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I 100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:46 PM
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Why do you ‘need’ it at all though? Can’t you just use your imagination? Doesn’t it bother you that the porn industry trafficks women and children? That it shares the rapes of children and revenge porn? That it uses coercive tactics to entice young women to create and upload content with the promise of something better than flipping burgers? It's not whataboutery, I'm answering to this comment ^ I agree with you that there is not good reason to use porn, and many good reasons to not use porn. Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:33 PM
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You can also choose to consume only certified porn or, better : cartoon porn, porn stories… However, it’s still going to turn people into dysfunctional human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:11 PM
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Who do you think builds sex toys ? Qualified well payed employees or child labour in third world countries ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:26 PM
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Our society is built on abuse… The clothes that you wear are made of cotton picked by literal slaves in northern China. The phone that you use is assembled by children forced to work. The jewellery that you wear is in your hands because sacred sites were taken by so much force that the rivers nearby became red with the blood of the tribes trying to defend their cultural heritage. The gas that you put in your car most likely comes from countries that confiscate the passport of women and children …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:53 PM
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His comment is really stupid, however this answer also doesn't make any sense : - If it takes one man to impregnate thousands of women, then you need to sterilize all men to prevent this from happening (as one would be enough) - So it means that you need to sterlize half the population - So it's just as effective to sterilize the other half of the population Yeah, let's not go down that path :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:49 PM
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It’s not my side honestly, I don’t really belong to either MGTOW or TRP, but I like to read ! It was answering to OP’s post where OP describes the most extreme members of MGROWs/Incels. For those people, I think mistake were made, but not necessarily their fault if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:03 AM
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It can be a failure in your eyes but for some, not having to conform to society’s norms is a relief. Yes, you do not need TRP to become MGTOW, both things are widely different and do not pursue the same ideal. I would even go as far as saying that you can’t be mgtow if you are trp and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:17 PM
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The second is also asking you to get fit, but not for the same reasons, out of anger rather than out of hope. Hope is too dangerous for desperate people, if the girl ends up still rejecting the guy after his efforts to get better, you get an incel ("I tried everything that I could try, and still nobody wanted to be with me", just listen to the shooter's words related to last weeks' events). The way your interpret the second phrase (make yourself feel better) shows that you don't understand what …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:53 AM
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we can strip TRP of all of the peripheral misogynistic ideology We could strip TRP from it's other ideologies (which don't only include misoginy btw), but then it would not be nearly as effective. Which works better? "get fit to attract the beautiful girl that you care about", or "well that girl that you care about, probably she is getting ducked by a dozen of other men right now, and none of them is you, she is not that cute angel you thought she was". Men that need TRP put women on a pedestal,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:24 AM
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Why is that a failure ? They didn't drop out of the race entirely, one of them could be the doctor that saves you tomorrow. Choosing to not be in a relationship with a woman is not a failure, just like choosing to not be in a relationship with a man is not one either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:58 AM
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If you believe that lift and approach is a good method, then you believe that TRP works in it's core ideology : "Nobody wants to get with you as of now, actually go get yourself together instead of believing your mother when she tells you that you are the most pretty boy in the world and one day someone will want to be with you, so just be yourself". The just be yourself and wait, that is the mainstream dating advice and ideology given to most men by their (mostly female) family members growing …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:56 AM
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They are religious brainwashed zombies that have been so since the 80’s and now get their time to shine (again...). Their goal is to apply the strictest dogmas found in the Coran, that’s it. It is not comparable to beta/alpha or anything else discussed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:16 PM
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Who do married woman find more attractive ? A ripped, gorgeous, prime, 23 y/o man, or their balding, tired husband ? Likewise, men find young, gorgeous, prime 23 y/o women more attractive. Does that mean that men are ready to leave their wives for a young woman ? Some (most? debatable since women initiate divorce) do it, getting married is the risk of this happening. Women (and men) should prioritize marriage for multiple reasons (not in order) : Better environment for raising a family Better fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:08 AM
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Do women really marry men with no money/assets ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:44 AM
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Do you think that men don't try to get fit ? Have you ever been to a gym and looked around ? Do you see mostly men or mostly women ? Do you go to men clothing store and look around ? The men here don't whine about the fact that they need to lift weights and buy good clothes. They whine about the fact that their attractive features are supposed to be height and sword size. Two things which are nearly impossible to correct with money. They whine about the fact that everything has to look natural (…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:28 AM
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It is not only a woman problem, it's an everyone problem. It has been modelled before. However, to be confronted by the problem, you need to be able to date successfuly..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:57 PM
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But everything is about money, because money assigns a value to everything else. If you have money, you could buy land, ressources, or anything else right ? Also, war makes money by pillage of ressources and selling weapons. Warmongers make war to take ressources and land, and then they convert this in money, ultimately, it is about money because money represents all ressources.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:28 PM
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Quick maths : It is impossible for 50% of men to be better than average. For every man that "grinds" and "gets it", he gets the place of one that "grinds, but a bit less" or "doesn't get it". If you are lucky (read : come from a good family, encountered the right series of events, born with good genetics, went to the right school, was tought the right work ethic, got taught about nutrition and etc.) , then yep, it is easy. This is the difference between "We take every applicant with a score of 5…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:51 PM
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In our culture, a kiss usually means exclusive relationship (even though it is changing). So it is common to have people enter relationships without having sex first. Also, it's tricky, someone can be extremly into someone else, just the sex is not quite there, it happens, and some people don't really want to throw everything out of the window "just because of sex". They've been working together towards fighting her demons for a long time now, the fact that he learned more about her previous sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:32 AM
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That's because you are a mature person and you can look outside of yourself, trying to put yourself in someone's else shoes, hats off, it is a rare quality ! My brother is in a LTR with a girl that has had few before him. She used to love sex but she never did it with him (they are together 4 years). When he found out, he called me and told that he felt like shit, ugly and unwanted. But he still loved her. It took a monumental amount of effort and outside support to get him to externalize his fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:41 PM
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Imagine your husband tells you that he doesn't really like to celebrate holidays, birthdays, valentine's day ... You resign yourself to not getting anything on those days even though it is important for you, because that's just how he is right ? Then one day, you meet one of your husband's ex, completely randomly. She tells you how he would always go out his way to plan great dates, make super expensive presents that were tailored to her wants/needs, that he was always exited for holidays. You'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:20 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:35 PM
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I'm not sure it can be genetically altered
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:37 AM
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I also CTRL-F'ed the PDF and found that it is also written about "frame" in that book
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 09:56 AM
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I would say one in which you are happy and can look forward to the future with your partner. Considering that he talked a lot about his struggles on podcasts, blogs, newsletters and the books he has written afterwards (got curious after reading the book), I would say that that would be his definition of proper relationship as well. This guy is the OG redpiller, he published all of the concepts that are still in used by TRP today. He f*cked hundreds if not thousands, got married and in LTRs with …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 09:52 AM
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From the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss which put the PUA mindset out there and largely influenced TRP : Jeffries developed Speed Seduction in 1988, after ending a five-year streak of sexlessness with the help of neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), a controversial fusion of hypnosis and psychology that emerged from the personal development boom of the 1970s and led to the rise of self-help gu-rus like Anthony Robbins. The fundamental precept of NLP is that one's thoughts, feelings, and behavior…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:25 AM
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So not watching porn doesn't stop horniness This is the point. It's like you have stomach pain every now and then, but instead of going to the doctor, you just take a painkiller. You ARE NOT solving the problem, just delaying it and making it worst. Porn is the same, at one moment in time, it will not be enough anymore, and it will be too late ! Been there done that. I've been in no-porn environments for periods of time without jacking off. All that happened? I became very turned on by any attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:35 AM
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Exactly !
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:25 AM
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Yeah, that's pretty much it !
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:25 AM
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Yes, and it is healthy, but we are talking about porn here, these two things don’t have the same effect
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:25 AM
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Porn is a business, it doesn't have anything to do with women or society in particular. There are horny men and women, so there are companies giving these people a mean to jerk off. Simple as that, it doesn't have anything to do with Women or Men, but has to do with free market. You have a market, you can make money, you have a product. So the narrative "women push men to watch porn" is not true. Companies use "soft porn" and other "horny signals" to sell stuff all the time, porn websites innova…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:45 PM
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It was training for a contest (scientific vulgarisation) which involved public speaking, so it was not really work and involved a great deal of ice-breaking exercices. And in my country, people tend to speak their mind out and have debates more
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:35 PM
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Thank you so much ! Yes; I’ve heard that in some countries, you pay the health insurance company / doctor while you are healthy but stop to pay when you get sick. So the process is actually in favor of the patient, wonder how this would look like for dating!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:34 PM
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Alright thanks for the precision ! English is not my first language; I really meant net income !
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:44 PM
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Very fair point. Probably the reviewers asked the researchers to point out these biais, this is how good research is done ! I would caution you on the use of "not likely universal" lets let the data tell us if it is or isn't! More data is a great thing and this was a great point. I still don't know about this though, even if all societies on earth are gender neutral, there are still many ways to reach gender neutrality, cultures can have a wide variety of impacts on dating (in my country for ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 10:06 AM
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Firstly, online dating companies and you have divergent interests. They want you to stay on the app, not leave it. Otherwise how would Tinder be able to generate 3 billion USD of REVENUE (meaning, after paying employees, server, taxes ...) with just 6k employees ?In their patent : https://patents.google.com/patent/US9733811B2/en they admit that they can estimate IQ scores, use image processing for matches, analyse mood from your spotify playlists, get access to your Facebook friends ... So they …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 08:25 AM
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Can I ask where you are from ?Because socioeconomics between both countries are widely different as a whole. A single google search would confirm this. Climate, school programms, healthcare, education ... Everything is different there. Hell, even if you compare Finnland to Sweden to Norway you have huge differences. HELL, even if you compare TEXAS to NEW YORK you have huge differences. So if you actually lived in the US and Norway, then I would be interested in hearing why you thought that these…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:37 PM
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You are comparing a paper studying the Norwegian population and an article studying the American population, these phenomenons likely not universal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:14 PM
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Neil Strauss, the man that wrote "The Game", the book that popularised the PUA mindset (and greatly influenced TRP) is 5'5. This is literally the first two paragraphs where he talks about his body : I am far from attractive. My nose is too large for my face and, while not hooked, has a bump in the ridge. Though I am not bald, to say that my hair is thinning would be an understatement. There are just wispy Rogaine-enhanced growths covering the top of my head like tumbleweeds. In my opinion, my ey…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 07:08 PM
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Everyone is entitled to have preferences, obviously. However, too many people rub their unrealistic, ideological preferences in others faces while they themselves do not put in the work to obtain what they seek. The fat/ugly woman that doesn't try to better herself thinking that she deserves the home run man that has everything going for him without lifting a finger is delusional. If she runs around telling everyone : "yeah, I want that kind of dude, and you are not it, sorry not sorry", yeah sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 05:40 PM
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You sound like my HR department
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 02:55 PM
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Yes EU (edited), maybe yes, but a lot of European countries still don’t allow these practices (asking for ID)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:34 PM
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That’s totally fair
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:12 PM
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Your words suggest you are comfortable with current rates of male violence against women. Well I'm not, I'm also not comfortable with privacy infrigements commited by big tech companies in the last decade, the Snowden reports, the Cambridge Analytica scandals, and I am glad to live in a place where they take this seriously. It has absolutely saved my ass. When I find out a guy has a violent record, I block him before I can become a part of that record. That's good to hear, so I understand why yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:05 PM
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In case a company wants to know your criminal record, you have to ask for it yourself. If it is empty, they will deliver a paper saying "empty criminal record" that you can give to your employer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:59 PM
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It's nice that you are comfortable existing in that world but women are not. You know nothing about me Current numbers of male violence against women suggest otherwise And you think that an automated background check is going to change anything ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:55 PM
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​ there is an epidemic of male violence against women Yeah right, so let's give dudes personal infomation about women so they can do more of it... genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:51 PM
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It's not dystopian for women to not want to date violent men. No, but it is if a big corporation asks for your ID. Women can take their precautions for not dating violent men without this needing to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:49 PM
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People shouldn't be anonymous on dating apps. There is a reason Tinder only gives your first name. Someone with your last name can easily know where you live. Lots of friends of mine (mostly women) don't even put their real first name fearing that someone else can know where they live. This already exists. Then no need to do more. Tinder can just communicates that you should run a background check and give you a link to a tutorial on how to do so, nothing more. Not unless you're an asshole. A lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:47 PM
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Exactly, you can do it on your own. No need to provide the big tech with an automatized way to do it so they can gather even more sensitive information at a large scale. To run the full background check, it means that you need to give a proof of ID (full name), so Tinder gets to have your ID, it gets to have millions of IDs. This kind of things would never happen in EU with the GRPD law, people have deemed this kind of dystopian practices to be dangerous, for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:39 PM
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I don't know, a big tech company gets to automatize access to sensitive information seems pretty bad to me (black mirror kind of bad). Also : Notably, in a blog post published last month, Garbo said it won’t publicize drug possession charges in order to take an “active stance toward equity.” It cites research about the disproportionate percentage of Black people who are arrested for drug charges compared to white people. The company also says drug-related offenses don’t meaningfully predict “gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:25 PM
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Thank you. I have the same feeling but couldn’t put it into words, I would highlight your last paragraph : that the cause is women and men not listening to each other, because individualist society turned everyone selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 07:18 AM
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Because it's human nature, for everyone. It's the same question as of why the Amazon warehouse dude thinks he deserve $60k a year ? He should definitely know his place, work for peanuts and stop protesting about it online. People want better things for themselves and better (subjective) people in their lives, wether they can actually get these things or not. A lot of life is based on luck, and you need to provoke luck, in the wise words of my uncle (who is ugly as hell but still married a gorgeo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 11:40 AM
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Because don’t go there with the mindset to hit on women. For instance, I enjoy cooking well for myself, so I went to cooking classes. There, I just focused on getting better at cooking, and automatically others will socialise with you, there is a tiny little chance that one of the people socialising with you will actually enjoy your company and you will enjoy theirs. Thing is, when you stop to be obsessed with women, then you actually have chances. Also, there are some dancing classes such as Ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 07:08 AM
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Interestingly enough, in my mothertong (French) this is the definition of respect : Sentiment qui porte à accorder à qqn de la considération en raison de la valeur qu'on lui reconnaît. Which literally translates to : Give someone consideration relative to the value that we recognise in this person. So in our culture, no respect means to not recognize any value in someone. Interesting how culture and language influences views. Considering the definition that you use, it makes sense that you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 07:12 PM
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Alright, I guess if that works for you. I do not know the test if trust, do you have any trustworthy ressources that I can look up to ? I dig the approach that you have, it sounds like it is effective as well !
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 07:06 PM
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It makes sense, and I would advocate for : don't view men as a prize as well (maybe go as far as saying don't view anyone as a prize). I think when women are financially independent, this is naturally how they think Do you think that this applies to any financially independent woman (and not just women over 65) ? It doesn't really match with the reality in which I live in, but I am probably from a different culture. (where I live, the work week is 35 hours, so many couples can share household du…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 07:04 PM
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pasting my response to the same comment : I don't think so, my definition of politness/courtesy is strictly use polite terms "hi, how are you, thank you, after you..." while respect is : I seriously consider your views, opinions and ideas even though I don't know you. I am always polite, but people can lose my respect, for instance, if someone always exagerate everything, I am still going to be polite with the said person, but I am going to ask them to prove themselves more, I'm not going to res…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:55 PM
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I don't think so, my definition of politness is strictly use polite terms "hi, how are you, thank you, after you..." while respect is : I seriously consider your views, opinions and ideas even though I don't know you. I am always polite, but people can lose my respect, for instance, if someone always exagerate everything, I am still going to be polite with the said person, but I am going to ask them to prove themselves more, I'm not going to respect their view or give the same weight to their wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:51 PM
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Not really, this is the default behavior of the team from day one. And it is my default mindset with people from day one. How easy it is to lose this status however is variable based on the person and first impressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:47 PM
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That's alright. However you told we'll seperate as if, all women and all men will cease interaction altogether, is that a world which you would like to see for yourself and future generations ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:13 PM
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Is that a world in which you would like to live ? complete seperation between men and women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:56 PM
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I am a man, and for me respect doesn't mean deference and superiority. It means knowing who is in front of you, from where that person comes from and being to able to understand why they act a certain way based on that. In my day to day job, I sometimes get interns that come to our lab, and I respect their ideas (meaning, we are actually going to try if it works before dismissing, even though we might lose time). I respect their thought process (if it is not fundamentaly flawed).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:41 PM
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Alright, I get it. What you call respect, I call it trust, so regarding to your definition, I do agree that it has to be earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:21 PM
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What feels like, is that you go to events with the goal in mind to meet girls. Now, we are most likely from a different country and therefore have different cultures, but I feel like I met the most genuine partners when I went places without necessarly looking for meetups.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:09 PM
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We have different views on what respect is then, I would be interested to know what you think respect is if you don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:07 PM
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Why though ? You don't respect people that you do not know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:01 PM
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It's just a matter of willpower. If you want to get involved into events, you'll get to know people, and maybe once you'll find someone worthy. Looking for the right partner is wayyy different than trying to have as much s3x as possible, it takes a lot of time and luck (however, you still have to encourage luck to happen if that makes sense).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 03:59 PM
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Graduated from STEM, speaking to you from the other side. If you are curious and ready to get involved in a bunch of activities, it gets extra easy to find good people that like you back. Post college, you'll get a job, responsabilities... all of this will turn you into a better person which is definitely attractive .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:10 AM
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Go do hobbies with unbalanced sex ratio towards women then. Take a dancing class, a cooking class, a photography class or a music class. You'll learn something as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:08 AM
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Definitly life experience, and living/dating in multiple countries!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 07:58 AM
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The work of Jancovici is a good example, the shift project : https://theshiftproject.org/category/publications/ Carbon 4 : http://www.carbone4.com/ ​ Although here, it is presented that decrease in GDP = decrease in job availability : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGt4XwBbCvA It is a rather old analysis that has lately been updated : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s254IPHXgVA (in favor for a more autonomnous population and a redifinition of labor-> labor = autonomny = you don't have car anymo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 09:16 AM
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Americans and geography man, idk what they learn at school. During my time there, classmates put France (my home country) next to Russia, asked if I went to school on a horse and asked if I knew internet existed... It was 7 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:56 PM
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There will always be labor jobs, who will clean/repair machines ? Also, climate change means that there is going to be more labor needed, not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:21 PM
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Can you elaborate on what that is ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 08:15 PM
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FSM?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 07:43 PM
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I wouldn’t date a feminist either, while the cause is noble, they tend to make everything revolve around feminism. The car didn’t stop to let you cross the street ? Patriarchy. Covid ? Patriarchy. The few feminists I dated, that’s all they could ever talk/think about and you can’t change the subject. It quickly became exhausting. It’s the same with any other movement that has extremely engaged/passionate members, communists, socialists, right wing activists... They never let you catch a break
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 07:55 AM
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I don’t think the porn culture is there to meet men’s standards (neither is it there to meet women standards). Men don’t get everything they want, nobody get everything they want. Once you get something you adapt and want something else, it’s human nature and has been proven time and time again. I don’t think that if you poll the male population, the porn-culture traits would be the most important, the same way that if you poll the female population, being at least 6’0 with a bunch of abs and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:14 PM
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It would be extremly interesting to have men list women standards and have women list men standards. We would probably come to interesting conclusions, wonder if it was done here before ? My guess would be that both would be extremly unacurate, since most women and most men don't listen to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:00 AM
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Question 1: Do you believe that relationships that end up long-term, won't end up in marriage and that it is a red flag, or not a good sign? Not necessarly, imo marriage should happen in two situations, if the couple wants a kid or if someone in the couple needs security (example : one person wishes to pursue career abroad and ask the other person to follow). Most people are going to tell that in marriage the man or the woman is better of, I believe that this is false. In a marriage, the kid(s) …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:38 PM
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That's also not how I reacted, so i think you took that more personally than I did. It was merely one of many occasions where it happens casually. You specifically said that it is yet another instance of a man telling how a woman should feel. This was just my opinion on how a person should act, not necessarly directed to a woman. ​ Have you ever asked them how many times they were treated like shit? I did tonight, asked my dad and my brother as well, most gave interesting answers, none were rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:13 PM
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we see, a man telling a woman how to act and behave. Sorry if it was unclear, but this is a universal "you" not directed to yourself particularly. Most men and women mistake boundaries/standards with being an A-hole, because the line is very thin. ​ So men are definitely privileged. If you don't believe me. 'but what about us poor men...!/women can possibly be bad as we' I am not saying the contrary by most metrics, men are privileged as you say. Just saying that men don't understand women issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:49 AM
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Not from the States as well... That is not what I mean, what I mean is that both genders have their struggles, you don’t know others lives and always be kind regardless. When talking with retards that think men have it worst, I talk about the struggles of women for this exact purpose. I just hate this self-centered mentra as of “yeah I have to dress up and fear for my safety so I am entitled to treat people like shit”, no you are not. “Yeah men commit suicide at higher rates and most of us are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 07:22 AM
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I have 6 brothers. And people pay me to coach them. Sounds hella strange to me that someone else would pay you to coach your own brothers xD I think that it's admirable that you do so! My compliments to you, no sarcasm there. Thanks, I'll take the compliment but I don't think that's exceptional. In the wise words of my dad, if you want a rendez-vous to go well, never bring the guest to an unknown place (especially if it's a restaurant). That works great for dates, but it's even better for busine…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 10:09 PM
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Marriage has been marketed to women for years as something they need that will complete them and every woman should make it their end all goal Marriage is marketed to both men and women for years. Because raising a child takes MINIMUM 20 years, experience, stability, ressources, psychology and sacrifices.It is the end goal, for both men and women because this child or these children is/are most likely the only important contribution(s) we are leaving to the world after our time here is over. Goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:10 PM
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I'm 25M, I usually look for someone that is smart, at least MD, Ph.D is better. Bonus points if she works in fields that require high human qualities (medicine, environement ...). This is because I wanna have great conversations. I've dated women that just wanna talk about Brad Pitt and how the weather is next week on the first date. That's boring, and it isn't going to get any better. She needs to have goals in life, goals that are not selfish. Confidence is important, if it is lacking, you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:02 PM
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However I don’t believe in being too easy going, most people, men included, only value what they have to earn. And it affects how they treat you Feels weird to know that "offering paying for half" comes of as being "easy-going" and not just being well mannered. I guess we are just not from the same culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:19 AM
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You haven't dated as a woman, it's a cesspool of terrible men with awful plans. And you haven't dated as man. You go to the place few days before, you then order vegetarian options to make sure they are actually good, you get a fresh haircut, pay the reservation fee, and few hours before she texts you "lol I cannot sorry forgot I was busy tonight xoxo". Or she actually shows up to the fine dining restaurant and she has no manners, talks while chewing, asks for red wine to be served with ice cube…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 11:41 PM
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He should walk on the outside, come to the door to greet you, open the door for you, help you with your chair and pay the bill In your examples, the man does something positive, the woman reacts to it. Maybe "exclusive" is a word that is too strong. As a woman, you have way more things to consider and to take care of before going on said date. If the man actually plans a great date, I don't think a woman has "way more things" to consider, just different things. Planning a great date usually take…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:11 PM
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> “you should offer to pay half or go 50/50” (advice to me as a woman) Idk where you are from but here, if a guest (man or woman, date or no date) doesn't offer to pay her/his half, that person is going to come off as uneducated really fast. However, if the man agrees to go 50/50, he's the one coming off as uneducated. Also, what is wrong with sometimes surprising your partner with a date that you paid and planned for ? Doesn't it feel great to see geniune surpised hapiness from your so ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:15 PM
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> No, 50/50 isn't fair As a guy, when I plan something cool for my so, nothing makes me more happy than seeing good emotions in her (hapiness, surprise ...). Doing something good for someone else feels great (if they express good emotions about it and what you planned is actually thoughtfull), regardless if they give you anything in return or not. I'm curious as why you think this is exclusive to men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 07:33 PM
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Being remembered and leaving an heritage are two different things. One is based on perception, the other is based on the duty of contribution to humanity as a whole. Building a house for the future generation, publishing a scientific article, having a child while making sure said child has a positive impact in the world, working in education, helping younger ones... These are all examples of leaving an heritage behind yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:29 AM
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My 2 cents on this is that the human brain is excellent at adapting to situations (for instance, if you ask a person in a Syrian camp to rate their hapiness from zero to ten, they'll give you the same average answer as a Californian from their age class). Love would imo be the ability to fight this adaptation process and be grateful/loyal for each other even though new opportunities arise all the time. In this case, a successful couple would need both the husband and the wife to be in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:18 AM
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Honestly, you do you. Some people fully grasp how incredibly unlikely it is to be a life form in the universe. They don't want to waste their short lived time on Earth and decide to do everything in their power so that they can leave some heritage behind them. Some people are just in the rat race because they've been taught to or because they are born with nothing, so they want to know what it feels like to have something. Some people think life is about living well and having a good time, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:10 PM
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Damned, spotted :(
/r/askTRP10/02/21 08:15 AM
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If you want a great book on social interaction, I would advise you "how to make friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie. it's not specifically about women but anyone can take something from it
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 10:04 PM
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subscribe to masterclass (https://www.masterclass.com/) and find a great skill you would like to master on it, soon the passion will erase everything else.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 09:50 PM
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Learn to code and start to do research on IA, machine intelligence ...These areas of research really thrive and can bring you tons of money.I am a 25 year old Ph.D student in IA and I make 50k a year some US based companies are looking for IA/Machine Intelligence researchers for 150/200k a year easy. Industrial research is a high value job and I think that if your goal is to make money, you can look in there. However, as you already know, academic research gives you things that you'll lose when …
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:04 PM
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