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How droll.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 03:54 PM
1

I have a hot nympho friend who has problems on hookup apps because nobody believes her.
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:59 PM
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This is king Cnut territory, though spelling may vary.
/r/MensRights27/02/22 10:27 AM
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The words have been used technically to signify different things since the 1940s. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_and_gender_distinction#:~:text=Sexologist%20John%20Money%20is%20often,of%20sex%22%20a%20decade%20earlier. As my old English teacher used to say, no two words mean exactly the same. This is not the right battle for men's rights activists to be fighting.
/r/MensRights27/02/22 10:24 AM
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Not by legal definition. (In the UK anyway)
/r/MensRights11/07/20 06:53 PM
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Try this. Would they consider it ok to grab an adult man and forcibly circumcise him without having elregard for his wishes? If not, why is it ok to do that to a baby?
/r/MensRights17/02/19 12:09 AM
-5

Oh not this again. Doesn't everybody understand the particular word usage around systemic prejudice yet?
/r/MensRights02/12/18 10:20 AM
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I twice dated a girl who I think would have been 9+ on this 1-10 scale that you use. She had just moved from Helsinki to London, where I lived. The second night she commented that she never turned down offers of sex. I suddenly had an attack of morality and said that she should take care of herself better. Doh. I simultaneously blew my chances with her and insulted her. She squeezed my hand as we parted that night. The next time I saw her the spell was broken. We didn't date again. I have often …
/r/seduction09/04/18 10:16 PM
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Biased hiring and paying is already illegal in the US. This is why I feel that this post misses the point - of course when people of different genders do identical jobs they tend to be paid the same. Its the law! Sure there have been a few cases of bias in the work place but they're heavily exaggerated and incredibly uncommon. Incredibly uncommon? That seems complacent. I'd imagine its among the more common legal claims against employers. It would be useful to see some data wouldn't it? I don't …
/r/MensRights22/10/17 05:07 PM
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The choice to have children is 100% in women's hands Now you are just being silly. It's good to have a think about this MRA stuff and how it fits in with gender realities, but don't drink the Kool Aid kid.
/r/MensRights22/10/17 03:53 PM
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Yah it's simple to the point of inaccuracy. It's great if modern families can divide up their tasks entirely free from economic and social pressures of course. That's not really happening anywhere reliably yet.
/r/MensRights22/10/17 03:32 PM
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That view is...unsophisticated.
/r/MensRights22/10/17 12:24 PM
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It might be that some of the wage gap is completely acceptable and not a problem. On the other hand there are questions about why men tend to study higher-paying subjects than women, and about recruitment biases. I don't think it helps to wave it away saying that in the same jobs they earn the same. There is a deeper question about why their jobs differ.
/r/MensRights22/10/17 09:34 AM
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Another factor could be that women face additional pressures, such as more childcare.
/r/MensRights22/10/17 08:48 AM
0

Who doesn't choose their job? Everyone is limited in their job choice to some extent. Qualifications and experience are major factors, as are numerous other things.
/r/MensRights22/10/17 08:46 AM
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Good question - they might not choose of course. For those that do choose there are a range of influences affecting their choice. which are mostly not desirable for society.
/r/MensRights21/10/17 08:12 PM
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No.
/r/MensRights21/10/17 08:07 PM
-26

I think this post misses the point rather. Women earn less than men on average. That they earn roughly the same when doing the same jobs doesn't change that fact. The main part of the issue is about the reasons why women tend to have lower paying jobs.
/r/MensRights21/10/17 04:02 PM
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I imagine those are among of the questions to which the court will decide the answers.
/r/MensRights06/04/17 12:08 PM
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The principle of the claim seems reasonable. If he withheld assets they should now be considered.
/r/MensRights05/04/17 10:29 PM
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I guess if somebody seems very young, get to know them before you have sex with them. That way if they are under age it will likely become apparent. I am not sure about the ID thing in the UK. I think here honestly believing a person to be of age would be a defence, except in the cases of girls under 12. That seems unlikely to be a real risk though.
/r/MensRights19/01/17 10:35 AM
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What?
/r/MensRights02/01/17 01:38 AM
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Well quite. It's just a fictional echo in the MRA echo-chamber. Guys, don't let stuff like this form your world-view. It is not real. Form your world-views with real stuff, as much as you can.
/r/MensRights01/01/17 03:19 AM
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Well lets try to be consistent here...
/r/MensRights01/01/17 02:30 AM
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Except there don't seem to be any real 'Feminist Dace Therapy' courses or majors. So, no it's not 'damn right', it's just fake news.
/r/MensRights01/01/17 02:29 AM
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It isn't fairly normal now. Don't be silly.
/r/MensRights13/10/16 09:20 PM
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i think if you were a monkey, you would be one of those ones with a huge red ass.
/r/MensRights14/09/16 11:50 AM
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I don't think that is entailed by my comment, though it might be implied.
/r/MensRights14/09/16 12:45 AM
-12

Close.
/r/MensRights13/09/16 10:14 PM
-21

I don't think you can get hair cancer.
/r/MensRights13/09/16 10:09 PM
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actress Farah Fawcett died from it on 25 June, 2009. Did you happen to remember the date?
/r/MensRights13/09/16 10:08 PM
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Oh well never mind.
/r/MensRights01/07/16 04:25 PM
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They are generally paid for the extra revenue they are expect to bring. I don't see why you are still talking about the screen time. Some actors do get a percentage, so get more if it's a hit. The average pay for Hollywood film actors is lower for women than for men. Naturally there are reasons for this, but they don't really make the difference go away. http://www.theguardian.com/film/filmblog/2011/aug/03/forbes-list-hollywood-wage-gap I understand that you are arguing that women should be paid…
/r/MensRights27/04/16 12:05 AM
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I don't think actors are generally paid by their screen-time, but by the the amount number of people they are expected to attract to see the film.
/r/MensRights26/04/16 10:42 PM
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I don't have a problem with targeting those groups for education. My problem with this is that it tackles a relatively arbitrary symptom (skin color) and not the root causes such as poverty. Of course I'd like to eradicate poverty. However, if you don't target your crime-fighting resources, then isn't that less likely to treat poverty than if you follow the indicators of poverty? There are actually lots of examples like this. In the UK we are trying to tackle FGM. We are finding that some member…
/r/MensRights07/02/16 02:35 AM
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Sorry? I don't understand.
/r/MensRights07/02/16 02:08 AM
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It's a bit sensitive of course, but in locations were there are high levels of crime committed by particular racial groups, I don't have a problem with targeting those groups for education. One might do outreach work about muggings and house burglaries in schools in hotspots for those crimes for instance. I do think the authorities are shy about admitting that some crimes do have more perpetrators from some communities than others. It's a touchy subject and seen as potential fuel for the far rig…
/r/MensRights06/02/16 11:42 PM
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It's not quite the same for women. They are already taught to fear rape, but aside from the obvious safety aspect, women have a different legal relationship with consent. But yeah, teach everyone everything. That's in a nutshell why its not a bad thing to teach men about consent.
/r/MensRights06/02/16 04:25 PM
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This is a bit silly really. There is nothing wrong with teaching young men about the finer points of sexual consent. It's to their advantage to be safer from thoughtless acts which might be criminal, and not to put themselves in danger of prosecution.
/r/MensRights06/02/16 03:53 PM
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I don't read this as meaning 'just a boy' or male, but 'just a boy' or young and still developing. I can't see any sign of sexism in the story. Bryce Fudge is a funny name though, so it hasn't been a waste.
/r/MensRights03/02/16 09:05 PM
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Ah I see. Thanks.
/r/MensRights09/11/15 01:50 PM
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I think the problem here is that it is called 'the patriarchy', when actually its just 'patriarchy'. Sure 'the conspiracy' and 'the system' might not exist, but 'conspiracy' and 'systems' certainly do.
/r/MensRights09/11/15 01:35 PM
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I didn't :(
/r/MensRights09/11/15 01:32 PM
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What exactly are you saying? I am not understanding your point. If you have something to relevant to say, by all means say it. I am here for the discussion and to understand people's ideas. Do men tend to earn more than women, or do women tend to earn more than men?
/r/MensRights05/08/15 10:00 PM
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Erm... "women under 40 in major cities earn more then men, therefore women earn more than men in general"... is that what you are saying?
/r/MensRights05/08/15 09:12 PM
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I think there are a few more factors at play in career success, than just work ethic and skills.
/r/MensRights05/08/15 12:54 PM
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when you control for career break due to pregnancy women earn above average and occupy more management positions. That seems surprising. Do you have a source?
/r/MensRights05/08/15 09:44 AM
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If she were a man should would get life in prison without the possibility of parol. Are there any men doing life without parole for inciting injury? The article implies that the maximum penalty is 10 years for that, if probation is broken.
/r/MensRights05/08/15 08:55 AM
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The fact of the story is that she wasn't found guilty of attempted murder. She plead guilty to inciting injury to persons. I suppose she must have been charged with both crimes at the same time? That seems odd if they were both interpretations of the same action.
/r/MensRights05/08/15 08:54 AM
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Men are at a disadvantage by any measure you choose. I think that is going a bit far. Men tend to do better in their careers, and earn more, for a variety of reasons.
/r/MensRights05/08/15 08:48 AM
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Consent can be withdrawn at any time, even during sex. So, having agreement beforehand doesn't mean there is consent.
/r/MensRights03/06/15 01:55 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/36btzk/woman_admits_on_reddit_to_raping_intoxicated_male/crckthp
/r/MensRights18/05/15 01:05 PM
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I'd imagine /u/HolleWalter hasn't seen the later reply. It's at the top of the page for me, but might not be for everyone.
/r/MensRights18/05/15 10:19 AM
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I think Anita is rather interesting.
/r/MensRights01/02/15 10:06 PM
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positive discrimination I gather it's called 'Affirmative Action' in the USA. We would not describe the thinking behind that as racist or sexist. It exists to combat those. would it be cool to have men-only classes in women-dominated fields? I don't see why not, although there have been many effectively men-only classes in male dominated fields for a long time. I think the reasons for less men-only classes in female dominated areas are a lack of female dominated fields, and lack of demand for me…
/r/MensRights27/01/15 09:40 AM
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Yes it might be. That would possibly render the observation useless for MRA arguments, of course.
/r/MensRights26/01/15 09:07 PM
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Well maybe. I am talking about what I think Sarkeesian means though, not necessarily making the same point myself. But, as an example, when a night-college runs a women-only engineering course, and doesn't let men enrol to it, in order to allow women access who would not have access otherwise, that is not sexist in the sense that feminist theory uses the word. It's positive discrimination. The reason for the difference is that men have power in that situation, and they might dominate engineering…
/r/MensRights26/01/15 09:05 PM
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I'm little hesitant to ascribe that view to Anita on the basis of one tweet, I find she makes lots of sensible observations about video games, and for that she picks up an inappropriate amount of abuse from men who should know better. That's about all I know about her. If she means what I think she means in this instance, then I'd say she has the germ of a point to make, but the terminology used is counter-productive, and won't be understood, hence this submission and thread. As far as the Jew/w…
/r/MensRights26/01/15 08:55 PM
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believing that one half of the population is oppressing the other half is kinda cuckoo. As individuals? Maybe - but I don't think she is saying that. She might have spoken about male privilege, I suppose. That's when the combined power of a privileged group dis-empowers a less privileged one, on the whole.
/r/MensRights26/01/15 01:09 AM
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I don't agree. I think that the concept of swapping group-labels around is useful at times. Sarkeesian's point seems to be that any 'ism' is a product of prejudice and power. So, she says that there is no sexism against men because those who are being prejudicial don't have power. Note she is not saying there is no prejudice against men, just that it isn't sexist and damaging in the same way that prejudice against women is. It's perfectly valid to try the same argument on race, but for the analo…
/r/MensRights26/01/15 12:43 AM
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Uh - this doesn't work with Jews. because Jews are a minority suffering prejudice. If you change it to 'There is no racism against white people', then you would have suitable analogy. I think the exercise of swapping group labels is often good and enlightening, but not in this instance.
/r/MensRights26/01/15 12:19 AM
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I agree that it doesn't address any of his arguments. I guess we will just have to disagree about the importance of that. My interest in the subject is broader than that. If the focus of the subreddit is that narrow, it isn't indicated in the sidebar. I can see that the post might not be liked here, but not that it is offtopic. As it is the comments have enriched my understanding, so thank you for your tolerance.
/r/MensRights10/07/14 10:18 PM
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I don't agree. I'd be interested in that kind of action by any notable person in just about any field I am interested in. Astroturfing, when discovered, is very relevant to any cause. There is a little puzzle in this one, Is it an attempt to falsely discredit him, or just an error? I am interested in the answer to that as everyone should be.
/r/MensRights10/07/14 08:22 PM
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Not to be facetious, but why wouldn't it be relevant, if the facts were as presented? Surely the integrity of prominent Men Rights advocates is of interest?
/r/MensRights10/07/14 07:04 PM
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I suppose she could be asked to comment on the issue? For some reason the comments aren't loading for me, maybe he has very many?
/r/MensRights10/07/14 05:35 PM
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Hmm. The trouble is, who to believe now? I'll have a little dig.
/r/MensRights10/07/14 05:11 PM
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Ron Smith, the defense attorney, stressed that Coast came forward on her own and did not try to defend herself. She realized her mistake, albeit late, and does not have a criminal record. Putting her in jail for a lengthy period will send the message to others who want to recant that "if you come forward, we're going to lock you up." There is some truth to that. If she hadn't owned-up the guy would still be in gaol. Giving her a relatively lenient sentence might encourage others to come forward,…
/r/MensRights22/08/13 12:12 AM
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These statements are not being made by the same person.
/r/MensRights23/06/13 04:16 PM
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That may be true. However they essentially rewrote the article. They used a plugin like that to format the article to the web page layout. And they knew and utilized the Gawker ban to their interest. That was at least a few hours of work. All to be an internet troll. I will never look at the slacker trolls the same.
/r/MensRights06/05/13 11:17 PM
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If you put that up, you will seem like a complete nutbag, with something to hide.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 10:54 PM
0

Why do Americans have such weird upper-bodies?
/r/MensRights04/03/13 01:06 AM
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Look at it this way, if you snog 100, 31 of them will want more. You wont have the time though.
/r/seduction13/02/13 02:14 AM
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Yea. It was on my tits.
/r/seduction13/02/13 02:13 AM
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Followed by rubbing the clitoris?
/r/seduction13/02/13 02:11 AM
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He presses his cloaca against his washing-machine.
/r/seduction13/02/13 02:11 AM
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I read it as 10 minutes at first. Not sure why.
/r/seduction13/02/13 02:10 AM
1

Ok - how about a brain-dead person? For consistency you should be opposed to organ donations from the brain-dead? I personally think consciousness, not life, is the important thing. Yes it's true that consciousness is hard to pin-down to a start-point. However it's not logical to conclude that a new embryo is conscious just from that. We also know that a new embryo does not have the the physical organs to support consciousness.
/r/MensRights23/10/12 10:01 AM
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There's no fine line for consciousness. IMO, Sperm + egg = person How would you feel about a foetus that had no brain at all? There is a real condition, anencephaly, which is borderline, but assume for the sake of argument that the foetus has definitely no consciousness at all. Would you still say Sperm + egg = person ?
/r/MensRights22/10/12 10:38 AM
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Can I just say, I know who violentacrez is, and what /r/creepshots is, but I have no idea what you are talking about beyond that. Could anybody enlighten me? I don't really want to have to read /r/creepshots or /u/violentacrez to find out.
/r/MensRights12/10/12 12:51 AM
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I did read one time about a prominent black rights activist in the US, who took a DNA test to discover his roots, only to find out that he wasn't black. I can see that might be a shock.
/r/MensRights07/10/12 11:49 AM
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It's the Scottish diet and climate.
/r/MensRights12/08/12 10:21 AM
0

Why bother? If SRS have something of worth to say, which they do sometimes, then read it. If not just ignore them. It's not like all reddit comments are full of value. You are just advertising that they are getting to you.
/r/MensRights14/07/12 03:48 PM
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Why thank you. Funny that you chose a 2-month old comment to wish it on though!
/r/MensRights14/07/12 03:41 PM
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Stop sniffing babies' cocks.
/r/MensRights12/07/12 08:42 PM
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I posted this set of arguments which I found recently - it about covers them for me.
/r/MensRights12/07/12 08:36 PM
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Great. I'll try it on the new girl at the office tomorrow :)
/r/MensRights04/07/12 12:34 AM
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Doesn't the pizza come afterwards? Isn't that like saying 'stop early!'? On a serious note, yes I think safewords are a good idea once you get down to it. Just tell the kids you are teaching not to suggest it too soon!
/r/MensRights04/07/12 12:20 AM
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What if you are a pet-shop boy?
/r/MensRights04/07/12 12:12 AM
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a failure to convict for a rape does not mean that there was no rape (or that there was one, but either way there is no way people can say the women are liars). So do you think that the men should be treated any differently after the case has been settled? The danger is that any accusation, no matter how poorly-evidenced, will affect the accused for the rest of their life. It's a serious mar on their perceived character. It will affect their careers and relationships for ever. The district attor…
/r/MensRights02/06/12 10:54 AM
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I don't think kids are protected from all the 'pecking order' stuff that happens in their communities.
/r/MensRights02/06/12 10:38 AM
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I suppose it also makes it easier to undo a blouse worn by somebody else.
/r/MensRights09/05/12 11:11 PM
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Do servants button-up men's shirts from behind?
/r/MensRights09/05/12 09:57 PM
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I was served in M&S (Upscale British foodstore) today, by a cute girl. I noted her name-tag, Viktoria, didn't seem to match her appearance somehow. I thought better of using her name. I think that might have been creepy. Having said that, I smiled and so did she, and it seemed genuine.
/r/seduction08/09/11 10:38 PM
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Ah ok Thanks. Too young to really be responsible I'd say. And, they were messing about, not sexually motivated. I doubt that would be seen as an excuse if they were boys pranking a girl though.
/r/MensRights10/08/11 04:00 PM
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How old does that make them? (I am not from the US).
/r/MensRights10/08/11 03:56 PM
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Which do you mean, that circumcision is more or less painful than those? Choose your own equivalently painful act and judge that.
/r/MensRights12/06/11 03:13 PM
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Which is back to where I came in to the conversation. Women in parts of Africa defend female genital mutilation. I do lump them in as victims. I think that given the alternative of normal clitorises etc, and with a lack of disapproval from society, they would view it differently. MGM isn't quite the same as FGM I'd concede, but Bioethic's point was worth throwing in the mix, I'd say. Anyway I know many guys like their trimmed dicks :)
/r/MensRights19/05/11 05:23 PM
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All I'm strongly in favor of is people keeping their victimhood to themselves. I can't see why. An open discussion is best, surely?
/r/MensRights19/05/11 04:20 PM
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You presume all lack of concern stems from being brainwashed into not seeing yourself as a victim. Well no, I was just rephrasing Bioethical's point, as you didn't seem to acknowledge it in your reply. He acknowledged that you don't personally feel scarred, but you are making the point again. It's all about what we perceive as normal basically. If circumcision has such slight effect, it seems odd to be so strongly in favour. Personally I think as long as it is available to adults for health, bod…
/r/MensRights19/05/11 08:25 AM
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No you wouldn't. That's silly. And, you could have it done any time as an adult.
/r/MensRights19/05/11 07:36 AM
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Bioethical is making that point that we would (mostly) consider women who have undergone FGM or foot-binding as scarred, but they would (again mostly) deny that they are victims or are scarred, just as you do.
/r/MensRights19/05/11 07:32 AM
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You chose it as an adult as a medical solution. That's not what people object to with circumcision.
/r/MensRights19/05/11 07:28 AM
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What other infections do you treat by chopping off parts of your body? Tonsilitis, infected wisdom teeth, probably others. However those generally only have a surgical intervention after a problem has shown up, not usually as a preventative. I am uncircumcised and I don't think I have ever had an infection that circumcision would have prevented.
/r/MensRights19/05/11 07:27 AM
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I think FG_SF is saying that FGM is so much more radical than MGM that it can't be compared.
/r/MensRights19/05/11 07:24 AM
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Here is a thought: if a parent did something to their male baby that caused about the same pain as circumcision, but wasn't a surgical procedure, and also served no purpose, would that be acceptable? I mean something like twisting the hand painfully, or pinching them (very) hard.
/r/MensRights19/05/11 07:20 AM
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generally circumcised persons have no clue what it was like before that. How can there be a void? I am glad you said 'persons', because your argument does apply to girls too.
/r/MensRights19/05/11 07:15 AM
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'ponceholes'
/r/seduction15/04/11 12:34 AM
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I quite agree. I often contrast English with French, in which an authority tries to regulate what words are used etc. In English the dictionaries only study the usage, which develops by itself. There are a few exceptions. I am glad to see Political Correctness has had some impact on vernacular English, for example the words most often used for various minorities tend to be less pejorative now than in the past.
/r/MensRights31/10/10 12:17 PM
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Yes the Spivak pronouns are an attempt to clear up the ambiguities that using 'their' and 'they' can suffer from. I guess we just need to struggle on. One thing seems clear about English: it is very difficult to design improvements. Usage is all that matters.
/r/MensRights30/10/10 06:14 PM
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Better to link directly, or just to use a better-phrased reply in the first place.
/r/MensRights30/10/10 06:11 PM
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It's a shame Spivak prounouns didn't take off online as typing his/her all the time is clumsy. I generally assume redditors are male (7 times as many are as are female in one survey), but this does seem a little rude. Edit: weird downvotes today...
/r/MensRights30/10/10 01:01 PM
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It seems interesting enough to me, some good ways at looking at equality. I think saying 'check your privilege' to someone who may not be familiar with those ideas is really dumb though. Sorry if that's dumbist everyone.
/r/MensRights30/10/10 12:57 PM
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Did she actually bang his brother? The story doesn't say so, just that this is alleged.
/r/MensRights03/10/10 10:28 AM
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Yeah I don't think it was actually taken into account, just that theoretically, what the guy did was worse and this coincidentally matches his heavier sentence.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 07:40 AM
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Those are going to be based on 'average' sex. Sex can be gentle, or very rough, and that will probably make a difference. Your figures show something perhaps relevant though. What the guy in this story did was on average twice as dangerous for the other person than what Nadja Benaissa did. This could be relevant to his heavier sentence.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 06:33 AM
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There is no double standard. They are different standards in different countries.
/r/MensRights01/09/10 06:31 AM
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Rapists do sometimes use condoms, though I don't know if this would evade all types of DNA sampling.
/r/MensRights07/06/10 05:55 AM
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So, I'd like to know more about eliminative Vs nominative policing and why the trend has changed.
/r/MensRights07/06/10 05:53 AM
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Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. On the other hand, they usually go off you suddenly just when you start to like them.
/r/MensRights05/06/10 01:43 PM
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The actors appearance seems to have been chosen to make him look dodgy too. (of course, there is no reason why hairy guys in hippy clothes can't be safe adults)
/r/MensRights22/05/10 03:38 PM
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Sexist fuckwaddery, except ummm, number 11 ;)
/r/MensRights04/04/10 12:52 AM
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That's interesting. The police seized his computer. (mentioned right at the end of the report, though there is no mention of any illegal action on his part).
/r/MensRights23/03/10 08:00 AM
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Sorry, why is it keeping him from thousands of dollars? Edit: Whu? downvotes for a question?
/r/MensRights22/02/10 08:36 AM
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