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breakingtree/r/seduction12/08/16 09:04 AM
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breakingtree/r/seduction23/02/17 02:33 PM
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Outcome independence. If you wanna say something because you are impressed you did it, say it, just don't expect her (or him) to be impressed. This stuff is hard though, we are all full if shit sometimes. Take it easy Bro.
/r/seduction23/12/17 07:31 PM
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Yeah it is. Confused the shit out of me for a while. I finally learnt how to take beautiful girls home and I was bored as hell once our clothes were off. Heart wants what the heart wants, Bro.
/r/seduction19/10/17 10:18 PM
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Since your product is an improved lifestyle, do you mind telling us how you make money from your blog?
/r/seduction21/04/17 01:34 PM
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Nah. Should of traded for math H/W help: I help you with this, you buy me a drink.
/r/seduction12/04/17 01:34 PM
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Hey man, I just wanted to say I used some of this stuff and I really enjoyed it. It got me in the swing of comfortably talking to anyone, because it doesn't leave you horribly ashamed from the onset (like a lot of the old PUA stuff). I have also found your social momentum theory really useful too. Basically, thanks dude.
/r/seduction06/03/17 03:30 PM
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Distance. They closer they physically are by choice is the best map.
/r/seduction05/03/17 03:48 PM
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Just say rocket scientist casually and let them for their reaction. It's a good a job and therefore attractive. It's fine to put that out there and not feel bad, just don't let it make you think you're better than anyone else. There's a big difference between sucking your own dick and letting someone else want to suck it.
/r/seduction14/02/17 10:02 AM
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"Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power" - Tzu
/r/seduction13/01/17 11:09 AM
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You've got a difficult few months ahead, but it gets way better. Give yourself sometime to feel firstly, also listen to the podcasts on breakups by The Art of Charm to normalise the situation. Take up mindfulness meditation to help you accept how you're feeling. Think of things you want to do but couldn't before because of the relationship (ie. Travel). When you're feeling a bit more stable (may take a week, may take 6) try something you've always wanted to but haven't to get out of your comfort…
/r/seduction06/01/17 02:43 PM
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It's true that it is a lot better to go out and meet people, however tinder etc can be a good 'training wheels' place for your skills. The key with these is to get their attention - "are you as interesting as you look?" is too intense to start, if someone asked me to prove myself like that my reaction would be a fuck you. Just do something simple, and build rapport. Eg: online dating seems a bit weird, doesn't it? Shall we make it more fun, I've got an idea.
/r/seduction06/01/17 10:24 AM
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Can someone who can access the link tl;dr this please?
/r/seduction01/01/17 10:26 PM
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Dude, don't take picking up girls so seriously. It's fun, and a skill, and in reality a vehicle to improving your life. You learn to go beyond your comfort zones and go for what you want - and to persist when you hit a hurdle. That's the real gold of this stuff. Picking up girls is just a side product, and honestly not the highest priority.
/r/seduction31/12/16 04:23 PM
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The best advice I can give is a) learn to form an honest opinion, and b) learn to listen in the present. An example of A): listen to albums of ever genre. What do you like about it? What don't you like about it? If you hate it, why do other people love it? An example of B): we spend to much time thinking about ourselves. Drop your ego, and just listen to what the other person is saying. They are unique, appreciate and engage that. Learning what makes people laugh, learning to lead a conversation…
/r/seduction21/12/16 09:31 AM
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Tl;dr: the difference between reading this tl;dr and OP. One option will be easy and give you a little knowledge, the other is harder and allow you to become something of more value.
/r/seduction16/12/16 02:51 PM
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Thanks man.
/r/seduction15/12/16 07:20 PM
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I would also add acceptance is key. Read some stoicism to get you in the right frame of mind. Also try something you have always wanted to try but haven't - you will get nervous before and this is good. Your internal world and the external world are two different things. You need to learn what cultivates joy and peace internally.
/r/seduction15/12/16 11:18 AM
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I've been reading Thinking Fast, Then Slow. It says how we are more concerned with avoiding loss and receiving gain. The key to this is avoiding any feeling of loss. That's why Mark Mason's outlook of "talking to a girl to find out about her [be curious]" is so effective. You aren't putting your ego on the line.
/r/seduction15/12/16 11:08 AM
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In my experience, yes. First you think "wow! I can't believe this is happening - stay cool". Then you think "I guess I'm not a bad looking guy" And finally you think "looks don't matter. Boring pretty girls are still boring".
/r/seduction30/11/16 09:15 AM
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Practice mindfulness, read books on social skills to practice, and pick a hobby that excites you (eg. An instrument). At 15 you are still being psychologically molded. Although getting girls is fun, some pick-up advice is psychologically toxic, and you need enough social and life experience to discern what advice is cultivates your growth. Here's the first bit of helpful advice: find what makes you happy and learn what stops your confidence. This will make grow you into a far more attractive per…
/r/seduction07/11/16 03:11 PM
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I appreciate your response. From my perspective, every relationship goes through weak points, and if you catch a girl at a weak point, she will probably cheat. But what's the cost? You are ruining something of great value to someone else for some fun and satisfaction for yourself. Full disclosure: I have been with someone before that had a bf. But it was only after I had been in long-term relationships myself that I could see the fragility of young romance. I would rather support young love and …
/r/seduction30/10/16 05:30 PM
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One of those girls had a boyfriend. You're a cunt. Game is great, it's nice to build the skill and get what you want, but you don't have to be a cunt.
/r/seduction30/10/16 01:02 PM
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Plan a date with three unusual time-flexible parts to it, don't let her know any of the plan. It's just a simple meet-up date to her. Adventure is basically something fun you didn't know was about to unfold.
/r/seduction21/10/16 12:35 PM
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It's fine buddy. You didn't know. Just stay relaxed, acknowledge her boyfriend, and move on with a smile. You did nothing wrong -unless you were waiting for him to go to the bathroom, then if I was the bf I would hand your ass to you. It's all about integrity.
/r/seduction13/10/16 10:53 PM
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"I want physical, and mental bonding so bad". There's your problem. You need to be fulfilled yourself; you can't look to other people to fill a gap in you. Because what happens if they leave? You're lost, and need another 'other'. You are just a person and alone in your life, it's up to you to make it good with what you can control. Then other people will feel that joy and want to be part of it. Start with Models by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction02/09/16 07:38 AM
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I can't believe he didn't notice your new ring.
/r/seduction12/08/16 09:01 AM
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It says "I'm happy to leave"; demonstrates value. If you don't need x, then you have enough of x. You don't need to do that by being an asshole. It's easier to be an asshole, but weaker. Be a leader. Be a hero. Be a man of value.
/r/seduction09/06/15 10:33 AM
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