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Stay tuned boys. Your friendly neighborhood infosec professional is on the case. First up, social engineering.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 05:50 AM
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Rest days are the worst! It's so boring. You know you're addicted once you start dreaming of lifting
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 10:12 AM
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Or if you can get quick access to her phone and she's not tech savvy you can install sms backup and point it to your Gmail account. It'll send all sms, phone calls and notes to your email. You can also set it to push the logs instantly.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 01:28 AM
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Dude that is terrifying. How did you not see the red flags? Was she that good at deception?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:10 AM
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Can we nominate this man as the resident trp doctor? I enjoy these medical facts.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 11:55 AM
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Depends. There are schools that bring honor students to the table when discussing academic change with local and national businesses.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 11:40 AM
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Not true. 4.0 doesn't automatically translate to perfect. It just means a+ and he's been working on it for 4 semesters now. That's totally doable.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 11:34 AM
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Can you give us some examples of the dialog.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 05:35 PM
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Agreed. I'm in the same position and it seems a LTR is a good trade for getting your rocks off and not investing in the dating scene. A stable partner allows me the focus I need to accomplish goals I set forth without succumbing to my urges to bust a nut every weekend with a chick I have to game
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 04:46 AM
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This is true. Happened to me and snapped me out of delusion and into reality. I was once angry at the ex that broke me. Now I consider her the best experience I've ever had.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 01:01 PM
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Sounds like the US was just trying to spin some plates
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 07:32 AM
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So completely discredit the involvement they did have? I'm pretty sure you'd be wanking to German porn right now without the aid of the US
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 02:42 PM
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That's a bold statement. Check your facts.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 01:43 PM
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I go to roosters and in my area it's only men. It's a fucking awesome place. The only shop around me that has that old school feel. The dudes dress sharp and professional. I've never seen a woman in there and we get to have that male banter. It's refreshing and it only took me 4 years to find lol
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 01:37 AM
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You know when you get really "close" to a woman and she wants you two to share all your secrets? Guess what motherfucker, it will come back and bite your ass so bad, you will regret forever opening your mouth. Be a closed fucking book, it does not matter if she's a plate, LTR, wife or a god damn unicorn. There will be some things you will never tell a woman. Never. Well... that escalated quickly Got a little heated there, didn't you. Would you like to talk about it? :D
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 03:18 PM
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I don't know why people are confused or giving OP bullshit for this post. It's nothing we haven't written about 1000 times before with OP's personal flavor of writing. It's not that hard to grasp. Shut the fuck up and listen. Listen and then think. Think about it for a long time, not until it hurts or you're bored. Think about it way past that point and let it sink in. Then come back here and bitch to me and the members of the community.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 03:12 PM
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You don't have to sit down and listen. When i listen to podcasts and shit I'm doing other shit. Eating, driving, ironing my clothes, cleaning shit, doing homework or while I'm working in my office. So it's broken down, 20 minutes here and there.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 04:23 PM
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Work in a school district. They hit the wall too and when they do they get mean. Wrinkles and resentment my friends.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 05:14 PM
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so let them be jealous. It's just a confidence booster for her knowing she's got what they want.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 05:23 PM
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The marks are to remind her the power you have over her sexual pleasure. They like it from time to time. Especially when they've been bad ;)
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 03:32 PM
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You're an underdog. This movement is not a revolution. It's a survival mechanism. I like the way you phrased that statement. I'm saving it
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 02:48 AM
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The thing is I've followed his career for a long time now and he's always had a sprinkle of red pill here and there over the years but maybe it's age and this Internet forum he can broadcast on that's really got his rhetoric amped up. Idk just a thought.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 01:56 AM
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Oh yeah I know Redban. I thought you meant Joes stance on MRM
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 01:53 AM
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I haven't heard his stance on mrm. Link me? He seems to be a men's rights advocate without subscribing to any particular association.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 05:46 PM
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The difference in "moods" between adhd and bipolar were explained as this: Bipolar moods or highs and lows can last for weeks, months to years. ADHD lasts for hours, weeks or days. so these repetitive thoughts come and go like the wind. But the only consistent part is they are repetitively resurfacing. I thought the same and then began to take action and fix my shit. Now the only difference is I have racing thoughts of shit i WANT to do lol. An example: I'm in bed ready to sleep. I do muscle rel…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 03:20 PM
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So what about adhd and depression? I was diagnosed with adhd a while back and frequently go through periods of depression. My doctor has told me that it's common and a result of a mental loop experienced by those with adhd. The idea is when something goes wrong you dwell on it and even though it may be fixed you still repeat that dwelling dialog resulting in a negative feedback loop that spurs a depression bout. These loops happen no longer than a week but it's cyclical. Now adhd is a neurologic…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 07:32 PM
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Care to elaborate on this division? I haven't read anything on the first two and am interested. Is this a theory you developed?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 12:10 AM
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Yes it most definitely does. It's important to maintain balance or risk falling to pieces
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 01:12 AM
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Brother I haven't gotten anywhere in life by taking it easy. I want my own business. There ain't gonna be time for rest. There's two things I need to keep up my pace. Discipline and passion. I dream of my work. I love it. It's really not work for me. It's fun and it just flows. I hope your investment reaps rewards too. I'm rooting for you
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 11:09 PM
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I'm in a similar situation. Working full time and just about to finish my bachelor's full time. I lift and hike in my spare time. Not much time for anything else
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:30 AM
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Engineering is hard work. It takes a massive amount of dedication. My degree is in network engineering and I watched as my classmates dropped off. Classes of 20 ended with 5
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 09:31 PM
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I actually studied hypnosis and practiced self hypnosis. I then triedon others and learned what needed to be done to go into deep trance like states. More importantly you have to believe. I know it sounds dumb but if you don't believe in what you're doing turn your mind will self sabotage your efforts
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 04:08 PM
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Never been with a 30+. If you're telling me I can get a bunch of free stuff from them I'm game
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 09:46 AM
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I agree. I'm just the type that the tool can only be sharpened on quality stone. Shoddy materials can cause the tool to break quickly when it is needed most.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:58 AM
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He's right. This is a community of men willfully sharing experience and knowledge. Victory and defeat. Do not feel the need to be silent. Continue to contribute and share with us. Others may learn from your mistakes and your words may resonate with them.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:36 AM
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Just don't jack it. Wait. Become hungry. Ooze masculine sexuality and take the real prize
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:29 AM
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theres nothing wrong with you. If you are attracted to a girl and can fuck her senseless with an insatiable sexual appetite then you got all the T you need.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:23 AM
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I admire your ability to fuck without caring about looks. Personally, I just can't get hard for a girl that I'm not attracted to. I've tried plenty of times. I've tried to drink enough to make it not matter. In those cases my dick gets hard but my mind isn't stimulated and I become bored. I end up rolling over and going to sleep. Some things just can't be forced. It's not entitlement. I just don't feel anything pumping the night away into Quasimodo.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 02:39 AM
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You're a student teacher. It's not your place to discipline. Where is your mentor aka the teacher that is supposed to be in charge of the class? They should be the one doing that and establishing the boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 01:50 AM
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That is true for the unskilled worker drones. I'm talking about trades that take years of investment in apprenticeship and ladder climbing. It's not an easy way to the top but the guys that stick with it and have the passion can eventually open up shop for themselves. Remember that most jobs are created by small business owners not large companies. There is a certain intimacy developed in those atmospheres. A sort of kinship. Knowledge is passed down through labor and not "PD or training". I wen…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:31 AM
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Men need to go back to trades. Electrician, carpenter, mechanic. These are jobs women don't want and are willing to pay to have done for them. Jack up the price of labor and profit I mean the mechanic living up the street from me owns a garage. The garage in his home is 2 stories and is filled with classic cars. He has a lounge in the center for entertainment. The guy is killing it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 08:54 PM
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You need to take a step back and analyze those demons. Why do you feel this way and what actions do you take during these times of weakness. Introspection is important in personal growth. Make yourself aware of the thought processes that cause your conflict and actively work on the root cause. It will take time and effort but you will be able to mitigate them. Vigilance is key.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 12:36 PM
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lol. I believe that strain was called lemon haze. It was probably the best bud I had gotten. Lots of crystals and strands. I would highly recommend it. I was never in a bad mood after a toke of that strain.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 02:02 AM
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I think he has something going on with that statement but it needs to be fleshed out and referenced with supporting facts. I wouldn't be surprised if he is right.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 08:15 PM
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Lol at obongos. Haven't heard that one yet and gave me quite a chuckle
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 12:08 AM
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This post is the bee's knees. Very very interesting write up. I look forward to more in the future.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 02:06 PM
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That was a fucked up read. Hit me in the feels
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:09 PM
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Bamboo. It's ridiculously rugged. How much natural sunlight can you get?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 05:43 PM
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Personally I have a lot of plants. I think having life in my domain gives it a earthy grounded vibe. It puts me in a really good mood to see nature too. Also office furniture. If you have a spare room convert it to your office. Get a nice solid wood desk and make it the place you get shit done. Every girl I've had over has loved it. Leave a suit out that is ironed too. They like it when you wear it and make them get naked while you sit in your chair and Lord over them.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 02:22 AM
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aahh shit lol. I didn't know that existed.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 01:25 AM
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You're welcome friend. Any time I can pass down knowledge I've gained and it is received well I am happy.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 05:12 PM
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This is going to be long, but it will help. First of all, you are 16. Monk mode is not the best approach at your age. You should be focusing on balance. You have 4 pillars in your life right now. They are as follows: Health, Financial, Education, Social. Each pillar needs to be balanced to achieve maximum potential. Lets break down each pillar so that you may see what I mean. Health: Currently you state you are small. You are 5'10''. this is above average height. You are 125lbs. You are lanky an…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 02:34 PM
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Never vent to a plate. Never use her clothing lines to air your dirty laundry. That is the kiss of death. She will question your words and your actions will have less value because you displayed weakness. She needs to look up to you and respect you. She can't do that if you don't handle your shit and your emotions.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 01:45 PM
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Integrity, confidentiality and reliability. If you can be those things then any man will respect you. You can also speak less and do more. Actions speak loudly.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 01:32 PM
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Graphs are beautiful. Such a wonderful visual of the wall and post wall selection. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 12:43 PM
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I was being sarcastic and agreeing with you lol. I'm completely on the same page.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 12:27 PM
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You mean we shouldn't just medicate them and tell them they are all special then fix the problem for them? I mean you're asking for accountability and hard work to be done. You're asking for deep introspection and farsight. Don't you know we don't preach that anymore. It didn't work for thousands of years why would it work in modern society?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 05:42 AM
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Contradictions. Either through words alone or through her words and actions. example: plate has been talking to girls looking to experience one for the first time. She is hooking up tomorrow. I meet her and want to make out before I have to get my dinner. She resists and says it's tempting but she just can't because of her desire to be in the right mindset for this girl. I ignore it and pull her in by the back of the neck so I can get what I want. We make out. She is happy. Says she loves the se…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 05:22 AM
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Take into account the time it takes to develop muscle and mass. Also take into account the lack of mental fortitude many boys have due to failing father figures. Depression and anxiety can stop progress right in its tracks. You'd be surprised how common the two are for all students. Regardless of popularity.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 05:10 AM
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It gets better right after you graduate college because you've been through the game but now you add money, a private living space, and more freedom. All you need to do is wait 3 months after the fall semester begins. The women get bored of riding on campus and you can take your pick.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 05:04 AM
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In all honesty even if you are out of tune you still have a decent chance at success. You can thank hip hop for that. The No Grinding policy is completely ignored. If you can't get a validation junkie to at least blow you after she's been dry humping your legs for 2 hours then you need a second dose of the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 04:53 AM
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Oh its God awful. I was in the guidance office at the high school early this week and the guidance director came to the principal who I was with at the time. Apparently he had been made aware that a boy was being bullied relentlessly on his bus for having an unusually large head. 5 minutes later kid comes down, I look at him and saw nothing abnormal. These kids are just ruthless.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 04:47 AM
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It only brings out the behavior a student has already been exhibiting. For these events the behavior is magnified significantly. I got to see it from a slightly removed perspective at the end of the last school year since I manage the technology for a school district. It's egos and insecurities on grand display. Popular boys don't care because they know they're gonna get laid. All girls are in a frenzy because they want to be validated as perfect for a once in a lifetime event. Then the average …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 04:34 AM
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There was a post here about a month or so ago on cold showers. I tried it that evening after a workout and every day since it's been an excellent motivational boost. Nothing makes you feel more bad ass then having ice cold water feel like it's warm. I also share these helpful things with my friends. When they see me excited about something it makes them excited and it's a cycle of positive feedback and accountability. I got another friend into the ice cold showers and I've seen him excited over …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 04:06 AM
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Absolutely correct. Lead by example. Do it with your children. Show them and teach them to do whatever you are doing. Most importantly make sure they are hands on. Working in a school system at a young age has opened my eyes to the truly abysmal parenting skills that most adults have. Here's one I heard from 2 3rd graders the other day: "mom didn't want to get up so we stayed home". Mom said the kids were sick. This happens often. With misplaced priorities like that it's apparent why our youth h…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 03:58 AM
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And I can respect your opinion my friend
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 01:25 AM
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It's majorly fucked up. That particular ex gf would stop the tantrum once she realized I didn't care and she would smile and get flirty. It's just how they are. They know exactly what they're doing.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 10:50 PM
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This reminds me of a bad relationship I had. It was over a year of temper tantrums like this. I'd usually give in but towards the end I just threw in the towel and stopped caring. Saw it for what it was and actually laughed at her tantrums and told her to cut the shit then left. To answer the first question I'd say she was spoiled as a child or severely neglected. The polar opposites have the same effect. They revert women to children in an environment where they are provided for all the time. W…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 09:53 PM
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For men it is respect. For women it is a challenge.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 09:32 PM
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How does that reflect in your standards though? I see it as settling for less because she is a lesser woman with little respect. There is no honor or respect in cheating from either party. I personally believe it is a waste to invest in a person of that caliber. In terms of a brotherhood I can agree with you to an extent. I don't think men need to steal women from each other. Women are in abundance. Their stock is low. Now if it was a job opportunity or something that will increase my own value …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 09:22 PM
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In my opinion a woman that is willing to cheat is low value. There are many more out there. Why settle for less. Why settle for women that cheat when you would not do so yourself.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 09:11 PM
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Not at all. I just think it's unwise. Here is my logic behind it. It should be noted that this is based on the assumption she has never cheated in her past. In this case I believe you will create a new emotional experience for her. To her it is positive. It's secret, exciting, full of lust and is exotic. So now there is an association between cheating and pleasure. What is to stop her from doing it again and again and again. Only you. Only her perceived value of you. And let's be honest. That ch…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 09:05 PM
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Because then you are no better than she is. You settled for less and you are not the prize. You have no honor and can't be looked up to as a pillar of integrity. You disrespect your brothers instead of support them. Life is more than a woman. You are capable of virtuous acts. Think of the type of man you want to be before you steal.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:53 PM
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Fulfillment is the key. Weak men seek fulfillment through the possession of a woman because they are incapable to do so in abundance. Where as the strong men have abundance of women and understand the possession of women is inadequate for lasting fulfillment. Novelty wears off. A man needs passion, goals, dreams.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:47 PM
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Leave them alone. Where is your honor and respect for yourself? And remember that if she jumps ship she will likely do so again.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:38 PM
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In my experience it is still rare to find a woman responsive to this. They usually write me off as a misogynist. Sometimes I can get them interested in our behavioral evolution but they often become resentful and see it as being taken advantage of. Not that I care. I'm looking for the type of girl that embraces her nature and mine as a man.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 04:17 PM
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Honestly I was confused as well but I figured it'd be odd if he was 2 people and somehow knew the girl. He'd have to have a fake identity or something
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 02:56 PM
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It may be that you caught her in a different emotional state during each conversation. I have talked to women through multiple mediums and where one fails the other may pick up like you said. Sometimes it's just her preference in communication like sms or twitter or Facebook. I think it depends on the woman. You may want to try to gage frequency of replies and focus on that particular medium. Of course this is just a theory.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 12:19 PM
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Maybe in a different world my friend. I honestly wish I could follow my natural instincts because the age difference is very little and I am attracted to them. I can't and won't because my livelihood depends on my job and I won't jeopardize it by thinking with my cock. It's very difficult to control at times and I understand completely how young men entering the field feel. You're an object of lust for these girls and they let you know that is what you are. Legally I can't even be in the same ro…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 12:41 AM
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I work in a school system as a systems administrator. I can tell you that personally that there is a very real fear from male teachers over this. Since it is so female dominated the males are closely knit. They will never talk to the female teachers about this issue but it is an unspoken truth. I have had conversations with some of the younger female teachers regarding this and they will admit to this atmosphere. Most of them actually want more men in the field but have said if they were men the…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:02 PM
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Clever response. I'm glad you posted it. I didn't think outside the box and recognize alternative methods of therapy. Thanks!
/r/askTRP28/08/14 05:05 PM
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I gave specific resources that I've used in addition to the sidebar. My point was to make sure OP and others don't lose sight of the big picture which is a well rounded life.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:23 PM
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Ok I responded to you via your other thread but I wanted to make sure it's visible to more people. Do not ignore a single area of your life. You will rob yourself of a very important learning experience which is to balance growth in all aspects of your life. Not only that, but to do so under stress and pressure at times. Life is a balancing act and do not think you can just powerhouse your way toward self improvement by skipping past the women part. It's a long path to travel and you will fail. …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:41 AM
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Read the sidebar. It is full of resources to scour. However, if you need a real reason why here it is. You need balance. You can't or blinders on to women and just work on everything else. You will end up robbing yourself of an important lesson. Which is how to balance growth in all areas of your life. Now I recommend the rationale male as reading. It will make you angry and happy and blow your mind. Use that as motivation and continue working. Also read the way of men. The 48 laws of power is a…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:16 AM
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Becoming alpha if one is not born and raised into the alpha mindset requires trauma. Trauma is the catalyst for change, serious, life altering, never turn back type of change. You gotta get burned hard. You have to be cut down and broken to wake up. You hit your own limits and then the switch is turned. After that it is just a matter of commitment and desire for the Red pill lifestyle. It's feeds on itself. Every action in the red pill world results in positive feedback via validation of the the…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 09:39 PM
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http://imgur.com/Tq82xCJ Selfie but I like it. That's my favorite fucking shirt. Usually it's business casual. Nice dress shoes are important. Try to get your clothing tailored or buy to fit your body type. It makes a huge difference in your appearance and confidence level.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 01:39 AM
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That was really inspiring. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 10:24 PM
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Let him have his moment. He can figure out the underlying issues in therapy and through reflection of himself. He's proud to have accomplished this nagging issue that has consumed him for some time now. He looks up to the community and we should encourage him to share his story regardless of his perceived issues. A little ego stroke might keep him on the straight and narrow. It is all too easy to fall back into darkness even when one sees the folly in their actions and imho momentum is key to hi…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 01:48 PM
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wohoo!!! My state finally did something right!
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 07:57 PM
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I love that blonde chicks face. you can tell she despises everything that the woman in blue is saying. I loved every second of that and you could see both the male anchors smiling because they know it's true!
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 05:28 PM
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of course its good for her. She gets a mature man to start off her dating career. They know and are comfortable with you. It's win-win for her. I don't see an upside to it if you're looking for an LTR. I think you'll outgrow her. If its just casual then i suppose it's ok. I'd just expect her to cling. Seeing as you're close with the family I would be weary to not hurt her emotionally.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 10:29 PM
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oh yeah I know it's cheap. I like going to the book store though, not just for the books lol
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 10:24 PM
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Cost benefit analysis dude. Is one teenager worth all those relationships you've built with her family? How about your own moral code? You think it's difficult to keep her off your mind now.... just wait until it blows up when she becomes attached to you and you pull away. Shit can and most likely will get crazy and that is more than it is worth IMHO. Also remember that she will have no support system in her BF now. You fuck her and she will cling so hard both your heads will pop off. All aboard…
/r/askTRP01/07/14 07:45 PM
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Next. Not worth your energy. She is taking more than she is giving and what she is giving you is in the form of stress and resentment for not only cancelling but also using you as an emotional crutch.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 07:39 PM
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I just started reading your book. Got the Ebook. I really wished my local bookstores carried it. I even went on a hunt for it, but alas I could not find it. I will be buying the paperback online as well!
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 07:29 PM
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Go on youtube and watch some of Tylers videos from RSDNation. His channel is /RSDTyler. I believe he is ~5'7''. He talks a bunch about overcoming the height issue and the girl's mentality behind her shittesting you about it. In a nutshell it's pretty much if you don't care then she don't care.
/r/askTRP29/06/14 02:47 AM
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If I could've I would've posted there. However, This sub is still relevant to my post.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 09:40 PM
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So you're invisible to them... oh well. Who cares about a hundred or so people. Not everyone is going to like you or even care if you exist. Just do your work in class and when you have time go and meet people. Join clubs that interest you, do some sports (preferably coed), go online and join some sites. There's so many ways to build friendships that are still within your comfort zone. Then as time goes on push that zone more and more. Eventually you won't care what people think of you and you w…
/r/askTRP27/06/14 06:26 PM
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Two reasons. One is that even without a question posed I am still looking for feedback on my experience. The second is that I created this account specifically to post this story. I've lurked for months yet never had an account and as a result couldn't post to trp directly. I felt this was a good compromise. I needed to share this story and this was the best community for it
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:04 PM
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You may have to give her written notice, but it may take a court order for it to actually stick. You could try written notice and get that notice notarized, your local bank should have a notary (if not, most law offices do). I'm just suggesting to go through the most legitimate channels you can. She can ignore you, but she can't ignore the police or a judge.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 11:08 AM
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30 days. call the police and let them serve the order. Go to the 1 court date you need to and if she goes, well then she's still got 30 days. If she doesn't go or doesn't listen to the order then in 30 days call the police and have them manually remove her. if she's playing that game then she will try others as well. I'd have a friend stay to serve as witness. No domestic assault, no rape charges, no he said she said. Watch her, she's out for blood.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:05 AM
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That's really good advice. I need to do that more often because it can be a struggle sometimes. Thank you.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 01:56 AM
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It's true, her survival method was depleting me of everything advantageous to her. She would've jumped ship after I was sucked dry and kept the other guy on the side until then. kinda like that saying a bird in the hand is worth two in a bush except she had a bird in a cage and potentially another behind her back.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 10:32 PM
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Only during that phone conversation did she reveal that she had been wanting to for quite some time. Why didn't she? Just trying to survive lol.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 09:53 PM
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I'm not sure if destruction is their purpose. Maybe subservience would be a better label. Wouldn't it be easier to have a long game and slowly shift societal values until women are top dog and men submit to their whim willing and without knowing anything else? That's what I would do if I wanted to have my cake and eat it too lol. I understand the gladiator lifestyle. I see it as primitive man, which in essence is a free man. It appeals to me as well. It's amazing to be physically fit, have marat…
/r/askTRP26/06/14 09:28 PM
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Thank you. I will!
/r/askTRP26/06/14 09:22 PM
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Thank you. Good story to tell, but the experience wasn't lol
/r/askTRP26/06/14 09:21 PM
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I've had it happen twice. They both told me it was "the wall" coming down. By wall i mean that subconscious blockage made from life experiences. I'd say it's a good thing, but it could also be physical pain or maybe another emotion. In the end I don't really think you're gonna know unless you can get her to be honest. Chances are she won't be because she fears judgement. My advice would be to relax and just let her believe you two are going with the flow. The more comfortable and free she feels …
/r/askTRP26/06/14 06:53 PM
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Thank you my friend. It's a horrible feeling to wake up one day and realize you have no freedom. It's much better to wake up knowing that you can live as you please. It makes sense in regards to the herd. I should've seen the red flags, but I put the blinders on instead. Learned my lesson on that one lol. And I will keep living my life to the fullest and I wish you a prosperous one.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 06:32 PM
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