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| 6 | Your first experience dating a HVM?🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 08:19 AM |
| 4 | FDS is this, and I am here for it everyday!! Keep it up Queens!!I feel this transition happening in society and I love it. 100% here to support my sisters online and irl. We are stronger together. We need eachother. 🙌🏼#chicksb4dicks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 08:06 AM |
| 9 | FDS is this, and I am here for it everyday!! Keep it up Queens!!Thank you for pointing this out. Also on the history of “gossip” it was always quite essential. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 08:04 AM |
| 19 | What does the FDS think about being a stay at home mum?My ex boyfriend wanted to be the stay at home parent and he wanted me to work. Which may or may not have worked out but the issue was that he had this rigid idea about it. Like “didn’t you say you want a career? This isn’t a free ride you know” and he always talked about me “paying him back someday.” He made me feel as though I didn’t have MY choice of either staying home and raising my future kids or having a career. Your man sounds similar because he EXPECTS you to get a job when there shouldn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 04:51 PM |
| 26 | Dating a woman and ignoring the men who want me has been the best dating decision I’ve ever made.This gives me such inspiration as a bisexual woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:48 PM |
| 49 | Hmmm.. I wonder why this is?Finally found a guy that actually cares about making me climax. Sex is like 360 from my LTR where he virtually never made me orgasm in 3yrs Ladies find a man and make him WAIT before having sex (6mo at least) and don’t be afraid to tell him exactly what you like in bed. Don’t settle babes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:06 PM |
| 9 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 10 - Boomers, Coomers, & Consumers: What Went Wrong with Male SocializationI completely agree with you on kindness, empathy, and emotional balance being the actually HVM traits 👏🏼learned that from living with a psycho too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:54 PM |
| 6 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 10 - Boomers, Coomers, & Consumers: What Went Wrong with Male Socialization👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 amen sis. I went through the SAME thing for nearly 3 years. Props to us for getting tf out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:50 PM |
| 9 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 10 - Boomers, Coomers, & Consumers: What Went Wrong with Male SocializationDefinitely sounds like college dating 🤦🏻♀️sooo annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:47 PM |
| 14 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 10 - Boomers, Coomers, & Consumers: What Went Wrong with Male SocializationI agree with this so much. I came from a porn additive ex and once you know what that’s like you can never go back. I can definitely feel the extreme lack of eye contact from some men I have dated since and I’m almost completely sure it’s the same addiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:42 PM |
| 6 | Dick does nothing for me.Satisfyer Pro 2 Air-Pulse Clitoris Stimulator - Non-Contact Clitoral Sucking Pressure-Wave Technology, Waterproof, Rechargeable https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071CPR2V4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_YWM87W62R34NM0710W14?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 This is a LIFE CHANGER. (Also hitachi Magic Wand, get the one that plugs into the wall) 😋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 05:29 PM |
| 14 | Dick does nothing for me.Coming out of a toxic long term relationship with lots of sex but never getting “touched” the way I craved down there... showed me a lot. Even IF he fucks you with passion, even IF he pounds you slowly or with love, even IF he tries soooo hard to make you cum, hit your g-spot, blah blah blah the list goes on.... I believe... that a woman NEEDS to be touched. Rubbed, eaten, with passion, with fingers, with tongue... slow, fast, lingering. The clit has 8,000 nerve endings alone which is double tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 05:26 PM |
| 8 | Let’s normalize calling scrote behavior for what it is! Manipulation, abuse, and liesI really connect with the first 2 slides. Absolutely true statements. Someone saying “you’re too sensitive” is really because that person is gaslighting and does not want to sit with the fact that what they are saying or doing legitimately hurt you. Even if it’s just a little. Someone actually understanding would take the time to listen and say “okay, how can I say it better?” Or “I’m sorry I hurt you, I think it came off the wrong way, let me try to rephrase that..” But it’s rare to find someon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 05:11 PM |
| 29 | A great way to vet for LV behavior is loudly and enthusiastically complimenting another woman. Then just watch how everyone reacts.I love this test. I’m going to use it on my family as well as men I date. Vet vet vet 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 05:07 PM |
| 51 | I appreciate FDS for being one of the few places to actually be FEMALE ONLYWe absolutely need abs deserve Women Only Spaces! Online & in person! For centuries there was and still are Men Only spaces both public and economic spheres. Woman have never had that in the history of the U.S. besides salons starting in the 1800’s in one woman’s house where it was finally a place for women only to talk about issues regarding politics, economics and anything else. However, women only spaces in public have been far too few in between and this is extremely upsetting to me. We NEED… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 11:32 PM |
| 4 | Another reminder that hits close to home.Amen sis 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:58 AM |
| 6 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?This is epic haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 10:19 PM |
| 14 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂Hahahaha we must keep the sub ALIVE 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 01:43 AM |
| 7 | Always RememberSis, don’t let yourself go down that path! You’re stronger than that! Say it to yourself, in the mirror! You’re a QUEEN. you don’t need anyone else! Protect your energy! Protect your freedom! 💜💜💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 02:10 PM |
| 7 | FDS has helped me value myself.Found this sub right after leaving an abusive ex, & I am so so glad I did. It’s an amazing community here. I’m so happy you’re out and free too sis <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 03:38 AM |
| 13 | Omg this triggered me. This is such a common interaction I have with men...We are so tired.Yes please. I’ll live with you & other women in blissful peace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 14 | Omg this triggered me. This is such a common interaction I have with men...We are so tired.My ex exactly. He always called his humor “dark”. & yes. He was a bully. Plain & simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | I was blocked for this? They just can’t stand that a woman doesn’t want to sleep around. Can’t let those FDS ideas get out!! 🙄I never kiss or have sex on the first date. I feel weird that we even have to say we’re “old fashion” just because we want to get to know them first. eye roll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 10:58 PM |
| 11 | Just realized something about why men hate usI completely believe that a male redditor said that once. I follow several “male” threads just to get (a better) insight into how they think. & GOD. It’s disgusting, all about being alpha and not beta, all about power, dominating, and winning. It’s all so shallow and so fucking stupid. I hate what I read sometimes but I feel like I need to see it x.x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Men's friendships aren't 'stronger' or 'deeper' than women's friendships.That movie conditioning is terrible. It’s crazy because I grew up homeschooled and didn’t watch those “popular teen girl movies” until I was much older (like early 20’s) and I was disgusted! It all clicked for me as to why my mother didn’t let me watch them. At the time I thought she was just being a pain in the ass, but looking back, I’m so glad I wasn’t raised with those stereotypes that are produced by males and wrapped and packaged and fed to young girls. Ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:29 PM |
| 12 | Men's friendships aren't 'stronger' or 'deeper' than women's friendships.I swear my ex’s voice would get deeper 10X when he was on video games with his dudes. My sister was on the phone with me once and she’s like “who’s that talking in the back??” Bc he sounded so different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:13 AM |
| 8 | Men's friendships aren't 'stronger' or 'deeper' than women's friendships.Wow that’s a fantastic way to put it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Men's friendships aren't 'stronger' or 'deeper' than women's friendships.My ex did this exactly. They were more like a boy gang of internet trolls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:08 AM |
| 2 | Men's friendships aren't 'stronger' or 'deeper' than women's friendships.So my ex. Had the same group of guy friends since 1st grade. Yet he’d never met one guy’s kids, they don’t know ALOT about his past that he’d share with me. Yet these guys play video games every night? Hmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:07 AM |
| 26 | This lady is my inspiration - Heather "The Heat" Hardy. She was an abuse victim and is currently a single mother. While going through her divorce when she was 28 she decided to start boxing, a complete beginner. Now, she is a world champion, boxing and MMA.So great to see that she started when she was 28. I’m 25 and sometimes I just feel “too old” to start new/certain things. I know that’s completely society’s fault and not true, but it’s just so hard to see past that sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:03 AM |
| 11 | Oversharing as a false way to make yourself think you have a connection with a dateProud of you sis. Keep it up <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:57 AM |
| 10 | Oversharing as a false way to make yourself think you have a connection with a dateI used to overshare every time I was flirting. At the time, I had felt that if I was vulnerable first, then that would show that they could be too. It was a good and. bad thing. But now I do see it differently. I think being “mysterious” is something I want to work on. Just for the sake of NOT being the oversharing type. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:52 AM |
| 9 | That's on that - period.👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:37 AM |
| 2 | New FDS Spotify Page! Now with SIX Playlists! Please post any songs you would like to nominate for the playlist under "FDS Anthems" on the Subreddit or the Website! Thanks!God how did I ever live without this Gem?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:12 PM |
| 1 | New FDS Spotify Page! Now with SIX Playlists! Please post any songs you would like to nominate for the playlist under "FDS Anthems" on the Subreddit or the Website! Thanks!“You don’t own me” - saygrace ft g-easy “I’m good” - wafia “Jokes on you” - Charlotte Lawrence “Everybody loves you” - Charlotte Lawrence “Psychopath” - Charlotte Lawrence “Hurt” - lost kings & deathbyromy “So good at being in trouble” - unknown mortal orchestra “Cold as stone” - Charlotte Lawrence “Midnight sky” - Mikey Cyrus “July” - Noah Cyrus ♥️ P.s. love this idea and so excited to check out everyone else’s song list | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 06:18 AM |
| 9 | There's an all-women African village. They wanted to escape abusive husbands, old pedophiles, genital mutilation, and so on. Now, many living there don't even want a husband at all anymore, and work together in their village. It's a facscinating short documentary well worth the watch.Seriously considering moving over there. Imagine the freedom from men. Ugh the dream life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:57 AM |
| 4 | Saw this on Twitter and it’s so true! Be careful what man you date - they can drag you down!Damn , having just come out of an insanely controlling relationship, this speaks to me so loudly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 07:02 PM |
| 12 | The "Unconditional Love" mindset is toxic and you should refrain from itTHIS. Exactly. I wish every woman & girl around the world could read this comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:59 PM |
| 15 | Wholesome high value behaviour from men that should be more the normMy boyfriend told me when we first started dating that he hated the smell of acetone 🤦🏻♀️ when it wasn’t even around us he was just priming me. 3yrs later, left his ass & got back to doing my nails 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:58 PM |
| 3 | This applies to anyone in our lives. It’s not enough to communicate, the other person has to be in a headspace where they can accept the message.I appreciate the way this is worded because it is absolutely true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Sis better drop him. He’s clearly a pedophileThat’s such a good thing to ask matches. I’m gonna start doing that. Thanks sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 07:17 AM |
| 6 | This is the kind of crap that just makes me wanna give up on love forever...I hate when people use “woman” as a bad connotation like he did. While using “man” doesn’t hold the sad “bad” weight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 07:06 AM |
| 12 | I don’t understand the obsession with wanting to live with menOkay so at 23 I “fell in love” and moved in after 6 months because I believed it was all real yada yada. 3 years later and I ESCAPED. With low self - esteem, loss of direction, tons of health & mental issues. But I’m here, standing, and I’ve made it out. It was so fucking hard. The toughest escape of my life. Big fucking lesson learned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Do not be reduced to a secondary character in your own life story.One more time for the sisters in the back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:13 AM |
| 18 | No thanksI’m pissed that my own 60 year old father uses this tactic to lure in 22 year old African American strippers (they really are) who want children. And I’m like STOP LYING TO THEM YOU HAD A VASECTOMY !!! 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:59 AM |
| 7 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏My ex said he was “6’1“ I measured his ass and he was BARELY 5’11” I couldn’t stop laughing y’all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:09 PM |
| 8 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏Fuck those douches! You do you baby girl! You’re a queen! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:07 PM |
| 14 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏Same! I’m 5’10” and they gaslight me about my height too. Gosh this shit needs to stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:02 PM |
| 3 | 😂😂Haha what a burn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:13 PM |
| 6 | How arent porn watchers embarrassed?When I was first intimate with my now ex, he had SERIOUS limp dick. Like the first few times we tried.. I was in shock. I thought maybe he was too old (only 29 though) or had erectile dysfunction.... Nope just too much porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Why it's important to date multiple guysAmen sister 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:59 PM |
| 8 | FactsThis ⬆️. Exactly. When I first met my ex boyfriend’s father,he told me what to wear and what not to wear. Being impressionable at 23 I took his advice. Lost myself after not being able to express myself in the 3yr relationship. I wore boring clothes bc that’s what my bf wore and thought that was considered acceptable. Later down the line, my ex boyfriend’s father pulled me aside and said “Do YoU lOvE yOuRseLf?” Needless to say- I’m don’t with that bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:55 PM |
| 2 | An ended relationship is only a failure when you don’t learn from your mistakes.Just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship nearly 3 years long. I’m definitely taking the time now to learn about all the mistakes I made early on. Move on & up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Never Give an Inch—Its Small and Fragile and the Only Thing Worth HavingThank you so so much kind stranger for the list of books! I went out last night to barns & noble with the list and found/bought tons of the controlling man ones. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 10:03 PM |
| 22 | Dating a gamer is never the move.My ex was an addicted gamer... so unattractive. At first I thought “oh he just likes to do it as a hobby ok I think that’s fine” But waking up and the first thing you do is game & literally all day till the moment you knock out at 6am from gaming. Gross. Never again. & yeah - they totally form weird “friend” bonds with girls online. Really weird. Also weird - them being girls online.... like I get that you can choose your gender but sometimes I don’t know what to make of that shit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | 🙏🏿Amen sis. 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 09:00 PM |
| 30 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.My ex was 7 years older than me. I’m f(25) he’s m(32). Whenever he was mad at me he’d call me a “lost kid” this was someone who I was seriously romantically involved with. We worked together & lived together and at the beginning I fell in love and thought I’d someday marry him. After breaking up with him just a week ago- I can see how twisted and emotionally abusive he was to me. And he’d always use the age difference as an upper hand. I’ll never again date older men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:59 PM |
| 12 | For all the women out there thinking about giving up their career opportunities for a manAmen sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:49 PM |
| 5 | You are your own #1Amen sis 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 04:06 PM |
| 11 | FDS is a very specific dating strategy - if you don't like it get lostSo glad I just stumbled upon this thread after having just left a 3 year toxic serious relationship. Time for the queen to wear her crown again 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:05 AM |
| 3 | Female social media addiction is just as bad for the sexual market as male porn addictionHere’s a recipe for (hopefully) success. When I met my boyfriend he had extreme ED, therefore I asked him kindly to try and stop using porn. And he did. I was on social media every day (as was just about every other 20 something’s) to which I left all my social media accounts in the dust because I simply didn’t see it serving me, or us. We now have a very committed, passionate love. It isn’t always easy or simple, but we have trust, and a remarkable bond. My belief is that the addiction to socia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | The Easiest Hack To Get Anyone To Like YouLet me just also point out that over enthusiasm can definitely seem fake | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 09:06 PM |
| 10 | Female Matchmaker stops trying to help women match with men because women (according to her) have "unrealistic standards for men, dating marriage". Lets discuss.I don’t know who you’re talking about. The men I know love their women earning more. It’s extremely attractive to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/20 08:37 AM |
| 4 | Do you feel like the amount of relationships you’ve had makes your current relationship any less exciting and/or enjoyable?I’m on the same page as you Lost my virginity at 22 and met the love of my life at 23 I think it’s a beautiful thing to explore someone else’s body and to get to know it for what it is ~ I’m happy with my decision In my eyes, loyalty beats “different experiences” and you can always learn more about yourself with your loyal companion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/20 06:46 AM |
| 7 | I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do itPlease don’t lie to get laid That’s just wrong. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 01:11 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men don't really love women for who they areI have to agree because I’ve seen this play out IRL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 07:52 AM |
| 3 | Harvard study - Expectations of wives’ homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists.100% true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 08:01 PM |
| 4 | A lot of men assume that women love them the way their mothers do.A million downvotes if I could. My mother raised and educated four children - home schooled, cleaned, cooked, took us to DR, parks, etc All while being a contractor and building houses from the ground up. Even if she didn’t have her own career as well, I would still argue 100% that my mom’s mothering alone was absolutely a full time job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 02:48 AM |
| 0 | Good men want CONSISTENT womenSo just to give my own 2 cents I (24f) Have been with a man for a year now who is 100% marriage material and we plan on getting married in the future. I wasn’t a slut when I was younger, but I had a few night stands in which I felt like I lived that out enough. My man goal was dating and my main goal in dating was marriage. I never dated just to date and never had a bf just to have one. If someone I was seeing wasn’t husband quality then I moved on. I’m very happy with where I am right now and I… | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 09/06/19 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Post wall woman wonders why she goes for the wrong guysWe want the thrill but need the security | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/06/19 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Woman finds herself in the clearance bin of on line dating and is so "OVER it". Yet she brings her long list of requirements and is actually calling captain-save-a-ho to come rescue her. Anyone have their cape with them????Comment of the year ^ | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/05/19 02:09 AM |
| -2 | I couldn't have said it better myselfFuck you. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/19 05:23 PM |
| 5 | Fuck The Red PillI just saw that movie with my boyfriend and he said “wow that is so effed up towards men” And I supportingly said “yeah if they did that oppositely women would have been so mad with this movie.” It’s just the truth and I feel those Latin Men scenes were wrong to add to the movie. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/02/19 01:20 AM |
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