braaah55 Archive

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7	[deleted by user] I am very sorry that you experienced this, but buddy, everyone deals with gruesome heartbreak, lack of closure, incomprehensible and unstomachable behavior from the people we love. Women, too. My heart is scar ridden with the amount of times men have trampled it (probably unconsciously or unable to prevent it, in most cases.) But the point is to find yourself in the midst of that pain, learn from it, learn to radically love yourself, find hope again and to find a way to love people again with al…	/r/seduction	31/07/22 09:30 AM
5	What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s? So you’re just blatantly recommending to swerve the ‘kids’ question to het a shag out of the deal, and have the nerve to call yourself respectful for letting her go after that, so she can have kids with someone else? Effectively misleading another human being for the sole purpose of getting your dick wet? Nauseating.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 10:47 PM
3	Women feigning disinterest to encourage pursuit As I explained: yes, didn’t work	/r/seduction	27/07/22 07:35 PM
3	Women feigning disinterest to encourage pursuit Constantly, because it’s unnatural for me. But I can’t read minds, either, so I don’t know which behavior would be optimal. So far, I seem to be more successful the longer I wait and the fewer I give (not sure if that’s correct grammar, no English native speaker).	/r/seduction	27/07/22 02:04 PM
4	Women feigning disinterest to encourage pursuit As a woman, I’m basically forced to behave like that. When I’m my enthusiastic, bubbly self on text, not playing waiting games, it’s always considered sus and desperate. Causes guys to flake. So. I sit on my hands as I watch time go by, and limit my word count when I do reply. Trust me, I don’t like this. But apparently it’s necessary.	/r/seduction	27/07/22 01:00 PM
13	Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules? Well, I’ve never done that, exactly for safety reasons. So just because some women do that, doesn’t mean that all the other women are fair game.	/r/seduction	24/07/22 07:45 PM
17	Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules? Whilst going out is a good moment, she’ll be expecting it then. Any other spot where she is not alone and can get away and also is not forced to come back because of a membership. The key is that as a woman, you risk a lot by rejecting a man. If you’re at work, you can’t leave and it might have repercussions cause he knows you’ll be here every day. If it’s in the gym, he knows where you workout and can harass you. If it’s on the street, she’s alone and heaven knows how scary it is to be followed…	/r/seduction	24/07/22 07:09 PM
50	Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules? As a woman: I like these rules because they make me less uncomfortable. There’s no way of knowing if you can reject someone without facing backlash. Therefore, the gym is not the place (I don’t want to fear coming in to do my workouts) and the street is not the place (I want to get home safely). The most opportunistic guys will probably still try and it will always be a hard pass because they apparently care for their own getting laid more than for my safety. So it’s really up to you what messag…	/r/seduction	24/07/22 05:37 PM
11	[deleted by user] This. I mean, it’s only weird if there is no vibe at all and you just blurt out ‘can I kiss you?’ But if the atmosphere is good and you bring it like you truly desire it… the kiss is already good before ir started 👌	/r/seduction	21/07/22 05:15 PM
3	Gaining some confidence back. My local barista gave me her number and agreed a date, then stood me up... I just saw her again Your response was perfect. Short, sweet and mature. Anything longer or more elaborate would give away that you’re much more emotionally invested than she deserves. Keep going to that shop and keep being a king!	/r/seduction	21/07/22 01:16 PM
2	Most women don't realize how hard average guys have it Lol! That’s an ongoing journey for me as well, because I hate shopping. Just cling to the brands that work well. Cool to read you’re working on it!	/r/seduction	20/07/22 12:47 PM
3	Most women don't realize how hard average guys have it Good on you! I mean that. When my hair is done, colors touched up, model nicely cut, I look so much prettier. The same goes for my male friends once they find a good barber. Glow up galore!	/r/seduction	20/07/22 12:15 PM
3	Most women don't realize how hard average guys have it Possibly. But they’re not telling me that, so the end result is the same, lol.	/r/seduction	20/07/22 12:00 PM
7	Most women don't realize how hard average guys have it There is probably some correlation, for sure. But apart from seeing a lot of guys who are potential 9’s but don’t do anything about their looks, causing them to look like 6’es (to stay in the number terminology), I don’t think I’m matching with guys that are objectively so much more attractive than I am. BMI wise they are usually heavier than mine, and looks wise they’re not all that prettier than I am. In fact they usually glow up after starting something with me, because I show them the ropes …	/r/seduction	20/07/22 11:33 AM
0	Most women don't realize how hard average guys have it Trust me - I do, and I am. It really be like that.	/r/seduction	20/07/22 11:07 AM
4	Most women don't realize how hard average guys have it I understand your logic, but again, it’s like we’re speaking different languages. I don’t think of men as 6’es and 9’s. Their attraction is way less dependent on their actual looks and so much more on their expression. You measure yourselves through your own measuring tapes but again, that’s not a good comparison. You assume we go for looks - we don’t. (That’s not to say that you shouldn’t make the best of it - I’m still baffled that guys keep wearing ratty, Ill fitting clothes and think a coupl…	/r/seduction	20/07/22 11:05 AM
5	Most women don't realize how hard average guys have it I believe there are subtle differences. Found this article with even more shitty dating behavior: https://www.allure.com/story/annoying-dating-trends-glossary	/r/seduction	20/07/22 10:52 AM
8	Most women don't realize how hard average guys have it Thanks! It’s a form of ghosting where you do pop in every now and then with a message or a like on the socials to prevent the other person from getting actual closure.	/r/seduction	20/07/22 10:44 AM
13	Most women don't realize how hard average guys have it This, too. I really want to stay positive and keep having faith in this whole dating ordeal, but where the duck to they store the actual good ones?! The ones that work on themselves, look taken care of, are emotionally mature and not infested with unrealistic pornographic expectations, know how to live a responsible adult life, have actual lives and interests of themselves - in short, standards that I hold myself to, as well. I genuinely don’t understand why many of them don’t just step up their…	/r/seduction	20/07/22 10:40 AM
13	Most women don't realize how hard average guys have it Something tells me that it might be exactly this attitude that is causing you problems. If you behave like this in real life, I’d run, too.	/r/seduction	20/07/22 10:34 AM
11	Most women don't realize how hard average guys have it Because guys can suck just as much. Sometimes they ghost, lovebomb and then ghost, push for sex and then ghost, pretend to be in for commitment but still ghost, are emotionally immature and not willing to work on it, cheat, lie about their intentions just to get their dick wet. They zombie, breadcrumb, booty call, anything to get their way and ravage the hearts of the women that are trying to love them. They are even more judging of women than men, in the looks department - I only have to gain 1…	/r/seduction	20/07/22 10:29 AM
5	Most women don't realize how hard average guys have it Exactly this. If women had it so much easier, they’d be all happily in relationships now. But they’re not. Yes, sex might be easier to come by as a woman, but exactly that it not so primarily interesting to most of us. That’s like guys getting a lifetime supply of tampons - of great value to us, and practically no use to you. The commitment we’re looking for is much harder to come by. The standards that society holds us to, are much higher than for men, meaning that the men that are similar to u…	/r/seduction	20/07/22 10:24 AM
1	How do I fight the overwhelming urge to reply to texts immediately? I feel the same, and I’m a woman. It helps to check your phone less often. Texts (and the pressure to respond) only exist once you’ve seen them. Every now and then, you’ll be so focused on something that you don’t check your phone for hours and unknowingly you have already gotten a few hours of silence in. Also: distract yourself with something that takes up focus. Time will fly by as in your brain, you’re engaged to doing something and this diminishes the anxiety. Best of luck!	/r/seduction	18/07/22 07:59 AM