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| 2 | Trad wife movement should be encouraged.Trad Wives aren't traditional tho its a gimmick. You mentioned mormon trad wives. Okay, did you watch that show on Hulu? Literally, all the women say they're the bread winner in their households. Like you want to be mormon? Let me tell you, unless you're rich, giving tons of money to the church, and are an "alpha," it's not that great for men either. It's a cult, dude. That article is a terrible argument. It's not like we women can't see the benefits or bright side of being a sahm, but most wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Sadly I have fallen back into the red pill. I have been watching the33secrets and better bachelor etc. I no it’s bad but for me it’s almost like a train wreck I can’t look away also when I get bored if I’m doing nothing I go back too those YouTube channels. I hate them.Maybe you could try to find some couple youtubers that have good relationships? I really enjoy Kara and Nate, and loved Jenna and Julien before Jenna left youtube. Less about finding the topic but more like finding role models aka "relationships goals" 😝 | /r/ExRedPill | 15/05/23 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Nervous when texting girls and then they lose interest in me…Im kinda confused by your wording | /r/ExRedPill | 10/05/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Nervous when texting girls and then they lose interest in me…Texting just isn't everyone's cup of tea. If a girl gets bored of you for taking an hour or two or even three in some cases she's either addicted to her phone or texting is a big priority to her meaning you probably shouldn't pursue someone like that if it's not for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/05/23 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Women who used to post and comment on the FemaleDatingStrategy sub what are some books a man should read?I also read A Court of Thornes and Rose's and now the sequel. Very girly and romantic books (ofc they're fiction so take it with a grain of salt, they're a bit smutty too) it too features a lot of strong male characters and perspectives 😊 I read 50 shades, which is a funny read if you keep in mind that it's literally Twilight Fan Fic. Not a good example of bdsm but might also be worth a read considering how much people love and hate it haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Women who used to post and comment on the FemaleDatingStrategy sub what are some books a man should read?I don't read self help or non fiction books. This might sound weird, but maybe read some female favorite fiction books preferably with some romance. For example.... This sounds stupid but when I read your post I thought about The Hunger Games book series. It features a lot of male characters that I fell in love with. I learned I'm definetly a Peeta girl than a Gale girl. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 03:20 AM |
| 15 | Do you believe that male sexuality is shamed in modern society?I think sexuality is shamed entirely in the US, and that it varies by area on how much. Dress codes for example. Boys are shamed as if they can't control themselves around a girl with a tank top on, but a girl is shamed for wearing one at all. I think men are shamed more when I comes to sexual orientation though. Which turns in to even more internalize shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Men who were Red Pill, but are not anymore, what was the single most important, hard lesson you learned that led to you leaving?Nah, the beleif is being better for the people you love. Setting a good example. I used to have anger issues, not the "I'm going to physically fight you" anger but the "I'm going to scream and let it bug me for 3 days" kind. When my husband and I started talking about having kids, I realized I don't want my children seeing me hold on to so much unnecessary rage. I'm working on that now, before I have kids, but some people have kids before they have these revelations. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/23 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Men who have left Red Pill, what insecurity did you have that made Red Pill an attractive ideology for you at that time?I relate a lot to this. I don't think friend making is gender specific, I think it depends on your personality and interests. I struggle so hard making female friends. It's shitty bc outgoing social girls are always the easiest to talk to, but we never have anything in common and it's usually a facade. I'm just an introverted gamer girl as well 😞. I wish it were easier to make male friends but every one I've made always had an ulterior motive. That stereotype of "men and women can't just be frie… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?Hell yeah! There's always exceptions. Good for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/23 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?Yeah and your argument doesnt have value in this context. Plus when they start having better hygiene the narrative will die down. I know plenty of single older men who had such bad hygiene I can't bring myself to set them up. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?This is out of context, that's not what I'm saying. I'm saying those men aren't particularly picky and I could easily get a date with one. That's it, nothing more or less. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?Thats not how I meant it. I'm saying quality, or just picky, men aren't typically going for a woman who is obese, making it harder for yall to find someone. There are always exceptions, but again think about the quality on both sides. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 12:04 AM |
| 7 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?Anyone can be shamed for being too superficial it's not gender specific at all. I'm sure many other women can attest to having that picky friend. We're not telling other women to be picky about height and status, we're telling them not to meet just anyone online because they could be a crazy pants. Yall are absurd. You're saying this shit like every woman has the same standards as like unrealistically high mantience women. Most of us are just normal people. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 10:47 PM |
| 4 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?Yes | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 10:37 PM |
| 9 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?Online dating sucked for me, this WAS my experience with online dating. I was never hot or ugly enough forever mid 😂. I couldn't take a photo to save my life, I dont text back very fast, and I couldn't describe in a super appealing way. I met my husband in person 😊 through mutual friends. The chemisty hit us both like a ton of bricks. Join communities and social groups. Most people I know with a successful marriage did not meet online. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 10:10 PM |
| 6 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?Lol I'm sorry I stopped at been studying dating behaviour for years And knew this was gonna get WILD. Sure, if you want to believe I said all that, and you're theories, go for it. I'm happily married, starting a family, cook dinner and get laid every night. Ya know why? Because I met a guy I have chemistry with. I picked him over the redpill jack ass guy, specifically for this one thing, chemistry. I followed my heart and it got me exactly where I needed to be. I really hope you can find that on… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 10:03 PM |
| 10 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?I can respect that, but maybe this is from the perspective of that girl your friends think you should have higher standards for 🤷♀️. In my dating experience this is what I got. Sure I could probably have picked up a socially inept, unhygienic, no self awareness, boy, but I DO have standards. I'm not gorgeous but im not ugly, plus I'm pretty nice if I say so myself lol. You have to keep in mind that the pickiness of men isn't the only thing I brought up. It's a mixture of all of it. The older yo… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 09:54 PM |
| 14 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?For sex, no, for relationships, yes. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 09:14 PM |
| 9 | Why would women want to be monogamous?Not the happily married ones lol! It's different for everyone, generally they're single, gives you the same amount of attention, you have things in common, there's mutual chemistry, attraction that grows as you get to know them. They're willing to hang out with you one on one and eventually go on a date. (Don't take too long though, 2 months or even 2 weeks of this and you should make a move if the feeling is right) definetly don't this for a year with your married coworker because you might be … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 09:11 PM |
| 10 | Why would women want to be monogamous?You're confusing convenience with security. It's hard to have children when you don't feel secure in your relationship. It's hard to feel secure in a relationship when its poly, if you're a monogamous person. Most people don't choose polyamory, they feel it's the only way they can have fulfilling relationships. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Why would women want to be monogamous?why would a person be to want | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 08:48 PM |
| 11 | Why would women want to be monogamous?This literally put a grin on my face lmao. No amount of attention will ever be the equivalent of the right attention from a gentlemen. I get attention from men all the time. I don't need a free popcorn, help with my work assignment, or random compliments. I honestly feel bad for men who think attention will get them somewhere with women because it won't. Not for the hotties. In a weird way I see a benefit of what redpill is trying to convey. Stop giving attention to the WRONG women. It took me a… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 08:42 PM |
| 8 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?This is so stupid. "Sexual market value" isn't a real thing. Women aren't born being "sexy" actually many of us have horrible self esteem until we find a person who values us. Many of us are called fat and ugly because men are constantly watching porn and don't see us as people anymore. People in real life, don't sit there and figure out which tier they're dating on and they don't rate people. If the chemistry is there it's there. Women don't go out of their way to find a man whose "accumulated … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 08:23 PM |
| 21 | Seriously, why are there more men struggling with dating than women ?Imo many modern men have way too high of expectations for themselves and women. Sure, some women are this way too, yes, but in my experience men value themselves much higher, and flee at any minor inconvenience or doubt. Aside from the pretty popular insta model girl types. Most young women have horrible self esteem. They fall for shitty men who can manipulate them. They get married up quickly, but that doesn't mean they're happy. With redpill ideology on the rise, I hear story after story about… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | I think I now have relationship anxiety because of consuming red pill contentWomen generally don't pursue relationships just to destroy them. Those women do exist but they're usually the ones who.... have uhh have severe insecurities. Just remember to look for someone you're compatible with. The things you're bringing up are totally relevant. But guess what?? You'll never know if any of that will or wont happen if you don't try. My first relationship was a complete nightmare. He lived up to my worst expecations. Many people probably say the same. But I don't regret it. I… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Hello, I still prescribe to some red-pill ideas, AMA!If you're so redpill why can't you get a blow job from your girlfriend? Since you're so self improved. Oh wait, are they just too manipulative for you? Or are you single because you're just SO alpha a woman can't pin you down? So you resort to harassing women at a spa... Although I think we both know that that's probably made up anyway. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/23 06:32 PM |
| 4 | Hello, I still prescribe to some red-pill ideas, AMA!Posted by the guy whose claiming their first blow job was done at a happy ending spa... yeah... checks out. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/23 06:19 PM |
| 7 | Why do certain things trigger me so much?I don't understand this topic... Red Pill doesn't want women to work, so men can provide... but they also promote not being with women who have the expectation you will provide... is it just a roundabout way to brainwash men in to forever alone?? I'm not trying to be rude, I'm confused. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/23 06:10 PM |
| 7 | Is my friend a pedophile?Birds of a feather flock together. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/23 05:53 PM |
| 6 | Are there more women who are gay and into Poly relationships compared to men, explaining gender disparity for single men dating?Most of the poly relationships I've seen are the opposite, where it's 1 girl and multiple men. Or the girl is looking for their "Unicorn" bc shes bi. But I don't think poly is popular enough to make that big of dent in the dating pool. I think there's more single men due to red pill, mistreatment of women, and honstly women not being safe/taking care of themselves. Majority of single women I know have children, and a baby daddy(s) who have split, and many men don't want to date a women with any … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Should a man show his emotions to a woman, especially if they are in a relationship?Well, because she'll be supportive and shit because women love that. This made me lol bc it's so true for me. I love talking about feelings 😭 | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone else's redpill ex do these things?Ever watch IASIP? Well this reminds me of the D.E.N.N.I.S system. Dennis is practically the poster child for RedPill men. I would recommend watching it. It's horribly offensive (and hilarious imo) but does give some insight about how these types of men know exactly what they're doing. Edit: to answer your question, yes, my redpill ex did things like that all the time. It was horrible, traumatic, and mean. I'm sorry you're going through it. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/23 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Why are modern men called weak?Not enough protein and exercise probably | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/23 11:15 PM |
| 7 | Redpill is ruining young men.I get what your saying, I just don't think it fits in with OP's context. You're right, not everything is black and white, but in this situation... it kind of is. No man should be beating his mother, there's no if ands or butts about that. Then theres RP "promoters" basically encouraging this behavior, knowing damn well how impressionable young people are. They know who their audience is, and it's the exact children that you're describing. In a way, yes, RP does bring to light these dysfunctional… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/23 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Should men control their emotions?Everyone should learn emotional intelligence. It's much easier to get through life if you know what your feeling, how to express it, and what to do about it. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/23 05:19 PM |
| 8 | How to deal with muscle dysmorphia?I(f26) agree with this. Sometimes too much muscle makes me think we're not compatible. Fitness is a priority for me, but its not the highest. Sometimes I wanna eat a cookie, or play video games. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/23 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Is it okay to be fat and paint your nails as a man?Exactly. Women have been attracted to androgynous men for decades. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/23 03:22 PM |
| 13 | Redpillers say women are not oppressed and the patriarchy doesn't exist. Are women oppressed in America?I worked in IT for 3 years, a male dominated industry, and imo, yes. Sexism still exists and so does the patriarchy. It's just not as obvious, or intentional. E.g One time my whole team went out to lunch, on the company, and they forgot about me... twice. I have countless experiences like this. I think it also depends tho on which state you live in. Once I left the very conservative and religious state I was born in, it was a night and day difference. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/23 03:18 PM |
| 9 | Is it okay to be fat and paint your nails as a man?I love when men paint there nails, it's stylish and tells me that they're in touch with their femine side. Edit: Idk why that person is laughing at my comment. I'm not responding and just blocking them. A ton of my friends would date a guy with painted nails not just me, it's actually super trendy right now. Not much different than tight pants or long hair. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it being tall THAT important for women?I'm almost 5' 1" and after like 5' 8" everyone starts looking the same. Until you're over 6 then you start freaking me out. I'd rather date a shorter guy than a freaking tall guy because they scare me lmao. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/23 02:21 PM |
| 3 | How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement?Just ask her. In a nice way, have a deep conversation about this question. You shouldn't get bored of your partner/relationship. If you are, and its a problem, you should talk about it. The answers are really going to depend on your love languages and what you like to do. These can change over time fyi. Gifts‐ Treats, notes, flowers, shopping trips, origami, shelves for all their stuff lol. things that are thoughtful and remind you of them. Time- events, movies, dinners, cooking (no phones), gam… | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | why do I only attract women I fucking hate?What I'm trying to say is dating online is very limiting. Not everyone is on an app, and everyone that is, is filtered before you. I met my husband IRL, even tho we were both using these apps, we never crossed paths, and lived maybe 5 miles away from eachother for 10 years. We ended up meet though friends in common! Which is the case for all my married friends too. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 04:16 AM |
| 1 | why do I only attract women I fucking hate?My advice is to look for women offline. Or at least off dating sites. Websites have algorithms, if you keep finding the same woman, it's working! | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Why does it take you so long to respond to texts?I hate texting | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned.Every relationship and person is different. If you can't communicate your intimate preferences and general pace you both want by the 3rd date, yeah it's probably not working out. Making moves doesn't have to be sex it can be at your own pace... but if you cant communicate your expectations or desires and leave a girl wondering, they're probably going to move on or put you on the back burner. Girls want to be wanted. Thing is, I've never actively pursued someone for a relationship that I wanted t… | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 03:17 AM |
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