brian114 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
42	It gets better		brian114	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/22 11:25 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Do you pay on the first date? Agreed! I’m retired from the game. How ever I would always have multiple back up plans and start the date with a drink. This way I’m paying for 1 drink and not 1 meal if I can sense she’s there for free food. Happened sooooo many times I lost faith. Hell I had a girl cut a date short because she had another date, then told me I was #3 that same day alone. It’s a cold world and these women with tinder are out of control. It’s nothing but a game to them, become colder	/r/seduction	09/01/25 12:01 AM
2	Do you pay on the first date? Yea also so much stuff happening there is all sorts of conversation starters	/r/seduction	08/01/25 07:15 PM
1	Do you pay on the first date? Arcades are great if that fits your personality and who you are looking for. Competition is great way to bring out the personality. Wild card may help you out as well. Spontaneity also helps. Example went to a tattoo convention as a first date (I don’t have any tats), park free concerts, haunted ghost tours	/r/seduction	08/01/25 07:12 PM
1	Do you pay on the first date? Then absolutely I agree! Causal and keeping things straight forward may be your best approach. There are always creative options. I also respect the no drinking but that is very difficult as the reality that most people use it as a social lubricant to fight off nerves and jitters (Me)	/r/seduction	08/01/25 07:06 PM
0	Do you pay on the first date? Depends you trying to date long term then yes find a girl who doesn’t care. Coffee date also is more business so if you are trying to seduce, not a whole lot of room there. Adding more fun for example brunch and day drink works 100x better than just coffee if you have a short intent and is more fun. Dating is 50% logistics	/r/seduction	08/01/25 06:57 PM
-5	Do you pay on the first date? Yes and no! Coffee by some and a large part of women is seen as a low effort idea and turn off. Depends what the objective is here: dating, socializing, sex, numbers, etc….	/r/seduction	08/01/25 06:51 PM
-1	Do you pay on the first date? Yes! In America if you don’t pay there is no second date. How ever first go out for a casual cocktail and have multiple locations and reservations beforehand. Sometimes you can tell the vibe is completely off and or if the person is just there for a free meal. This cocktail nothing crazy can save you a lot of money in the long run. Also multiple reservations because some girls truly deserve a nice meal and some others are bare minimum and straight to the sac. Open to sharing more info if anyone …	/r/seduction	08/01/25 06:50 PM
1	"How do I ask for a woman's number?" Always remember for women: out of sight out of mind. Even if she liked you. The moment you walk away she will not think about you again	/r/seduction	16/06/24 10:25 PM
2	A quick guide: why you should never try to win back an ex Also can you send me the post you are referring to, i can’t find it	/r/seduction	05/06/24 03:25 AM
14	A quick guide: why you should never try to win back an ex Out of sight out of mind is 100% accurate	/r/seduction	05/06/24 03:25 AM
0	What's your the best advice you have regarding the dating world nowadays? I have so much to say on this topic, but to make it simple. Leave America and go to another country. The dating pool here is small limited and mostly tainted. It only gets worse when you hit 30 unless you’re willing to settle for being a stepdad or take someone with very serious emotional issues. I say go to another country and find a higher quality.	/r/seduction	26/03/24 08:38 AM
1	It gets better Completely agree. Its the end of one chapter, not the book.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/05/22 06:34 PM
1	It gets better Im glad. I hope you find peace one day. I think we all deserve that at least	/r/Divorce_Men	18/05/22 02:35 AM
1	It gets better Yea dude I joined mens group online, therapy and just talking. Its not perfect and not every day is the best but there is hope. Wish you the best	/r/Divorce_Men	18/05/22 02:34 AM
1	It gets better The big red dog ?	/r/Divorce_Men	17/05/22 02:04 AM
1	It gets better Still hope you are doing better.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/05/22 02:03 AM
2	It gets better Whats holding you back brother ?	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/22 04:03 AM
1	It gets better Brother we are all here for you. Few suggestions: 1-Join a mens group, i joined Mens group online, these guys literally saved my life and still talk to many of them. 2-This is ground zero. As you pick up the pieces decide which ones you want to pick up and which ones you want to leave. 3- This is the reality. Don’t live in dreamland like i did for almost a year, hoping, pretending, wishful thinking are the enemy. Stick with facts and reality. 4- If its over, its over. Block her on everything. Do…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/22 04:02 AM
1	It gets better This is some inspirational shit man. Thank you for sharing	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/22 03:52 AM
2	It gets better Yea man it’s not about her but honestly it helps to see what there is on the other side and go from a person who is dragging me down to someone who is building me up. If tomorrow we break up it feels good to know everything will still be good because im a better person now.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/22 03:52 AM