brianscalabrainey Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	Probably needs to be said about looksmaxxing... Unless you're top 1%, physical looks are a feature for women, not the main course Right but the guy who is suave / charismatic / ambitious / assertive while unattractive will get laid way more than the attractive guy with no game	/r/seduction	20/05/26 12:02 AM
0	What makes women feel sexual energy/Sexual tension from men Women prioritizing facial structure / looks makes very minimal sense from a biological standpoint. It may help - but it does NOT signal evolutionary success. What does are things like assertiveness, ambition, discipline, intelligence, social savvy, charisma, etc. That's what gets men to the top of the heap - and what women recognize and are attracted to. PUA stuff is meant to build your inner game to develop those qualities and your outer game to display those qualities. Thinking jaw surgery wil…	/r/seduction	10/07/25 01:42 PM
3	What makes women feel sexual energy/Sexual tension from men You should be flirting pretty immediately - but not all flirting is sexual. Create a playful vibe that engages her emotionally rather than logically. If she is playful in response you escalate, verbally and physically - but very subtly. Don't jump from 1 to 10. Move to a 2, but continue to be playful. Go up to a 3-4, pull back and shift to a bit of getting to know you, shift back into flirting. She's the barometer - if she's showing crazy interest you can move faster and get more sexual.	/r/seduction	10/07/25 01:36 PM
8	Maintaining your Masculine Energy while being in a relationship Processed foods are terrible for you.	/r/seduction	01/07/25 02:08 PM
3	Confidence hits harder to women when it looks unjustified and you have no objective reason to be so comfortable with yourself Great post. One thing I’d add is that this is not simply a switch you can flip. For this to be natural and authentic you need to live a purpose driven life. Strive to achieve things in your life besides women (and video games don’t count, it has to be in the real world). Put yourself in uncomfortable situations and push yourself. Once you actually and genuinely feel good about your direction in life you can act on advice like this from a place of authentic confidence.	/r/seduction	26/06/25 12:43 AM
2	Getting laid, but feeling empty That's really cool! I think finding and pursuing your passions will help with the emptiness. Women won't ever be able to fill that	/r/seduction	20/06/25 03:32 PM
7	Getting laid, but feeling empty You need to find purpose and meaning outside of dating. You can’t rely on women to fill the emptiness. What are your dreams and goals, and how are you working towards them?	/r/seduction	20/06/25 11:44 AM
20	Some girls are not into cold approaches, and that's ok It’s not the girl, it may be the time though. Sometimes people are going through shit and not interested in dating, are in some kind of rush, or just in a pissy mood.	/r/seduction	03/06/25 08:59 PM
25	Why Meeting Women in Real Life Makes You Unstoppable Except building social skills, understanding how to approach and flirt and close, pushing yourself out of your comfort zone, and building your social circle does make you more attractive.	/r/seduction	23/01/25 03:55 PM
-1	8 mistakes guys make on a date that make you look like a fool Correct, you should be so secure in your value that you can’t conceive of her not showing up and getting a chance to get to know you. At the same time it’s basic courtesy to text to confirm plans - whether with a friend or date - as long you’re doing it out of basic communication skills and not out of insecurity. Especially if you understand that SHE might be worried you won’t show - the text is a nice gesture that will win you points.	/r/seduction	22/09/24 12:07 PM
9	Unpopular opinion: most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex. We just feel immense amount of pressure to make moves on dates because we don't want to be friendzoned. I think we have different premises. I don’t believe a fun date has to entail sex and I don’t believe spending time connecting with someone emotionally and intellectually is necessarily a waste of time.	/r/seduction	19/09/22 11:36 AM
21	Unpopular opinion: most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex. We just feel immense amount of pressure to make moves on dates because we don't want to be friendzoned. I would rather have sex only with people you feel a deeper connection to and see a potential future with. If it goes beyond the third date I’m assuming it’ll happen soon anyway, as there’s lots of mutual interest. So my genuine counter question is, if you’re looking for something serious, what’s the rush?	/r/seduction	19/09/22 01:44 AM
8	My super simple “Basic Guy Game” structure that will help you get comfortable meeting new women. I mean…do you not see how this also applies in reverse?	/r/seduction	04/09/22 09:19 PM
1	10 Months of Successful Dating in New York City: A Summary and Analysis Great write up. Curious how you would have adjusted your strategy if you focused only on finding a long term partner. Would you have tried to screen more earlier (more messages before a date invite?)? Would you try to hold off on having sex? Did you notice a difference in women that wanted to have sex sooner v later? And do you think your messaging strategy may have (inadvertently or not) selected for women looking for just a hookup / casual situation?	/r/seduction	07/04/22 01:44 PM
0	10 Months of Successful Dating in New York City: A Summary and Analysis If you’re in a smaller city you could do the same thing with much less money…	/r/seduction	07/04/22 01:41 PM
8	Am I delusional for thinking i can score hot women despite being short, skinny, mediocre job. Should i settle? Can you elaborate	/r/seduction	21/03/22 03:05 PM
2	What I've learned after 450+ approaches in 2 months What’s stacking?	/r/seduction	02/09/21 11:21 AM
1	Stop Being Ashamed of Your Masculinity What if I’m ashamed for not having a sex drive?	/r/seduction	22/07/21 12:21 AM