brazenbull09 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Any movement that aims to "decenter" the other gender is and has always been fraudulent.	Debate	brazenbull09	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 01:22 PM

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3	Dating the ugly girl won't save you. It's a very dehumanizing way of thinking. I feel like this is why the conversation around dating for looks is much deeper than just "I want to wake up to a pretty face every day". Your looks have determined a lot in your life, and like OP mentioned, it's quite common to see women who struggled with their appearance have very low self esteem, to the point that validation matters more than commitment to any one person. I feel like it's quite predatory to date an ugly person under the assumption th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 06:36 PM
–	Its not that women can “sense misogyny”. Its that men with no social awareness nor self awareness cant hide their red flags. It genuinely is though...it just gets overlooked because of the halo effect	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 09:51 PM
–	Its not that women can “sense misogyny”. Its that men with no social awareness nor self awareness cant hide their red flags. Yes...hence I said halo effect. The ability to make women horny does not make you any less misogynistic, which is my issue with what you said. There are guys out there who are hot and charismatic but extremely misogynistic, people overlook that BECAUSE of their charisma and looks. And if you think that's how things should be then you're more red pill than you think, and less blue pill than you believe	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 09:05 PM
–	Its not that women can “sense misogyny”. Its that men with no social awareness nor self awareness cant hide their red flags. If being a Chad was about masking your misogyny then nice guys wouldn't have such a problem getting laid	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 08:53 PM
–	Its not that women can “sense misogyny”. Its that men with no social awareness nor self awareness cant hide their red flags. Lol what? So being a Chad is about how well you can mask your misogyny? Come on bro the halo effect is a very well established concept	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/26 08:45 PM
1	Orgasm gap is not caused by men, its caused by women because they don’t close the gap of effort gap Definitely caused and perpetuated by men big dawg. Your average barely know anything about foreplay, hell, your average men doesn't even like giving head. It's so bad that it's common to run into women who've convinced themselves that they dont need or want head because they've never had a guy go down on them. Now obviously women should definitely be doing more in the bedroom (way too many pillows princesses out here), but the pressure should definitely be more on men. The amount of guys that pu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 11:08 PM
–	Why do we dream about our partner cheats? Not that simple, your dreams manifest what you think about the most, not what you WANT the most. Everyone has had that dream where they were falling, doesn't mean everyone wants to fall? No of course not. OP just has to do some soul searching, and scrutinize the trust she has in her partner/relationship. Sometimes it's not even about trust, but rather her own issues of expecting the worst outcome out of anything in her life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 03:16 AM
–	It’s never been easier to date for guys who know how to speak to women OP says dating is super easy for men (one would assume they're referring to your average man) OP uses an MLB player as an example 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ I think there should be a way to remind people that men like women more than women like men, before someone makes a post like this. It's REALLY important. I dont know how many times we need to have this conversation that working in absolutes about what a man needs to do to succeed in dating helps no one. You minimize the perspectives and experiences of BOTH…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 04:35 AM
1	Women need to cook Just get in the kitchen bro....if your woman dies, will you starve? Will you live on store bought and fast food until you die of like 4 different types of cancers?? Lol cooking isnt hard, and delicious meals arent always complicated. There's no way you dont see the immaturity in not wanting to develop a skill simply because you believe it's meant for the other gender. Under the right framing...it even sounds condescending. Like imagine you calling yourself a man but you're so helpless that you n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 04:21 AM
4	Why do we dream about our partner cheats? Let it pass. I've had those before, and entertaining them only leads you to self prophecising. It reveals some inner work you need to do, in terms of your fears, the trust you have in your partner/relationship, just overall security.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 03:54 AM
–	How important is sex? To me...a lot, maybe it's because im still pretty young lol. Now obviously it's not important to me enough that I'd get into a relationship for it, but it definitely is enough that I wouldn't want a relationship if it wasnt present. I could not be with someone who doesnt match my sex drive, and curiosity. If you dont want it as much as I do or more, then we can just be friends	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 02:23 AM
–	Women Do Not Have “Dating Issues.” Only Men do. For some reason Pretending its anywhere Equal Look man I'd be all on board if you said dating is EASIER for women....but no issues at all? That's just not reality man. They face the same issues we do, maybe not at the same frequency or even intensity, but they do. And then some issues are unique to them being women, so much so that most men dont even know those unique issues exist. A reasonable person would extend sympathy, and understand that we're all in this together. Your prompt is far too divisionist, which is genuinely the first step …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 07:14 PM
–	Do women have safe space to have "honest conversations" about attraction? What you're asking is post anything you want on the internet and demand people agree with you. Exactly this, she's not looking for discourse, she's looking for validation and blind approval, anything outside of that is being met with immature hostility	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 11:15 PM
1	Do women have safe space to have "honest conversations" about attraction? I'm matching your tone, and amusingly you take offense to that. Except I wasnt being sarcastic...I genuinely meant all I said. You even repeated your condescension in this very comment, yet have the audacity to act like my reply was somehow unwarranted hostility. What are you talking about? Nothing about what I said was hostile, dont get in your feelings and take it out on me bruh. Just because we disagree doesnt mean we're fighting. Your entire angle was that I'm personally chronically online, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 11:12 PM
–	Guys, if your girl goes clubbing, is that a dealbreaker? Yeah for sure. I go clubbing myself (currently single, I wouldnt do it in a relationship) and there's nothing good that comes out of it, nothing good for a relationship anyways. It honestly doesnt matter how trustworthy she may be, I could even have a device that monitors literally everything about her and allows to see and hear what she sees and hears, with a button that allows me to teleport to her any time I please, it would still be a deal breaker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 07:58 PM
1	Do women have safe space to have "honest conversations" about attraction? L unnecessary sarcasm. And you know what?? Yeah, what you said ISN'T reality...there are TONS of subs, apps, and websites that touch DEEPLY on the things that you mentioned. So I stick by what i said....you're using the internet wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 07:34 PM
9	Do women have safe space to have "honest conversations" about attraction? That's genuinely just the internet bro...I can give you like 10 subs on this app alone that allow you to do that. And then 10 Twitter accounts, 10 Instagram accounts, and like 100 tiktok accounts with little to no friction. The internet (social media specifically) is a woman's domain, whatever you think isnt being discussed, is being discussed HEAVILY. Someone noted something about the existence of women who shame you for having these conversations, and while they definitely do exist, they're li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 06:39 PM
3	as a financial consultant, i’ve seen too many men go broke trying to impress women. why? Many reasons. Money is an easy way to romance. You can fulfill the surface level requirements of a relationship and for most women, that'll be enough. So what happens is that many guys will invest in the amount of money they make and not much else, they end up having little to no depth.This method only works of you have a lot of money though, and the average guy doesn't, yet there's a very large portion of the average that still resorts to this method. Societal pressure. Most dudes are still try…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 06:57 PM
–	Women don't have life "Easier" than men Life? definitely not, dating on the other hand....yeah you guys are living easy	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 06:33 PM
0	What is the point of dating men if they will always prefer younger women? Life bro...just gotta be outside	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/26 09:21 AM
–	You are not entitled to a relationship Holding on to pain you experienced when you were young is immature, no offense but you have to move on. Also, men go through this as well, and in todays society,men are getting lied to far more than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/26 12:09 PM
–	Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATION Low tier strawman detected. I dont know where you got "job" from because my prompt specified in DATING, and no it's it's simple as you make it out to be. If you actually read my prompt...you would have noticed I said they are being taught that they are guaranteed success in DATING (didnt even mention anything about marriage btw) IF they do 1 2 3, you're making it seem like I said we're just telling boys they're guaranteed a wife just for existing	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 05:22 PM
–	Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATION The internet is different from real life. I know online, everyone that isnt openly red pill or traditional is this ultra woke agent of political correctness, but whatever dating advice was around in the 50s, is still being taught today, and majority of people are still following it in some way shape or form.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 04:57 PM
–	Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATION The problem is that young were sold this lie that they were GUARANTEED to succeed in dating if they 1 2 3. But it's never that simple. Dudes who believe it's that simple have other things going on for them that blind them to this nuance, so now they're going around recklessly spewing nonsense. Women who believe this do so because it makes their dating life easier, puts less stress on them and all responsibility/accountability on the guy. Just like their male counterparts, women can be vain, shal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 10:14 AM
7	Men don't like to talk about their issues, but they do like to hijack conversation when women raise theirs. Lets not forget the good ol' "who set that system up?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 10:04 AM
3	Men don't like to talk about their issues, but they do like to hijack conversation when women raise theirs. Agreed, though i do think it's a bit more nuanced than this. Do men very frequently hijack environments and contexts meant for women? Yes. One other thing that doesnt help is that mens vulnerability spaces tend to become very misogynistic real quick. BUT...at the same time, what I've seen happen very often is man being shamed for having opened those spaces in the first place. Despite what women say about never caring about mens business, it's actually quite common for them to either disguise the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 10:01 AM
1	Guys, honest answers only Labia size brings no unique difference to sex. As for taste, I'd say everyone has their own flavor, but the base is still the same. I've been lucky to have never run into woman with a "bad smell" or "taste", I've enjoyed all my partners. What I can say is they all smell the same at base, but they carry a scent unique to the woman, it's never bad imo. As for bush or no bush, thats up to each individual man. I've always like a hair on my partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 12:39 AM
1	Q4All: Would you consider this settling or a relationship deprived of lust? If her feelings towards me were neutral, then honestly I dont see the problem with going for it now that she's attracted to you. Thats just how it is, many people fall under our radar, even attractive people at times, like you could acknowledge that they're attractive, but that doesnt automatically mean you're attracted to them	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 12:34 AM
–	You don’t have to admit you have a sense of entitlement to have a sense of entitlement We are taught since young “do this and women will like you”, so majority of the time it’s resentment. They plan and pay for the date not because that’s something they want to do but something they’re socialized into doing. Yup, this piece of advice is genuinely one of the most insidious pieces of advice that you can give a man. It makes dating seem easy and formulaic, quite literally taking stripping the humanity from it. When I use a microwave I expect it to warm my food, because thats what mic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 03:50 PM
2	If bluebell advice worked the manosphere wouldn’t exist The problem with people who follow the pills (red or blue) is that they're far too extreme, which results in them coming up with extreme solutions to problems. You need balance, and nuance. Being extreme can only work in an extreme environment. Sure there are a few trends and maybe even constants, but those dont tell the full story	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 03:32 PM
3	If bluebell advice worked the manosphere wouldn’t exist Oh yes for sure I totally agree. The manosphere is...for lack of better terms, regressive. My issue with you is that the conclusion to what OP said is that manosphere advice is bullshit because american people are overweight and out of shape. That's assuming that the overwhelming majority of american people actually follow manosphere advice, which isnt true. It's just a weird conclusion to come to man, literal strawmanning on your part	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 10:06 PM
2	If bluebell advice worked the manosphere wouldn’t exist how did you get that from what he said? Seriously im curious. Like was that your only conclusion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 09:56 PM
2	Why do (some!!) men that sex robots/robot gfs will be a legitimate replacement for real romantic relationships with a human women? Generally those men who think that way probably didn't have much luck with women anyways. Though we should always leave margin for error, so I dont doubt that some dudes who do get with women might just end up converting, and then some will try to find a balance, I dont think the dating scene will be affected as much by sex robots. It would take a completely new generation of men who were born into a society that has normalized sex robots before we can see the actual impact of them	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 01:36 AM
2	What increases your sense of self-worth outside of romatic/sexual validation? I think any competent mans answer to this would unique to the current period in their life. Im young, still trying to figure myself, so for me I'd say what raises my self-worth outside of romance is tackling the issues I may have picked up as a kid. Things like procrastination, poor mental health, honestly anything has to do with what I dont like about myself, dealing with that makes me love myself all the more. And helping other people, that always feels good. "It made me think of the religious…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 01:33 AM
1	Terrible assholes can come in all shapes and size. They dont have to be hot jocky badboys. Cognitive dissonance. I dont blame for that being way, but i do blame them for not only staying that way but also embracing it as some sort of gender essentialist bullshit. Patriarchy has conditioned women to never state their wants, especially if it may hurt a mans ego, women have internalized that conditioning to a point that they see it as their nature, but it's not. Regardless of your conditioning, you're still gonna have your wants and needs, especially if you grew up in an environment that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/26 02:17 AM
1	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/26 11:47 PM
2	We agree alot with each other, but for some reason men are wrong for saying it. They would obviously be unequal because all stats tell us is the reported data. There are far more female pedophiles than you think, obviously not as much as their male counterparts, but the gap isnt as large the general public assumes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/26 09:39 PM
2	We agree alot with each other, but for some reason men are wrong for saying it. Grown women get pregnant by underage boys more than you realize	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/26 09:36 PM
–	If a man didn’t ask the right questions about dating, it’s not women’s fault he didn’t get the answers he wanted. Usually because women just suck at giving straight forward advice. Their answers are always so open ended. Hence it will always be better to ask the fisherman and not the fish. I think there's a few reasons for this though. Main one being that women struggle with admitting to their vain, superficial, and shallow interests. One comment already pointed it out here, but you guys really have a hard time with just admitting that you like tall men, or muscular men, or men with money. This inability to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 02:47 AM
1	Men are not capable of romantic love. Currently, yes that's true, but I really hope you're not trying to push some gender-essentialist propaganda OP. It's literally all just conditioning. And not just conditioning related to relationships. Men ARE capable of romance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 01:40 AM
29	We agree alot with each other, but for some reason men are wrong for saying it. IMO this happens frequently because of womens inability to accept that they too can also be vain, shallow, and superficial. Often times the reasons for why women are attracted to what they're attracted to have to be rooted in some deep philosophical and emotional explanation or something of that sort. This leads to them coming up with conclusions that are far disconnected from the truth. One example that I always think about is how as guys we know that one of the worst things you can be is the f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 01:35 AM
13	Casual sex is accessible to any man competent enough to get it "Buying a $30 meal is possible if you have $30" Mind you there's (generally) more than one facet to getting someone (especially a woman) to sleep with you. You could be good at conversations and bring a generally good vibe, but if your hygiene is lacking and appearance is poor, then it's probably gonna negatively affect your chances, especially since we're specifically talking about sex. Your competence in dating or the pursuit of sex expresses itself in multiple avenues. You want sex? Okay. Wel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 01:21 AM
1	Being wanted is better than being needed Ironically, a branch of your sentiment is "the guy she wants to fuck VS the guy she wants to marry" which is a very popular conversation amongst us men. A woman who wants you will probably give you sex with little to no friction. Now a woman who needs you MAY do the same, the toll is just way higher.. she may regret it afterword, she may recognize it as something she's only doing out of a need for you, resulting in her enjoying it less, and possibly resenting you for doing something out of neces…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 11:54 AM
8	Women peak 18-25 Hard disagree. Everyone has their own peak. This type of rhetoric bugs the hell out of me as someone within that age range because it's just so out of touch....have you interacted with women 18-25? Because if you have then you'd be praying it's not their peak. Some are late bloomers, and some are just really good at getting maintaining their physical appearance and mental wellness. Have you ever interacted with older women before? A lot of them are great, and are extremely attractive. I'd say th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 02:00 AM
1	Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating? So why would women pay for dates, date men they don’t find attractive etc… if they don’t have to? And that's where the problems start...when you date someone you dont even find attractive. Also men don’t have to pay for dates if they don’t want to but that doesn’t mean women have to date them. I never said they do? What’s mutual about it? If it really was a mutual exchange men wouldn’t be the one’s paying. Lol casual dating final boss. You do realize the basis of going on a date is because you l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 09:58 AM
0	Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating? You're literally saying nothing lol. Women want a good guy, and men want a good good woman all the same. And I assure women are barking just as much about what men should be. You're trying to word your thought in a way that villainizes men but it just falls flat. Yes, women want a good guy, and you know what approach a lot of women are taking? Yelling at men about how they should be	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 10:50 PM
1	Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating? You have a very transactional way of thinking, which wouldnt be a bad thing if it also came with fairness. Individualistic people like yourself are a major part of why the dating market is such a cesspool. You think men dont get tired of paying for dates? Especially when there's no promise of anything going further? You're going into human a interaction with the belief that you're supposed to benefit materialistically and you DONT see how narcissistic you sound? How would paying for dates help a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 10:47 PM
2	Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating? What men hate is the constant beating around the bush and gaslighting many women (not all) showcase. So true. This sub is full of women denying their superficial behaviors, when there's like hundreds of subs on reddit alone that completely contradict that. They'll swear up and down that no woman on earth only cares about looks or status as if men dont live on the same planet as them and witness that very phenomenon every day	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 12:10 PM
2	Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating? Obviously you wouldnt complain about something that works in your favor. if anything it probably attracts the exact man who doesn’t believe in marriage. Lol most women dont even want to get married anymore, especially the women on this sub. You guys just like playing tradition until it's time to do your part, because under tradition, you know that a woman's part mainly comes after the ring	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 12:05 PM
15	Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating? Lol isn't that the same thing women are doing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 11:59 AM
9	Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating? Lol this is some sloppy narrative manipulation. BOTH men and women are complaining about dating, for similar and differing reasons. And ngl your question doesnt really make much sense. If women (specifically straight women) arent complaining about dating then that means men are doing good in terms of being partners, and since men are the ones complaining then that means it's women who need to pull up the socks. See how your prompt works against itself? This just feels like blatant accountability…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 11:57 AM
1	Men make long term relationships unsustainable Thats what all husbands tell their aging wives Ever considered that they actually mean it??	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 10:44 AM
4	Men make long term relationships unsustainable Bro's tryna fearmonger as temporary escape of his own misery	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 10:38 AM
–	Men complain about “women being able to detect bad men” when they are considered the bad men. Shallow women also dont want them and shallow women are the ones who would disregard a shitty personality. For something else right?? Which incels usually dont have. They're generally broke, socially awkward, and dont look good. In the West there's hardly is a patriarchy. They exist because women have rights and they dont have to force themselves to be with shitty men for survival. Lol just because it isnt as bad as was 50-75 years ago doesnt mean it doesnt exist. Most heterosexual relationships…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 11:38 PM
–	Men complain about “women being able to detect bad men” when they are considered the bad men. So are you actually gonna address what I said and actually counter it? That was intentional. You're part of the majority of people who: 1. Simplify mens loneliness to not being able to get a partner or sex from a woman. 2. Believe this falsehood that men are lonely/sexless because of their misogyny. Both of these mentalities are just wrong. Incels exist because they cant keep up with the patriarchy. They usually dont have any qualities to compensate for their misogyny, also, not all incels are m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 11:13 PM
1	Men complain about “women being able to detect bad men” when they are considered the bad men. Thats not what I said. Lol it's exactly what you said.... Then we wouldn’t have an incel community. Nor would we have a ‘male loneliness epidemic’. Lol this is so ironic coming from a woman. Usually your stance on the matter is that predatory men have some other qualities that change the perception of their problematic behavior, and if im not mistaken, you actually did say something like that in your post. This is already a losing argument if you actually believe a group with immutable traits ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 08:56 PM
2	Comp heterosexuality is much more of a man thing Most people still hold straight men to a very gender essentialist position, even the most progressive of individuals are uncomfortable with a straight mans liberation from gender roles and gender performance. I can understand it when it comes from someone who aligns themselves with the redpill and conservatism, but even progressives are failing. I mean...the same women who claim to hate toxic masculinity simultaneously love the phrase "men used to go to war" Gay men are always ready to sacrifice…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 07:17 PM
1	Being a provider male is simping I hate how we've lost the real definition of what simping is. If you're with a partner who loves and appreciates you and does whatever they can to make you happy, then providing for them is not simping!!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 10:42 PM
1	Men complain about “women being able to detect bad men” when they are considered the bad men. I have never heard of women sensing bad guys outside of a couple of comedic scenes on TV and this sub. Lol i just love when people in this sub try to act like a well established concept never existed in the first place, or in your case, act like it wasnt that common. A quick Google search kinda proves your point wrong. Its always easier to spot a wolf when its unable to hide in sheep’s clothing. And those wolves have still have no issue finding sheep to feast on. If we are to believe that women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 10:39 PM
8	Men and women will never agree, on who should approach first. Lol agreed. I doubt it'll happen anytime soon though. Something that's bugged me about heterosexual dating discourse is that no matter how progressive the space is, everyone is arguing within patriarchy. Women dont want let go of the things that make their dating lives easier and more enjoyable (im not gonna call them benefits because lord knows they hate it when you do that). And they still hold themselves to this very traditional standard on things they don't HAVE to do. Men still hold on to t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 10:17 PM
1	The male loneliness epidemic is self inflicted. The experiences of trans people is further proof of this. As a quick and easy "gotcha" to men. No one really cares about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 10:07 PM
–	Women are the ones red pilling men Yes very true. Women dont believe in the existence of bad women until it's time to victim blame men for being with said women. This differentiates them to us because, at the very least, as men, we can acknowledge the existence of bad men and we've been saying for the longest time that they should steer clear of them. Many of them are still driven by this idea that a woman can only do wrong if she's pushed to it by a man. In this attempt to make an excuse for the woman, they deny her the agency o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 09:58 PM
20	Men and women will never agree, on who should approach first. Times have changed and people don't want to change with them. Back in the day it made sense for the man to be the sole initiator of almost everything because men had the most agency. If you were a woman back then, without a bank account, without any money, without any resources, why would you approach a partner, lets not also forget the conditioning women went through that left them docile and unable to think for themselves. We dont live like that anymore, well...kind of. Women have money, and b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 09:30 PM
1	Women can’t sit here and say that only men benefit in a marriage and still continue to marry them. Lol im not one to act obvious to how abusive and downright life threatening marriage can be for women, which is why i understand so many of them saying they opt out of it.... BUT!! I cant help but also keep this thought in my mind that a great deal of them (especially on the internet) only complain about marriage being exclusively beneficial to the man because (traditionally) that's the only time a woman is expected to do anything in the relationship. That's why they still date, but are complete…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 03:05 PM
14	It’s hypocritical to be against FGM but not care about circumcision I can agree with the sentiment of needing to take circumcision more seriously....but FGM is degrees worse than it. FGM can never be done right. Even in the safest and healthiest circumstances, any girl or woman who has gone through will still experience complications that will affect her daily life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 09:13 AM
2	Women rarely get criticized for being bad in bed I honestly blame men for this. We expect too little from women and sex in general. The bar is genuinely non-existent. Like the most a guy expects from a woman is to be clean and know how to give oral WITHOUT teeth. I think thats why so many guys are borderline superficial about the women they want to fuck, it's to compensate for the woman's lack of effort. Most of my experiences have been with pillow princesses, and in hindsight, the majority pleasure came from my lust. Another thing is the imba…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/26 11:48 PM
1	Women rarely get criticized for being bad in bed Lol this is a mentality I'd expect from a red piller, though i guess you're not all blue. The body isnt that simple, some people (both men and women) cum whilst being sexually assaulted, nothing good about that. Sex isnt just an act with a "goal", it's a form of connecting and bonding with the person you're having it with. Your definition of sex is basically just masturbating with a persons body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/26 11:35 PM
3	Women rarely get criticized for being bad in bed Lol this is a mentality I'd expect from a red piller, though i guess you're not all blue. The body isnt that simple, some people (both men and women) cum whilst being sexually assaulted, nothing good about that. Sex isnt just an act with a "goal", it's a form of connecting and bonding with the person you're having it with. Your definition of sex is basically just masturbating with a persons body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/26 11:35 PM
1	Always wanted to know - What do men mean exactly when they say "Women have the power to destroy society?" My first guess would be anti-natalism. If women collectively decided to abort babies every chance they get, in a addition to abstaining from sex with men, then yeah we could possibly see a decline in society. But if we're speaking socially, I feel like it's too broad/obvious. Any group with enough could destabilize greater society	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 08:50 PM
6	Always wanted to know - What do men mean exactly when they say "Women have the power to destroy society?" Ain't nobody saying this bruh	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 08:00 PM
7	Women don't like assholes specifically, but men at the top Yes very true, status and money allow guys to get away with so much shit. It's a thought I've had for a while concerning the declining birth rates around the world. As much as everyone online is fighting to make it seem like women no longer tolerating misogyny is why fewer people are dating, having sex, getting married, and having children, the real truth is that capitalism is failing hard-core. People are genuinely forced to choose between themselves and playing into the system. Most of are alr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 06:28 PM
5	Women's biggest blind spot is other women Meanwhile everyone online is constantly arguing about what women are doing wrong Yes...and women (with the help of many men) are still trying dismiss their wrong doings	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 06:22 PM
14	Women's biggest blind spot is other women Lol nice try, appealing to emotion or whatever. OP is literally just saying that women have an in group bias to the point that they ignore objective reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 06:21 PM
2	Women's biggest blind spot is other women "I've heard many women say that gold diggers only go where the gold is. That's not true. These women will take the gold, the copper, the nickel, and even the dirt so they can use it to grow their own plants." Lol this one bugs me the most. They think because they're not trying to manipulate some fortune 500 CEO to spend money on them then they're not digging for gold. They're playing dumb on purpose, they know the conversation is about money, and their desperation for it, but they'd rather focus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 06:19 PM
9	Women's biggest blind spot is other women avoid, set boundaries with, ignore, etc. You call us misogynistic for doing those things. In my experience, people only tend to acknowledge the existence of other bad women when it's time to victim blame men for being with said women. Pick ur poison Pick a lane, it's either you stop victim blaming us for being with bad women, thus admitting that bad women exist, or stop shaming us for avoiding said women in the first place	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/26 06:13 PM
1	Would you be a Single Father Yes I would. Im honestly planning on doing so already (that's if I actually decide to have a kid). I'd much prefer being a single dad than being on a relationship or coparenting	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 09:07 PM
1	If the roles were reversed do you think the average woman(as a man) would have longterm dating success with a woman in today’s society? I mean....we arent lions though, we're barely even closely related to them. I	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 08:56 PM
1	If the roles were reversed do you think the average woman(as a man) would have longterm dating success with a woman in today’s society? Women would do absolutely horrible, we dont even have to imagine it thanks to the internet. So many anecdotes of women who turned bi/lesbian and finally understood what men have been dealing with. Some of them get so frustrated with their own gender that they turn redpill or straight up misogynistic. Some guy already said it here already, MOST women are passive daters, making the first move or any move is their kryptonit, and (thanks to patriarchal conditioning) ALL women have an infirmity to ta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 08:38 PM
–	Would you get into serious relationship with a girl who has done ONS/FWB before? Depends...are those people still in her life? If yes, then no i wouldnt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 07:41 PM
1	Age gap relationships are a bad deal for women Lol then why do they get into them so much?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 11:48 AM
15	Men dont being anything to the table It's always funny to see a woman shooting herself in the foot to make an empty point. So a woman's value lies in her body? Okay. Are you saying there's nothing wrong with a woman being sexualized seeing as how that's what she's worth? Are you saying a woman who refuses to sleep with men has no value? Are you saying a man is entitled to sex in his relationship because thats the value a woman brings? You're adding nothing new to the conversation, just making a point that minimizes women to sex obj…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 11:42 AM
5	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily racism As a black man this one gets to me so much because in the span of I'd say 2 years (especially on tiktok) black women (and pandering black men) have basically gave way to every other race to shit on black men. emotion shaming They genuinely have no idea how redpill they sound whenever it comes to men and emotions. Spending enough time on the internet makes you realize that women dont want to change the status quo, they just want to tweak it so works to their advantage. they are perfect, in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 06:56 PM
4	Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easily Internalized patriarchy, most (if not all) women suffer from it. They exorcise the parts of the patriarchy that tell them to cook, clean, dress modestly, and get married, but keep the parts of it that tell them to expect a hypermasculine provider man, and in the context of this post; call men gay whenever they dont fit into the patriarchal image of a man. They know that there's really not much else they can insult a man on outside of the things that patriarchy pushes, so they FEEL like they have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/26 06:34 PM
2	My solution for men, the white gold pill. I call it that cuz it sounds flashier than just white pill, and cuz for some reason I have the white gold concordat on my mind. That's fair, I can get with that	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 04:02 AM
1	My solution for men, the white gold pill. I call it that cuz it sounds flashier than just white pill, and cuz for some reason I have the white gold concordat on my mind. Yes and thats the red pilled lart of your post, the blue pilled part is where you call men shitheads, then you later went on a men bad women good tirade	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 03:58 AM
4	What's the most annoying debate tactic you see from the opposite gender on this sub? Most women can't understand what men do in dating because they put themselves in the shoes of the woman being dated, not the shoes of the man forced to perform to date the woman. What a bar, im stealing this. But the biggest issue is that women largely demand to be believed completely and u critically while refusing to understand or acknowledge the male situation, they demand men out themselves in the woman's shoes, while women refuse to put themselves in men's shoes. Ironically it leads to the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 03:52 AM
2	What's the most annoying debate tactic you see from the opposite gender on this sub? Very true. If only they knew how much they're shooting themselves in the foot. IMO it's also very hypocritical seeing as how they're the same people constantly reminding us that they're not a monolith	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 03:31 AM
7	What's the most annoying debate tactic you see from the opposite gender on this sub? BROOOOO!!! I've never been more heated in my life than this one time I was debating a woman and she just decided to act like virgin shaming isnt a thing. My one regret is that I actually entertained her nonsense and went to find studies and reports about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 03:30 AM
2	My solution for men, the white gold pill. I call it that cuz it sounds flashier than just white pill, and cuz for some reason I have the white gold concordat on my mind. I think a lot of men should just leave women alone. I agree, but your reasoning is why im saying you're blue pilled, BUT remember i also said that your post includes beliefs held by both the red pill and blue pill. I'm basically mgtow-lite. This is where I'd have to disagree, MGTOW was meant to uplift men and encourage them to find value in life outside of women, your post is kinda just telling men to leave women alone because they have no value to women. MGTOW: "You're more than just a boyfrien…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 03:26 AM
1	My solution for men, the white gold pill. I call it that cuz it sounds flashier than just white pill, and cuz for some reason I have the white gold concordat on my mind. Bro ngl you're lowkey just blue pill. Coulda just said that instead of inventing some corny new "pill" Like everything you said is a belief that either red or blue pill already holds	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 03:07 AM
1	It's better to be the mistress than the wife You're so close to understanding why men would rather be casual sex material rather than husband material	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 06:30 PM
3	Women generally have it harder than men. Why do men constantly complain about the ‘male loneliness epidemic’? Im not even lying....you can spend like 5 minutes on any social media or internet forum and you'll find that men "complain" about MLE the LEAST, like can you please stop gaslighting us into thinking otherwise. Every single time male loneliness is brought up it's by a woman or male panderer. You wont let go off the MLE because you see it as an easy gotcha, and quick way to hurt men, and thats why you keep bringing it up and over…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 06:23 PM
1	Women often give horrible dating advice Someone in this comment section already pointed out that the advice they give is for the instance where they are already attracted to the guy. Another perspective is that women date differently from men. The reality is, during the beginning stages and even later stages of seeing someone, a man puts in all the work. Plan the dates, pay for them, keep the conversations flowing and interesting, just majority(and sometimes totality) of the effort is on him. This allows women to treat dating as a hob…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 06:09 PM
5	Women have no choice but to defend their own hypocrisy and here's why I call it internalized patriarchy. Most women have it. Many of the things they consider natural to them being women or things that are natural to us being men, are just the effects of hundreds of years of conditioning. But they never question these things because it would mean losing something they find some value in (im not gonna call it a benefit because lord knows they hate it when you do that) Often times a woman's exorcism of the patriarchy stops at being told to cook, clean, dress modestly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 02:39 PM
1	Women have no choice but to defend their own hypocrisy and here's why Pretty sure he was being sarcastic. Even if it hasnt been proven, men do have a lot of contradicting beliefs and behaviors	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 02:05 PM
10	Dating is random/messy and cannot be predicted by either Red or Blue pill approaches Patterns still do exist. Certain archetypes of people are at least a little guaranteed to behave a certain way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 05:59 AM
1	Have you cheated Who? The cheater or the person being cheated with? Regardless, it works for either one. I never got really deep into cheating like that, but from everything I've seen, it definitely is one of the more selfish things you can do to a person	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 05:45 AM
1	Have you cheated Lol yes I did when I was a teenager. She caught me sexting another girl, the sight of her crying and brokenhearted was enough to make me never do it again	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 12:36 AM
1	Men are the prize. Neither man nor woman is the prize. Its all subjective. You might be a prize to one person and then common loot to the next. Best not to get caught up in such things, they only serve to fill your ego with toxic narcissistic beliefs	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 12:32 AM
–	‘Blue Pillers’ never said shallow women dont exist. The people promoting it are the people not following it's core principles. (Women) And obviously men just get dismissed when it comes the teaching of feminism because it isnt even a movement for us. And that's why we're here in the present where people cant tell the difference between a feminist and a man hater. The people in charge of promoting it do such a terrible job at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 12:31 AM
–	‘Blue Pillers’ never said shallow women dont exist. 100 percent. Blue pillers and blue pill adjacent people dont actually believe in the existence of terrible women, they just temporarily endorse the idea of one everytime they need to victim blame a man for his woman's bad behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 12:27 AM
–	‘Blue Pillers’ never said shallow women dont exist. Would be nice if they women were aware of that as well	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 12:24 AM
–	‘Blue Pillers’ never said shallow women dont exist. And that's because most women never fully deal with their internalized patriarchy. They exorcise the parts that tell them to cook and clean but spare the parts that tell them they're entitled to a big strong house building war winning provider. If you know you live in a society that: Rewards mens misogyny Conditions EVERYONE to perceive casual misogyny as just natural ways of behavior then you should also be able to understand that you probably have many parts of you that think misogynistically,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 12:14 AM
–	‘Blue Pillers’ never said shallow women dont exist. Generally...blue pillers and blue pill adjacent individuals dont believe any type of bad woman exists. The only time they'll admit to bad women existing is when they need to victim blame men for being with a bad partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 12:03 AM
1	For Men in Relationships: Is Emotional Love or Physical Desire More Important? Depends on the guy and what he values. Some guys stay because of the sex, and they're genuinely happy, while some guys dont even want the sex because they dont feel connected to their partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/26 11:57 PM
0	Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women? Patriarchal conditioning	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 11:05 AM
3	Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men? You and the other commenter are arguing two different things with me, both of you misunderstand me. In no way am I saying men are less vocal or not vocal at all about womens baggage, ive been speaking about how society views a woman with baggage in comparison to a man with baggage, and how it affects the ways in which said baggage is dealt with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 10:07 AM
3	Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men? I never said they weren't. And look at you specifying men....which isnt even that bad of a thing...because women do it too...the reason they're not as vocal about it (honestly debatable) is because the people they date are actually expected to deal with their baggage. There is more pressure on men to deal with their baggage than there is on women, often times men are expected to work help their women through their baggage, or just accept it being a part of her. Have you thought to ask yourself w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 10:05 AM
2	Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men? This has nothing to do with what you're discussing. You started out with red pill men on podcasts and now you've moved to the people we're dating, which honestly isnt even connected to my initial statement which is that it's more socially accepted for women to carry and act on their past baggage. Regardless of what you may believe, I think its best we approach such situations the nuance that they deserve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 02:37 AM
1	Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men? I mean, it is. No one is yelling at men to not bring around drama and baggage, but lots of men talk about women and baggage. Lol this sub alone has so many dudes who have "yelled at men" to not bring drama and baggage into their relationships, it's laughable that you even believe what you typed. And I've been in enough gender discussions to actually laugh out loud at this statement. Guys are called out for this all the time, except you, like many other people, operate on a bias that I refer to a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 02:24 AM
4	Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men? We're arguing two different things. Im not saying men DONT carry past baggage into new relationships, they definitely do, a lot. Im saying it's not socially accepted for men to carry their baggage into past relationships. Society can actually call a man out when he's stuck in the past and hasnt healed, as opposed to a woman who's still stuck in the past, in which her behavior is often excused or in some occasion encouraged	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 02:06 AM
5	Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men? I know...I quite literally said this. The difference is that it's socially acceptable for women to not only carry over said baggage but also act on it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 01:48 AM
5	Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men? Its just as women, we see it as a bare minimum concept thus we don't need to declare it like men do, because men think its some sort of standard. I mean it kinda has to be a standard for us, it's fairly common for women to carry over their baggage from god knows how many relationships. And dont get me wrong,men do it too, but it's much less socially acceptable. The mature guys deal with their baggage and aim to be good partners to their next. The immature guys with a learn some form of abuse (us…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 01:09 AM
1	Men complain about women's behaviour and yet they keep catering to them and encouraging their behaviour. Of course...but my comment wasnt a comparison	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 05:29 PM
2	Men complain about women's behaviour and yet they keep catering to them and encouraging their behaviour. Well yeah...but you severely underestimate how much internalized patriarchy most women hold within them They never exorcise it because the way in which men and women are expected to decenter the patriarchy are different. A good majority of women (on a global scale) are still very much patriarchal, as in, they have patriarchal standards/expectations of their suitors. I dont think it's that common to meet a woman who actually values a "sensitive" man. Even if you do, in my experience, because of t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 12:47 AM
2	Men complain about women's behaviour and yet they keep catering to them and encouraging their behaviour. Yes let's just completely ignore the generation(s) of fuckups that raised them and the traumas that came with. News flash buddy, the previous generations arent as perfect as you make them out to be. The only reason you can talk shit about Gen z is because we're the first generation to genuinely see no hope to prosper in a capitalist society. The prior gens at least had enough capital to actually make something out of themselves, and thats also what you all to be more progressive and accepting, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 12:40 AM
1	If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates. We've BEEN trying to do that but we get called broke and misogynistic for it😭😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 09:17 AM
–	Question for Purple Pill: Purple/No Pill men and women — what criticism of your side (your gender) is weakest, and how could it be better? egalitarian relationships. Being a passport bro subtly implies that you at least BELIEVE in power dynamics...which is very anti-egalitarian... same as believing in female hypergamy...power dynamics once again through money	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 09:19 AM
–	Question for Purple Pill: Purple/No Pill men and women — what criticism of your side (your gender) is weakest, and how could it be better? I don’t like to call myself purple because the connotation is that I somewhat agree with the Red Pill, but Is your flair satire...because you saying you dont agree with red pill but then calling yourself a passport bro is like king von advocating for the end of gun violence	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 10:01 PM
–	Question for Purple Pill: Purple/No Pill men and women — what criticism of your side (your gender) is weakest, and how could it be better? Agreed...you cant on one occasion say that men are conditioned into their harmful ways...and then in another say that men are naturally harmful, those ideas contradict each other. Also, if men are naturally harmful towards women then wouldn't that make the patriarchy less of a "system" and more of just men behaving in the way that nature intended them to? This why "healthy" advice towards men often falls short. It's always framed under "taming the inner demon" or going against your natural progr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 09:56 PM
–	It seems if a woman ever has a hook up, she should be expected to keep having subpar sex with strangers. They wouldnt (generally) be an awful person, but they would be an awful partner. And it's (mostly) not because of the sexual partners, it's usually because of the source of their promiscuity. Realistically, most of the people sleeping around arent just doing it because they like sex, there's usually some sort of trauma or conditioning from their adolescence that leads them to want it so bad. That stuff shows up in relationships too. Some people use sex to feel validated, but thing is, they cant …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/26 07:43 AM
2	Blue Pillers here are probably more misogynistic then the Red Pillers. Even the wrongs of women who voted for the orange man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/26 12:05 AM
1	Should conditions that affect only women, like painful menstrual periods, legally qualify for workplace accommodations? I would definitely say yes. After all, people are supposed looking out for each other, it's all about inclusivity. Especially big corporations who can afford to allocate funds to such	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 06:37 PM
–	Men are spinning narrative about them being desperate but they are desperate for top percent of women Lol imagine...we live in a time where not having kids,not being obsessed with money, and being in shape makes you top tier, and to top it all off, not being promiscuous either. I dont think you understand how misogynistic you sound. You're basically saying the average woman is a fat, money hungry slut who most probably has a kid already. It seems you dont understand nuance. A man can be desperate and still refuse the options he has, and this is because: Women who have "less desirable" qualities …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 10:03 AM