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The reason it’s easier to make a match on hinge is the ratio, engagement, and how they designed the app, and allow women to cycle through matches. Dating chicks are dating chicks, they usually hook up with guys they want, hinge is just popular one right now. Women are rarely in the I’m now just taking dick era of my life, if ever. Some like to play the field more, but most all want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:25 PM
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The problem with hinge is it’s a lot of dating app lifers who just all migrated there, Chad widowed never going to be happy women. Hinge has become default at this point, the Zillow of single people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:13 PM
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It’s all the same regardless of the app. 8 years ago bumble was the big one and now it’s hinge. OkCupid and plenty of fish before that. Girls hookup, same chance Tinder or Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:37 PM
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I’ve been on 160 online dates, tinder/bumble/hinge mix. 60% of the time for me girls hookup. 90% by the 3rd date. Same percentage for all apps, all dating apps are hookup apps. You go out and she comes back to your place if she likes you, that’s dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:21 PM
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I’ve been an incel for 4 years of my life at different. I have a really hot girlfriend now, an exwife with 2 kids, and I’ve slept with around 120 girls, most pretty hot. You can be blackpill and not be incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:11 PM
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All women want a top 1% man with looks and lifestyle to make other women jealous. Most can’t date him, totally ignored, when girls do they are temp non-exclusive placeholder girlfriends and expected to be his sex toy. The story of fifty shades of grey, except you never land the man in real life. So that enrages them about men in general that her princess fairytale is never coming true, but she sees some girls on insta have it and that makes her mad. Women also see 80% of men as creeps they wish …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:07 PM
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I’m more into black, didn’t see selection for that. Also if you make a blackpill argument everyone just assumes you’re an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:40 PM
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Guys can have charisma and it helps, just most all guys don’t and you either have it or don’t. I’m more blackpill than anything. It starts with bones, how big are they, now you need millimeters of bone in correct places in your face. Then your flesh, skin, and frame. Then if you got all that, but small dick, now no girl desires you. If it’s big, then you can get your d sucked easily anytime you want and girls are trying to f you. 70% of girls attraction in a man is unchangeable, you’ll never get…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:21 PM
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You ever see a girl that moves and walks well, looks great dancing, not hottest but a sexual vibe. Has a fun energy and a sweet smile. It’s rare, but there are guy versions of that. Charisma is a close relative to looks. Personality is not the same as charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:00 PM
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All the single chicks are on hinge now, it’s endless women. I was on it 7 months last year, never reached the end of profiles. Went on a date whenever I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:53 PM
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Sound not vid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:28 PM
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I record girls going in my room, then audio detection records them with nest system. If you hookup with girls you don’t know and they’ve been drinking and you don’t know how much theyve had this is pretty risky. You barely know this person. I’ve gotten to the point of only oral first date and saying no to sex. You’re almost always going to have a few drinks, and if she smokes weed with you. Often times she’ll come over for sex in next couple days if you got to that point when you just met anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:49 AM
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I would be very weary of a girl trying to monkey branch from her relationship. You lose them how you get them. A girl hunting for another man while she stays with her current man is very low female behavior. Women do it a lot though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:56 AM
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A dating app profile is a mental game of does she want to be with you in that photo. If you’re really hot then you won by default. If you’re at EDC in a pic and she’s the type of girl that likes techno raves, then she prob wishes she was there with you and dating you. Get 5 pics like that and unless you’re ugly it’ll work. Girls aren’t just looking for hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:48 AM
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The instance where this worked is I was in Colombia on a dating app trying to get chicks to go out to clubs with us. One of my previous girlfriends is a sexy Latin chick, so I put a pic up of us at the beach. So to let the Colombian girls on apps know I date cute latin girls and they might go to beach with me too. Any girl that’s not that specific type will be turned off, wouldn’t do it in US.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:39 AM
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I’m against doing this, the only exception is if it’s a specific type of girl that you really want, it’s still iffy. The problem with this is usually she’s going to think that’s your girlfriend or previous, or you’re deliberately trying to do what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:31 AM
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The buddies pic is the hardest one, cheerleader effect doesn’t work on guys either. You need to be with cool guys doing something legit fun. Then you need to be the best looking and tallest one of the guys. If she’d rather have the other guy next to you, then the buddies pic in your profile works against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:55 PM
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The shirtless pics are absolute gold. Don’t hold a dog or fish. Don’t wear a suit. Unless you have a great smile, you don’t need to smile. No girl cares about a random hike, wedding, or you just out with friends pics. Whatever advice is on google articles for building a profile and what women look for is mostly wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:44 PM
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I know a couple guys like this, in shape, tall, make great money. They don’t appeal to the female gaze is my explanation from being around them, no woman wants them. From all indications they seem great, but women don’t see it. Also, they usually try with women sporadically and now they’ve gotten in their late 30s with very little relationship success, they seem to have given up and just dive into hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:39 PM
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Physical appearance is simply girls would call you handsome. Women check you out as you walk by. Girls call basic doable guys like this a 5/10, they don’t rate on a bell curve. You can cold approach any girl and she wants to hear what you got to say. Income, 90k+ is desired, $250k+ is highly desired. Any job title that she can verify online as high salary like you work at a law firm or specialist doctor. This helps immensely with dating apps. Ugly anesthesiologists get hella dates because the gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:31 PM
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A paid off place? This combo is crazy, if you combine any half of these with a fairly handsome face, it’s a guy well into the top 1%. Top 20% guys just got an it factor of some kind that makes women chase him, and allows him to get girls casually. Usually that’s height and face, it can be bde, or has a fun social life. Also, bald guys esp with beards and muscles can slay chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:22 PM
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Charisma gets you girls not as much specifically personality, but that’s mainly a trait you are born with. If you can get girls on dates to get you reps, you’ll understand what works and what doesn’t. Cold approaches in bars can help too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:38 PM
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Sure I’ll buy all this, for women it’s going to be a lot worse feeling. Also, how men can provide lifestyle is such a huge let down, girls like to live and eat well from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:07 PM
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You didn’t have expectations to be in a relationship. Also rich guys can give you a dream life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:59 PM
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This is why I’m so confident around women, it’s either they want you or they don’t. There’s no actions to take to make her like you, she just decided the moment she laid eyes on you whether she wants you casually or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:52 PM
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It’s not about falling in love with strippers. It’s about women being able to sleep with rich and handsome men and chads, but never getting one in a real relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:49 PM
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Sure and when this happens with girls they absolutely love it too. The problem comes in when that hot girl never materializes into a real relationship. You do that 50 times and you just get ghosted within 2 weeks it’s going to get old and make you feel bad eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:50 PM
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You’re now talking about something else. I went through a phase in college where girls were okay with hooking up here and there, but never took me seriously, after a couple years it got to me that I’m not good enough. The prostitute thing is hard, it takes a certain guy. I’ve picked up a bunch of strippers at a club that’s popular during the day and has real hot chicks. My method was to get them to have some drinks, go to vip, make out with them. Then I would ask to take them to dinner after shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:44 PM
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You walk up to your date for first and see an upward tilt eye, there’s a gleam to it. Now it’s just yours to mess up and she’s going to make it easy for you. Then the other her eyes look flat, it’s over. I’ve never recovered on a date when failing the eye test.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:37 PM
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Most of the time you’re going to be a backup plan. If you really want her, you have to strike and pull back. If that means you don’t talk to her for months so be it, you have to match her energy. Girls are often still might go back with ex, have some other options currently she might think are better, dating girls have many options you may not be at top. Being a girls number 1 is nice because it’s going to get you loved bombed. Then when that’s over she may get bored and move on, or you’ll get b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:25 PM
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Players got some good advice. They can assess you and what you may need to change or how you should act.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:21 PM
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Is there a sub that talks more about actual dating strategy? Not let’s break down some prob made up headline stats from Google or women comments trying to make us believe that dating women only been with 5 guys and don’t hookup. I had this player friend that cycled attractive girlfriends for many years. He had this super hot eastern european girlfriend for awhile. She was in love with him, and he would relentlessly mock her and act like he was the pretty one. He was so good with chicks, he’s swe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:15 PM
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Some guys can appeal to the female gaze, but not in general way like top 5% of guys can. You match decent and get dates, I’m guessing many dates like you, you’re in the top 20% of guys. That don’t work for most, it’s a privileged category of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:08 PM
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If attractive women fake cared about just to have you as a sexual option for a bit and ghost you. It may take a few years, but it’s going your way start annoying the hell out of you and wreck your self esteem. It’s paradise in your mind because that doesn’t happen to most all guys like it does for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:05 PM
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Almost every red and black pill take on single dating women applies to at least 1/3 of them. Then 2/3 of the women we would actually encounter. All sorts of popular takes like like dual mating strategy is true from my perspective absolutely. All girls want hunter eyes, lantern jaw, tall, muscles, large d Chad, even Stacy melts for Chad. We all know a few guys that can get sex by snapping their fingers. You can’t go on dates and sleep with most of them and not think single dating girls are not of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:42 PM
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You keep thinking you actually prefer emotional maturity and broke as opposed to rich, said no woman ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:26 AM
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All women it starts with looks and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:59 PM
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All women are gold diggers. It’s mainly a factor of opportunity to be one or not. Then how she prioritizes looks, but every girl wants rich and handsome. Those are the 2 main priorities for every girl, just not an option for most, but women all will take both if they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:28 PM
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You’d need to eliminate social media along with dating apps. Then there would be a grand restoration of sanity and less depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:59 PM
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It’s a small population of people that will go out to clubs in US these days. Clubs used to be about dancing, getting drunk, people watching, maybe hooking up. Now it’s subculture city party scene where people socialize with others who also still care about being popular, showing off, and into drama. People build social circles, post on instagram, do drugs, and hookup. There’s a lot of sex going on, you buy tables at clubs and get drugs to have sex with club chicks. If your girl suddenly starts …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:52 PM
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Red pill has just turned into a label for whatever you want to say. All pills have good and bad sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:57 PM
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If my gf was unable to have sex I would still be with her, if she couldn’t have kids I wouldn’t leave her. She’s my favorite person and she loves me, it’s good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:35 PM
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It’s temporarily happened on dating apps to me too. All the guys that have convinced themselves that dating apps are just fat chicks and onlyfans, bots have been cast down there with the bottom users. This it’s 6 to 1 ratio, there’s more guys active, but hinge now has taken over. I was on it 7 months last year and never reached the end of it, all types of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:39 PM
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Tell us you’ve never had a ltr without telling us you’ve never had a ltr. Girlfriends most the time are amazing bro, one of the best things really.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:16 PM
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Hinge does this the worst flipping to only showing ugly and obese women, all over online it’s reported and called a bug. It’s actually a feature in dating apps to restrict the girls you can see. When this happens internal app score is low, and says you don’t have a chance with average girls. The apps don’t show all the women to you, so you will focus on below average women who need more attention. An average looking woman who’s not fat, matches like crazy and gets dates easy and whenever. If you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:43 PM
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The OkCupid data is from 2012, there wasn’t swiping. You messaged whoever you wanted profiles back then. Online dating wasn’t as mainstream and was setup more like MySpace profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:59 PM
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Because most girls won’t go on a date with you until they can verify your online presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:27 AM
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Women are usually on other platforms destroying men at the attention economy. I stay off those. I have an instagram just to pull chicks. I don’t think women think about red and black pill, their instant knee jerk reaction is to say it misogynistic and and shame and make fun of men for categorizing types of women behavior. Women can bash men openly on all social platforms freely though with their name behind it and that’s cool, good jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:21 AM
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Most you women who follow this sub, you never have anything to say other than be mad at an argument. You never can come up with anything to any man’s argument that is an intelligible counterpoint. Not all just most.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:01 AM
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Do you have any argument of your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:20 AM
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Don’t think so, just me and her family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:11 AM
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I’m pretty sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:09 AM
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No you didn’t, I feel like I’m fighting ai that is set to 78 iq.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:07 AM
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You can’t read or make your own argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:05 AM
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No I said they have outright hatred for incels. Thanks for parroting of my argument 🦜
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:53 AM
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You’ve said nothing here whatsoever of any intelligible argument that would make any point. Most of the women have nothing of value to say on this sub, just the lowest iq trolling humanly possible. I’ve made a number of comments that indicate clearly women don’t have empathy for men or any of their issues. You’ve said nothing remotely of any value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:44 AM
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You clearly don’t have the mental capacity to make any counterpoint that makes any sense, I’m good have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:40 AM
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Read last 2 comments. If you don’t have any intelligent counter argument, or don’t think I’ve already answered it, you’re either dense or a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:34 AM
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I’m not into controlling women it’s a waste of effort, I do point out their behavior though. I’m just glad so many women are attracted to me so I can get a girlfriend easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:29 AM
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By all indications by women on social media on every topic regarding men you don’t seem to care about anything about men and mock them. The way women have taken over media and social media, you go on subreddits like this to openly mock men. I think men are to the point that if the titanic sunk again they going ti grab the kids and keep you off the rescue boats. Metoo and this dumb bear thing is just an opportunity to call men shitty rapists. All the memes mocking men, outright open hatred of inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:26 AM
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No, but women do the same thing to guys they want. If a really hot guy walks by women stare him down like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:15 AM
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Maybe, but not enough to gawk at. Whenever I’m with my girlfriend most guys around her just sit and stare. They sitting with wives and girlfriends and still just staring at her. I’m a people watcher, she’s a people avoider. If she catches eyes with a guy the guy will see it as an advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:13 AM
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If you’re a 6+ girl yea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:10 AM
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If women could turn their body into an invisibility cloak while in public, most girls would suddenly be gone aside from certain events and places.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:09 AM
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If you’re an 8+ noticeably attractive girl you’ve probably hooked up with someone relatively famous or a local athlete. She might get lucky and date one. If a single girl isn’t hooking up with you, she’s not that into you. But it’s prob more than 20% actively right now single girls under 35 that got at least one situationship with a guy. Single women go through hoe phases to find a guy, you got to put yourself out there and be passionate to land a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:55 PM
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Women wish that 90% of men weren’t even able to visually see her. They don’t feel empathy for men, if you’re not benefiting her or she’s not attracted to you, women in general would prefer you didn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:18 PM
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If you actually get dates off dating apps from attractive women whenever you want, but you are so introverted you can’t even carry on a conversation and get nervous easily. Then I could see how that would suck a lot, it would be like the hot chick that’s so nuts she can never get a real relationship. Otherwise, you’re not that attractive as you think you are, girls like introverted hot dudes that are normal a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:13 PM
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On one hand I think most people are victims of sexual assault. On the other I’ve heard a lot of girls throw out that term to a guy they wanted to be with and think did her wrong to cut him down, with no intention of going to police about it like they should if it was true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:59 PM
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Usually I agree with guys on this sub, but this 50/50 stance is crazy. If you want to go half on dates I think that’s fine. I know guys that are 10/10, if the guy wants that girl in his harem and her to be his sex doll, he’s taking her out for a few drinks at a nice place. He doesn’t do it because he wouldn’t get laid, it’s to make the passion and blowjob that much better. It’s less than $50, make her come to a place right by you. 97% of my dates are not going to be relationships lasting more th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:40 PM
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I guess it doesn’t matter to me either way, to me all pretty and social girls will go through some hoe phases. If she says she didn’t I prob wouldn’t believe her. So I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:11 PM
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Because the girl hooks up 2/3 of the time, goes to the place you pick, and 20% of dates or more will just instantly be your girlfriend. She’s preselected you, don’t mess it up. A few drinks and meal at a regular nice place is a very small investment for a pretty girl’s time and affection. You try and split the bill with her just puts everything at risk over $30-$50.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:09 PM
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You’re going to have a hard time not finding women that have gone through a hoe phase or 2. If she can get gifts and just date those guys usually don’t care about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:04 PM
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For women that date and are hypergamous, or just can’t be attracted to a man unless clearly he has many dating options. They get stuck in a quagmire of either cycling through situationships or being alone. Wrecks their self esteem. Then they usually proclaim that all men want to just hook up these days to protect their ego. When you hear women complain about dating, this is almost always the real reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:46 PM
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Women are as rarely going to get into an exclusive relationship out of their league as a guy can. The rmv for the girl who has delusional expectations will be changed, or she will be alone. Single women can wish for whatever they want, doesn’t mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:35 PM
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Women get to have sex with who they want, but even if she’s a 9+ she’s going to struggle mightily to land a total package guy. Girls start by thinking their smv is their rmv, and get a real slap in the face with reality when they decide they want a relationship. What women say they deserve and what they end up with for ltr, will almost always be 2 different things, or not near their expectations. I laugh when a single girl starts talking about her checklist and what she “deserves” just because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:18 PM
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I’m talking about after the transformation the physical 40 yr old and physical 20 yr old. So the physical 20 yr old with 40 yr old mind will go for 30 yr old men and do slightly better in dating. If you transformed women of any age and they have the opportunity, physically they’ll want the 30 year old man. 20 yr olds look like boys to any woman over 24. Obviously some girls have age preferences not 30, but all women can appreciate a fit attractive 30 yr old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:12 PM
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Okay if you have to assume they are stuck in standard sexual preferences and don’t want to change. They’ll both likely want to date guys around 30 years old. The 20 year old will do slightly better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:03 PM
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If they are both equally attractive 7/10 the 40 year old woman has a bigger dating pool. She can date 20 years down and 20 years up. If the 20 year old goes to a large university she would have more options readily available.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:45 PM
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The way I look at it is you want to nonchalant and disaffected by her. Which involves not giving her compliments, and not letting her know how you feel about her until she’s alone with you. Be more mysterious and play off her, still interested in what she has to say. Then when you get her alone be passionate and affectionate, if she reciprocates, odds are she will just be your girlfriend right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:35 PM
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