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If he's an AMOG, you're going to have to turn on the wit. He's going to try to make you look bad. Everything he says is going to be crafted just to make you crack. If you crack, you lose. You look like a weak asshole. You have to be careful with this one - if the both of you are slappin' your boners off the drums to see who makes the louder noise, eventually she's going to get sick of the bro-drama and not want to be around either of you. Just make sure you aren't alienating your date while tryi…
/r/seduction29/03/14 01:52 AM
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You're right. It looked good because you challenged her to remember your name and then blew it off when she forgot it, leaving the door open for you to forget her name (which, whatever, even so, it's still in the context of first meeting so who cares).
/r/seduction27/03/14 11:27 PM
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There's going to be two answers to this: half of the people will tell you it's no use to approach when you don't feel it because women can sense that. The other half will say you should just go approach all the time because you need a constant flow of numbers, etc. etc. I'm going to say that it depends on your situation. Did you have a lot of success this past weekend and have a few dates lined up for the next few days? Well then sure, don't go out. But, are the last three women you've talked to…
/r/seduction27/03/14 11:00 PM
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My favorite mentality comes from Tyler at RSD. This was one of the many things I learned from his material. When he sees a girl he wants to approach, he approaches. He knows he's approaching. If you want to say this falls in line with the 3 second approach, sure. With that rule, if 3 seconds pass, you are probably not going to approach. In seeing a woman he wants to approach, the decision is already made, time limits be damned. He's walking towards her and he is going to say something. Now while…
/r/seduction27/03/14 12:53 AM
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Don't stick your dick in the company stink.
/r/seduction24/03/14 08:14 PM
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Everyone is going to tell you to just move on and if specifically for this case you are only going out and talking to girls to date them, then yeah, move on. BUT, if you are new to this material, and you're Daygaming to build up some comfort and experience talking with women, then this is a perfect opportunity to push your personal boundaries! It is possible she is just nervous about being approached in public and blurted something out. You really don't know - and it's fun to keep talking! So ye…
/r/seduction24/03/14 08:09 PM
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It's not lying - it's funny. It's a joke. He's having fun with the girl. Crazy concept huh?
/r/seduction24/03/14 08:03 PM
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Sounds like a good way to make friends - and absolutely nothing else. It seems like you're afraid of sex, or testosterone, or being a guy in general, all of which leads to zero generated interest from the opposite sex.
/r/seduction23/03/14 01:38 PM
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A unique twist on this situation: Let's say the roles were reversed and John turned and said you should give him a beer, but he did it in a manner in front of the girls where he was clearly trying to one-up you. You know, those situations where that kind of guy thinks he can make you look lower than him. What would you do? Here's what I would do but I'm curious about other tactics for the situation: I would grab the beer for him, and when he went to take it, I would pull it just out of his reach…
/r/seduction21/03/14 09:49 PM
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Liberalism derives its reasoning from emotions. Libertarianism derives its reasoning from logical conclusions. Which one is TBP/TRP?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 04:39 PM
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Again, all situations are different, but let's play with a hypothetical scenario: You open a moderately attractive girl at the bar. She's not all that entertaining, but it's your first set of the night. It comes down to it and she is being fussy about drinks. So stop and think about the long-game here (and I mean long in the sense of the next set or sets you open at this venue). Do you either eject from this set immediately and move on to the next one, or do you throw a few bucks on the table an…
/r/seduction24/02/14 11:10 PM
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There is such a wide range of opinions about all this, but the truth of the matter is that all girls are different. So the one underlying truth I've come to realize is this: Don't get all up your own ass about it. That is; don't get anxious over the decision whether or not paying for everything is a good idea. With one girl, I payed for everything and hardly saw any action. With a different girl I payed for everything and she was sucking on my fingers and begging to sit on my face. Both instance…
/r/seduction24/02/14 03:50 AM
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Well, what are you doing when you get the text? I think that's the important question. Let me tell you a story: A friend of mine had major oneitis for this girl. Let's call my friend Blake and the girl T. Blake was the definition of a wussy guy for a long, long time. It was finally near the end of college where he started to listen to my advice. I told him to try out an experiment. Every time T texts you, do these things in order: First, read the text. Next, PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN, and go back to w…
/r/seduction24/02/14 03:43 AM
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As a general comment, it seems like you are struggling with the Logistics of getting a girl from first meeting to the bedroom - which leads me to point you in the direction of David Deangelo's early material about Connections and Bridges. I don't remember the exact titles but that is the specific material I would be looking at if I were you.
/r/seduction24/02/14 03:30 AM
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"Making them think more highly of you" is an insecure, external guessing game without a winner. Whether a girl thinks better of you or less of you, it's still about HER, not YOU. It's about making yourself a better person and then eventually other people can see it (not that it matters if they do).
/r/seduction23/02/14 09:07 PM
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It is a shit test. She's not insulting you. If anything she's telling you that you're a threat - in a good way. What you want to do here is agree to go dancing as friends and before hand, set the tone of "we are going to go find partners for each other." However you want to tell her that is fine: "Yeah let's go out, you can be my wingman." When you get to the club and get some drinks, play Fuck/Marry/Kill to get a sense of the kinds of guys she's interested in. Get her to open some girls to you …
/r/seduction23/02/14 05:46 PM
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The concept here is outcome-independence. OP, while it's nice to be reassured that the steps you are taking are making you a better person, it's important to take certain things as valuable and not others. If two months down the road this girl says something like, "you're not really that good-looking." That cannot be devastating for you. You have to maintain an internal locus of identity and not be defined by what other people think of you. Also not trying to shit on your parade, just tell your …
/r/seduction23/02/14 05:30 AM
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Yeah... as a rule, if you fail and know you failed, don't bring it up immediately when you see her. Then she'll just associate seeing you with the feeling of being really creeped out. The best thing you c an do is pretend that it never happened. Nothing is more attractive to a girl than a guy who can just immediately move on from his mistakes. Make a joke that didn't land? No big deal. Don't sweat it, just move on. Literally forget that you even said it.
/r/seduction19/02/14 01:45 AM
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Take a pair of dice (or just one) with you and play a questions game with groups of people. Basically you go up to them and ask if they want to play a little game, then explain that each person gets a number and the first person rolls the dye. The person's number that comes up gets to ask the roller a question. You can get to know people pretty well this way. If it dies off or they aren't fun you just find a new group!
/r/seduction16/02/14 03:42 PM
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They're on almost every video/arcade/poker machine at bars. It has two pictures that look the same but one of them has little differences that you have to find. I don't remember the name of any at the moment but just search on the google play store or apple market. You'll find it.
/r/seduction01/02/14 02:06 PM
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Get one of those "find what's wrong in this picture" games on your phone. If you are waiting for a movie to start or are sitting together waiting for the bus, you can bust it out and make it a competition, rip on her for messing up, etc. Easy way to keep her close to you and do some kino. Surprisingly most girls in bars will give you a high-five. If you get the feeling she is vibing with you you can hold her hand as you both lower your arms and start talking.
/r/seduction31/01/14 04:04 AM
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Then that has more to do with the energy you're putting out. You're giving them "relationship material" vibes rather than sex-me-now vibes. 60 Years Of Challenge is all about this. It might be too direct / not match your personality and if that's the case then I would try to find a well-known PUA who specializes in ONS's but 60 should be a good start.
/r/seduction28/01/14 04:38 AM
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the girl knows that she'll probably never hear of me again, so that makes it really hard. That is actually one of your strongest weapons if you are just looking to get laid. I think some of Tyler from RSD's earlier material could help you with this. You need to focus on projecting the "I'm only here for one night and want to have some short-time fun" vibe. High sexuality, very direct. The book 60 years of challenge might be right up your alley actually, because the entire book is just escalate e…
/r/seduction28/01/14 03:40 AM
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The first stuff I ever read was David Deangelo's material. Double Your Dating ebook first, then Attraction Is Not A Choice next. The Game is a good story in its own right but it's even more enjoyable when you are already familiar with some of the characters. Everyone on Seddit is going to recommend Models to you. I don't know if it's hands-on enough to actually be effective but reading it certainly won't hurt. 60 Years of Challenge is interesting too, but I would read that one last or else it wo…
/r/seduction28/01/14 03:35 AM
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I would move around to different people and just interact with everyone. When you run in to the same people enough times they will pull you in and try to keep you talking to them. You'll be gaining social proof by talking to everybody (life of the party) and you can spend more time with specific girls once you've ran in to everyone. Don't get bogged down in names. You can look up some little party games that force you to remember certain names but if you are really interested in someone you can …
/r/seduction28/01/14 03:31 AM
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This, definitely. Women are not all the same. I made the mistake of writing a girl off because she called me nice. I rolled my eyes and said "ugh I hate being called a nice guy" (note: not a good thing to say, I was drinking, it was my first reaction), she pulled me in close and said "being a nice guy is a VERY good thing." Needless to say I was more concerned with the words she said rather than what she was actually saying to me.
/r/seduction28/01/14 03:26 AM
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You could benefit from developing a positive mentality about these rejections. Actually getting rejected doesn't get you anywhere if you don't learn from the experience. I would recommend starting an interaction journal. For each interaction, take note of three things: 1. How/Why you approached 2. When did the interaction change 3. What did I learn from this interaction When you build up enough entries you'll notice a pattern of things that keep happening and you can correct them. Don't write do…
/r/seduction28/01/14 03:22 AM
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You might find David De'angelo / Dr. Paul's material about having a Healthy Personal Boundary will help you with this situation. But outside of professional material, I would say that you're too dependent on external factors for your own personal happiness. You need to find a way to be happy with yourself regardless of the world going on around you. This is a pretty tall task - one that many people will go their entire lives without finding an answer. But it is possible.
/r/seduction28/01/14 03:13 AM
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Then don't give shitty advice on the internet. Your first point was dead-on, the rest was assumptions based on your interpretation of what was going on. You simply don't know enough about the situation to say for sure that she "fucked 10 other guys already" in fact that's a scarcity mentality which means you have a fucked up view of women. Being an internet badass doesn't make you look more correct, you just look like an asshole.
/r/seduction28/01/14 03:07 AM
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This the best advice here. I can speak specifically for Swing Dance, because although you aren't going to be using those moves "in da club" the entire dance is about the MAN leading the WOMAN. So you'll learn physical leading as well as rythym - and it's a great place to meet/take women as well. You can't be ashamed of sucking at first because you're trying to learn a new skill which is attractive.
/r/seduction28/01/14 03:02 AM
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Those sound like IOIs. You could dramatically pretend to be reading her mind (face her, turn her so she's facing you, make a face like you are trying very hard to read her mind) and then say something funny/making fun of her ( "I shouldn't have worn these shoes with this skirt today"). Or blow it off with a "Sorry, I only give readings after the third date." There's a ton of directions to take this, it depends on your personality, which responses will work and which won't, etc.
/r/seduction28/01/14 02:58 AM
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That shit only works in nightclubs and bars on girls who have low self-esteem And you wonder why this whole situation went to hell in a hand basket? The excuse "that only works in X" is a real nice and convenient way for you to protect your inner-wuss from any meaningful change.
/r/seduction28/01/14 02:51 AM
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David D's series on body language is great, especially Monster's material. The video is obviously better than the audio but if you can just find the audio it is still worthwhile.
/r/seduction20/11/13 07:24 AM
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Man, this is gonna hurt when she inevitably sees how outcome-dependent you are. You're putting so much value on what she says and does. It's like you've got the oneitis goggles glued to your head but at least you had the balls to talk to her. Don't sit around waiting for her to text you. You should be finding plans for the weekend so if she happens to text you during a break you are doing something interesting instead of sitting around playing GTA. Congrats on getting her number but if you want …
/r/seduction20/11/13 07:16 AM
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