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Skip the “flirty” routine. Just be personable. Guys who approach women trying to be macho or suave usually come across as either arrogant or creepy. If you just talk to women the way you’d talk to anyone else, treating them like normal people instead of Greek goddesses or celebrities, you’ll probably get way better results. It doesn’t have to be clever or smooth. Something as simple as “Man, this weather has been brutal lately” works fine. The guys who try too hard to be slick are usually the on…
/r/seduction24/05/26 05:54 PM
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The male vs female experience on apps is NOT the same. Sorry but you’re just flat-out wrong.
/r/seduction04/01/26 12:37 AM
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Yeah. Not correct. My friend works for Hinge. He specifically mentioned to me that women have more selection by design. Most men on the apps get MAYBE 2-6 matches a day (if that). And that’s me being generous. Women (the second they get on an app) get probably 100-200 matches per day (more depending on their attractiveness). This isn’t an opinion, it’s a fact.
/r/seduction04/01/26 12:35 AM
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Oh most def
/r/seduction04/01/26 12:31 AM
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Because dating apps are unevenly skewed toward women and not men. The women who message you and match with you probably have at least 300-500 men messaging them simultaneously. Then they pick 1 or two guys out of that 500 that “meet their standard”. The reason they aren’t messaging you back isn’t because of anything with you, it’s because the apps are unfairly skewed towards women. I’d suggest getting off the apps and meeting women in real life. That’s what I’m doing
/r/seduction03/01/26 10:07 PM
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Adopt an “inside-out” strategy where you take 2-3 months and FIERCELY work on yourself (work out at gym daily, eat a low-calorie diet, read lots of books, spend more time alone and listening to podcasts & knowledge-enhancing material, play your favorite sports, watch videos on confidence). Essentially invest heavily into yourself for that amount of time, and then your life will pay dividends BIG TIME. Not only will you find yourself more confident, excited, and optimistic about your dating life,…
/r/seduction25/08/25 04:37 AM
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Yep. Absolutely agreed. I don't want to generalize American women, but the majority (from my personal experience) are extremely picky, superficial, and play tons of toxic games. European women generally are more down to earth, genuine, and know what they want.
/r/seduction10/08/22 11:23 PM
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That's totally fair.
/r/seduction15/02/22 05:50 PM
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This is very true.
/r/seduction15/02/22 05:45 PM
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I went ahead and gave you an award because I needed to hear this. Thank you. I definitely agree with everything that was said here and it's a hard truth, but completely valid.
/r/seduction15/02/22 05:41 PM
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Yeah... That's something I need to work on.
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:08 PM
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😂 Right, because you know me well enough as a person for you to make that statement...👏 I'm no expert or anything but if you have had 500+ rejections in a row, don't you think there might be a SLIGHT possibility that you aren't doing something right??? Has that thought ever crossed your pea-brained mind? I'm done helping you. You sound pathetic enough with your mindless (sexist) ranting.
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:07 PM
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Correct me if I am wrong here. But (if I am right) I'm going to go out on a small limb here and say that you might be on the verge of starting to sound like a LITTLE BITCH 🤷 Stop blaming women for YOUR problems. Sounds like you care WAY too much about what women think of you. Find a hobby and stop blaming others for your own insecurities.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:55 PM
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You're generalizing women a bit here don't ya think?
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:26 PM
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This is a pretty intense post and I feel like you are writing this in a very emotional state right now. What I would suggest to you is to take a step back for a while from dating & women altogether and focus on other things in life that you enjoy. Forget about the game, flirting, and all the bullshit that goes along with it. Once you figure out other things in life that make you enjoy it more, you won't put as much emphasis on women. Women like men who have more important things to do rather tha…
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:44 PM
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As far as I'm concerned, it's done. If you ask her out again, she'll lose respect for you and you are reinforcing her hesitation. She changed her mind, and you should be done because you have SO many other options who wouldn't think twice about being with you
/r/seduction07/06/21 09:24 PM
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Let me be clear, this is not meant to be a demeaning or belittling comment. I genuinely think it will help you. But i think you need to stop caring so much. The less emphasis you put on the current relationship you have (in other words, the less you think about it) the more natural and organic that relationship will be. Some of my best dating experiences were when i was relaxed and didn't overthink or care about the outcome of those dates. Women can see very visibly when a man is insecure about …
/r/seduction31/12/19 01:43 AM
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Well done! It's important when you go out to, firstly, just try to actually have a good time. Women shouldn't be the primary goal (at least at first). When they see that you are having a good time being social, then they will see you as a much more attractive person and the approaches are much more easy.
/r/seduction10/12/18 04:16 AM
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That's right!
/r/seduction12/07/18 01:41 PM
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I banged 5 girls!!!!!!!! Your technique works!!!!! Holy shit thank you so much
/r/seduction12/07/18 01:24 AM
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I love this! Thanks for the advice :)
/r/seduction28/05/15 02:57 PM
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That actually would be great man. See, the funny part is that i dont actually think i am socially awkward. At all. But whenever i am out at the bars, its almost like i have this mental block when it comes to approaching women (however i am quite sure it also has something to do with the amount of alcohol i have consumed). I am so concerned with it going south, that i just don't approach a girl i find really attractive.
/r/seduction10/06/14 01:18 AM
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I realize that now. lol
/r/seduction09/06/14 10:08 PM
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I will check this out. Thank you!
/r/seduction09/06/14 06:43 PM
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That is EXACTLY what it felt like when I was debating approaching this table of bored-looking girls. My friend was telling me, "Dude, if you get rejected, you will never see that girl again. Why are you being such a pussy". Honestly, i had to completely agree with him. And then i walked over there, pulled up a chair to the hottest girl at the table, then started talking to her. I said " Hi how are you" and she just gave a creeped out look at first and then she responded with a hi. I then confide…
/r/seduction09/06/14 06:26 PM
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So are you basically saying that my "end" that i am going for should be something greater than just picking up a girl? Are you saying that i should go out with another goal, and if i happen to pick up a girl, that would be the by-product of what i am actually going out for?
/r/seduction09/06/14 06:14 PM
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Very good point. There are so many people in the world. Why should i let one single interaction ruin my day when i could just simply talk to someone else?
/r/seduction09/06/14 02:08 PM
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