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So it is the burden of the wife to stop her husband from cheating? What?
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/18 05:05 PM
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I can’t speak for myself, but my friend is 6 feet tall and her boyfriend is 5’8”. She was insecure about her height before she met him, but now she will happily pose in photos beside him with no problems at all. Height doesn’t matter when you’re deep in love. He is still the dominant one, despite the height difference, because he is slightly older than her, has a high status job and makes more money, and is popular in his friend group. Height doesn’t matter to a lot of men, especially those on t…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/18 01:34 PM
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I love my mother but I don’t really like her that much. I talk to her and Dad on the phone every two weeks and text sporadically throughout the week. They lives 150 miles away and I visit them irregularly, every two months or so. I fucking hate the town I was brought up in and they still live in, so I try to avoid it as much as I can. As it stands though, I haven’t been to visit in over 6 months due to moving to a new city and then a while later moving to a new house within that new city. I rare…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 10:29 AM
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I’m not really a fan of Chad. Chad probably couldn’t get a job here because Chad has a low IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 08:49 AM
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Yeah, as a woman, I think that what women are looking for in a man is for him to have a little extra meat. Doesn’t matter if it’s muscle or a little extra body fat, just don’t be skinny - it’s not a good look for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 08:44 AM
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No, I’m 23 and the youngest person in my office. All the men in my office and old and married with kids. I would never date an old man with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 08:41 AM
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I like men who are taken, only because I can actually be myself around them and they won’t get any funny ideas. Single men are the fucking worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 08:39 AM
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I would never have casual sex with any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 08:37 AM
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I’m a stoner already in a relationship with a stoner so...yeah. High functioning and well paid though lol. He doesn’t drink though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:30 AM
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Men prefer younger women, but when younger women get with older men they expect ££££ without exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:00 PM
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Also, do you seriously think that there’s only two options - the NHS or America? Many countries around the world are successful with a happy medium.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 02:58 PM
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You’re dumb and entitled as fuck. Your last sentence is rich considering the bollocks that your believe. What age are you? Do you even pay tax? You’re treatment is not fucking free, cunt. It costs your precious NHS and the taxpayer a fortune, because of the monopoly that the government has on healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 02:54 PM
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Wow...a left wing think tank said it was good. Well, I guess it must be true then. You really showed me there. Again, it’s NHS management that’s the problem, not underfunding. How can you say that it is performing admirably when people are needlessly dying due to negligence and incompetence? You’re sick in the head. P.S. treatments aren’t free, ask your doctor how much it will cost the NHS next time you get treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 12:23 PM
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But don’t you know our NHS is the envy of the world? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 09:04 AM
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You are so delusional if you think the NHS is the best in Europe, let alone the world. And it’s no wonder you’ve got your misinformation from The Guardian. People are dying because of negligent managers on the NHS. The whole system requires reform and transformational change. Go talk to the Germans or the Swedes about their healthcare systems and I promise you, you will be mind blown.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 08:18 AM
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I live in a gated neighbourhood in a rural area just outside of a very wealthy European city. I never feel unsafe in my own neighbourhood, mainly because it is full of very wealthy people. I’m pretty sure most people in the city don’t know my neighbourhood exists. Sometimes I get scared when it is dark outside because the neighbourhood is built on the grounds of a 14th century castle and I worry about ghosts - I live in a converted stable and I’m pretty sure I can hear voices at night when I’m o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:07 PM
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My boyfriend still thinks I’m gorgeous in pyjamas and a messy bun with no makeup. In fact, he loves it when I wear skimpy pyjamas around the house. He appreciates my appearance in all of its states. My appearance is very important to me and I have a wardrobe full of beautiful clothes. I keep my skin clear, my hair shiny, and my body fit at all times. I wear makeup most days, but my boyfriend is well acquainted with my bare face and always has been. My point is that you should find yourself a man…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 02:40 PM
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You hit the nail on the head. Men need to learn what to look out of. Many women, including myself, can see right through the illusions of beauty other women create. Pictures can certainly hide ugly, but makeup can’t. You can’t change your facial features using makeup. You can create illusions, for example, you can put bronzer on a certain on your nose to make it look smaller - but all of this is visible to the trained eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:06 PM
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Bullshit. Maybe in photos you can, but never in real life. Makeup enhances a woman’s natural beauty, if she applies it in the right way. You can’t fake being beautiful. If you’re a man, you seriously need to look closer at the women you perceive as faking their beauty through makeup. Guarantee that they’re just plain ugly, no matter what they put on their face. As a woman, I can easily tell which women would still be beautiful without makeup, and which women are just ugly. If she’s wearing so mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:02 PM
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Makeup isn’t lying. You can’t hide ugly. Are men so blind that they can’t see that an ugly girl wearing makeup is still ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:22 PM
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A man’s value is not based on how many sluts he can fuck.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 09:31 PM
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Glasgow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 02:21 PM
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I’m in Northern Europe in a city where cunt is used as a term of endearment. Being referred to as a ‘sound cunt’ is an esteemed compliment...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 02:19 PM
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I am 5’2” so I would not reject a guy for being 5’6”, although my boyfriend is 5’10”. I have a female friend who is 6 foot tall and her boyfriend is 5’6”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 09:31 AM
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Yes, definitely alcohol. Also, my flatmate at the time was into me and was acting like my dad, so I wanted to piss him off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 10:55 AM
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I was 17 when I first met my boyfriend and I was definitely not attracted to him at first because he was ugly. He was overweight, terrible skin, bad teeth, basic hair, weird dress sense, you name it. He was into me after a few months of knowing each other, but I wasn’t into him and I rejected him several times. He formed a band in which he was the lead singer and wrote a very negative song about me, but continued to pursue me. We hooked up when I was 18 (I brought him back from the club) and got…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 10:02 AM
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I personally wouldn’t do any of that shit. Women who act like that should be ashamed. Edit: I made fun of my dad for balding, when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:38 PM
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Stop doing what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:31 PM
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I was joking, but fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:15 PM
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I’ve had a job since I was 14 (I’m 23 now) and I’m not taking about myself. I have had many rewarding relationships with male colleagues (none sexual). I’m just being inflammatory (I also said talk about nothing BUT work), I know that men and women can have perfectly normal working relationships. The only bad experience I have had is inviting a male colleague back to my flat and him pissing in my flat mate’s laundry basket. You said it yourself, most women are crazy, greedy, or opportunistic, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:13 PM
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Fair enough, I can’t argue with that. Have you tried never talking to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:04 PM
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Of course it’s not right, but it can be avoided. I don’t know why women get away with being bitches all the time. Probably for the same reason so many men put women on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:04 PM
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No need to take me so seriously lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:58 PM
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So I created these risks by being inflammatory on the internet and seeing who would bite?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:57 PM
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Like I said, I’m just trying to highlight the risks. And the reality of the Western world right now is that the definition of rape/assault/harassment has changed. When I was younger, I thought rape was when some man jumped out and dragged you into the bushes and penetrated you. Now I realise that not all women see it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:49 PM
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I was only trying to trip you up. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:43 PM
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You think I have “me too’d” men?! 😂😂 I am just trying to highlight the risks and speculate about why so many men are getting “me too’d”. I am not defending these women and I am not saying that the men deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:42 PM
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Fair enough. I’m just trying to highlight the risks and speculate about why so many men are getting “me too’d”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:40 PM
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Where do you get this shit from? Since when do all women think that everything a man does or does not do is harassment? I assume you’re speaking from personal experience, and that that is generally the reaction you get from women, and so my advice to you is to stop harassing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:39 PM
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I am anti-casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:36 PM
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If all women, no matter what you do, think that you are harassing them, then you need to reevaluate your behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:34 PM
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Well that is the unfortunate reality for a lot of men these days. So I say, just don’t do it. There are other ways to have sex. I believe this 100%, I warn my brothers about this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:31 PM
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r/asktrp
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:28 PM
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Being “me too’d” is nothing to do with legal action (although I admit some cases do end up in court). It’s mostly just women calling out men for something they did to them in the past. I’m not saying that what these women are doing is right, I’m certainly not trying to defend them, I’m just trying to say that there are things men can do to avoid this fate. A lot of women are crazy and might genuinely feel “raped” if a man does any of the above mentioned things. I am trying to help men understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:23 PM
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Well men should accept that there are risks attached to doing these things and they are putting themselves in danger of getting “me too’d”. Can’t have it both ways. One night stands are very risky for men, but I don’t care whether or not they choose to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:08 PM
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So the overwhelming majority of married people didn’t meet at work? Also, how does that invalidate my advice on how to avoid being “me too’d”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:03 PM
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If you treat a woman immorally, you should expect her to try and get her revenge, and a woman’s revenge is likely to be extreme. So just stop doing it, it’s not worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 11:48 AM
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Well, I’m glad, because it’s quite simple really - normal women go to work, to work. Just like men do. Not to flirt, not to find a husband, not to get casual sex - to work and get money. On the topic of being alone with female colleagues, this should be fine as long as she’s not crazy and you don’t do any of the actions listed above.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 10:58 AM
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I highly doubt any upstanding citizen and genuine guy has ever been “me too’d”. These men are usually doing one or more of the following: Hitting on women at work Hitting on women who are subordinate to them Lying to women to get them to sleep with them/giving them false hope that they want something other than sex Not taking no for an answer Having one night stands with mental women These men should do the following instead: Do not touch any of your female colleagues, even accidentally Do not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 10:25 AM
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The mistake here is thinking that any human being, male or female, is capable of making decisions not based on emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 11:53 AM
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No. You should find a woman who also doesn’t want children and have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 08:56 AM
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Disagree. I have been with my boyfriend 5+ years. When I met him he was fat, spotty, greasy hair, you name it. Now he is super hot, started lifting, great haircut etc. I find him hotter now, obviously. I didn’t really find him hot before at all. I have experienced zero significant variation in the number of o’s he gives me (a lot). I suspect that it is more likely it has something to do with his huge dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 03:50 PM
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Because it will make them happier in the long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 06:34 PM
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I was just being inflammatory, but sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 10:42 AM
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Not sure what comments section you’re reading. It’s probably because 1 in 35 men are pedophiles and due to a maladjusted childhood spent in Hollywood, Leo is probably one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 07:10 AM
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The wall exists for women. This is the trade I think women should make: I have been loyal to the same guy since I was 18. I give him exclusive access to my youthful body in my 20s, he marries me and gives me and our children exclusive access to his resources in his 30s and beyond. This is the kind of deal women should be making with men. What men don’t understand is that the reason there is no wall for them, is because they were born post-wall. Their desirability will never be on the same level …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 06:48 AM
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A prince who is younger than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 06:34 AM
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I am going to throw my hands up here and say that I am a messy woman. My boyfriend met me in University halls of residence so he has always known that. I have zero standards. Thankfully my SO does and I don’t mind doing what he asks, although his are pretty low standards. He generally asks me to fold his trousers, make the lunch for the next day, put the laundry on once a week, and tidy my stuff away when it gets everywhere. I will hold my hands up and say that my apartment is messy, but it is c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 07:28 AM
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I never said anything about hating prostitutes, I said I respect them. I said I hate the men who pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 04:09 AM
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K.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 09:56 PM
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Most songs could be about drugs or could be about a woman. Just use your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 09:51 PM
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I’m with someone less educated than me so I guess I settled then lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 05:34 PM
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Oh yeah I just realised it’s 0.71 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 05:03 PM
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I weigh 111 lbs and I still don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 05:00 PM
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I’m not American so I don’t understand the reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 04:48 PM
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Hi. I am a 23 year old woman with a 0.71 waist to hip ratio, youthful appearance, and youthful facial features. I also have a postgraduate degree. Please explain how my education affects my value.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 04:12 PM
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I just think it’s sick and sad to pay for sex. If you can’t get sex without paying for it, then you are a loser. It doesn’t matter the reason why they pay - could be ugly, busy, bad attitude, adrenaline junky, etc. - doesn’t take away from the fact that they are all losers who can’t obtain sex in a non-transactional way. I think most people who have sex outside relationships are losers. That’s just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 12:29 PM
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You can get all that and more from an exclusive relationship. Most women don’t participate in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 10:34 AM
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I am a woman who is anti-casual sex/hookup culture because women don’t gain anything from it. I am pro-prostitution because I respect the hustle of the prostitutes, but I don’t respect the men who buy sex from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 10:25 AM
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‘Is This Love’ by Bob Marley because it’s so beautiful and it could be about weed or it could be about a woman. I want it played at my wedding for my first dance. It is a perfect reflection of my relationship with my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 05:40 PM
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I thought the whole point of your question was to let your sister know that she shouldn’t let men treat her the way that you treat women. You want your sister to stay away from guys like you, right? So tell her that her brother is a scumbag and she should stay away from guys like him. This seems like the obvious answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 08:17 AM
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Just tell your sister that you’re an arsehole and be done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 08:13 AM
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If you even have to ask this question, you obviously don’t think it’s ok/normal to have plates or be a plate, so maybe you should reevaluate your behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 08:07 AM
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I don’t get this. Aren’t you either just good or bad at sex? I never really tried that hard at sex, it just came naturally to me, and I have had very good feedback from the three people I’ve slept with. I should also mention that I just do what I’m told in bed. I never turn down sex with my boyfriend, but when I’m not in the mood, all I have to do is bend over and he can quickly because he is extremely attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:39 PM
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And do you think she is the kind of girl who would marry someone 15+ years her senior? I’m not taking about the relationship between you and your exceptional adult daughter. I’m taking about normal father daughter relationships. Girls who marry someone 15+ years their senior generally expect to be looked after by their husband. I don’t see why a girl making six figures would bother marrying an old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 08:31 PM
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So you don’t buy her any gifts? Or take her out for dinner? And you didn’t let her stay in your house for free when she was younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 08:23 PM
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Yeah, because she probably gets everything she wants from you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 07:56 PM
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Someone posted here before suggesting that such men are looking for a “daughter-with-benefits” and I think that’s an apt description. If there’s an age gap of 15+ years then generally there is an unwritten contract stating that the man better pay up if he wants to be married to an attractive, young woman. It is similar to the power dynamics between a father and daughter, but it is sexual and potentially romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 05:09 PM
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Well, keep being pathetic and don’t find a girlfriend. Literally no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 02:00 PM
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You are projecting male sexuality on to women. Sluts won’t make Chad wait, but most women will. Some women are even repelled by Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 02:08 PM
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What about women who are completely uninterested in STRs?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 01:54 PM
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I was kind of joking, but I see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:45 AM
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Well it sure feels like harassment when the guy is fat, old or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:36 AM
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Yeah, I get cat-called and checked out on the street. I don’t really care about it, some days I love it and some days I’d rather be left alone. The only time I have a problem with a guy checking me out is if he is old, fat, or ugly. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:29 AM
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Men refuse to understand female sexuality. They are projecting their own sexuality onto women. They look at an attractive women and think about sex with her, I’ve never known any woman to do the same with an attractive man. Men are dtf straight away, and they just expect women to be if the man is attractive enough, but that’s not how it works. Women are difficult to figure out because they will react differently to different situations depending on how they feel that day. Getting one to sleep wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:27 AM
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Absolutely not. I would only ever marry and have kids with someone who was doing it for the first time with me. I would never ever have kids with someone who already had kids with some hoe he couldn’t stand to be around. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 08:24 AM
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Camping and dresses LOL. Worst analogy. I did not post this to show off how special and unique I am. You have missed the point entirely. I am anxious and stressed because I feel like I am hiding various different aspects of my personality from people who are close to me for fear of judgement. Please point me in the direction of all these people who love all the things I do and will not judge me for other less-than-desirable aspects of my personality, because I cannot find them.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/18 03:54 PM
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Yes, he is attractive and an alpha male in the sense that other men greatly admire him and respect his opinion without him really having to do anything. He also has status because he is the lead singer in a successful band. I know what you’re getting at here and you are right in a way. Women are often sexually repulsed by unattractive men (although unattractive is subjective, of course). If an unattractive man can find a woman who is willing to be used by him then I say, go ahead, but I understa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 09:01 AM
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Yeah I suppose, I don’t actually want to be raped, but I like when it feels like he’s using me. I would be pretty pissed off if he ignored me afterwards, seeing as he’s my boyfriend. I definitely don’t think a lot of women WANT to be raped, even if they have this kink. I’ve been on rapekink and even the rape baiters are actively trying to get raped and tbh, it’s not rape if you want it. Many of them have arrangements with people so it feels like they’re being raped. Many are fucked in the head f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 08:46 AM
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I don’t think “so many” women ask to be used. I have this kink. I play rape games with my boyfriend. I love to be face-fucked and degraded, spanked, called a slut in bed. I don’t know why, but it turns me on - it makes me cum. I have only slept with 3 people and I don’t plan on sleeping with anymore than that, so it’s not because I actually am a slut. I don’t know anyone else who has this kink, or maybe I do, but they just haven’t confessed. I’m not worried about it, I wasn’t abused in my childh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 08:37 AM
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Fucking hell. Not everything is about sex. Love? Intimacy? Companionship? Travelling together? Learning together? Having fun together? Growing together as individuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 06:24 AM
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There is no wall for men because men are born post-wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 07:25 PM
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Looks wise, definitely. We looked odd together before, now everyone stares at us when we’re out together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 04:23 AM
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I have always put in work though. For myself, not for anyone else. I have continuously been going to the gym, taking care of my skin and hair, and eating right, even before I met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 05:46 PM
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Well then he wouldn’t have me now. I’m not saying I deserve him, but he wanted me, so he got me. I didn’t need to be attracted to him to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 05:19 PM
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Ok, I see what you’re getting at now, but he was unattractive, whereas I never was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 05:08 PM
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I don’t understand? I’ve always been slim, fit, well-dressed, and beautiful for as long as I’ve known him. I haven’t changed anything really, just put in the same effort I always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 04:32 PM
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I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5+ years. When I met him the first time, about 1 year before we got together, I thought he was downright ugly. He was overweight, had bad teeth and skin, and was just generally not nice to look at. I had drunken sex with him one night about 8 months after I met him and, after that, he was hooked. He chased me for a relationship but I wasn’t sure I wanted one with him. He is a singer and songwriter and he started a band and wrote a song about me. Although he was st…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 01:24 PM
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NO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 11:17 PM
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No, obviously not. But when he pours her and drink and she’s like, “say, what’s in this drink?” And he’s like, “how can you do this thing to me?” As if leaving is some emotional trauma. It’s overall pretty harmless, with undertones of rape. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 05:10 PM
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I love that song but it does seem a bit rapey.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 04:30 PM
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Yeah, but my boyfriend is a famous singer, so he has loads of options. And he is very masculine, in my opinion. He is probably in the top 20%, to be fair. And, like I said, he never asks, he just tells me that he appreciates it. Maybe I have a weird perspective on men. I usually think men I know are punching way above their weight looks-wise. I live in a very wealthy/very white European city, so maybe that’s why? Anyway, this thread wasn’t supposed to be about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 03:01 PM
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Are you male? Would you say this was a typically male attitude? I ask because you seem to think my boyfriend’s behaviour is typically not male. I mean, he doesn’t ever ask me to dress up, I just do and he appreciates it. And he definitely doesn’t have low standards or think that I am low value, I think it’s bizarre that you said that. Do men not normally appreciate an attractive, well-dressed woman who they can show off to their friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 02:33 PM
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Yes, but that is not possible for most men. I’m talking about reality here, I don’t care about what men theoretically want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 02:10 PM
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I’m trying to claim that women marrying/wanting to marry a caste above can be compared to men wanting to marry the best looking woman possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 01:53 PM
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Would you say that your attitude is a typically male attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 01:41 PM
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Well the internet says that it is the practice of marrying/dating someone who is wealthier/of higher social status than oneself. I just took this definition and applied it to men marrying/dating someone who is better looking than them, and better looking than many other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 01:41 PM
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It's not about self-respect, it's about knowing how to get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 09:57 AM
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I’ve never had a man who wasn’t my boyfriend or dad tell me no. That’s why I can’t respect most men. They will do literally anything for a cute girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 08:32 AM
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No, I don’t think so. To be honest, I have had guys convince me before and I’ve never felt like I was taken advantage of. You make a conscious decision to have sex after being convinced. Sometimes I even say no to my boyfriend for fun, because it turns me on when he takes what he wants anyway. If she makes it clear that she does not want to have sex with you, and you force her to, then that is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 09:57 PM
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I don’t care. I take good care of it when I see it in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 04:10 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 07:35 PM
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Sounds like wishful thinking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 05:43 PM
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People open to the possibility of dating you. I'm asking how you measure that to get hard data.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 05:29 PM
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And pray tell, how does one measure how many options a person has?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 04:59 PM
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A wealthy or powerful 45yr old man has a pool that spans from mid 20s up. Yeah, that’s not most men. Most men either hit the wall at 40 or are born post-wall. You are moving the goal posts, I am talking about the average man vs the average woman. And besides, such men will never experience the equivalent attention from females that women age 20 - 35 receive from males. Do you deny that a previously attractive older man’s dating pool is smaller than an attractive younger man’s? If you don’t, then…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 02:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 01:10 PM
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women lose what most men never have. Yeah, I think this is a fair enough way to describe it. But I still think the wall is a cope because, as you previously said, a 50+-year-old woman still has the potential to date 5 years down. And yes, older men could possibly date down as much as 15 years, but those men still don’t have as many options as a woman at any point in her life, even post-reproductive ability where her options are limited. Most good quality women get snapped up permanently in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 11:42 AM
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Yeah, but those attractive men will hit the wall one day - that is my point. Men who receive no female attention don’t hit the wall because they have always been post-wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 11:23 AM
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From women in general. I didn’t deny any of what you said, but if the wall means that a person’s dating pool becomes smaller as they lose their attractiveness, then men hit the wall too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 11:21 AM
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So do you believe that previously attractive 50-60-year-old men are getting similar, if not more, attention from women than they did when they were in their 20s and 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 11:01 AM
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Newsflash: the wall hits everyone, except unattractive people who hit the wall as soon as they left the womb. Attractive men get special treatment when they are young as well, and if you think average 40+ year old men still have all the dating options in the world, then you are delusional. This applies especially if the man has been perpetually single, because then he is just leftovers, just like women who don’t settle down between the ages of 25 - 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 10:58 AM
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Never. The conversation ends right there. It’s absolutely projection. A pic of a dick does nothing for me, my brain doesn’t work like that. I send my boyfriend nudes sometimes, but I would still be mortified if he sent me a dick pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 05:46 AM
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I disagree with you. All the richest men in the world are married. Also, I’m not talking about myself. I earn more than my boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/18 08:18 PM
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I would never sign one. The money that one makes within a marriage belongs to the couple as a unit. If it is a true partnership then both partners would have had put in the effort to make it. A prenup is especially inappropriate if the wife or husband gives up their career/earning potential to manage the home and take care of the children. If you’re not all in then you have one foot out of the door already.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/18 05:13 PM
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Men need to take some responsibility for the society that they have helped create. They need to realise that as the stronger (physically, mentally) sex, they need to take back the power and start building a society where men can be respected again. Men need to realise that it is up to them to become great scientists, inventors, thinkers, and innovators. Yes, the education system is swayed towards women, but are men so pathetic these days that they they will just let women dictate policy? Men nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:14 PM
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I would like to have sex with my boyfriend every day. We have sex between 2 - 14 times a week, there is a large variation. Sex has slowed down in the past, probably because of insecurities and anxiety in both partners, but it didn’t slow down for long. We had to stop having sex for a few months once because my birth control was causing me to constantly bleed from the vagina - not getting that thing removed earlier is one of my biggest regrets, and it has everything to do with the lack of sex. To…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:51 PM
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You mean that he won’t out-earn me? Hmmmm, one the one hand yes because I would like an aspirational lifestyle, on the other hand no because I have high earning potential so it would be unfair to expect a man to earn more. I guess what I’m saying is that it depends on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:02 PM
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It will. It’s not a hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 02:03 PM
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I am not caring. I also know a lot more about myself than you do. Stating facts about yourself is not narcissistic lol, especially when it is done anonymously over the internet. Old men have no business looking at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 02:01 PM
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Projection much, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 01:33 PM
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Ok now I’m going to tell you to fuck off. You don’t care about the reasons I asked these Qs, you just want attack me personally. I am happy and blessed, I hope you are too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 01:15 PM
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You have got me all wrong. I am just curious. Why would I be bitter and pathetic? I am a 23 year old woman who was blessed with gorgeous looks and a high IQ. I have been with my man since 18 and I am very happy. I live a blessed life. I just hate CERTAIN men (power hungry, misogynistic, ugly). I also hate certain women, just to be clear. I also hate old men who leer at me (happens a lot). Also why would I tell my mate that I think he has misogynistic/pedophilic tendencies? I am not socially reta…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 01:08 PM
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What makes you think I haven’t met these men? I have met them, one of my closest friends is one of them, and yes, I am suspicious of the motives behind his behaviour. Sorry for having a thirst for knowledge and asking difficult questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 12:58 PM
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So you’re saying that the sexual power dynamic between men 40+ who exclusively sleep with women 18-23 can in no way be compared to the sexual power dynamic between pedos and their victims? I am asking for your personal opinion here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 12:49 PM
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So 23+ women are unhealthy and ugly? I’m 23 now so thanks for making me aware of the cliff I’m about to fall off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 12:43 PM
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Well I never said I hated them, all I am doing is comparing their behaviour to pedophilia because of the power dynamic. Can you refute this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 12:42 PM
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Well surely you’ll admit that 40+ men who sleep exclusively with women 18-23 are predatory because of the power dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 12:36 PM
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How do you know about 68-year-old crusty vaginas? Do you have experience with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 12:34 PM
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Attracted =/= would actually have sex with. A lot of pedos suffer because they know that acting on their attraction would harm kids, so they don’t do it. Instead they just find naive girls or boys 14-22 and take advantage of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 12:31 PM
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I didn’t say that. I said they want to make themselves less bad about being attracted to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 12:28 PM
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Lol no I started out 111 pounds and dropped to 89 (I’m really short, just to be clear). I was a stick. I gained a few pounds during the week when I would eat McDonald’s on my split shift because I was never at home to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 03:32 PM
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Oh COME ON. Nursing, waitressing, and delivering mail are the equivalent of hard labour for women, lest you forget that women are physically weaker than men. You have to stand on your feet all day, carry proportionately heavy loads, walk backwards and forwards all day, not to mention the emotional labour of being a nurse. I was a waitress for nine years in my youth and I lived on a diet of bread, chips, and Red Bull. I lost 5 pounds every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 03:17 PM
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I hate driving and so that would be a deal breaker for me. I expect my partner or drive anytime we are going somewhere together, and he is ok with that. Don’t really care about the fact he earns way less than me. My partner does earn less than me right now, but I do expect him to out-earn me at some point in the future. I’m 5’2” so a 5 foot man would probably creep me out. That’s way too short, by anyone’s standards. My boyfriend is 8 inches taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:27 AM
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If they are old (40+) or fat it’s disgusting. Old and fat men have no business staring at beautiful young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 11:27 AM
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Me and my boyfriend’s love languages are words and touch. We say things like ‘I love you’, ‘I’m so lucky’, and ‘you’re so beautiful’ multiple times a day and we touch/hold hands/snuggle/have sex all the time. Since we are each other’s first love, I think we learnt these languages together. We rarely give each other gifts and we live together so quality time isn’t really relevant. Edit: female and purple pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 08:37 AM
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I’ve been in a committed relationship since I was 18 and I plan on marrying him. He appreciates the fact that I am giving my prime years to him and I hope he always remembers the tight, sexy body I have right now and realises that he is lucky he was the only one who got to appreciate it intimately. I love the attention I get from men right now. People are very nice to me, go out of their way to do things for me, and I get stares pretty much everywhere I go. I’m only interested in my SO though, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 09:07 PM
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Newsflash: 90% of women have cellulite. You just haven’t noticed it because it’s not gross. Either that or you’ve never seen a woman naked in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 08:57 PM
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You are missing the fact that women don’t care that men would rather sit around after work doing fuck all, which is the summary of your advice. Don’t you think women would like to sit around on their iPads and talk to their husband and kids after work, instead of doing all of the housework? You’re advice about hiring a home help is reasonable, but your trying to justify this man’s behaviour is not. I respect your right to post here, but I personally would not listen to your advice. This should b…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/18 02:24 PM
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Dude. Stop hanging around this sub. You copied and pasted this from an earlier post. Your opinions do not take a woman’s perspective into account.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/18 01:00 PM
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I insulted you after you got salty when I said that some men get sex for free and can even make money by having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:49 AM
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Well just find yourself a girl who’s not like that and stop being so salty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:27 AM
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This is just MGTOW propaganda. I earn more than my boyfriend so he is technically making money by having sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 05:56 AM
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This is just MGTOW propaganda and is not true in my own personal experience. I actually earn more than my SO, so he is technically making money by having sex with me. Most of my female friend’s make more money than their SOs too. I don’t mind if my SO wants to treat me every once in a while, I don’t expect it, but that what happens if you treat your man well and you are in a loving relationship. If I wanted a guy with money I would have dumped him a long time ago though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 05:55 AM
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Yeah but it just feels different because you’re letting some random guy put his dick inside you for money. Sex is supposed to be about love or marriage or babies, so it is a little dehumanising. I see you point but it just feels different, especially because it is still an illegal job in my country. I still respect the hustle though. I am not judging the women who choose to sell their bodies, only the men who buy their services.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 07:28 PM
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It’s just from my own personal experience of men who use prostitutes and can’t get a relationship because of the way they perceive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 07:19 PM
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Lawyers =/= half of the world’s population.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 07:18 PM
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This is a pretty extreme view. I think women are worth more than just sex. I mean, I afforded uni and grad school all by myself and I didn’t have to sell my body. Society shouldn’t be about keeping men happy. Why would women want to spend their prime years having sex with random men when they could be scoping out potential husband candidates?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 05:09 PM
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This is a good point. I still can’t help but think it’s a bit sad though. Why can’t these men just find a nice girlfriend and have sex for free whenever they want? Or does that count as “bullshit” too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 05:05 PM
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This is a very insightful comment. I judge men who use prostitutes pretty harshly because of the fact that I believe that they don’t see women as actual people. One of my SOs close friends uses prostitutes and he is an extremely wrapped up in the red pill ideology and definitely doesn’t see woman as people with their own agency. He assumes all this shit about “female nature” and, to be fair, his sister and mother are pretty batshit crazy so I think that’s where he got the ideas from. He’s not ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 04:57 PM
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I didn’t realise that it was mainly the lower class who used them in the Netherlands. I walked through the red light district when I was in Amsterdam and I felt so uncomfortable, I couldn’t even look up. I just wanted to get out of there ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 04:51 PM
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Hi. Thanks for your reply. I was aware of the grammatical error of using ‘either’, but I didn’t know a better word. Can you suggest one?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 03:37 PM
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I was not physically attracted to my boyfriend when we first started dating. He was very overweight with bad skin, but he was the lead singer in a band and he wrote sexy, romantic songs about me so I was into him for other reasons. He was also severely depressed at the time and he used to cry a lot and have tantrums in public, but I’m a lot more balanced emotionally (read: cold bitch) than most women, so we were a good match anyway. He is also highly intelligent, and I don’t meet many men who I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 08:33 AM
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It will be hard for you because he will always have to be in constant contact with his ex-wife. They are co-parenting their kids together. Although he would never sleep with her again, you will have to accept that their relationship will have to be closely bonded so long as their kids are still young.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/18 07:19 PM
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We both work full-time (I currently earn more than him) and we both take care of our own laundry, ironing, and dishes. I keep the kitchen clean and he keeps the bathroom clean. We make the bed together as soon as we get up and we keep mess to a minimum at all times. We take turns hoovering once a week on a Sunday. We make breakfast, lunch, and dinner together. We take turns emptying the cat litter and taking out the trash. He understands what his fair share is and he wants to move up the ladder …
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/18 05:14 PM
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Loads of people here will try to tell you that you should work full-time and do all the housework, but I don’t agree. If he allowed you to stay at home, then of course you should do all of the housework, but otherwise, no way. If he wants to impose traditional gender roles and wants a wife who does all the housework, then he must follow through and let you quit your job. Say NO to doing all of the housework if he won’t do all of the providing for the family.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/18 04:02 PM
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Well most women aren’t interested in working all day to provide for the family, but they still get on with it if that is their husband’s wish. We all have to make sacrifices.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/18 03:56 PM
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Absolutely you should split the chores. If he is expecting you to help provide for the family, then you should expect him to help out around the house.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/18 03:14 PM
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I think a hair transplant is a positive thing if it looks real. I don’t hate on people who try to improve their look.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 09:03 PM
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I don’t think it’s sexist, I just think it’s tired and obvious. As a female who is a very logical thinker, I roll my eyes at men who constantly claim that men are logical and women are emotional. We are all emotional and we are all logical. Yes there is a gendered trend, but who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 01:25 PM
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I do think women are worse off. That’s what I just said. Sorry if I hit a nerve, I’ll admit that I live in a country where we don’t cut men’s foreskin off, so I don’t actually know any men without a foreskin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 05:34 AM
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Yeah and FGM can make sex uncomfortable and even painful for the women. Sometimes all that’s left is a sewn up hole for a man to stick his dick in. I am not having it that the principle is the same. Yeah, they’re both cultural norms in certain countries/religions, but one is a minor inconvenience (still immoral though, obviously) and one can cause severe side affects and is an attempt to control female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 12:07 PM
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FGM is objectively worse than MGM though. I am not defending either - in fact, I strongly condemn both - but at least men can still enjoy sex after having their foreskin cut off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 11:09 AM
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This is where men and women differ. I am a woman, if my female friend of 10 years cheated on her boyfriend four times in six months, you better believe she would no longer be my friend. I don’t associate with scum. To be fair, that doesn’t necessarily mean I would tell the boyfriend if I barely knew him. The only business I can sort out is my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:09 PM
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Exactly. No man in their right mind would commit to a slut, and yet feminism tells women that it is fine to sleep around. After women are done riding the CC, they find themselves in a position where no one will commit to them and this is why movements like ‘Me Too’ are so significant. It’s women realising that they have fucked up by having causal sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:46 PM
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Hell men these days are turned no by their girlfriend having had as many partners as possible. I really don’t agree with this. A lot of men are grossed out by the fact their woman has had many lovers, at least the ones I know. There is probably a biological explanation for it - maybe they don’t wan to risk bringing up someone else’s child? Maybe, if she doesn’t have a child, their instincts are telling them she’s infertile and therefore not worth sleeping with? Idk, I’m just speculating, birth c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:47 AM
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Pleasure and validation alongside loss of value and deteriorating mental health. So a woman who seeks those things is ultimately gaining nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:35 AM
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If you are strong, handsome/beautiful, smart, athletic, brave, or any other admirable human characteristic, you have a duty to society to pass your genes on. Please do, we will go extinct without them. Thankfully it is mostly ugly, weak, pathetic, selfish narcissists who don’t have kids. And to those people, THANK YOU for not continuing your shitty genetic lineage. Biologically, if birth control didn’t exist, Chad would be passing on his lineage by pumping and dumping loads of females and never …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:33 AM
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If a man is balding he should just shave it all off and be done with it. Having a half head of hair/combover/receding hairline/bald patches just looks fucking awful. He’d be better off bald. On another note, most bald men look bad, not because they’re bald, but because they are generally quite old looking and I don’t fancy old men. There are exceptions though, but they are usually movie stars or musicians. I feel bad for young men who go bald because they probably see their options decline rapid…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:26 AM
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I don’t agree. I think women are deluding themselves into thinking that they can get something (breakfast? attention? commitment?) after casual sex, because ultimately there is nothing a woman can gain by shagging around. I had a thought recently that the ‘Me Too’ movement is essentially a push back against hook up culture. Women have finally realised that it is only men who gain something and enjoy causal sex, so they are saying ‘this is not fair, I am losing something (chasteness? innocence? v…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:22 AM
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You are a troll. I am a skinny female and I hate fat people and the body positive crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 03:18 PM
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Lol no. I am an anti-feminist. I am only interested in truth and facts. And the fact is that 90% of women have cellulite, whether or not you have noticed it. It’s really not that big a deal. Only homosexual men would find it gross on a woman with an otherwise great body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 02:10 PM
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Well yeah, of course, because 90% of women have cellulite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:53 PM
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Well no female lust will ever be directed at you so you might as well believe there is no such thing, if that makes you feel better about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:46 PM
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Ok I’m just going to assume that you think women are asexual because women are not interested in having sex with you. Or maybe they are, but they never come back for a second time. I could speculate why, but it doesn’t really matter, because you’ll probably never experience the visceral lust of a woman who is attracted to you, so I don’t need your opinion on women’s sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:33 PM
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Are you serious? Have you ever had sex as a female?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:12 PM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:08 PM
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Most women are asexual. Citation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 12:26 PM
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Well yeah I suppose. I am skinny and I have a patch above one knee that is visible some days and not others. I don’t let it get me down though because it’s really not that gross. It is only gross on fat girls. And that’s far from the only reason fat girls are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:18 AM
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Yeah ok, I believe you. Skinny girls have cellulite too though, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:03 AM
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I’m guessing you didn’t notice it because it isn’t that gross, especially on slim girls. Unless all your LTRs were in the 10% of women who don’t have any, then fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 06:49 AM
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I don’t get this. How many women have you seen naked? Most women have cellulite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 06:10 AM
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I found a post recently where a woman (who got married to a much older man, who had cheated on his wife with her) complained that her new husband had thrown all their sex toys out after the wedding, stating, “these are suitable for girlfriends, but not for wives.” Hard to believe really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 06:04 PM
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So you don’t respect the ones who want to be mothers because you don’t really associate with them? Do you feel a lack of respect for the women you want to have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 05:48 PM
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Yeah, I’m glad. I would feel bad for a Madonna/whore complex sufferer’s wife because she probably wishes he would fuck her like a whore. So you mean that if you ever had a new partner, you would want her just for sex, not love/marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 05:41 PM
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Find a woman that’s worth it. It’s not easy, but it’s possible. And it’s not like I don’t actively try to be a better person, but sometimes I slip up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 05:21 PM
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The answer is simple, I am going about my normal life. Acting bratty sometimes is just who I am, I don’t think about it, I just do it. I don’t expect my SO to put up with it though. Sometimes, in the moment, I don’t even realise I’m being bratty until I’m called out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 04:16 PM
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There’s nothing more annoying than a man who just agrees with everything you say and worships the ground you walk on...trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:45 PM
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I hope so. I have two friends who are married and I am jealous of their ability to be themselves around men who aren’t their husbands. They can just talk so freely to them with their guard down, because the men know they don’t have a chance because their married. As an unmarried woman I feel a constant need not to make the wrong impression when talking to men. It is hard because men constantly get the wrong idea and think being friendly, even just smiling, means that you’re DTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:14 PM
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I want marriage so that other men will stop hitting on me and just treat me like a normal human being. I’m only interested in one man, and I want the marital status to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:52 PM
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TRP will perceive anything as a shit test. I saw a post once where the OP said that his girlfriend asked him to open the window when she was lying on the couch feeling ill. He refused to because he thought it was a shit test and he didn’t want to fall for it. I mean, seriously? Grow up. Now, I’m not saying that women don’t genuinely shit test sometimes - but not everything is a shit test. I would say I unconsciously shit test my boyfriend by acting like a brat and seeing if he’ll call me out on …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 09:55 AM
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Fair enough mate. Congrats on the procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:05 AM
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Good for you old person. My dad is 52 and I’m 23. My mum is even younger. They get to enjoy seeing more of my life before they die. They get to relax into their old age because all three of their kids are adults now. You might not even get to meet your grandkids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 06:16 AM
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I’m not sure any of that is your business. My boyfriend will never leave me, and what I do have is a young, energetic, tight-knit family supporting me every step of the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:33 PM
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That’s (1) your opinion and (2) a gross generalisation. And since you’re interested in personal anecdotes, my parents and grandparents are all very young and I had the most idyllic childhood one could ask for. I even knew most of my great grandparents. They had the energy to run around after me and do every outdoor activity you can think of with me. My mum worked part-time and always had “warm food” on the table when I got home. And no, they didn’t have a whole lot of money, and I become financi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:41 AM
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Decent men know that women are worth more than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:27 AM
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Lol good for your uncle. I’m sure they have loads in common and I’m sure their kids will love having a pensioner for a dad. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:14 AM
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Those two terms are not mutually exclusive. Anyway, my point still stands - men who expect to be able to find a high-quality woman in their 40s, when they can’t in their 20s/30s, are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:07 AM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 09:41 AM
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It stems from delusion and the desperate hope that men who are not good enough in their 20s/30s will end up with a high quality woman later in life. When in reality, most high quality women are settling down in their 20s with a man their age who has potential, and she will help him realise it. Single 40+ men are leftovers. Nobody wanted them before, and at best - if they make something of themselves - they will be able to settle down with an average-looking girl in her late 20s/early 30s, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 09:33 AM
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I am not denying what you’re saying, but you’re delusional if you think fertility is all men find attractive. I agree if you’re saying that the wall is just the loss of the “fertile” look women have in their 20s, but the fact is that older women can and do still bag high quality men so you can’t say they’ve hit the wall as soon as they lose their “fertile” look. Explain why Harry picked Meghan then? He could have any girl he wanted and yet he picked a 36-year-old who is older than him? Explain w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:04 AM
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Well I’m just trying to say that there’s a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:29 PM
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What, so you can’t imagine a woman who is hot but not beautiful? Or a woman who is beautiful but not hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:25 PM
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Her children will be retarded regardless, she’s marrying an inbred.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:10 PM
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Yeah, there’s a difference between beauty and hotness though. Hotness captures the male gaze, beauty is just a state of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:09 PM
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Yeah, I’m pretty sure Meghan is still fertile though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:48 PM
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The wall isn’t real. Beauty always remains even through old age. Yeah she isn’t as “hot” as she used to be in her twenties, but you can’t deny she is beautiful and will continue to be for a long time yet. It’s only incels and MGTOWs who insist that women hit the wall and become unattractive, when really they just lose that “fertile” look they had in their twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:42 PM
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Well maybe you are striving too much for perfection. My friend who is 36 gets her’s done twice a year and her skin is smooth as she could hope for it to be at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 09:55 AM
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It doesn’t really. That is what PR people will tell you. In reality you can get it down once or twice a year and you will look great.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 09:47 AM
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I have a personal anecdote about this. My boyfriend and I have been together for over five years. When I first met him, he was very overweight, had bad skin, and I did not find him attractive at all. It was only with getting to know him better that I started fancying him. He is the lead singer in a band and is very confident, intelligent, and funny. People often didn’t realise we were together when we were out because he was below me in looks. I don’t want to boast but I am a petite blonde in re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:43 AM
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Well I can’t tell you why not. What value do you add to his life? Are you good-looking? Interesting and pleasant company? Well-educated? You have quite a big age gap. Perhaps you’re not emotionally mature or intellectually stimulating enough for him to consider committing too.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 02:19 PM
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When a guy says he is happy being single and doesn’t want to settle down he just means he doesn’t want to commit to you personally. He would commit to the right woman. Unfortunately he just wanted casual sex from you and he lost interest when he realised he wasn’t going to get it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 02:04 PM
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I don’t think so. If a man is decent then he will help around the house if you both work. My boyfriend (a student) doesn’t work and I have a full-time job that I commute to a different city for, and so he does all of the housework and most of the cooking. If roles were reversed I would do the same for him. I don’t think working women should set the precedent that they will help provide for the family and do all the housework, but that’s just my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 06:31 AM
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Agree. The only time I’ve ever been sexually assaulted on public transport was by a butch lesbian. I was sitting alone at a table, she asked if she could sit down. Of course I said yes because I wasn’t going to be rude and the train might have filled up later anyway. She proceeded to flirt with me when I had my headphones and then she touched my inner thigh and my arm. I told her ‘don’t touch me’ and she asked ‘why do have a problem with me touching you?’ She invaded my personal space, touched m…
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