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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 20 | Honestly, the worst about the whole thing for me is | breakevencloud | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/26 12:25 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Honestly, the worst about the whole thing for me isMy brother, I got hit with that exact same line almost. “I don’t know how to be what you need me to be.” So your first option is to blow up the family? Like what? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/26 01:40 AM |
| 4 | How many of you feel that you're better off since your divorce? Share the reasons why and the ways life has improved.In the process of going through mine and every single one of these things (except the new partner one) is on my list of “why life is going to be better” | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/26 12:56 PM |
| 8 | Why is it 2nd Marriages Fail Even More Than the 1st?I have no data to support this claim, but my brain rationalizes it by saying: When people divorce, either one or both parties are heavily at fault. Assuming no self improvement by the divorced people, that means the divorced-and-single group probably has, what, maybe 2/3 of the pool at primary fault for their first marriage failing? So, if they’ve made no changes, it’s hard to see a better outcome next time when you put two of those people together. As someone else said also, I think part of it … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/26 01:54 AM |
| 4 | Surprised being servedThis is the absolute biggest thing I have learned since my marriage blew up. I am typically a “whatever makes everyone’s life easier” type of person who will just go along with whatever to get it over with, but I have been obsessively logging any and all information that could potentially be relevant if my soon-to-be-ex flips the amicable switch to the “off” position and tries to bulldoze her way into fruition with me because she was able to do that in our marriage. As you say, hope and attempt … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/26 10:40 PM |
| 5 | I should be laughing but I’m not.Man, I am in a very similar situation as you are. Mine happened a little over a month ago and I was so desperate to try and fix it and save it and all that crap for the first two weeks. Then, I started to rationally look at where my marriage was. And then I started keeping a small notebook where I will write down any thoughts or comments I see around here that give me reassurance for why the upcoming divorce is the best thing for myself and why there is no chance I would ever go back in the futu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/26 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Nobody told me that 'no closure' also applied to the rebuilding of a lifeMan, I’m going through it right now and stumbled upon this thread and your comment just…hit me in the exact way I’ve needed. My marriage recently blew up in my face, wife is still living with me in separate rooms, and she has yet to give me (or anybody else for that matter) any kind of real, actual reason for why she is so nonchalantly throwing away almost 15 years together. I mean, I’m over the marriage and the relationship and all that at his point, but the “why did this happen” question is so… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/26 11:11 PM |
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