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1

Exactly when you look good you feel good
/r/seduction05/05/25 06:15 AM
1

You can literally walk on campus and game, 25 is a great age
/r/seduction05/05/25 06:02 AM
1

Later in the game at like 27 lol
/r/seduction28/07/24 01:50 PM
5

The circle of my life lol..meaningless sex until I find someone I truly care about then after 1-3yrs get bored and want meaningless sex again.
/r/seduction18/07/24 03:18 PM
13

A more private public place lol
/r/seduction18/07/24 02:38 PM
6

All of this! Now I don’t condone paying for dating apps since those are just backup when daygame/nightgame isn’t feasible (winter months and busy weeks). However even when at the most basic level (girl just coming to my place) I still have to pay rent to stay in a nice place, I usually offer to cook (groceries cost), and I’ll usually have a few bottles of alcohol to choose from (also an investment). So even smashing 20somethings with no real standards you need to spend a little money to make it …
/r/seduction15/07/24 07:44 PM
7

I think that was Dave Chappelles bit
/r/seduction15/07/24 07:36 PM
0

I mean, maybe he does, and if he’s as good as he says then he should monetize it. Don’t take away from what he’s saying
/r/seduction12/07/24 12:36 AM
4

Newsflash single mothers are always with their kids. Should they remain single until their child can watch themselves at home?
/r/seduction12/07/24 12:35 AM
1

As Future says “before I tell a lie, I won’t tell you nothing” Unless she directly asks you “what are we” or something like that just keep it casual. If she really wants a relationship and you dont eventually she’ll phase herself out OR wait for you to come around.
/r/seduction10/07/24 03:21 PM
1

“Nightmare” lol, if her bf walks up I just say “oh this is your girl? My bad” then dap him up or give him the salute and be on my way. Chances are if she’s pretty enough to get approached, he knows it’s bound to happen, and if you’re respectful there shouldn’t be a problem.
/r/seduction10/07/24 04:08 AM
7

No head in exchange for dishes is diabolical lol
/r/seduction08/07/24 12:23 AM
5

I HATE asking for head, if it’s something consistent where she doesn’t do it without asking then we’re just not compatible. I also tell girls early on that fellacio is a must and if that’s not something she likes I move on. You’re kind of late in the game already 9mo in, so she’s comfortable with the current setup. You can verbalize that you’d like it more or without having to ask but the likelihood of things changing is low. Always set the standard up front.
/r/seduction08/07/24 12:22 AM
0

I always ask for the number but if she counters with Instagram I’ll put mine in her phone so she follows me.
/r/seduction07/07/24 03:48 AM
3

You got bullied for making out with a girl? Make it make sense.
/r/seduction07/07/24 03:17 AM
2

Dating apps are a false sense of reality, just because you’re chatting with a few girls on the apps doesn’t mean you have “options” or abundance. Abundance is when you go in your actual text messages/call log and have to decide who you want to see again or have to turn some girls down to make room for another. Apps should be used in addition to day game/night game, not be the sole generator of dates and interactions.
/r/seduction05/07/24 05:53 PM
4

Be less outcome dependent, every interaction doesn’t have to lead to a number/social/kiss/date or take home.. sometimes you talk to handful of girl who are boring, not interested, didn’t look as good up close or whatever. And in those cases I just try to improve my social skills and talk my way thru the interaction or politely excuse myself. No harm no foul. There are no losses in game/seduction only lessons.
/r/seduction05/07/24 04:44 PM
3

I honestly hate them, so cross your fingers and hope for the best. If you think there was an accident Walgreens and CVS have you covered.
/r/seduction05/07/24 05:30 AM
27

Apps are so trash I only use them on the toilet or out of boredom during the warmer months. It’s much more fun to go out and talk to women in real life, even if you get rejected you got some interaction. With OLD is just like swiping and talking to yourself 90%of the time
/r/seduction05/07/24 02:00 AM
15

The point of seduction is to not have to use prostitutes, but no judgement those who do. I just can’t because as I’ve learned I enjoy the chase, the passion and the intimacy.. none of which can be obtained but paying. Close exception would be GFE but even then you’re paying good money. If feels so much better to get it off your own strength
/r/seduction27/06/24 09:30 PM
0

Surprisingly bumble but that was years ago
/r/seduction27/06/24 02:58 PM
0

You got to be in it to win it, and it doesn’t matter how many you have to go thru to find the one.
/r/seduction27/06/24 12:40 PM
1

Well lucky for you older women and single moms are what I avoid, so I’ll leave them for you
/r/seduction18/06/24 08:19 PM
2

RIP to the Godfather we’ll never get another like him
/r/seduction12/06/24 01:53 PM
29

Really trying to become the best version of yourself. Earning more money, Eating better, being active, dressing nicer, smelling better, actually going outside of your house and approaching/being social. After college most people get caught up in the work,sleep,eat cycle and you really have to make an effort to go out and meet people or else you’ll be stuck in the house alone.
/r/seduction11/06/24 08:05 PM
69

You actually have to go outside and be social, but I can attest that things get much better after college..IF you put the work in.
/r/seduction11/06/24 01:55 PM
94

Honestly have no idea, sometimes shit just rolls off the tongue and you walk away like damn..I did that lol
/r/seduction11/06/24 01:44 AM
29

Honest mistake, it’s not like you chose them specifically because they were 17. Just say “oh you’re too young for me but enjoy the rest of your day”
/r/seduction06/06/24 01:05 AM
0

I used to recommend James Tusk, as he was around the same age (early 30s) and just had a way of showcasing game that was unmatched. Changed my life, went back to see if he had new videos and apparently he was targeted and page removed. But I recently stumbled upon a young guy I like (especially because he’s black aslo) named yungemann. Which even tho he’s younger and often games a younger demo you can see first hand how he moves, what he says and conveys and can apply it to your own game.
/r/seduction04/06/24 05:33 AM
16

Just like maintaining any relationship, call every so often, text to hang out. The most I’d recommend is 3 woman at a time as I’ve found juggling more just becomes a hassle.
/r/seduction04/06/24 02:39 AM
12

The symbol you’re looking for is ≠ however I never said women equal happiness. But living a fruitful and fulfilling life in addition to having a beautiful woman inside and out will bring happiness. The question was why is cold approach addictive and its because you’ll never meet that amazing beautiful woman if you don’t go out and approach.
/r/seduction31/05/24 04:55 PM
7

The pursuit of happiness.
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:10 PM
1

Also if you’re in a busy area (like Times Square, festival etc.) and you get rejected you can literally find another prospect 10ft away so you don’t have to dwell on the attempt because you’re already engaging with someone new within seconds
/r/seduction24/05/24 08:44 PM
3

It’s better to have a solid no than wonder what could’ve been
/r/seduction24/05/24 07:06 PM
152

“Let’s get out of here” “let’s go back to my place”
/r/seduction23/05/24 12:04 PM
3

I was previously against getting Instagram, as it was number or nothing. I still believe a girl that gives you her number is more serious however getting her Instagram is good social proof and you can connect later down the line.
/r/seduction23/05/24 11:53 AM
7

Either way it’s nothing to fret about, I didn’t move out until I was 30. Before that I would bring them to my mom’s house on the late night. Or get a hotel if I knew it was guaranteed. And I didn’t even start learning game for real until I was 27. And while I’m black I’m not 6’5 lol you’d definitely do better with cold approach than OLD just given his height alone.
/r/seduction11/05/24 07:13 PM
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You say pushing 30, how old are you exactly?
/r/seduction11/05/24 05:29 PM
9

You say pushing 30, how old are you exactly?
/r/seduction11/05/24 05:15 PM
2

James Tusk was good but looking for him recently it appears YouTube shut down his channel. Apparently the game/infield/seduction channels are being targeted right now
/r/seduction10/05/24 04:07 AM
12

How would you even know if her body count is high or low? As someone else mentioned it’s not about the bodies but more so how she acts
/r/seduction07/05/24 01:33 PM
77

I too look a lot younger than my actual age so I play around with it. When a girl asks how old I am, I ask “how old do I look” in a joking kind of way with a sly smirk. They’ll guess something low and I’ll laugh and give my real age and they’re shocked but by that point if they really like you they will overlook it
/r/seduction01/05/24 04:56 PM
5

In the 80s and 90s men were more physical so they got workouts naturally
/r/seduction19/04/24 01:19 PM
7

How does he court you without dating? And as someone who practices not shitting where you eat (to some extent) I too will not apply pressure or ask out a coworker unless she shows that kind of interest first.
/r/seduction18/04/24 08:20 PM
1

I prefer less piercings and depending on the placement (Ashley piercing) would be a dealbreaker
/r/seduction17/04/24 07:30 AM
6

I thought you were the girl at first without reading anything but the links and thought you shouldn’t have a problem at all lol as a guy…idk just go have fun and chat with everybody. Outcome independent
/r/seduction14/04/24 01:10 AM
18

Stop fucking below average looking fat chicks
/r/seduction14/04/24 12:40 AM
2

Say hello first, and introduce yourself while sitting down
/r/seduction05/04/24 11:56 PM
4

As long as your folks are cool treat it as normal. Before I had my own place I would bring girls over late night
/r/seduction31/03/24 07:37 PM
-1

I bought a girl an outfit before our first date lol but the strategy I used was taking her to a local boutique, I happened to know the owner but he generally sold inexpensive pieces so I knew I could comfortably afford anything she put together.
/r/seduction26/03/24 11:12 AM
3

That’s the best, you should always be busy. That way you have to “make time” for her, and she’ll respect that you have other important shit going on than her. Sounds like she’s into you so you have to really try to fuck this up
/r/seduction19/03/24 08:32 PM
1

Honestly an old trick I learned from OG Tusk was opening with “hey I know this is awkward/rabdom but…” then explain why you’re talking to them (ie: I thought you were pretty). By stating “I know this is awkward” it lets them know you’re socially aware and confident and not necessarily needing consent or permission to go after something you want.
/r/seduction17/03/24 09:32 PM
1

I knew at 30 I didn’t want a serious committed relationship until I could afford to live in my own place. So I managed to have hookups and a few fwb at parents house but I didn’t want anything more until I was financially stable enough to stand on my own
/r/seduction17/03/24 07:44 PM
2

Embrace it
/r/seduction17/03/24 04:57 PM
-1

Buy the flowers bro, real men do what they want to do. If you feel like flowers are a nice gesture go for it. Just don’t make a big spectacle of it, say “I saw these and thought about you” or something casual along those lines
/r/seduction17/03/24 03:47 PM
3

That’s why you go on dates..to get to know each other. If y’all are talking online and the convo is going smooth say “you seem cool, let’s meet up for drinks on (select a day) at (select a place) around (select a time).”
/r/seduction13/03/24 03:11 PM
2

Just have fun, so many people and cultures to connect with and a new pretty girl spawns every 10 steps
/r/seduction02/03/24 01:48 PM
1

They call that “platonic” and most guys on here have enough female friends, they want relationships that involve sex lol. the statistics show most men are already successful in not scoring, so they come here to turn things around. And as someone who has had there fair share of meaningless sex, I definitely understand your sentiment of wanting to find a woman who is nice to be around outside of the bedroom. But before I got to that point I had to slay a bunch of women just so I could know what th…
/r/seduction24/10/23 10:33 PM
1

This is the key, getting close to build tension.
/r/seduction24/10/23 07:05 PM
8

Someone might say is it not better to have a wife and loving family? We all do what we want to do, and a lot of us are at different stages of life. Most guys on here are younger (25 and under) so their goals might be fickle but as you age and perspectives change you start moving differently in life.
/r/seduction24/10/23 07:01 PM
1

I’d leave the last part off but that’s basically my first text: “hey (insert girl name), this is Brandon from (wherever I met her) let’s link up this (insert day) at (insert bar/venue) around (insert time). This shows your taking the lead in setting up a date (only text to set up dates!) Day before or day of the date send another text to confirm plans for that evening.
/r/seduction13/09/22 07:58 PM
2

If you are serious about holding true to this commitment then you need to find women with likeminded beliefs and lifestyle. Modern women now have more sexual experience than men of the same age. So trying to find another virgin woman who also wants to stay pure until marriage will be your biggest challenge. You might even have to settle for a woman who isn’t a virgin. The first place to look tho would be your church or other churches in your network to find likeminded women.
/r/seduction12/09/22 10:49 PM
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Offer to pick them up. Some will say say yes and others will say they don’t trust strange men knowing where they live and would feel trapped if they don’t have a car to leave on their own. Bitches are weird in 2022 but still offer first.
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:56 PM
7

Give her another chance, shit happens. But if she flakes again cut her off
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:37 PM
1

The goal starts out as having multiple women/option to choose from. Then when you reach a level when you genuinely want to have one woman, you’ll know how to properly vet the women and be able to pick the best one out of all your options.
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:03 PM
3

I mean Tinder and OLD won’t yield the best results, but definitely good to have in the arsenal. When you match on said apps, the sooner you set up a date the better. I typically set up a bar date to get some drinks and maybe some finger foods. If the bar date goes well I’ll bring her back to my place or set up date 2 and definitely go home after. But I’m not going on 3+ dates without fucking lol
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:33 PM
3

Take the girls who think you have hoes and put them on the roster
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:26 PM
4

“Hey, I seen you from over there (points in direction), and thought you were pretty. What’s your name? (While extending arm for handshake)
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:59 PM
5

Men typically gain more value with age, opposite for women. You’ll start seeing a change as you get closer to 30 and beyond
/r/seduction04/07/22 09:08 PM
1

Stop texting for days on end. Pick up the phone and call her first. Only text to set up and confirm dates.
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:44 PM
3

Or don’t even mention any other guys. She’ll tell you if she has a boyfriend, and if she doesn’t tell you then he’s not that important anyway.
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:22 PM
6

Bitches are weird. Don’t think about too much and move on.
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:56 PM
12

In her defense, if you ever been horny in a drought there are women you’d have sex with that you wouldn’t go bragging about lol. Women control access to sex, men control access to relationships/marriage. So yes they can easily get dick, what they truly want and have harder time attaining are meaningful relationships.
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:23 PM
4

Forget all that “love” shit, relationships are about duty and respect. You have a role to play as her man and she has a role as your lady. Don’t get caught up in the Disney romance media tries to sell you.
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:19 PM
45

Watched some YouTube videos (James Tusk infield specifically) said hell it’s worth a shot. Went out and started meeting women with cold approaches, got numbers, gained more confidence from this, hooked up with women regularly for years and now I’m in a LTR. But not only did cold approach help with dating, even my work life picked up, because I wasn’t timid talking to bosses either, or suggesting promotions/raises. So I was able to advance at jobs and meet women along the way lol all around made …
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:42 PM
10

Deep ellum
/r/seduction12/01/22 01:24 PM
1

The book of life. Go outside
/r/seduction09/01/22 07:46 PM
1

How old are you that your entertaining a middle aged woman lol
/r/seduction24/12/21 11:43 PM
1

Lol that’s poor thinking, if you have her number your qualified to call her. Especially if you just want to talk/build a rapport. Think about how most guys are texting women these days, it’s low effort and easily forgettable. Calling shows confidence,puts you ahead of any other guy that is just texting, and is much better for conversation. You get to hear tones which can get be confusing over text. You ever send a joke via text and it doesn’t hit as well as if you were able to say it verbally? T…
/r/seduction19/12/21 07:39 PM
2

Call her, texting should be reserved for setting up dates.
/r/seduction19/12/21 06:16 PM
1

I had this same issue, after going from no game to getting girls at will, the thrill is gone. There’s always better looking women to peak the interest but for me I ended finding a girl who checked damn near all my boxes and made her my girlfriend lol.
/r/seduction15/12/21 11:58 PM
11

Guys of any age don’t need more female friends lol
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:27 PM
2

Fuck being nice lol don’t offer to stay connected just Tell these women to have a nice day and keep it moving. All you’re doing is adding to her follower count, which also means you’ll be liking her pics and stroking her ego. Like I said if she doesn’t want to give you her number then leave her alone. Y’all both go about your day, no harm no foul.
/r/seduction11/12/21 05:13 PM
1

If you can’t get her phone number then leave her be. If you ask for a number and she starts asking about social media she’s not that into you bro.
/r/seduction11/12/21 03:46 PM
1

You said it’s shitty and bad game, The simple answer is I didn’t have game. So setting boundaries and expectations was not something I would try for fear the girl would leave (scarcity mindset). I just took what came to me and lived with it.
/r/seduction24/11/21 11:20 PM
-1

I didn’t have game, just decent looks that were good enough for girls to show interest. Now with game and decent looks I’m an unstoppable force. And I’ll add that learning game helped in other areas of life like career, where I wasn’t afraid to put myself out there, talk to the boss like an equal and not a pedestal which earned promotions to managerial positions.
/r/seduction24/11/21 10:58 PM
1

They started as regular relationships, not just sex. But after 6mo-1yr I began to not want to be in a relationship. However I knew if I broke up with them I wouldn’t have any guaranteed sex partners. This was before I learned game, so I don’t regret the decisions I made. It’s like if you don’t know when you’ll have sex ever again you try to hold on to it for as long as possible regardless of how unbearable the relationship actually is. I was lucky enough to be born with good looks (if I do say s…
/r/seduction24/11/21 10:55 PM
84

My last ex, she was a great girl but I was at a point where I realized I never approached women or been the “hunter”. So I wanted to learn game and I knew I’d have to end my 2+yr relationship because I wouldn’t be satisfied. Looking back I made the right decision, because having lots of meaningless casual sex gets old eventually but I now knew if things didn’t work out I could always jump out and cold approach without a doubt. I stayed in a lot of relationships longer than I should’ve because of…
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:25 PM
12

When you do this you realize that most people avoid eye contact and will look down. Funny actually, which is why learning how to maintain strong eye contact is important, displays confidence and asserts dominance
/r/seduction23/11/21 06:10 PM
6

Add to the fact he’s 20 so it’s more than acceptable to be living with parents at that age
/r/seduction14/11/21 05:34 PM
11

Sneak them in your parents house late night. If she already plans on having sex with you the chances of her turning it down once she’s already there is low. Just play it cool
/r/seduction14/11/21 03:44 PM
3

Nike just do it. The more you try (and fail) the closer you get to succeeding. The more you put yourself out there the more comfortable you get. What helped me was watching James Tusk talk to women and seeing how is it was. Most of the fear is in your head
/r/seduction05/11/21 04:24 PM
12

“If you ain’t wanna fuck what you spend the night for??” - Gucci Mane
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:19 PM
1

Well live and learn, I was 16 once. Life will be your best teacher
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:53 PM
1

Definite it how you will, but you already said your just a friend. A concept I believe in is not giving woman any attention unless you’re getting something in return. At the moment it sounds like all you’re getting is a person to vent to you. How old are you by the way?
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:38 PM
1

Sounds like an alpha has imprinted on her and she’s got you orbiting around the friend zone for validation. I wouldn’t even pursue her romantically at this point. Cut her off bro
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:30 PM
1

It’s good for men to be comfortable alone for a while, so you won’t always feel like you need a woman around and so you can focus without distractions
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 09:48 PM
2

Both great, but I’m a late bloomer and didn’t even start learning game til I was 26/27 (I’m 31 now). After running through countless women and leveling up financially along the way I finally ran into my current gf. She’s exactly what I want, as far as pretty, feminine, submissive etc. but had I not put in the work on myself I wouldn’t even know what to do with her. The best thing you can do is put yourself first, clean yourself up, be self sufficient and have an abundance mentality. When I first…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 06:19 PM
1

Women are important but not the most important, and if you’re not grounded they will drive you crazy. Also if you’re not subscribed to Kevin Samuels go check him out. Especially a lot of his older content from 2-3yrs when he talked specifically to the men.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 06:08 PM
1

Sometimes you have to go into monk mode, be by yourself, stack some money, and do what makes you happy.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 06:06 PM
1

Men pay for the dates.
/r/seduction18/05/21 11:37 AM
1

Women like men who lead. So instead of asking “want to go out sometime?” Say “let’s meet up at (place) on (day) at (time)”. She can reply with ok, which means she confirms everything you said. She can be busy at that time/day, at which point the ball is in her court to make a new time/day that works better for her.
/r/seduction15/05/21 10:41 PM
1

You are the prize, she is the catch
/r/seduction01/03/21 05:54 AM
3

Maybe she met somebody cooler, maybe her grandma died and she’s been mourning..either could be true but the fact is she went ghost and it’s out of your control. Focus on your other women (abundance) and don’t beat yourself up about things you can’t change.
/r/seduction21/02/21 04:46 PM
24

We have curfew in Charlotte too, basically means date starts at 8, have enough time for 1-2 drinks then back to my place to keep the party going
/r/seduction15/02/21 10:01 PM
2

Obviously dressing well and staying healthy is part of the game, but I’ll tell you first hand I’m not a bodybuilder and just buy clothes that fit well or even have them tailored. But the biggest help was his actual infields and showing exactly how he stops women, what he says, being playful yet aggressive. And even showing when he fucks up so you know even tho he’s good not even Tusk himself can get ANY woman. After watching all that I just jumped out and started doing day game and haven’t looke…
/r/seduction26/01/21 07:34 PM
2

When I first got into game James Tusk was a godsend
/r/seduction26/01/21 04:31 PM
0

Don’t be timid, just say hey let’s go get ice cream at xyz at xyz time. Don’t even mention COVID
/r/seduction14/08/20 10:45 PM
1

Try to book them all, I find that I’ll have plans with 2 girls and one will flake, so I still end up on a date. Meanwhile if I had Saturday planned for just 1 girl and she flakes I’m going to be pissed I got dressed and mentally prepared to ultimately be disappointed. Women are flakes sometimes you have to return the favor
/r/seduction23/03/20 05:08 PM
1

They key here is using texts as a tool. Honestly your first option should be to call, because it takes balls to call and none to send a text. It’s probably a million unread texts in her inbox, by calling you already single yourself out as someone different and women like that. Which ultimately puts you ahead of all the texters. If she doesn’t answer the phone THEN send a text. The point of the thread is don’t engage too much in texts, be funny, swap some witty banter and set up a date. Don’t be …
/r/seduction12/03/20 01:34 AM
24

Except Barnett, he’s good but I definitely wouldn’tve married that girl. Never be a Mark tho, sadly I think most of us have been mark when we were young and naive
/r/seduction05/03/20 07:50 PM
18

Just had my 30th bday, but I didn’t start getting into game until about 27-28. I just went full force day gaming, meeting women, getting numbers and having sex. I had just gotten out of a 3yr relationship, and every relationship prior to that basically fell into my lap. Which ultimately led me to looking elsewhere because I knew there was more out there. As men we are meant to be hunters and if never hunted so since then that’s what I did.
/r/seduction12/02/20 02:56 AM
1

I was just at a class reunion in CT this summer lol I’m from the Hartford area but I live down south now. Anyways if you really want to get your feet wet take the short drive to NYC. There will be women galore and when you fail there’s another girl 10ft away. You can’t lose
/r/seduction28/11/19 05:02 PM
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