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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	How the hell do people afford this? Already $120k in and no real progress and no end in site. That’s why I started building a website to try and make it cheaper and easier for people. This crap is crazy and unfair. You are literally trapped with someone you want to get away from. Dammed if you do, dammed if you don’t.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/26 01:40 AM
1	It's been a while All the crap my ex did/is doing to me just remind me how I made the right choice. The longer you stay the more you would have lost. I was scared she'd ruin me financially and every year we spent together just compounded what she did/is doing to me.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/26 04:13 AM
2	Cohabiting after divorce It would depend where you live. I lived with my ex because we had an 8 month old and we stayed in the same house till 18 months and now she's trying to move the date of separation. It doesn't make it impossible, but it can mess with your divorce settlement. It can also cause you to backslide and do something that will for sure change the divorce/separation date, so be careful. I always owned a home before I got married and I was devastated to find I wouldn't during/after the divorce. But I got a…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/26 04:11 AM
2	The Down & Dirty Truth About Becoming a Divorced Dad This is mostly how I feel, but I felt like the situation was toxic. I'm sure she would say I tossed her to the side, but it was because our relationship was never healthy. I got lucky and got treated for undiagnosed ADHD and saw our arguments on the baby cameras and realized I wasn't ever married to a person I could stay with and keep my own self respect. The process of divorce is the worst but the outcome is the best. I love parenting my child on my rules and then being able to have time to mys…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/26 04:00 AM
1	CA RSUs granted before marriage Short answer is yes they do. The good news though is that they calculate community property in a really messed up way but it HELPS you if you got married after the grant because it front loads the earning of the grant (early days of your grant earn faster vs later days). Disclaimer, I'm going to reference my own site below. I made it because I've spent the past two years trying to change how California allocates RSUs as its extremely unfair for the reason I noted above (but this may help you in …	/r/Divorce_Men	18/04/26 04:49 AM

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