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Well this was a discussion about men expressing insecurities, and a feminist that I responded to decided to bring it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:33 PM
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Not saying I agree or disagree with you, but I really loved your response!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:00 PM
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You too! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:45 PM
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I've enjoyed our discussion, you're a pleasant person 💯 Heading to work now, but again want to say. I see your point of view, and I'm glad you were able to see mines as well. This is what discussion forums are for, wished more conversations went like this!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:17 PM
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Ofc talking about your insecurities to someone you've just started dating, or just met is weird. We can all agree on that, all I'm saying is that men should feel unashamed to talk about them in general. Especially to close friends, family, and partners. Especially in online forums as well, talking about your feelings should be normalized, we as a society need to grow past this whole stoic and silent man idea. Some men are like that, some aren't, and it's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:08 PM
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I can see your point of view. But I think there is a negative connotation put on insecurities when it comes to men. Me as a man should be able to tell my friend that I'm insecure about balding at 24 without being told I'm toxic, dangerous, and other women will see it as a redflag for expressing these emotions. Maybe it's because we silence men and shame them for expressing their emotions, you get some guys who already aren't good at communicating explode over insecurities they can't even talk ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:56 PM
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So you saying since some guys are rapist, all guys deserve to have society behave toxic towards them, and that they are wrong for questioning it? That's like shaming all white people (which some people do) for slavery. Which is wrong. It's wrong to generalize anyone. Just because women have been oppressed in the past doesn't mean it's okay for anyone to mistreat men. How is me saying "I shouldn't be told I'm a threat and dangerous because I said I'm insecure about going bald at 24" equate to me …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:42 AM
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This is very abusive rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:20 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:46 AM
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I loved your response!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:27 AM
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I mean white people in general. The fad isn't as prevalent as it was before, but you have to admit. It was popular for the general public to shit on white people for literally no reason other than what their ancestors did. That's like picking on a kid because his dad or grandfather is a murderer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:53 AM
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Last summer, 3 girls in their early 20s all worked at my job. Everyday I heard them talk about "niggas ain't shit, someone needs to give these men the instructions etc" One casually glaring at me when an older lady said men can't deal with pain while talking about her husband. The girl stared me in the eyes and said "yeah men can't handle anything" it's something that does happen in the real world, it's just not apart of your reality so you can pretend it's just a fantasy. All these instances we…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:34 AM
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What's your opinion on if a guy said he was insecure about going bald at an early age? Or a girl saying she's insecure about not having boobs? Tbh I don't think either are bad. Not saying you were biased or anything, but just saying that I feel like insecurities should be normalized and talked about openly. Not everyone man or woman who is insecure will try to harm someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:22 AM
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You're a very wise centered person
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:20 AM
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Yeah tbh I am so happy I'm not white. Even working with white people you can see the wheels turning in their head on how to not offend anyone at all cost. Shits wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:57 AM
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Although I agree, I still think some high standards are a bit wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:31 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:30 PM
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I'd say the situations are about 50/50 So was there any other flaws about your partner? Did he treat you well? Like was the only thing you disliked was his height?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:35 AM
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That's true, I have known a few girls that are interested in shorter guys now that I think about it lol. Sheesh I have a cousin (same age as me, 3 days apart) who is like 4 inches shorter than me, and that man has been very successful with women. More so than me actually lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:43 AM
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Lol, nice response! Ngl you have a way with words, I could vividly picture everything you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:38 AM
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That makes sense, wonderful response btw ! 💯🙏🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:36 AM
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I really needed to hear this, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:23 AM
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I love your response. I feel most people on here wouldn't admit that they still look at others who have what their partners lack, but you're very honest and I respect that. It's also nice to hear that you value his other traits as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:17 AM
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Damn, sorry to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:17 PM
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So you've only been with one guy, your current bf? Y'all had bad sex twice and it made you cry? Am I misunderstanding it? Just wanted some more details, your response was confusing sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:23 PM
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Well damn, sorry to hear you went through that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:53 PM
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That's sorta fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:45 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:45 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:44 PM
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Interesting take, you're a lot like the person I know that inspired me to write this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:33 PM
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What if you're building a life with someone and over the years the sex becomes mediocre?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:31 PM
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Hopefully not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:30 PM
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Me neither, like they should let their partner know. Try to fix it, or leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:11 PM
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Not even gonna lie, I didn't read the whole thing. But from what I did read I 100% agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:30 PM
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I mean good advice, but why are you suggesting I get therapy for saying that most people are not kind? I specifically made sure to say human beings and not target a specific gender lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:52 PM
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That's a good one!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:46 AM
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The rare unicorn of human beings in general
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:39 AM
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That's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:39 AM
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I'm so sorry you went through that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:37 AM
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