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I had to unfollow that sub because I got tired of constantly seeing the same situations being repeated over and over. Nothing bunch of mindless pickmeishas and scroaches. I went to take a peak of the subreddit and seeing, “I’m so used to masturbating, I can’t have sex with my girlfriend.” pathetic, just fucking pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:11 AM
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Right, they’re honestly so fucking annoying. Just yesterday, I went into the original comments of a post (it was a post, in which a guy had two oatmeal cream pies on his belly, making fun of women who’s bellies look like that after child birth. I am not aware of the proper term for the skin condition.), but this lame ass man was body shaming some woman and talking about how he made sure his baby momma didn’t look like that. So I decided to go to his page and almost all of his posts, are body sha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:51 PM
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I can’t decide who’s worse, men on reddit or men on facebook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:38 PM
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I’ve dated too many of these! My last serious relationship (2 years), about a year in I realized that I was bored and whenever I would ask if he could amp up the effort, I was met with attitude! Never will I settle again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:27 PM
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Agree! Happily added this to my notes, thank you ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:24 PM
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I’m cracking the fuck up because I can see all the angry scrotes on here commenting! “And what do you bring to the table?” You’d literally pay 2 cents to lick the crack of my ass if I allowed you to, be gone scroaches. 😭🖐🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:23 PM
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So glad there’s a post about this. One of my friends and I were talking about OnlyFans and she really asked if she should make one and I responded no? Her respond back was, “Well, I wouldn’t get naked, I’d just be one of those doms.” Like how stupid can you be? I guess because she thinks because she’s not taking her clothes off, but bossing men around she’s safe from any of the consequences that being on OF causes. Like don’t be stupid. These men still think you’re beneath them even though you’r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:57 PM
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I don’t even celebrate Father’s Day, my dad doesn’t get a single thing for me. Why the fuck does he deserve something for doing absolutely nothing but sit on his ass? This man works 32 hours a week, while my mom works 40+ including over time. Goes half on bills. Doesn’t contribute to grocery shopping, do his own laundry, clean up in the house, or buy his wife or daughters gifts. He deserves a big bag of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:52 PM
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How did I forget the porn! Take care of his health and hygiene This 1000000000% yes! I grew up having a dumbass father who never took care of himself and still doesn’t til this day. He constantly complains about the same problem yet doesn’t do anything about it. My mom used to schedule his Dr. appts, and here I was as a young girl, thinking that was such wifey material and how much I couldn’t wait to have a family, so I could schedule my husband’s appointments. Those two really almost set me up …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:31 PM
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You don’t know how many tik toks I’ve seen of poor teenage girls upset because their boyfriend is prioritizing the female “best friend”. This may sound harsh but I don’t believe in cishet men being friends with women without having a secondary reason behind it. 9/10 he settled for the girl, and keeps the best friend along, prioritizing her in hopes that one day maybe she’ll change her mind and that they can be together. I don’t deal with men who refuse to establish with boundaries in situations …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:28 PM
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As if child birth isn’t already sexualized? Why do you think women lay down during birth? This makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:22 PM
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It’s pathetic that he believes that since the children aren’t his blood that she isn’t a mother! “Mother’s day is for my mom” then go date and fuck your mom! Big ass baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:18 PM
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Really? Should I try to repost? I am not sure why my posts aren’t being sent in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:46 PM
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It works! I just posted it, try refreshing the feed in here and see if you can find my post. Also, don’t hesitate to add on or critique!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:55 PM
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I really wish I could create a post but for some reason my options to post have been taken away? I can’t create a post, upload an image, or anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:35 PM
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Honestly, sexual assault falls on a spectrum and your situation can definitely be classed as rape. You weren’t fully there in the moment. In order to have full consent the party being asked to have sex should be, fully aware, sober, and confident in their answer. You said, “okay”, not a yes! You even passed out during it while he continued to use your body which is an absolute NO! You weren’t even conscious to keep going with the act. I am really sorry this happened to you! I am glad you’re no l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:31 PM
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I literally had an abusive ex finally become vulnerable with me during the last moments of our relationship. He told me the reason why he was so controlling over me was because he was cheated on in the SEVENTH grade and never learned how to trust after that. We were seniors in high school, about to graduate and this moron was holding onto something that didn’t even matter. Seventh grade? Are you kidding me? And they say women are overly emotional and hold grudges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:31 AM
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Wow, so he was basically trying to get me to back down from my standards because he didn’t view me as worthy enough to reject him? Basically, as a darker skinned woman that I shouldn’t have any standards thus I am acting light skin by saying no? It’s just creepy because we were literal kids when this happened, this shit is rooted in the children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:52 PM
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Black men accusing me of acting light skinned Oh my god! You too? I’m not even light skin, I considered my self caramel mocha colored, but I remember in high school I rejected someone because they were a middle school! (My high school was 7-12) and I was a freshman and they were like, “You just don’t want me because you’re light skin.” and ever since that I find myself questioning my blackness. What does that even mean? How was I acting a skin tone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:37 PM
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What is size queen? Is that referring to the male private parts? He must be a down low bi or pan sexual man, they are the absolute worst. Trust me I’ve ran into those as well. Really trust no man or court the friends you have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:45 PM
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That doesn’t change my mind but thanks? I’ve been fetishized before and don’t want it to happen again. I rather be alone. I am well aware of the damage black men have done, my father was the first man to break my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:40 PM
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How do you cleanse? I need one as well? Was having a bad day already and this audio put the cherry on top. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:08 PM
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White Americans aren’t any better, well at least the ones I’ve dated. It’s kind of hard because it’s like we don’t have options. If we date someone black we risk the chance of being in an abusive relationship where our blackness is seen as a challenge to try to get us to submit, while if we date white or non black men of color we risk the chance of being fetishized. I rather just be alone. I’m probably going to be alone for the rest of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:07 PM
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Damn, I didn’t know that about Snoop? That just breaks my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:05 PM
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I couldn’t watch the entire video because it was extremely triggering. I can barely find the words to describe how I am feeling right now and the fact the other guy is laughing. This is pure evil, is all I can say. I don’t even want a man anymore, I think I’m done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:03 PM
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There’s no such thing as platonic relationships with cis herero men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:56 PM
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A man is supposed to: - be emotionally supportive - not sexually harass or assault me - provide for me - sexually satisfy me - not abuse me - respect me - be attracted to me - accept me - make me laugh - have ambition - control over temper - not yell at me - not belittle me - be affectionate with me - compassionate about me and our relationship - be considerate - be generous - communicate with me - want to spend time with me - express their emotions - be chivalrous - compliment me - remember hol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:45 PM
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I always post little bits of advice to my ladies on my private instagram story and my most recent bit was, “And always remember ladies! A walk is not a date. You are not a dog. 😊”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:41 AM
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I actually made a list about all the things a man is supposed to, so I won’t accidentally praise one for doing the bare minimum. A man is supposed to emotionally support you, supposed to take you on dates, listen to you and offer support, they’re supposed to not support bigoted ideas or be sexist or misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:38 AM
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Saw this yesterday and PREEAAACH! The comments were so laughable not people getting mad at her because she won’t let down her standards. Also, Pickmeisha’s do more harm to women bc they’re continuing to push these stereotypes and accept less instead of know our worth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:18 PM
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Why the fuck is she giving him money? Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:41 AM
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I can relate to this! I rarely wear make up. When I was in high school from 10 to 12 grade, I’d wear a lot of make up. I even had my dabble on instagram baddie looks. The most I do now, is my brows and a gloss. The masks kind of defeat the purpose of a doing a full face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:39 AM
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She might be in a very vulnerable spot! Her situation reminds me of an old friend I used to know. She was very independent and head strong. You would’ve never thought a man could’ve influenced her or make her submit, but she went through something and it made her vulnerable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:16 AM
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Was her therapist a man by any chance? Male therapists are useless and you’d think with that degree they’d be better at their profession. But college doesn’t teach empathy, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:06 AM
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This reminds me of a line in Dua Lipa’s New Rules, “Don’t let him in / You have to kick him out again” I always preach to my female friends to never move in a boyfriend or move with a boyfriend. The moment the guy moves in or you move in, then the effort is gone and over. They have you as their fuck maid and you’re there miserable wondering why he no longer puts effort into the relationship. I also had a friend whom’s boyfriend would purposely leave the house dirty or half ass chores because he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:53 PM
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This. I grew up constantly having my dad tell me to shut the fuck up and an ex who mirrored the same toxic and abusive behavior as my father. Just one time to tell me to shut up and we’re done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:47 PM
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That screaming from him and his voice is so annoying, gladly would’ve put my hands on him. I am sorry if that violates the rules but hearing that screaming triggers me and makes me see red. A man will never yell at me again. I don’t date men who yell and act like fucking children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:46 PM
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This is so weird. The first thing my mind goes to when I see someone crying is, I want to comfort them not I want to fuck. Men are truly disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:44 PM
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I just got out of a situationship with one of these men. What bothers me is that he was a huge advocate against sexual assault against women. I always had a suspicious feeling about him as a person but I chalked it to me being paranoid and not wanting to accept my “blessings”. I am pretty sure, I spoke on this before in a different post but turns out this guy sexually assaulted a close friend of mine when they were 12. Not only that but he was fetishizing me, had a deep hatred for white women (h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:24 PM
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Having a wide range vocabulary or knowledge on things. In high school, I entertained some loser only because he offered to take me to the fair. I remember a conversation we were having in which he proceeded to tell me, “I don’t like when you use big words, it makes me feel stupid.” I can’t remember my reaction but wouldn’t have been surprised if I was nonchalant about it. Him not understanding me isn’t my problem, Google exists dumb ass 🤷🏽‍♀️. If there is one thing I learned is too never dumb my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:19 PM
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I feel so bad for that girl and the part about him sitting there while she gets off because he couldn’t make her cum like oof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:10 PM
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Am I the only one hung up on the part where she says she woke up to him groping her? That is so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:05 PM
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Or Kirlyam and Alan? Alan’s control issues over Kirlyam when she decided she wanted to do modeling. His insecurities. Their story of how they met and got together. They met when Alan (aged 20) went on a mission trip to Brazil for his Mormon mission. Kirlyam was 11 years old! However they didn’t develop romantic feelings until they met at the wedding of a mutual friend a decade later. How convenient. I just can’t help but imagine how far Kirlyam would’ve went in modeling had she had the chance to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:27 AM
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Neighbor talked about how he hasn’t had sex in ages This gave me flashback of my time working at Fedex. Used to work with a creepy old man who would always talk about celibate he is and how he hasn’t had sex in so and so years. Would constantly flaunt and talk about how much money he has. I was naive back then but I am just now realizing that he was subliminally trying to proposition me and other female co workers for paid sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:46 AM
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Female co worker that I talk to recently got romantically involved with another male co worker. Female co worker reported recent sexual harassment of another male co worker we work with. She told the male co worker that she’s involved with about it and instead of him empathizing with her and validating her experience and emotions, he told her, “Maybe it was a language barrier!” Female co worker said she’s no longer going to speak to him but hours later the two are caking it up again. Very disapp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:44 AM
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I used to have a friend who’d get upset with me when I would talk shit about kinks. His reasoning, “They’re not hurting anyone and I don’t think it’s okay to shame people for things that find them pleasure.” He really thought age play, race kink, DDLG, BDSM, was okay! He is also apart of an age gap relationship and supports age gap relationships. Due to a sexual assault (I was 17, they were 27) I am abhorrent about age gaps. I’m so glad him and I are not friends anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:29 AM
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I’m disturbed her own father is watching this shit, it just proves how he views his daughter. I hope she’s safe and moves out asap because her father is a pervert and I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s done things to groom her or wants to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:25 AM
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Yes my own dad even told me this! I wrote about it in another comment but yes! 1000 times yes! How long will it be before they hit you? I feel like punching holes into wall isn’t only a sign of having poor emotion regulation but also testing the boundaries of the women they date. To see how far you can accept their anger before they put their hands on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:43 AM
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When I was 17 years old, I dated a boy who when angry he’d hit the nearest object to him or destroy his own property. We broke up eventually but ended up meeting again and catching up when I was 20. Through that encounter, he told me that when he’d get upset at work he’d hit the boxes. I remember thinking to myself he hasn’t changed and even had a talk with my Dad about it (who’s no value) but he gave me the most helpful input he’s ever given. “If you would’ve stayed with that boy, he would’ve e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:41 AM
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Every guy I dated pretty much never gave me an orgasm and they were all low value assholes. Assholes aren’t good at sex, I’m guessing the author enjoys dry 2 second foreplay and being jack hammered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:36 AM
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Also less pick mes who scan me up and down or comment on my weight or pull their LVM boyfriends away from me Yes! The pulling of their man, like I don’t want your trash collection. I hate when people do this or when a man sees you and suddenly grabs up his pick me and starts PDA. What the fuck is that about!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:03 PM
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My other issue with that is, black dances weren’t originally sexual. They became sexualized when colonizers came over and saw the traditional, cultural dances as sexual. Twerking was never meant to be a sexual dance, but it became one through the lens of white men. Same with belly dancing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:01 PM
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I am not sure it would garter the same reaction by white men but POC, yes! I had to look up the song you’re talking about and analyze the lyrics because I’m only 22 and that song must’ve came out when I was 2 years old? Also, imagine if it came out when Twitter was around! Twitter eats shit like that up and chews it out. Me, personally, I am not a big fan of the Pretty Fly for a White Guy (racial stereotypes, fetishization of WOC, etc.) As a black woman, black twitter would’ve had a field day if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:34 PM
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I’m not for or against it, I am providing a different input on why people didn’t like it from a Black woman’s perspective. The white men upset that no one wants to sleep with them is laughable, the entitlement wreaks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:25 PM
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It’s like you disregarded everything else I said. It’s also ironic singing the anthem and the first thing you wake up next to is a white man. I don’t really care about the Tramp Stamps just giving another input then the dumb crybabies in Youtube comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:18 PM
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“Must laugh at: Farts” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:18 AM
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Yes! The last guy I had a thing with was ADHD and possibly on the spectrum. (I’m on the spectrum!) We were fizzling out honestly but a close friend of mine told me some disturbing news about his past and when I brought it up to him, he tried to blame the victim and make it her fault. I realized everything was always everyone else’s fault! He would barely budge about his past relationships and exes, and whenever I did get some info out about them he somehow made it the women’s fault and never sai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:13 AM
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I thought Law School was very difficult and competitive to get accepted into? She really threw away her future for a man? Tsk tsk tsk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:58 AM
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“It’s not that deep” “You’re always talking about the past.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:09 AM
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Never date a man who’s comfortable with telling you how racist and the racist things his parents say/are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:12 PM
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Probably going to get downvoted, but your experience doesn’t automatically counteract what OP said. And yes it’s the same as a white woman. I understand you’re trying to like give hope, but it’s pretty fucking weird especially in areas where white people can expand their friends outside of whiteness. What OP said is true. OP never said all white men just pointing out a specific pattern. Also, yes it is the same when white women do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:29 PM
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I dated a white man for 2 years and his reasoning for liking black women was because of our anatomy. Basically said black women are thicker and have nice bodies. What a clown I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:24 PM
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You’re right! Also, OP never said ALL white men. I applaud OP for even speaking out on this as they’re a white person in closer proximity to white people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:21 PM
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This is so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:06 PM
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I had a friend who told me she visited her boyfriend’s dorm out of not being there for a while, she said his room was a complete mess and they were cumrags. She surprisingly stayed and is probably still with him (I’m not sure, we’re no longer friends due to personal reasons) but I remember being grossed out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:54 AM
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This is really reassuring. I see so many women my age talk about dating older men and even I get shunned for expressing my disdain for dating someone older and I just feel so odd. I am 22 and the thought of dating a 33 year old bothers me. What the heck, are we going to talk about? I still live with my parents, the thought just bothers me. I just feel like men my age aren’t on my track and men older who want anything with me are just creepy. I rather date my age range than older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:32 AM
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I’m so sorry that degenerate did that to you. Of course the useless bystander men do nothing, they never do anything. I hope you’re having a better day, makes me sick someone would even do that. Don’t know why men see a lonely woman and think it’s the opportunity to strike up conversation, as if we’re not terrified. Edit: Caught the last part of your post and saw you’re invalidating what happened to you. Regardless if you were sexually assaulted, he did assault you with bodily fluids and could’v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:55 PM
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I just realized with the masks, I haven’t gotten that stupid comment in a while. It’s so annoying, how men even go out of their way to try and control people’s facial expressions because they’re uncomfortable. I have resting bitch face and I would hear the “Smile!” so often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:22 AM
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“Liberal” 🏃🏾‍♀️💨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:56 PM
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Does he even have real credentials? I recall watching a youtube video about him, not sure by who but the person really picked apart him and his show. Never realized how awful that man truly is and how much harm he does to the victims on his show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:15 PM
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Men are so sick and perverse. This post also reminds me of an unwanted conversation I had with my father. He openly admitted to being attracted to women my age and his reason for not wanting to go after women his age is because they’re all “fat” and “have kids” and that women my age like older men especially if they didn’t have a prominent father figure around. Father is NVM and has a son, he hasn’t seen since he was four. Men love to act as if they’re a catch! Forgot to mention this man is marr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:17 AM
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Why do men’s way of being young again, is fucking girls old enough to be their daughter? Visit a childhood activity you used to do that made you happy, play a sport, do yoga! So many other things besides cheating on your wife. What an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:29 PM
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This comment made me realized, I wasn’t the problem. My ex was. I always thought there was something wrong with me because he could never hold a conversation, it’s him! He doesn’t have knowledge beyond sports, his job, and his toxic, annoying family drama. He could’ve took the job to research the topics, I’d frequently talk about he just doesn’t care and expects to be entertained.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:24 PM
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