want to do with her? Seems like she wants you to step up…. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | I (25F) don’t know how to find guys/ get datesDouchey yes. Wrong - no. Something seems off. Usually women fight off the endless supply … 🤣 | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | how to pull girls from yoga class?What do you think it means? Careful where you look when talking . (Keep eye to eye contact when interacting) | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 09:40 AM |
| 8 | Sitting outside a bar I like. Afraid to go in because of a waitress I asked outAgree with all the suggestions. Worse case if you do get a chance to chat again - don’t even acknowledge it. As a matter of fact forget it even happened. Don’t hit on waitstaff anymore | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | how to pull girls from yoga class?First …REALLY check your eye contact in this environment. Introduce yourself, ask about the class - tips and anything related to even gauge her interest. (and try not to fart during sessions ) <—— this is why I don’t do yoga. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 01:27 AM |
| 5 | What do girls want or expect out of men ?Girls vs. women. Very different. Also as people get older their goals and wants change… the data and the stats change | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | What if I only want sex?Crazy the amount of (whack) overthinking running through this sub. How about you just have a normal conversation with her. “But I don’t want to hurt my chances”…. What chances? SMH 🤦🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | What if I only want sex?Crazy the amount of (whack) overthinking running through this sub. How about you just have a normal conversation with her. “But I don’t want to hurt my chances”…. What chances? SMH 🤦🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | What if I only want sex?Crazy the amount of (whack) overthinking running through this sub. How about you just have a normal conversation with her. “But I don’t want to hurt my chances”…. What chances? SMH 🤦🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | What if I only want sex?Crazy the amount of (whack) overthinking running through this sub. How about you just have a normal conversation with her. “But I don’t want to hurt my chances”…. What chances? SMH 🤦🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What if I only want sex?Crazy the amount of (whack) overthinking running through this sub. How about you just have a normal conversation with her. “But I don’t want to hurt my chances”…. What chances? SMH 🤦🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Waited two decades for her and I am helpless now“Don’t stand so close to me”? | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 07:58 AM |
| 4 | Is there a reason why the girls I hook up with get drunk beforehand?Just be cognizant of HOW buzzed they are. Gentlemen rules,chivalry and class are always The best route…. Don’t be THAT guy that picks up on drunk people. It’s not cool, it can have serious consequences for both involved,and why would you want to anyway…. Not attractive , fun or sexy at all. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 10:08 PM |
| 15 | Is there a reason why the girls I hook up with get drunk beforehand?Since you aren’t drinking when hooking up with these women (even if you were)- I’d say be careful! Consent laws get sketchy with impaired people and. There’s been cases where guys have picked up woman that someone ELSE had roofied. Then got blamed for it the next day… while not at fault, it ruined their lives defending against it… As far as people wanting a good shag after partying that’s kind of normal and some people need it to drop their inhibitions a bit. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 09:31 PM |
| -1 | Girls been follow similar patterns?Yes it seems the other side has learned the game as well- unfortunately the negs generally tick on things we do as men- to be considered viable. There a few counters : to play dumb and see where it leads or be a dick and give it zero energy… or keep looking… the trick is to see it when it’s being packaged for you…. Strange days indeed… | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Should I just lose it to a hookerPass on the pro. What you should do is stop concentrating on what to say and just be yourself. Hell- TELL them you’ve never had sex before. PLENTY OF WOMEN WILL JUMP YOU FOR THAT REASON ONLY!!!….. Don’t be a fool and wrap your tool. And for gods sake don’t fall in love with the first 5 women you sleep with…. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Making a girl cum is never simp shit. You don’t have to always use oral, but not using your fingers and skipping foreplay will be to your detrimentAnd as a legit DJ | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Making a girl cum is never simp shit. You don’t have to always use oral, but not using your fingers and skipping foreplay will be to your detrimentTotally ok with all the dip shits of the world not doing whatever it takes to make their woman pop off . The more losers dishing out selfish- bad sex, the more of us men that enjoy making their women cum will be valued…. There’s no better advertising than a happy pleased woman… same goes for bad sex.. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | What’s a good response to ‘when was the last time you had sex’?“Do ostrich count”?? | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 12:50 AM |
| 29 | She said she was on Birth Control?Consider if she was already prego and then decided to blame you for it. Consider if she had something which now you’d have and she’d blame you for….. consider her actually getting prego and holding you hostage for life… If you think for a second wrapping it wasn’t the way to go, you need to think about your life for a bit…. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 01:57 PM |
| 0 | How to let my coworker know i basically want to fxck himWanted to place a face with the convo. No worries… if you’re planning on leaving the job, then all bets off go for it. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 08:56 PM |
| 0 | How to let my coworker know i basically want to fxck himOk send me your @insta. I’m curious….😎 | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | How to let my coworker know i basically want to fxck himThis is the way… hell, I’m even curious now. 🤣🤣🤦🏻♂️🤔 | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 08:32 PM |
| 5 | How to let my coworker know i basically want to fxck him(Former bartender) he’s a bartender, just step up and be direct about it. However just know that if things don’t work out for whatever reason you’ll have to work and be civil with him- and usually see him flirting with others (part of the gig. sorta- same for waitresses) also you may want to find out the company policy on dating(whatever) other employees. Keep the tension as long as possible- it’s more fun trust me..😌👍🏻 | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 08:29 PM |
| 11 | I feel so guiltyStrange “I just got laid” flex…. Also: Smelt? 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻♂️ as in a fish? | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 03:54 PM |
| 0 | How to make a guy understand I’m interested in himWomen look for red flags. Men look for green lights. You can talk to them and if they’re still not getting the hint (you-hand on or touching them as you talk-shoulder, body language facing towards them, leaning in to talk, etc.) you can straight ask them “are they / or how come they aren’t hitting on you yet”??? Damn the me too has really spun shit around… 🤦🏻♂️🤣🤣🤣😇 | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 02:07 AM |
| 1 | So I am a police officer, very pretty girl, no BS. I was told I am 8-9. Why guys are afraid to approach me and just say hi, or is it the idea of dating a cop is scary?What state? I’ve got no qualms about it. Seems like it would be like anyone else with same personality….🤷🏻♂️🤔😇 | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Girl with boyfriend likes meBruh. Stop. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 08:19 AM |
| 27 | Are you swamped with girls, but not with money? I got a job offer..Strange…… I feel like this should be in r/scams …. But good on whomever lands This gig… dems like it’s got the making of a good reality show…. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Woman I'm into has started seeing another guy. Help me pull it together!You know that sound an arrow makes when it hits the target dead center? Yeah I just heard it in my head as I read your response 🎯 | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 09:12 AM |
| 2 | How to act on IOI and choosing signals in public transport?Does it ever feel natural? Easier sometimes yes - but approaching anyone to chat feels awkward until it doesn’t…. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How to act on IOI and choosing signals in public transport?Say hi? Do the same thing you’d do anywhere… just respect personal space and also body language as you will probably be seeing each other again….. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | "Kiss and fuck"So far off base. Yuck. That’s a hard pass. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 02:33 PM |
| 280 | "Kiss and fuck"You did the right thing. Approach her when sober.. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 05:35 AM |
| 2 | a girl/my best freind said im being to clingy and she wants me to leave her alone after i told her how i feelThis is the way…😌🙏🏻 | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Screening questionsTrouble is, it’s a few normal questions, then qualifying questions - usually alternating between the two intermixed-it’s a barrage tactic. Interrogation 101 Always answer the normal questions truthfully (no confusion) the qualifying questions do whatever it is you do normally with them (cycle, loop,flirt) | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 11:30 PM |
| 14 | How to be a chick magnet?First- never refer to yourself as “a chick magnet “ 🤣🤣👍🏻 | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 02:26 PM |
| 2 | How do I start from 0 meeting girls again after moving across the country after high school?You’re the new kid in town - play that up. Ask what’s to do? Where are recommendations for food? are you going to jc? Where do you work? Where do you work out? What are your hobbies? Hiking? Trucks? Cars? Whatever. Trick is this : get out of the house and out of your head- start meeting people (not just women you’re attracted to)and creating and interesting life for yourself- your direction and learning to speak to people will get you where you need to go. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Can’t keep erection with new partner. Never had this problem before…Maybe she just doesn’t do it for you… j/k It’s common. Try some Viagra . Get your testosterone checked. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 09:49 PM |
| 59 | I suffer from severe depression. I literally do nothing most days but sleep and scroll YouTube, twitter, Reddit, etc... I don't have anything interesting in my life currently to the point that I contemplate suicide almost weekly but somehow I easily get women.Interesting flex. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 02:32 AM |
| 2 | How to handle the "sorry i fell asleep"As an ex- bartender, you either have to date people in the industry (same hours and weird days off) or you have to work around their schedule…. Usually Any woman that is up at 3-4 in the morning waiting for you to get off work is usually a partier . Gotta do lots of breakfasts or brunches… | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 05:44 PM |
| 62 | Girl of my dreamsGood for you- I feel like I’ve read this before…. Extremely detailed . 😉👍🏻 | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 01:12 AM |
| 16 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateThis is the way….😌🙏🏻 | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:21 AM |
| 11 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateHang with her… it’s all practice and you’re still NOT at a no. Just don’t simp for her- she might be good people or have nice friends…. Learning to network is just as important… Judging by these comments- not a lot of people here are converting at that stage… You are closer now than when you were wondering if you should go talk to her…. If not ? No biggie… Just remember not to be weird if she’s not into you- you’re both at the same gym..play it coooooooool. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:16 AM |
| 1 | I had the best sex of my llife last nightThis is the way | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 07:19 PM |
| 66 | Daygame is a magnet to fun girlsYou held her hair?……. Hmmmmm, You never touch a black woman’s hair… Great writing but seems a little sus. 😉 | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:09 PM |
| 3 | She lost interest after a bad first kissThis is the way… 100%works… also the grabbing (for lack of a better term) brings focus and eye contact… it’s a very intimate move. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 05:08 PM |
| 2 | How to make your friend see you as more than a friend?You man up and move on. Stop being “friends” with women you want to sleep with… it’s inauthentic and only happens In Rom-coms….. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | What’s a shit test?A stupid question (or string)designed to throw a wrench into your process. Generally weeds out people pleasers and chameleons. Sometimes it’s about if you can stand on your own feet emotionally sometimes they want to see if you’re a puss. Often its not REALLY the answer but HOW you react to the questions that are more telling | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 01:55 AM |
| 1 | “What are you looking for?”Off the cuff: visualization ….. “Don’t quite know what I’m looking for- but I’m a hopeless romantic and I’ll definitely know it when I feel it….. I remain optimistic…..” “You ever lose yourself in the early phase of meeting someone you connect with?” I kind of miss it…. The romance . You know? Time slows down….. The all night conversations… Late night walks on the beach (I live by the beach) Laughing at stupid jokes in an all night diner while sharing French fries…. Maybe a shake. Really just co… | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 01:34 AM |
| 5 | I caught feelings for my flingFeel sick? You should get checked… | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so attracted to confidence and fun.Great analogy…. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Would you have have sex even if it was going to be bad?Plan ahead next time and slow your intake…. Besides there’s always cocaine and viagra 😁👍🏻 | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Why does every girl seem to be with a guy at bars?True all that- but learning to talk to people is actually a skill that translates to almost everything in life… Some people have it from being in a social families or school , whatever-some people have to learn it to break out of their comfort zone…. Some learn it through this route because the science or “game” of it is what processes better in their brain…. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Girl talked about sex a lot on our last date, pretty sure she wants to fuck next time. Don't have much experience what do?It’s obvious it’s his first time or if it’s been awhile might as well be .. there’s no shame in not being experienced. Communication is lubrication …. Be honest because she’s going to know anyway…. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 03:25 AM |
| 5 | [Field report] Success story. The drive thru girl. Always shoot your shot!But all the women at hooters were so cool… they just can’t call because they are busy with nursing school… | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 12:52 AM |
| 7 | Girl talked about sex a lot on our last date, pretty sure she wants to fuck next time. Don't have much experience what do?Why not be cool and communicate with her that it’s been awhile and go for it… you’re probably overthinking it. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Alcohol is the devilThe answer is cocaine. J/k how about not drinking or getting high at all. You don’t have to announce it to the world just chill out… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 05:57 PM |
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