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| 246 | I lost track of how many red flags I heard.Holy shit he literally went on a minute long rant about women being gold diggers for a freaking 5 dollar coffee and she only asked him how are you I can't 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:29 AM |
| 36 | Men cannot be trusted with an idea like polyamory and its popularity shows how naive and desperate women have becomeYo, this made my WEEK. I am crackling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 01:02 PM |
| 21 | I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off?I didn't know what you were talking about and then I remembered it like some kind of traumatic flashback | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 09:27 PM |
| 16 | I'll just leave this here.I mean, to be fair Ariel didn't really give up her throne, she had like seven older sisters that would be on line for the throne before her But that's not saying much, giving up your home and ability to ever return there and seeing your family and friends again is bad enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:03 PM |
| 7 | For those of you torn about prioritizing beauty and avoiding the male gaze, I wanted to share my solutionWhen it comes to clothes I am quite feminine, to be honest, and I don't see it changing anytime soon, not for men not for trends not for anyone, the wardrobe I have been building for years is my pride and joy. It's pretty no LVM friendly as well to be honest, because few of the things I wear are tight or overly short, but that's only a plus not something I actively aim for The best advice I can give to anyone looking for some on regards to clothes and style is to not listen to trends unless you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:07 PM |
| 13 | Preach it 👏🏻Yeah, but I would like to point out that even if you wanted to invest that time in bettering him, you can't. Nobody can make somebody else change, only themselves can decide they want to change, so even if you were like "I am as levelled up as possible, I don't need to level up myself as I need to level up him!", it wouldn't work. All the effort you would put in doing that would be fruitless because he isn't going to change unless he wants to. Men only change for who they want to change, I would… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 05:49 PM |
| 8 | He gave another woman a Christmas gift, spent a weekend with her at a hotel, has an entire gallery of photos on her phone, but let's marry him 🤡Wow, there were so many red flags on this post that I somehow missed that one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 12:42 PM |
| 52 | Love her certainty and confidence.Also, men who unironically love The Wolf of Wall Street and totally miss the point of the movie?? Like?? He is supposed to be an example of what NOT to do and an example of where toxic masculinity and greed get you, NOT a role model Brad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 12:00 PM |
| 54 | this is such perfect advice. a man who loves you will never play games with you or your feelings, because he wouldn’t want to risk losing you. if you’re starting to question your relationship, it’s time to go.This. I usually have very little difficulty implementing FDS in my life and had even implemeted many before arriving here (the joys of being prideful and having been raised by a mum who told me to never settle down) but not developing crushes is the hardest one for me to follow. Since it's such a rare occurrence, I get very attached to any man who shows me any attention/kindness unprompted -as in, not a response to something I did. If it's a response to something I did or said I know where the k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 10:02 AM |
| 9 | What other women's contributions throughout history were attributed to men by sheer default? We may never know.I think it's important to remember that there have been thousands of different civilizations through history and that some of them did in fact revere women for growing life, especially ancient ones before more misogynistic civilizations really took in as the dominant ones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:54 AM |
| 12 | Pick-mes, please stop embarrassing yourselves. I hope she's learned her lesson after thisNot only more accepted in America, in most of Europe surrogated pregnancies are banned or heavily regulated. Funny enough Portugal passed a law on it that was so strict on the requirements that only one instance of surrogate pregnancy happened before the law was struck down by the courts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:46 PM |
| 37 | Pick-mes, please stop embarrassing yourselves. I hope she's learned her lesson after thisI live in Spain, and while it is true that in Spain going dutch is the rule, that equality also translates in other areas that make spanish men more HV in other areas like sharing on housework more and being more involved fathers than in other countries I have lived in -eastern Europe for anyone wondering, those men paid for more things for dates and their girlfriends but were totally awful on doing their share of housework and the few female friends I had who were mothers all had to do all chil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:42 PM |
| 13 | This is very sweet.I mean the reason this has been that way for so long is the weather and that it was cheaper to ship the flowers from inland Europe than investing in creating the artificial conditions for the flowers to grow. It could theorically be done but it would be way more expensive (you would have to pay for land and a place to grow the flowers and process them, gardening items and staff to take care of it, heating to replicate the warmer weather instead of just paying the dutch to ship X number of flower… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:48 AM |
| 29 | This is very sweet.Most flowers sold in Britain come from The Netherlands, with the new red tape and delays by the time the flowers get to the UK they are not fresh anymore or not even fit to be sold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:31 AM |
| 46 | Clown Central 🤡🤡This has Ben Shapiro being proud that his wife says having a wap is a medical condition vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 04:15 PM |
| 7 | China faces a looming population crisis as women stick by their standardsThanks for explaining so well why the importance of having a young population has nothing to do with capitalism vs socialism, it's just common sense. Any economy needs people working to keep it running, and if there are a lot more elderly people than working age people, who is going to pay the pensions??? This is a huge problem in Europe as well, and it has nothing to do with ideology and everything to do with the fact that people of a certain age cannot work at the same level of young people, n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 08:57 PM |
| 20 | Saw This On FB and Loved It, Thought You Queens Would Enjoy It.I mean, there must be a reason women like Nicole Kidman and Katie Holmes stuck around that hot mess for as long as they did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | A rant about "equality" and pregnanciesSpain here as well. You can ask for pregnancy leave from 20 weeks onwards, it's true that in practice that is never enforced (business strongly encourage women to stay for as long as they can and no one wants to risk getting fired over that) but it's possible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 10:11 PM |
| 6 | A rant about "equality" and pregnanciesThat's not how it works here. Maternity leave is not the same as pregnancy leave, maternity/paternity leave both start from the moment the child is born. No this will not end job discrimination, but to say it wont help is being purposefully obtuse, and I already gave a lenghty enough explanation that I dont feel like repeating again And again, we all know biology is not equal. Biology has never been fair, its not fair now and it wont be fair in the future, and the sooner we acknowledge that and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 02:46 AM |
| 27 | A rant about "equality" and pregnanciesIt was discriminatory, period. Your post shows a lot of misunderstanding about why making paternal and maternal leave equal is so important. Sure reproductive roles are unfair to women, but there is really nothing we can do about it so we might as well focus our efforts in making sure things are fair after the birth of the child. This is not about giving men a nice holiday, it's about making them as accountable to the care of the baby as women are. And thi right is not only good for men, FOR WOM… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 10:36 PM |
| 3 | My little “I love you” gift to myself arrived today. Years ago, I pinned this ring and when it popped up in my IG feed this fall I ordered one custom made. Loving all these ring posts.Could you PM me the page too? That looks gorgeous! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 08:33 PM |
| 9 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.He is making you be the mama to his kids and won't even marry you???? Oh my God. Time to leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:22 AM |
| 4 | One of Taylor Swift’s new songs “closure” is about shutting down exes who come guiltily crawling back"You assume I'm fine, but what would you do if I Break free and leave us in ruins Took this dagger in me and removed it Gain the weight of you then lose it Believe me, I could do it" I obviously referred to the second part of the bridge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 10:03 PM |
| 5 | How does dating multiple people work?It's to keep the women around. The number of women who want casual sex only is a lot lower than the men in that category, and since men already have a smaller pool of females on OLD than we do males they also try their luck with the women who are looking for relationships and so they have to trick them into thinking they are at least thinking about having something serious with them. I have found that more attractive men are usually more honest about this, since they have an easier time finding … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:59 PM |
| 13 | One of Taylor Swift’s new songs “closure” is about shutting down exes who come guiltily crawling backI also love Tolerate it, it's basically about a Pick Me who describes being in a relationship with someone she has to chase and try to please while he just tolerates her, and through the song she starts calling him out and waking up to the fact that this is a toxic dinamic. It doesn't quite get t the satisfying ending of her leaving him, but the bridge shows the growth of this woman who is starting to realize she deserves better and tells him she could leave and do better. Hopefully many women w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:34 PM |
| 9 | This ain’t it sisWoah are we the same person? This sounds like me to a T, from over thinking all mixed signals you get to being quiet about it to finally realizing two years ago that mixed signals means no real interest. If a guy is interested in you he will show it 95% of the time, and the 5% who is really shy and doesn't dare to make a move at least won't give you negative signals and honestly they are such a statistical outlier that you better assume they belong to group 1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:38 PM |
| 20 | What is the worst case of pickme you've seen on Reddit?I found one today, it's one of the worst cases I have seen in a while. Girl was in her early 20s dating a 40 year old man with three teenagers (yay already). Well, of course she has been doing everything in her power to keep this grown ass man happy, from cooking to taking care of the home and his kids, etc. Well, what did he do? She found out he has been trash talking her to his ex (calling her dumb and telling his ex they would eventually break up) and after all the comments told her to leave … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Saw this on twitter - Hinge date puts woman's pictures through an analyzer online to "check if she is actually attractive," tells her her "forehead is too big," then tries to secure a hang out next weekme too please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:46 PM |
| 35 | How You End Up A Forever GF, Or A Reluctant FWB...STRAIGHT From The ANIMALS Mouth...What is a club goblin? Gotta know these people's vocabulary so I can run away next time I see it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 12:52 AM |
| 3 | This is why we don't send long paragraphs to men who've wronged usI am so THANKFUL that I have never done this. One of my biggest failures is my pride, and while in some instances it has been my downfall in my romantic life it has saved me a world of embarrassment. I literally get triggered just by watching those pictures | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 06:49 PM |
| 16 | Dating in 2020 when you live in a red state...Saying healthcare is some pipe dream that will "never, ever come to pass" IS the sexist thing, regardless of it being said by a female candidate. Easy to say that when you are white and rich, but when you are woman of colour, which is the most uninsured group in the US, the ones who have less access to women specific healthcare like gynecology or certain types of female cancer, the ones with less access to reproductive healthcare, the ones who die the most in childbirth and receive the least car… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 11:01 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE: Leaving LV husband of 3 yearsMadrid's airport was working last time I checked. Spain is doing a regional approach, basically every Autonomous Community (it's how we name our States) has complete control over everything, which means that she could not enter the country through some AC (like mine) but she will be able to enter through others, like Madrid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 01:55 AM |
| 2 | UPDATE: Leaving LV husband of 3 yearsSpanish here! If you have any questions you can ask :) Good thing now is that hotels are dirt cheap lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 01:52 AM |
| 43 | Why dating costs money (for them)I think it's better if we know how they think. My mind was BLOWN when I learnt what "rotation" meant and it made me a lot more vigilant toward certains shenigans | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:43 PM |
| 13 | But if I say "respect me and don't watch porn" my standards are too high 🙄🙄Communist but won't share his "wealth" and "will always put money before people" like how does he not realize how stupid he is????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:53 PM |
| 48 | Russell Wilson is HVM inspirationIt's not the post it's their whole story. After Ciara was cheated on by Future when she had just birthed their son and left him she met Russell, he fell in love with her hard, pursued her like she deserved to, married shortly after and adopted her kid and had two more together. He is always talking about how he lucked out and how she is the best thing since sliced bread and Future is super salty about her moving on and still crying on interviews about how Russell "isn't a real man because she te… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 12:05 PM |
| 22 | This melts my heartAs far as I am concerned, being kind to animals is a prerequisite of being a good person and HV in general. Even for people who don't love animals, if they are HV people they treat them with kindness whenever they have to interact with them. If I see a man mistreating ANY animal at all, I run | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 10:43 PM |
| 10 | Good men hold other men accountable. End of story.Also proof LVW exist. At times we get so caught up calling out men I think we forget to call out women too. If you are turning a blind eye to what your husband is doing it's not a him problem, it's a you problem as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 14 | Men are rooted in nothing more than oppressing womenAbsolutely ALL HVM I have met don't feel threatened by strong women. Not a single one. When a man shows signs of not liking your boundaries or how well life is going for you, RUN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 08:45 PM |
| 160 | Truth.While I agree with all the comments here saying this should be the bare minimum, I would like to celebrate what he said because it was said at a time when saying this was deeply unpopular. Someone saying this in 2020, in the era of Me Too and feminism? That's the minimum. But this man did the right thing and put his money where his mouth was decades ago, when doing so wasn't going to give him any praise, and doing the right thing even when you know it's difficult is a true sign of an alpha and a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 08:41 PM |
| 3 | My favorite part is how her female friends are surrounding her for this epic momentI know right? To say in a song that him going into a stage to tell a 19 year old she wasn't deserving of her first VMA award made him responsible for Taylor Swift's success, one of the most intelligent businesswoman in the arts industry, and one of the most hard working, who has rebranded herself in tons of different genres and has succeeded in them all... The audacity. And calling her a bitch on top of that. Oh, and to say that she OWES him sex in any way shape or form... The ultimate LVM Oh an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 11:35 AM |
| 1 | This is why the six month period before declaring someone a HVM is a MINIMUM. Strap in ladies, this is fun.I need to know too, I am invested in this story lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:49 PM |
| 15 | HVM Noam Chomsky 👌🏻I mean when they married she was already in her fifties. Age difference is weird and condemnable when there is a power imbalance, since younger women can be preyed on and gaslighted more easily. I don't think there is a lot about life and relationships that a woman in her fifties didn't know about for her to be preyed on in the same way a young woman would be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 03:16 PM |
| 20 | HVM Noam Chomsky 👌🏻His best known book is Manufacturing Consent, it's a super interesting read about how media in general affects the way people view politics and morals or even perceive the world. He also has many great anti war books explaining why rich people are so interested in manufacturing conflicts and wars. I haven't read any books about women from him but I would love to if he had one because every time he is asked in interviews about feminism or women issues he comes through | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 03:13 PM |
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