breadvice Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1453	LVM antics spotted on a dating app subreddit.	LVM LOGIC	breadvice	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 03:09 PM
22	Nothing but the audacity.	LIES MEN TELL	breadvice	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/21 02:25 PM
1	Love some subtle negging as an opener.	RED FLAG 🚨	breadvice	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/20 11:12 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
32	Nothing but the audacity. This man had already stood me up once prior to the first photo. I should have just ended it then. I deleted the text thread on my phone after he told me he lost interest, but of course he comes back months later. I luckily had the receipts on my computer. The absolute audacity to try to gaslight me. I’ll never know what goes on inside men’s heads. I’ve certainly learned my lesson with blocking and deleting. Even if you don’t think it’s necessary, it probably is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/21 02:26 PM
2	Your experiences with Liberal vs. Conservative men. So. I’m a democratic socialist. I don’t think I could ever date (another, after LVX) conservative, but I’ve found self-proclaimed leftist / feminist men to be the biggest pickmes. Like, do you really think that way, or are you telling me what you think I want to hear? It’s not giving what you think it’s giving. Currently talking to a libertarian who I definitely do not agree with on everything, but he’s very genuine and steadfast in his beliefs. I think that’s what’s most attractive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 04:58 PM
64	I’m glad more women are realizing this, but the comments are just sad I just saw this on my FYP and rushed here to see if it had already been posted! Only facts here. It was 6 years for me too. 🥴 If he wanted to, he would.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 04:01 PM
29	Gaslighting 🚨 Never, ever, EVER allow a man to weasel his way so deep into your psyche that these sentences seem like reasonable responses. They are MANIPULATIVE through and through This triggered my fight or flight. Only flying away from men like this nowadays.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/21 02:21 AM
6	Since following FDS I have low/no libido! I rarely find a man attractive these days. Anyone else turned off from most guys? I have been wondering this myself. I find I’m only attracted to maybe 1 in every 100 men I meet. And I can’t tell unless I meet them in person, either. I use OLD (I know, not super smiled upon in FDS), and I can find someone’s photos attractive, and still get the ick in person. It also makes it hard to date multiple men at once if/when I’m only physically attracted to one of them. I’ve never been attracted to 2 at once.	/r/askFDS	19/02/21 09:18 AM
35	Madonna / Whore Complex...what do we think? I think it has some truth in it for sure. @ my LVM ex who called me Jezebel and is now a BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/21 04:00 PM
9	Reminder: If you see LVM acting right after they've acted wrong with you, THOSE MEN ARE STILL LVM. One man literally told me that he was going to treat his next girl right and not fuck it up like he did with me. I believe they’re still together. I pity her because only I know what’s likely going on behind closed doors. Abusive piece of shit won’t change. He will cheat on her and he will raise his hands to her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/21 03:55 PM
110	Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends. I never realized how many lurkers we had until a post of mine got traction today! Yikes. Blocked and deleted.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 11:37 PM
13	LVM antics spotted on a dating app subreddit. No	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 07:41 PM
7	LVM antics spotted on a dating app subreddit. DM’d you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 06:42 PM
31	Ashnikko back again with bops 🤩 “Special” another banger	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 04:04 PM
140	LVM antics spotted on a dating app subreddit. Disclaimer: I am the awarder. This whole post is a trash fire. OP is a pickme posting a photo for approval to use in her profile.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 03:10 PM
14	Jumping on the “bought myself a ring” bandwagon 😊 Happy New Year to me, and to all my FDS sisters Happy New Year, sister! Stunning ring. You deserve it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/01/21 06:05 AM
54	This question always seemed like a red flag to me🚩🚩 Stealing this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/20 02:06 PM
162	Which of you saved this girl? BRB, cringing over all the expensive clothes and electronics I bought my LVM ex while the only gift I remember receiving from him was a cheap heart-shaped necklace. Oh, just remembered I bought him a watch too. NEVER again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/12/20 09:49 AM
5	CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020 Yep. Was talking to this one guy on Hinge who said he was sober. I’m a social drinker but that’s not a deal-breaker in and of itself. Seemed really weird about it though, so I googled him and found multiple DUIs. Oof.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/20 05:17 PM
1	Struggle is real My ex joined a church in the last year of our relationship. He gradually got completely brainwashed. Little things at first, culminating in him dumping me because I was too independent and the man is supposed to be the leader and Christlike figure in a Godly relationship. I was devastated as it was such a long relationship and I was deep into the sunk cost fallacy. Needless to say, I now have the Atheist or Agnostic filters on as a dealbreaker on my Hinge profile. Never again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/06/20 01:51 PM