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That’s an equally bad response. If you’re married and she’s asking to fuck other dudes, the only solution is to nuke that marriage from space (an that should be a restrained response). There is no recovery from a request like that. Grow a fucking spine. Even thinking bullshit like this can be overcome is pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/22 12:11 AM
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Man…. Your post is a fever dream. I’m not going to lie, I love the raw honestly (feels like reading the transcript of a Kanye West interview). We have some things in common (experience in dirt poor SEA) and some massive deviations (I would swallow a bullet if I wrote some of the shit found in your messages 😬). To answer question 3, it depends on your country of origin (I think you’re from the US). I would strongly recommend using an alias if you’re knocking up women abroad (esp the Phillipines).…
/r/newTRP30/10/21 09:26 AM
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And, as a result, guarantees failure. It’s better to fail after trying than to fail by default.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 04:33 AM
4

Yeah I’ve seen this as well. Usually a group of neurotics leaching the crumbs of life out of each other — like a depression circlejerk. Run.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/21 07:56 PM
2

Great post overall. But who gives a fuck? You’re either an incel because you’re lazy (I.e could fix your issues but spend all day jacking off and playing video games) or you’re in the bottom 10% and have zero prospects (I.e physically/mentally disabled). Regardless, it’s not relevant. Let them do their own thing. Focus on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/21 07:55 PM
0

Great premise. Overcoming social retardation probably can be helped by a few things on spergingers list. But you’re off the mark. Massively. This list belongs in a teen girl magazine. It’s effectively a list of female solipsism mantras. This one is probably the worst: I have the right right to express all of my feelings, positive or negative. No, cunt, you don’t. You have the right to STFU and manage your fee fees like a grown male. Expressing your feelings to who? No one cares or has an obligat…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 10:51 PM
4

Are you schizophrenic?
/r/newTRP08/10/21 12:15 PM
13

Great post overall Andy. AWALT is a useful concept, but it’s useless when applied as an absolute. Copping out and declaring AWALT is a cope. But there is a portion of truth if you dig a bit deeper. I prefer to think of AWALT as shorthand for the below: the fundamental attribution error — women are people. Environment matters. Even the most respectful unicorn might be a whore given the right environment and given conditions (had a fight in the past week and now she’s at a bachelorette party). The…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/21 10:40 AM
1

Every mention to an ex in redpillistan always has the same generic comments (something something oneitis). It’s been years and you don’t sound like you have any fuzzy thinking at the moment. I reckon your birthday message idea is solid — you’ve got a good opening and should shoot your shot. Fucking an ex after a few years is an interesting experience. The sex is usually pretty good (assuming she wasn’t hopefulness in the first place) since there’s a level of obvious chemistry and your frame shou…
/r/newTRP07/10/21 10:02 PM
4

This post is a good reminder of the level of retard the internet can handle
/r/newTRP01/10/21 01:12 AM
6

OP, assuming your post isn’t a LARP, this is the most important comment here by a significant margin.
/r/askMRP30/09/21 12:43 AM
4

One of the two is true: This is a LARP. OP has given this sub bait and it was swallowed. Respect for building such a pathetic but almost believable situation. This situation is true. OP’s wife now belongs to Chad and Tyrone every weekend he continues to provide her with attention and resource provisioning.
/r/askMRP30/09/21 12:38 AM
9

Disagree. Several other examples: a severe lack of self respect being a fat pathetic cunt with no other prospects brain damage
/r/askMRP30/09/21 12:30 AM
9

This kind of shit… what the fuck? Do you have any self respect?
/r/askMRP29/09/21 08:00 AM
5

I prefer to think of the black pill as laziness with terms and conditions. 80% of men could probably do the work and get into the top 20% aesthetically. Any man in the 80% that turns to the black pill are lazy entitled cunts. 20% of men are fucked. They could hit the gym, get dental work, and improve their skincare and still be in the bottom 80%. I have no idea what they should do. The black pill is a coping strategy that propels them further into depression.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/21 11:41 PM
10

I don’t think the triple rule applies if she’s being anon on the internet. Also, 85% chance this is a nerd larping
/r/newTRP12/09/21 12:37 AM
1

All the advice from MRP is great, but what you’ve described sounds fucking awful. You’re in bed with a horrible (occasionally fatal) virus and your wife still manages to be a complete cunt. You’re putting up with mountains of disrespect. STFU is not the answer in all situations. What are you doing with your life? This sounds like a fever dream.
/r/askMRP22/08/21 01:49 AM
3

Nah you did alright. I’d have the same visceral reaction. Like another comment mentioned, the plate is probably broken.
/r/newTRP23/07/21 10:33 PM
0

Bruh, he’s 16 talking about (presumably) another minor. You don’t see an issue there?
/r/newTRP19/07/21 09:31 PM
3

Mods, this shit needs to be nuked from space.
/r/newTRP17/07/21 10:17 PM
5

That conversation will do nothing positive for your relationship. Neither will therapy. You breaking frame and saying the implicit explicitly (and encouraging her to do the same) is going to cause a rift. Honestly, this situation sounds awful. You’re not directly negotiating for pussy, but you’re close to it. Asking when she stopped being attracted to you is a great way to make her less attracted to you — women are not capable of “discussing” at that level. Good luck. I hope your an exception.
/r/askMRP17/07/21 10:16 PM
8

I respect your write up OP, but I don’t think it’s relevant to this comment. The premise made is that if his ex-wife had a hoe phase early, she wouldn’t have cheated 8 years in. Bullshit. Her getting fisted behind a 7-Eleven 8 years ago is irrelevant. She would still have cheated.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 02:43 AM
5

Concise and excellent. Thanks mate.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/21 10:20 PM
3

The first question is impossible to answer without knowing/seeing your current body structure and existing routine, muscle mass, and general gym experience. To the second point, I think you’re reading into the Tinder consensus incorrectly. Tinder sucks unless you’re in the top 10-15% of men. Which is backed up by pretty much every dating site survey.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:51 AM
7

The Manipulated Man is the most eye opening book written on intersex relationships. Nothing red pills like it. Honestly, it’s horrible and depressing to read even after talk the pill.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 10:10 PM
7

What’s with the increase in LARP content lately? Obviously this is a troll (well done, but still a troll).
/r/askMRP18/06/21 01:58 AM
21

Great advice. Except the couples therapy part. That’s a truly awful idea.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:25 PM
0

Yeah that’s a LARP. Bruh, why bother? Update the content a bit and post this on an erotica subreddit for a better response.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 06:02 AM
1

Seemed alright at the start (first 3 messages back and forth), but then you continued with the weird lunchroom colleague talk. I’d shift the conversation to real world activities (not University related — studying whateverthefuck does not signal anything) then drop an invite for coffee.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 01:30 AM
10

Found the neet
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:22 AM
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100% this. As a partial side note, if you show one of these cunty women a tiny slither of attention, they’ll jump like a fucking chihuahua and start fawning. The cunty behaviour is a personal defence mechanism — they’re internally angry about their interest and lack of chances.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 11:19 PM
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Dude.. Who gives a fuck? An ex you broke up with a year ago should have exactly zero domicile in your brain.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 08:35 AM
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You have a good nugget of wisdom, but it’s not an absolute. After a night out, it doesn’t matter how down to fuck she is. If there’s a comparable dude with a place 5 mins from the bar, you’re losing out. Logistics massively matter for night game. Having a place walking distance from a nightlife area is a fucking cheat code.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:35 AM
2

Yes. Yeah you’re not investing the time and effort in yourself, why the fuck should anyone else?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:28 PM
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Do you lift?
/r/askTRP11/06/21 07:06 AM
5

They probably get beaten at home. Or they’re cunts. Who gives a fuck? Being a retard is fine in high school. Life will violently rape them if they keep that shit up (either jail, dead, or socially rejected and working a shit job).
/r/askTRP11/06/21 06:56 AM
3

Hey now — some are clout chasing landwhales with a few kids. Stop being so exclusionary
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 04:00 AM
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God tier ☝️
/r/askTRP11/06/21 01:55 AM
2

Yes, and that’s why you shut the fuck up. She’s clearly not LTR material. Giving her a heads up increases the chance OP will let it slide.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 09:33 PM
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That response suggestion is retarded. Say nothing. Demote through your actions — don’t give any explicit “heads up”.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 08:46 PM
2

You do you OP. As someone at the same age, I’d rather fuck a warm mango than considering a 45 YO.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 05:27 AM
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I do the same. That “instant validation” is way better than the off chance I’m in court without a positive response.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:50 PM
1

Is that a typo or are you encouraging OP to fuck a passed out whore?
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:51 AM
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“I think you go to the gym too much” “Cheers mate. I enjoy it. Have a good arvo”
/r/askTRP07/06/21 01:29 AM
11

Are you cohabitating?
/r/askTRP07/06/21 12:46 AM
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Yeah, OP has his concepts fucked up. Still sucks to hear. But he probably dodged a bullet — flight attendants are glorified bartenders.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 01:51 AM
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👆👆👆👆
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:26 PM
3

First sentence is way off the mark. This was specifically because she’s away.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 07:58 AM
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Was this generated by an autistic neural network?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 07:30 AM
2

100%. I fucked around with strips, whitening paste, and weird light things at home for a few years. In the end, I paid the $180 for a dentist whitening and clean — it’s not even comparable. Go to a cosmetic dentist and get a proper whitening. Then book it in every 12~ months. It’s the bomb.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 02:29 AM
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OP, take this advice please. It will give you peace of mind. Even if you shot a load in her 9 months to the birth date.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 02:27 AM
2

Yeah it’s safe
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:18 PM
2

Wait it out. He’ll need you in a few months/years — be there to help him.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 08:55 PM
1

Seriously? If you’re still filtering her in after point 1, nothing else matters.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 08:52 PM
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It depends on the club, but it’s good to remember some places aren’t just for picking up. Some clubs exist to drop molly and dance all night. Pick your spot better. A bar with live music is probably better than a hard EDM doof.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:02 AM
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Steps below: Download Tor Visit dark.fail Google the above. If it’s too difficult, consider finding someone IRL.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:37 AM
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If 1 isn’t a red flag, what would you consider to be a red flag?
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:36 AM
2

I stick to old school bodybuilding lifts (5 days per week). I switch up the routine every 90ish days. For cardio, I stick to circuit boxing training. MMA is great as well, but prefer the cardio of boxing.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:34 AM
3

Fucking hell. This. OP, this isn’t rocket science.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:28 AM
4

Every dude should visit Thailand at least once. It’s pretty wild if you’re into pay-for-play sex adventures. Even sitting at a bar in Bangkok (in either Nana Plaza or Soi Cowboy) is a life changing view into human interactions, sex work, and what life can be like as a retired expat past 65). If you’re opposed to hookers, picking up is pretty decent in Bangkok or Chiang Mai (Pattaya is literally just hookers). Tinder is super popular and pretty easy compared to the west (but again, lots of hooker…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:37 AM
1

Most English would be Hong Kong from the list we’re chatting about. I’d personally pick Vietnam for a trip. Way less English, but a much better experience (women, food, culture, history).
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:33 AM
1

Eh, I’d reach out one more time. If she’s more interested, sick. If she’s not interested/avoids the question again, don’t reach out. She might be interested again in the future — no drama either way (it was a ONS).
/r/askTRP31/05/21 12:30 AM
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Yeah no disputing that fact. It’s mostly down to cultural norms — being a whore in Asia has worse consequences socially.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 10:31 PM
9

Not OP, but I’ve spent a ton of time in the area (all the above countries minus the Phillipines). Mainland China is interesting but not great overall. Pickup is fairly easy, but the culture is kinda dodgy/fucked. Korea has an awesome culture, nightlife, food, and fashion. But picking up in Korea is hard-mode. It’s similar to japan in that being white/western is interesting but not ideal (quite a bit of xenophobia and general dislike for outsiders). Hong Kong is basically a western city with more…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 10:23 PM
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That’s my experience as well. There job is to work and provide, her job is to have kids and support the household. It’s also pretty common to have mistresses (in SE Asia).
/r/askTRP30/05/21 10:17 PM
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Have autism.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:32 AM
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👆👆👆👆👆 All other texting rules should be regarded as retarded.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 01:14 AM
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Unpopular opinion: start approaching the bottom rung. Sex isn’t some divine thing, but your brain is being a cunt because it’s been 3 years. Go fuck a 35 year old single mother to clear the cobwebs. Very unpopular opinion: fuck it, get a hooker. I wouldn’t personally, but I’ve never been in that kind of situation. You need to devalue pussy in your brain.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 01:13 AM
5

Do it. Just be careful how low you go — it can fuck with your self esteem (after fucking a 5 or below, you might have some post nut depression). I generally trust my dick. If I have the capacity to fuck, I’ll take the best option at the time.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 01:09 AM
2

Yeah, that reply is overtly dumb. Just say “alright all good”. She’ll still jump on your dick.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:24 PM
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Step 6 is important for OP right now. Im a year, he won’t remember her bullshit and could fall for her swooning cuntness.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:21 PM
2

Yeah it’s alcohol. Also avoiding meth would be good advice.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 08:15 PM
14

It could be any number of things. One possibility that’s often not discussed is that she could be busy. If she’s a lawyer/manager/whatever, she could be prioritising work and have no interest in a LTR. She might have no interest in the effort required to maintain a legitimate relationship. Or any of the 1000+ other possibilities.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:15 AM
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Post breakup advice: gym. avoid grog. In my case, it has nothing but negatives after a breakup. start IRL approaching now. get a haircut.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:00 AM
2

The feedback here is unhelpful as fuck. OP, your profile needs work but you put in a decent amount of effort posting here (and had the balls to share your profile — props for that you crazy cunt). My feedback: remove gaming/gamer as a tag. On what planet do you think that’s making a girl moist? remove the car selfies. Unless you’re in a Maserati, that screams nerd (IMO). If you have to have a selfie, be somewhere interesting at least. Ideally, no selfie (put your iPhone in a cup). trim down your…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 04:17 AM
2

I used to mock this statement. Until I had a deep gut feeling. It was right. I let the issue slide. 3 months later, same feeling. Validated. Scorched earth. Trust your gut, always.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:22 AM
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Step 1: go to pub anytime after 5pm. Step 2: say hey to slag. Step 3: sloppy gobby. The UK was more “open” than most of the US after one bev.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 07:40 PM
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Very important distinction. It’s a Venn diagram where tradcon/general conservative thinking and RP overlap. The difference is in the cause/effect process. In tradcon land, the man needs to “do better and work harder” to fix any problems caused by his women. In RP land, the solution could be a demotion to plate, soft/hard next, or reduced communication. A perfect tradcon utopia is a great theory (also impractical), but it’s useless for sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 07:33 PM
3

This. OP, you’re fucking up somewhere but we can’t tell with the info provided.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:27 PM
3

That’s a weird way to frame life. I’ve been with women all over the SMV spectrum. They’re all high maintenance eventually. And you’ll find a 10 less appealing after the fifth fuck and crave newness (male nature bruh).
/r/askTRP07/05/21 07:57 PM
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Huh.. it’s a post on Quora, but it’s well formed and solid advice. I’m buying a lottery ticket.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 07:55 PM
3

Damn bro there’s some absolute vomit in your question. I won’t bury the lede: the answer is to ghost. Anything else opens a dialog that’s impossible to control. leaving me without closure Vomit. Are you a women? There is no such thing as closure. Stop eating Disney movies.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 10:23 PM
4

Obviously, this is MRP so marriage is a given. But dude.. what the fuck are you doing? You’re married to a (your words) fat old hag. You’re acting like a showdog trying to jump through hoops to keep her happy. I’m not saying your should nuke the marriage, but you should really get some perspective if you’re in prime shape and living with a cunty land whale.
/r/askMRP06/05/21 10:19 PM
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“What are you studying” is my go-to. If they’re in University, they’ll tell you the course. If they’re not in uni, you proceed with more caution.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:09 PM
7

I see you’re allergic to the sidebar. But I won’t be a cunt. Google Iron Rule of Tomassi #4.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:36 PM
2

No. I’d rather be single than marry an ugmo
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:29 PM
2

Checks out with my personal experience. Dick in crazy is fun as fuck. Until she cuts up your passport because she’s convinced you’re going to move to another country to avoid her (absolute cute — god-tier root).
/r/askTRP01/05/21 11:37 PM
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I’ve gone pretty heavy on the below over the last year — the benefits have been noticeable: Haircut AND styling. Get better at styling your hair for your face shape and outfit selection. Or get a solid undercut if you’re jacked. Fashion. The homos as malefashionadvice have some pretty decent outfits for inspiration — just don’t bring up lifting (they’re deluded and like to believe you can polish a land whale with Redwings). Teeth. Dentist whitening > home job.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 09:24 PM
5

Seeing a plate on a Friday is usually better than a Saturday IMO. If they counter offer with something specific, I take it (unless I’m busy). If it’s bullshit like “maybe next week”, that’s when you reject.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 09:20 PM
4

That “shit test” example is retarded. If my LTR said that, I’d ask if she drank a thermometer and fried her brain.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 07:40 PM
37

Why the fuck are you swiping on whales in the first place?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 08:22 PM
0

What. The. Fuck. Cunt.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 07:04 AM
15

Most of this is 100% on point. We have different definitions of “red flag”. That would be a “I’m packing my shit. Later” flag IMO.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:04 AM
5

What’s the catchup context?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:59 AM
2

OP, look your old man. Get him in the gym (if he’s out of shape, a few months will dramatically improve his life). If he’s in shape already, this is a blessing for him.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 08:57 AM
5

I’m picturing the type you have in mind. The kind you meet at an “alt” nightclub playing Lil Peep, Blink 182, and Nirvana. Yeah I’d do it. Generally, they’re not attractive.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 12:08 AM
2

I’ve been in similar situations. It’s not uncommon for some women to dislike constant ONS with strangers. One chick I was seeing years ago would come over and fuck after I’d finish up with another plate — she gave zero fucks and was happy to root, smoke some weed, and watch the movie Kids (she loved that movie and Jennifer’s Body... weird tradition). After a few months, she ended up meeting a dude and got into an LTR (she’s married with kids now). In summary, some bitches don’t like picking up a…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 12:04 AM
21

I’m glad you’re not playing an orbiter role, but that text exchange is awful. Your goals are also retarded. You want to sperg out at a bitch, so she loses her cool, so you can “come back” at her with something witty? That’s not how you get pussy — that’s how you get painted as someone with a mental disorder.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/21 06:52 AM
1

That’s normal. Drunk cunts are going to be drunk cunts. Side note, that wouldn’t happen if you looked like Ronnie Coleman. Either ignore or look into AMOGing.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:59 AM
6

You can’t negotiate desire. Say that in the mirror daily. Words to live by.
/r/seduction19/04/21 10:56 PM
0

Yes
/r/askTRP19/04/21 10:55 PM
1

That will happen. Onto the next one.
/r/seduction19/04/21 08:49 PM
10

Pretty sure OP was implying there are solutions to remove the kid before it’s born.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:48 PM
2

Shit son. No more inspo needed.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 09:04 PM
5

Best answer by a large margin. You’ve done what you can. She will either believe you (and probably reduce contact with the friend) or she won’t and will continue to bring this up as a weapon. If she’s bringing this up often, next her. You don’t want that in your life (experience speaking here).
/r/askTRP18/04/21 09:02 PM
2

I enjoy those situations. I had something similar happen this week. Hold frame. Don’t give her solutions (if you’re a competent male, that will be your default mindset). Take her out for a coffee/breakfast. Women are hilarious. They can go from being an emotional train-wreck to being happy as fuck based on your mood and the environment.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 09:42 PM
2

I use a Polaroid camera. Zero resistance so far (including ONS).
/r/askTRP17/04/21 09:39 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 06:54 AM
6

Sounds like dumb advice, but it’s pretty accurate. One addition: maintain and prioritise your male relationships.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 06:53 AM
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That’s normal for most dudes. The only cure is practice. Keep approaching. Keep fucking up. Eventually you’ll get better. Obviously it’ll help if you’re improving your SMV as well.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 10:07 PM
2

Yeah dude none of that is “normal”. Don’t write that off as women being women — that’s an actual mentally ill human that needs to be reported to the police before she kidnaps, tortures, and murders your entire family.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 10:46 PM
3

This ⬆️. It’s not bullshit. They are fiends in bed. Usually neurotic, so beware.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:46 PM
6

Absolutely. They kinda had to develop this still as a sex to survive. What OP should do is pay close attention to her. You might hear a compelling story, but you’ll pick up on bullshit in your gut. Trust yourself only.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:45 PM
4

OP delivered — rare!
/r/seduction08/04/21 08:34 PM
10

Dumb as fuck question. But I get what you’re asking. In my experience, the beer drinking girls (vs wine or spirit bitches) are generally easier. They’re also usually more bloke like and usually plumpy cunts.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 02:02 AM
2

She’s a plate not an LTR. It happens. Wear a condom.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 12:45 AM
2

The last paragraph and final sentence are absolute gold.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 11:53 PM
5

I’d take a big dose of STFU for a while. Don’t talk to her unless she reaches out first. She might come back for a root in a few weeks. But yeah, that plate is effectively broken. There’s nothing you can do to “fix” that.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 04:50 AM
2

After making out with the first girl, the second usually comes easier for me. Like another poster mentioned, it’s social proof. I also get a minor high from the first win (even if she doesn’t want to leave).
/r/askTRP27/02/21 02:11 AM
1

And do what with the cameras? Record all sex forever?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:56 AM
3

Yeah came here to say the same
/r/askTRP24/02/21 08:31 PM
8

Only if you’re Arab. Not really the same vibe. More of a cafe equivalent.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 07:45 PM
3

Probably a good idea.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:17 AM
6

Don’t follow this advice. Ultimatums are pathetic. You have enough information to make up your mind.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:15 AM
15

👆👆👆 The only question is price. She had shown herself to consider sex as a saleable asset. Do not LTR.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:35 AM
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You’re not a fraud for shutting the fuck up, you’re a well adjusted human. It’s not your place to educate people irl. You should define yourself by your own standards. That has nothing to do with autistically telling someone how to think/your opinion — you’re speaking like a women.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 09:37 PM
9

Reading your post and comments is very refreshing. You’re level headed and seem to be working hard to learn. You’ve learned a valuable lesson. Don’t let a woman into the sausage factory. I think this will end up being an important experience in the long term
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:51 PM
4

Yet your handle is hiding from the wife?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:18 AM
9

Upvoted for the last two. Hitting a chick with the Grindr line is a good way to filter for a decent banter ability. If she respond with “really!?” I can confirm that she’s a dumb cunt and not useful for more than fucking.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:17 AM
2

I’ve enjoyed an orgy or two in the past. Honestly, more than 2 women at a time is overrated.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:14 AM
2

I draw the line at 18 personally. The legal age of consent in my country is 16. I draw the line at 18 because I like to meet at bars, which we can do here legally. What’s stoping me from going younger? Well law is an obvious answer. But the true answer is I’m attracted to young women (not girls). My cock likes 18 year olds. It’s the same reason I’m not fucking a 40 year old — my cock isn’t a fan.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 10:43 PM
11

👆👆👆👆 This x10. The younger she is, the more she craves the feefees and the less she will handle anything that stops the feefees for even a moment.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 10:39 PM
1

Funny to read and imagine. I wouldn’t do it personally and would instead block and move on. The ramp up the humour, how about going with HIV. Making sure you note the testable period is 9 months after exposure (keep them sweating hardcore for a few months).
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:30 PM
4

Smoking weed and freaking out isn’t a panic attack. Don’t worry about it — anyone that smokes weed for long enough knows it happens.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:23 PM
1

Are you autistic? You can’t read shit from a girl wearing short shorts. Is she hot? Fuck her.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 01:25 AM
1

Clubbing in the UK (London, at least) is absolutely not a disaster (pre-COVID, obviously).
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:29 AM
2

Don’t bother cutting them out. There’s probably value in the friend group. I’d approach them individually and ask what they’ve been saying. Make it clear you’re unhappy and will break faces if it continues. Problem should solve itself.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:27 PM
2

It’s not about making her hate it but preventing arguments. Don’t engage.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:57 PM
2

Yeah 100%, but OP still handled himself very well. Plenty of room to improve, but he’s obviously building his self respect and improving.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:56 PM
13

Depends how ugly/fat we’re talking — there’s always a line where your dick will say “no chance bro”. Otherwise, yeah, slay the dragon.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 02:49 AM
0

Dude, this is way beyond askMRP if the details above are true. Get a lawyer for the police fuckary. Then get a lawyer to either start or prepare for the divorce rape. What you have described is insane. Staying with this women (even for the kid) is horrible. No child should be around a neurotic cunt like your wife.
/r/askMRP30/12/20 06:53 PM
2

Say nothing directly. He’s not going to listen at 22 if divorced partywhore was his first kiss, root, and LTR. Buy him a copy of TRM for Christmas and hope he reads it.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:19 PM
24

Agreed and to pile on slightly: he’s 22 and just had his first kiss and root. There’s no chance he’s going to listen and will probably shoot the messenger.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:17 PM
3

Yeah dude — that’s the same for everyone. Seriously, pull your shit together and build a social circle.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:52 AM
2

Bukowski was able to fuck constantly while he was working at a Post Office, had no money, was a severe alcoholic, lived in hellhole boarding houses, and was physically fucked — a true sick cunt 🔥
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:48 AM
1

Yes, normal biology. You could be fucking the objectively most attractive women on earth and you would eventually crave new pussy. We’re programmed to spread our seed far and wide.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:01 AM
1

I wouldn’t put much belief in a women telling me that. However, it’s 100% the case for some. A cousin of mine was on the pill and she told me her sex drive dropped to zero for years (then skyrocketed after getting off it with her new husband to try for kids).
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:51 PM
1

Are you going for the dumb cunt of the year award?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 01:48 AM
1

Is this a humble brag? How the fuck is this a problem?
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:18 AM
4

You need to live your life my dude. I hung out with some older degenerates at 18. Generally, it was alright. One dude just wanted an in on my friend group to crush puss. In exchange, he would shout weed and let us smash cones in his shed. I’ve always suspected I would do the same at 30 (getting closer now and would rather fuck a cactus). If he’s a burnout (no job, education, or interesting life experience) don’t take his advice.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:16 AM
2

Unless your mom asked you to kick him out, it’s not your place. If she’s happy dating a fuckwitt, who the fuck are you to dictate her life? Tell your relatives to grow a sack and talk to him if they have an issue. If she asks you to kick him out, do it in person. He might smack momma for getting her big boy to call up from the other side of the country.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:10 AM
6

The nice knowing you line can probably be omitted
/r/askTRP05/11/20 01:00 AM
3

Gotcha. Well my dude, make up your mind: are you going to give her a pass or not? Once you’ve figured that out, move forward with your decision. Don’t sit back and be a passenger — you need to get your future in order now.
/r/askMRP05/11/20 12:57 AM
7

Man that’s a lot to unpack. The first thing I’m interested to know is what you heard. Most dudes here (myself included) are jaded and expect the worst — “she probably is cheating”. But I want to know how solid the overheard infidelity is in reality. You claim 95% certainty. Is it possible you’re being neurotic? let’s assume the worst From reading your victim puke, it sounds like you’re considering staying if she has been unfaithful (you make the comment about kids and the fact that you’re still …
/r/askMRP05/11/20 12:09 AM
0

Yeah, don’t do that. This isn’t 1999.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:31 PM
1

I think your response is fine (it could have been much worse — none would have been better). Yes this is final. Do not respond. You do not need to tel her she has your number (really bruh?). Leave it be. If she’s dtf on a Saturday night, sick. If you never hear from her again, also sick.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:28 PM
1

Fucking vomit. Reading erotica-type messages to a girl is pathetic. Show don’t tell bro.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:25 PM
1

I have a cousin with diagnosed BPD. Trust me, 90% of the stories you read here about “BPD” girls are bullshit (they’re just girls with their period or average neurotic tendencies). If you meet a girl with legit BPD, fucking run. Pussy is not worth your life.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:23 PM
1

☝️☝️☝️ Or: “my sign is an Aquarius” if you want to be a funny cunt
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:24 PM
6

No, you retard.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 08:19 PM
1

Only you can answer that question bro. I’d rather raw dog a camel than do any of that shit. Stand around with your shirt off and have an 8 pack — 100% chance you’ll pick up at that party. Or.. you know.. have an 8 ball of white. Either way, fuck that. I don’t envy your shitscape of a location for your age (if you’re over 21, go to the club like a normal cunt).
/r/askTRP31/10/20 03:16 AM
4

Dude the answer to that is easy as fuck: stop using your cousin as a wing. Go out alone. Boom. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:47 AM
1

5 min. 7 is stretch goal. 5 strength. 2 cardio.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:36 AM
1

☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:35 AM
2

Like other replies have mentioned, this depends massively on your age and living arrangements. If you’re young as fuck and live under his roof, keep eating the shit and get ready to move out when you can. If you’re older than early/mid twenties and only see him occasionally, bring it up. I’d tell my old boy to chill his shit over a beer at the pub. He’d probably be receptive and chill out. YMMV.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:33 AM
1

Like other replies have mentioned, this depends massively on your age and living arrangements. If you’re young as fuck and live under his roof, keep eating the shit and get ready to move out when you can. If you’re older than early/mid twenties and only see him occasionally, bring it up. I’d tell my old boy to chill his shit over a beer at the pub. He’d probably be receptive and chill out.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:33 AM
7

Op said he’s studying software engineering
/r/askTRP30/10/20 02:39 AM
2

I personally would rather insert a cactus anally. A virtual date sounds like pure hell. You get all the downsides of a date with no upside.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 01:37 AM
6

Yeah, that’s weird. You seem to have handled it fine. I personally wouldn’t share shit about my personal life with a subordinate (or to my manager in the reversed position).
/r/askTRP29/10/20 04:31 AM
2

Dude... you’re current option is not an option. You can’t treat yourself like this. Even blue pilled cunts know LDRs are a train wreck.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 03:26 AM
5

Read the Rational Male. A LDR is not a relationship. How do you cure this? Grow a sack, hit the gym, work on other women. The clock is ticking in a LDR for the first person to cheat (spoiler: it’s probably her and probably already happened).
/r/askTRP28/10/20 10:52 PM
7

To step back just a bit, this is way beyond the scope of normal TRP/MRP. You’re living with a psychotic human with a very serious mental Illness. You do not want this burden. Fucking run. DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN. Just my two cents — good luck brother!
/r/askMRP28/10/20 10:04 PM
13

I always find this to be a narcissistic mental issue. Bro, you’re not special. No one gives a flying fuck about you in the gym — I’m trying to beat my PB. Legit, no one cares about you
/r/askMRP28/10/20 09:55 PM
1

I’d be more concerned about hep c and antibiotic resistant gonorrhoea.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 07:27 AM
2

I’ve never had this issue with a family member. And I have some pretty retarded family members. You need to stop engaging. If he doesn’t listen to your lifting advice, stop telling him about it. If he continues to be annoying, stop working out with him. I’d rather lose a spotter than waste my energy explaining shit to a retard.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:03 AM
1

Professional photos will help if you have shit photos. If you already have reasonably decent photos, they likely won’t add much benefit.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:00 AM
21

Good fucking luck getting her to agree.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 02:03 AM
10

Fuck I’m proud of the comment section here. I was expecting retards enabling/encouraging your dumbcunt pussy behaviour. You have zero spine. You went out fucking plates and got caught — now you’re crying like a bitch because your actions have consequences. It sounds like you’ve destroyed your wife’s mental health and she’s literally on the verge of suicide — and all you can do is complain that she won’t fuck you anymore. AND YOU STOPPED SPINNING PLATES. So you get caught and then hamster around …
/r/askMRP24/10/20 09:51 PM
3

Jesus fuck. OP, there’s nothing we can say or do to help you. If you are still with this women, you’re beyond helping. There is no fixing this trainwreck. Either exit or you’ll be investing in $ROPE.
/r/askMRP22/10/20 07:43 PM
1

Don’t reach out again. If she messages you on a Saturday night (10PM - 3AM) looking for dick, yeah do it. Other than that, forget she exists.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 10:41 PM
2

What you’re describing is both useless and impossible. Women do not use logic like men — trying to force it with facts and argument is dumb as fuck. Women will always play the victim. Water is always wet. For a macro example, “women are the real victims of war”.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 09:42 PM
1

Only one way to find out. Field report plz.
/r/askMRP21/10/20 05:49 AM
2

I think every male will try having a platonic female friend at least once in their life. I jump back and forth on this quite often. My long standing opinion (based on personal experience): It’s possible to have a platonic female friend for a period of time. They can be quite enjoyable to hang out with and talk to (as if they’re a normal bro). Eventually, the debt will come due. Either you or her will get the feelz or root urges. I’ve never had a female friend (someone closer than an acquaintance…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 12:23 AM
16

Dropping attention to 0 after the first root has always been a winner from my experience (depending on your mindset, it might be a pre-conditioned default). I never considered this a gauge of her quality (I.e if she doesn’t reach out, then having a ONS is fairly normalised in her mind), but that’s a very useful idea. Bizarre as fuck writing style, but I love the quality ✌️
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 12:03 AM
2

Like u/financialthanks1 said, you’ll want to lose the chip on your shoulder real quick. Being self confident will take you miles. Being the “hard working, disciplined, high test” dude from a blue collar background that’s irritated by upper middle class students your own age because they’re all full of themselves is a sure fire way to be cast aside by the group. Not trying to be a dick — I’m from a blue collar familiar and had the same thoughts when I first went to uni (I was also blown away by h…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 11:48 PM
2

Yeah I actually agree. I’m not trying to give the PT a pass for being a cunt. My main issue is with the claim that the PT was being a cunt because a chick was there — nah, he was being a cunt because he’s in a shit job and is incentivised to keep the client paying him happy. I’m not some stoic saint. If I was in the same situation, I’d be calling the pt and windy bitch a cunt. What the pt did was a sign of disrespect (not really humiliation). I don’t really see how this situation has anything to…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 11:05 PM
3

Our definitions of “humiliated” are very different. It doesn’t sound like the PT was being aggressive in front of a women. The cunt is at work and one of his clients had a request — he asked you to do something, you didn’t, he then found a solution to keep his client happy. He’s not your mate. He’s a service worker.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 09:29 PM
2

You have the the best context for the situation. It sounds like she might be interested in catching up for a root. Do it. Sounds like a good afternoon. Side note: you seem to be slipping into unicorn territory. Just be mindful of that if you’re meeting up to smash (she’s going to be fucking you while there’s a new guy she’s “happy” with — probably not great LTR material).
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:43 AM
30

She gets a slight dopamine rush from the validation and a warm fuzzy feeling that she has options if the new situation falls through. It’s hard to say dude. We don’t have the full context of your entire relationship with her. Do you think she’s trying to hookup?
/r/askTRP19/10/20 11:02 PM
59

That’s a scrambled mess of inconsistency. It reads like she’s trying to get you orbiting. Either don’t reply or hit her with the TU emoji 👍
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:52 PM
2

I wouldn’t remove her from social media. Just stop lurking/communicating on there. If you can’t stop scrolling her IG and emoting to her stories, delete her.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:43 PM
1

What are you implying by this? All women intuitively know how to suck dick like a hoodrat? No. It’s a learned skill that’s not installed at the factory.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:38 PM
4

I’m irritated by reading your post. Fuck that. Too many hoops.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:35 PM
2

Grow a fucking sack. She’s not sending you 20 messages a day praising your god dick — that’s normal. Yeah, hit her up tomorrow to hang out. It will happen or it won’t. Nothing so far hints at any issue except your insane rumination. Also, we’re over 11 — fuck and pussy don’t need censoring.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:32 PM
4

Really interesting situation (there are several great replies). I agree with the sentiment that breaking frame in this situation is appropriate. I would actually go a step further and say it’s the only reasonable option if you’re not jumping straight to the hard next (which wouldn’t be a bad idea). You did much better than I would in the same situation. Losing it in the car and only escalating to telling her what she did was wrong is a very respectable response (it’s shameful to admit, but I wou…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 10:55 PM
1

Super normal. It’s her internal ASD. Hook up another date at her place (if she isn’t living with parents).
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:40 AM
1

If you’re hearing that from multiple sources (not just plates), it’s time to consider what they’re telling you. Did they give you any solid examples?
/r/askTRP18/10/20 01:55 AM
7

I’ve spent a lot of time in poorer countries. This is very common. Local girls getting with an American/Canadian/Brit/Aussie are winning the fucking lottery. Don’t rush into anything. You might not want to believe it, but AWALT is true across cultures (Islam does a very interesting job of perverting the desires of women and causing them to slut out in bizarre ways — if she wears a burqa you can read the desire from her eyes).
/r/askTRP17/10/20 09:56 PM
1

This is fucking atrocious. Put down the phone. Forget about girls for a bit and fix your self confidence. Fucking hell.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 07:59 AM
1

Sounds crazy. If she looks fucked soft next.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:38 AM
1

Having good mates in your life is awesome. It also has sweet fuck all to do with TRP.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:36 AM
1

Dumb cunt
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:28 AM
3

Male relationships shouldn’t need constant pinging. Seeing an old friend once every 3 years is fine. You can still be friends. People are busy doing shit in their lives. Don’t cut someone off because they’re not ducking your dick every Saturday.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 10:29 PM
4

It’s the fundamental reason we live (from a biological perspective). I want my bloodline to continue into the future. How am I budgeting for the hardship? Not sure how to answer — what in life worth doing lacks hardship?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 08:58 PM
15

You’re 20 and have already figured out you have an issue. Good work mate. Now get into the gym (start with a chest workout). Nothing will beat having a solid body. From there, start working on the other areas of your life (career and personal relationships). Once you’ve built a decent life, you will be less influenced by other cunts (also, age does help — trust me).
/r/askTRP16/10/20 08:53 PM
1

Stop messaging. Do not accept the friendzone — ignore any future messages/contact (unless the message is “come fuck me?”). Leave here be. Go crush new puss.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 08:51 PM
2

Stop messaging. Do not accept the friendzone. Leave here be. Go crush new puss.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 08:50 PM
5

Hey dude, I’m in the same situation. Those are all solid goals. You putting in place any strategies to prevent sliding back to the ex? Or do you have no worries about that happening? In my case. The LTR was 9 years, so I’m setting up some pretty rigid “incase of dumb fuck urges, do this instead”.
/r/askMRP16/10/20 12:39 AM
7

I don’t know what you’re expecting to hear. No man “prefers” older women unless they have some kind of kink. We’re naturally attracted to youth (biologically we are driven to the womb most likely to give us a birthed child). However, you might start to find older women bearable the older you get (by older I mean the same age — I can’t imagine fucking women 5-10 years older than me). Or you won’t and you’ll continue to crave 18 yo pussy. You’re thinking is natural — there’s no fighting nature on …
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:45 PM
15

Climbing the hierarchy of a family is an odd quest. My family is full of insane old dudes. We don’t play any hierarchy shit. You show respect to the old cunts because they shot a load in grandma a while ago and will be dead soon. If you’re young (say under 22), you probably don’t have much to contribute. Work on yourself and respect will come.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 08:54 AM
5

Chalk it up as a learning experience. Go smash a few beers. Jump on tinder and find a ONS (meet at her place).
/r/askTRP15/10/20 08:50 AM
3

Hey dude, I’m sorry as fuck for your situation. I can’t imagine losing a child. That’s crushing to hear. No idea what your situation is, but you should consider seeing a male psychologist. Your situation is a metric ton more complex than anything I (or anyone else from the internet) can help with directly. Alternatively, grab a book on CBT.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 05:29 AM
3

Hey dude, We’re in very similar situations and ages (I’m being things with my LTR in a few days — getting my shit in order). Send me a message if you want a virtual wing along the way ✌️
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:02 AM
1

Highlighting the lie and taking a few days to think is the best advice I could imagine. In my opinion, the hearts on her story aren’t a major issue. If she owned it and was open about it (and wasn’t replying with some hoe shit), thats a fact of life on Instagram. I’d probably make a mental note of the dude and mention it if I saw him at the pub. The issue is the dishonesty. Women are naturally deceptive and default to the easiest action to avoid losing face. I wouldn’t let that slide and would m…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:39 AM
14

No. Stop texting. You’re in her frame and there’s no recovering at this point (you’re only going to make yourself internally and externally more pathetic if you continue letting her set the rules). Get out there and approach other girls. If you see her in a club next year and she’s down to root, fuck her in the car park. Then get back to the bar and have another pint.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:20 AM
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