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She doesn't have to like it. I had a similar case with my girlfriend and here is how I handled it. First of all she's more than okay with texting for logistics. Rarely do we send something random. On the course of the last 7 months, I've never sent her a text to start a conversation on social media. I just text her to be somewhere at some time and that's it. However. Whenever she travels abroad, she starts shitloading the conversation thread with pictures and shit she sees from her travel. And a…
/r/askTRP24/06/19 10:35 AM
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Ah man. Let me help you with what could be your biggest issue when it comes to relationship. Hear me out and hear me out good. First of all, the fact that you're actually bothering checking her Instagram profile, clicking on "followers" and seeing who she's following, or checking the notifications and then seeing "others" notifications and looking for GF's activity shows that you're being anxious about the relationship. Been there. Done that. Understand that this kind of behaviour is a strong in…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 10:40 PM
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I'm not sure if you're doing this to feel better about yourself "being a Chad" or genuinely asking for advice. Either way, are you seriously listening to what she's saying? Do you really think are consciously aware of what they really think? With that being said, you telling her that you're not considering her no-cheating rule shows that you're a high value man since other chicks are wanting to fuck you. Therefore, she got wet and she wanted you more.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 10:29 PM
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Chads and any fucking man on the planet will always get shittests. Doesn't matter how high you SMV is, shittests will always come at your way. Same as the betaization process. These two things will never ever seize to exist. Soft nexting only works when attraction is high. It doesn't matter if you've fucked the girl or not. If you're, say, dating a conservative girl who needs more nonsexual time to get her to bed than your average Ashley, and she gets to misbehave at some point and you don't app…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 10:22 PM
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Can you provide me with further help with this? so... we went to the cinema, and I just acted like nothing happened. Self-amusement the entire time, made myself and her laugh, and it was quite good time. The movie was lit af and she loved every second of it (my idea), she said so after the movie was finished. Before we went into the movie, I asked her about the restaurant my Italian friend is taking me to and she said she's never heard of it. "Oh, my Italian friend is taking me there this weeken…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 07:03 PM
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"chicks need some comfort in a LTR too," I do give her comfort once in a while. I congratulate her for her achivements and tap her on the head like a good daughter, sometimes i compliment her for smth she did or has but i swear to god most of the time i'm just making fun of her
/r/askTRP30/05/19 02:42 PM
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jesus man okay i think i'm just gonna go for the date and have fun per usual and then forget about her for a week or so, i'll start working on better prospects, for real, that's it i do have kind of oneties for her, if she breaks up with me, i'll feel like shit cuz i wasn't the one doing it, so until she does smth wrong, i'll end it for good and in the interim, i'll just work on better prospects she can eat a fucken dick thanks for knocking some sense into me man
/r/askTRP30/05/19 02:37 PM
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bro look the relationship overall is going very extremely well i'm busy working and i have a side gig relating to some art i'm doing smth to make more money, so i can confidently say that my smv is higher than hers and her band friend, i'm very busy with my life being a better man, i'm also lifting regularly at the gym, trust me, it's going fine i see her like twice a week when i have time just to fuck or go on a date: THAT'S IT. I literally order her around. In texts, I just say "be at x place …
/r/askTRP30/05/19 02:34 PM
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but a part of me honestly think it's just a bluff from her part to instill some dread in me and well, it's fucking working
/r/askTRP30/05/19 02:24 PM
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i'm also not investing in the relationship more than she does, so i do have the upper hand here, i never pay for her dinners, never compliment her or boost her ego with stuff related to her achievements, but always teasing and being fun
/r/askTRP30/05/19 02:20 PM
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i know about it, but it's more for married guys where they ask them to start lifting, flirt with other women in front of her, and so on, bro i'm doing all of these things already... as i said in other comments, I am still picking up girls in my social circles and going out for beers with them, so in a way i do have other options... it's true the other guy might seem a bit more alpha than I do, but I'm keeping it alpha through and through, i.e playing by the book, literally keeping texts to logis…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 02:17 PM
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how to dread her? i really have no idea how to proceed now edit: i'm unfollowing her on social media and she has no idea what i'm up to nor do i know what she's doing... i really don't know by this point, i'm getting a bit nervous and blank... i fucken hate this edit2: should i act cold in the movies date later? but i don't exactly she'll care...
/r/askTRP30/05/19 02:12 PM
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You're not doing it to play games I actually agree with this. So far, I didn't react butthurt to the issue raised in the post cuz I've been lowkey following this advice. So you're suggesting I go soft next directly? But do you really think she will care?
/r/askTRP30/05/19 01:32 PM
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But bro she never asks what I'm up to. I'm unfollowing her on social media as well so she never knows what I'm doing neither do I what she does*, actually. This is why she keeps bringing stuff that she's been doing.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 01:28 PM
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Thank you for the advice. The problem is I don't exactly think that it deserves a soft next because as I said in the other comment, she brings shit about her friends and the people that she met all the time, and not only guys but girls as well. However, it's usually once or twice of the same person when something interesting happens and that's it. We really usually have nothing to talk about so that could be a good conversation starter from her part. The way I usually go around this is to just k…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 01:24 PM
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I'll fill u in with the results. Thanks a lot. Just to mention, I'm seeing other girls all the time for beers and whatnot, so sure as hell I have better options... it's just I never mentioned it. Time to go nuclear on her ass.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 11:32 AM
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"Is this a good bar/restaurant?" flash the conversation thread where my friend sent me a '<3 <3 see you there!' oh shit he's taking me out there "Not sure, idk, why?" "Ah cuz my Italian friend is taking me there this weekend, she says they make the best italian pizza in town". "Ahhh kay...?" "I just don't want to be disappointed, figured you've been there" change the topic
/r/askTRP30/05/19 11:30 AM
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Solid advice. But let's be honest with each other here: meeting new people is probably the most exciting thing that can happen in her pathetic social life. It's not the first time that she brings up friends like this who do special things. She also once talked about a female friend of hers who's a language savvy (I happened to be one as well, 5 languages and still learning), so I kept blowing her comfort tests. She said some shit like, "Maybe you guys should meet and learn a thing or two from ea…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 11:26 AM
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as someone here said, mateguarding always leave a stinking odor... So best way is to keep my cool (which I've been doing since this happened) and implement some dread.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 11:13 AM
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I'll make sure to do that but we never check each other's texts. We keep it pretty civilized and kind of a privacy thing here in Europe lol But how to actually implement this kind of dread? I sure as hell have awesome female friends as well but never talked about them cuz I said I regard it as misbehaviour. Should I casually ask her what she's up to this weekend and then mention the stuff I'm doing with other girls?
/r/askTRP30/05/19 11:06 AM
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Bro I might be asking for herp, but I know for a fact that that'd never work
/r/askTRP30/05/19 11:00 AM
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Ah shit never thought about this. Defintely mentioning how my good Italian female friend is taking me to the best Italian pizza restaurant later. Or how the other dropping a hot bath birthday party and invited me this weekend. I don't think she wants to kill the puppy. As I said, she's experiecing attention from guys and it's making her feel reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaally good and it's giving her the false impression that her SMV is higher than mine cuz it's defintely fucking not.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:53 AM
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I honestly think half of the advice is giving here is coming from such an extreme perspective on women being the lustful hypergamous bitches that they are while in reality, in the real world, as long as you're having your shit together, they will be as sweet and gentle as they are. From my experience, all the things that prevent me from getting sex from my girlfriends and all the shit that ensue drama and unnecessary bullshit is me being a needy bitch who can't handle a girl properly.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 06:17 PM
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Do you really think she could have "easily" fucked/sucked one of her own on my back during such context? Bro we have mutual friends. They were there. Her roommate was there and her beta orbitors were there. Do you think she will just sit back and start smooshing with some dude of her own in front of them? Put yourself in her shoes, wouldn't you feel like you're some worthless lustful cunt? What will her friends think of her? How will they regard her? As I told you, her friends usually ask her ho…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 06:14 PM
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I just edited the post. It wasn't a farewell party. It was an event that stretched from the afternoon till night where they celebrated some shit and had fun altogether. It just ended up in a rooftop BBQ and her roommate only uploaded the pics from there so I got the impression it was a farewell party. It's just funny to see how fatalstic everyone in this community is. It's like you guys only consider the worst part of every situation and then come up with all the fucked up shit that could happen…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 06:00 PM
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don't u think that's a bit of a butthurt move? She clearly had fun in the party without me, and acting all butthurt about it like this IMO would come off as a bit insecure. "whAT dO u MeAAN U dIdN'T INVITE ME TO THEH PARTEH?"
/r/askTRP28/05/19 05:42 PM
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I don't have her on any of my social media apps just for the sake of not falling to this hellish pit of hamstering. She uploads stories of shit she's doing with her friends all the time and that kinda fucks me up.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 05:39 PM
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Your friends should all know you're together and invite you to things as a pair. Exactly my problem. We've been together for 7 months, and the vetting went for 2 months. Edit: most importantly, her roommate knows very much well that we're together and me being in that party, well, should've been smth intiutive cuz the 3 of us have been having good time together, u know what I mean? Honestly, I haven't even asked about the party. Maybe it's a farewell party or maybe it's just another party of one…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 05:38 PM
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calling him a faggot won't help with anything, ust saying
/r/askTRP26/05/19 06:01 PM
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man you're stuck in the past... it doesn't matter what happened, it's hard to digest, but it's over, and it sucks big time because you didn't have control of what was going on, she did, and it stings like a bitch just because of seeing her taking all the initiative to crush this relationship down to its core in other words, u've been defeated, but it doesn't mean it's the end of the battle, and from here on out, you basically have two options: keep living in this psychomaniac spiral of death tha…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 01:27 PM
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Okay I should say it went pretty good this time. She was very nervous during the performance and she kept eying me and smiling during the entire night. After she finished, her friends swarmed around her taking pics with like a celebrity so I waited them out and then I grabbed that tight ass under the dress and kissed her in front of them saying something like, "Well done. You made me proud tonight". "Oh.. I'm so glad!!" We took a few pictures together and then I asked her to go near the stage an…
/r/askTRP25/05/19 10:33 AM
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hey you're right... well fuck me did i sound butthurt? ​
/r/askTRP17/03/19 08:29 PM
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I don't know about that bro... I just think that if a girlfriend should have to choose between her boyfriend and friends, she should go for the boyfriend, or she doesn't really respect him that much... Am I right? I really don't know.. I'm kinda disappointed.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 08:00 PM
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