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| 1 | How would you describe yourself politically? | bribedzapp | /r/MGTOW | 24/07/15 01:06 PM | |
| 0 | Are there any non-binary people here? | bribedzapp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/21 02:18 PM |
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| 1 | Are there any non-binary people here?Fair enough. So you're comfortable with gender norms. Moving along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Are there any non-binary people here?What do I care about most people? I care about the minority of people I can relate to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Are there any non-binary people here?That's a great question. I also have traits that feel like the most masculine I've seen in anyone. I cook in a very masculine way, but I can definitely relate to lifting and guns. I guess my question is, are you comfortable with gender norms? For example, "the man should take the initiative." And all of that other dumb shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Highly educated women are more likely to be promiscuous than less educated women,How can monogamy be sex-positive? What are the benefits of monogamy you allude to? How do you explain the correlation between IQ and a higher number of partners cited in the study (especially among women)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Highly educated women are more likely to be promiscuous than less educated women,It does not surprise me. I am male, in that top percentile mentioned in the quote, and I have dealt with women in that percentile as well. They all tended to be sex-positive feminists, which is the wing of feminism I can tolerate. Sex-negative ideas are really very low IQ, in my opinion. Do not want to offend anyone, but yeah. It does not surprise me that the smarter you are, the less you adhere to social and religious taboos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Men would hate it if women had a male sexuality.People have sex and the sex makes babies wanted or not. I was responding to the above statement. Which I find to smack of biological determinism. I do not disagree with the statement below: Humans never really needed to want kids to have them they only needed to want sex I guess now they need both natural selection will do her thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Men would hate it if women had a male sexuality.I wasn't going to bring up anything. The fact that contraceptive technology is new does not mean every individual is an evolutionary robot with predetermined behavior. There are entire countries these days where fertility rates do not meet death rates (e.g., Japan, Portugal, Switzerland) , aren't there? Anectodally, I've chosen not to have children and have had my fair share of sexual partners. I imagine I am far from being the only one. Evolutionary drives are super important explanatory causes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Men would hate it if women had a male sexuality.Your first paragraph doesn't seem to acknowledge the existence of contraceptive methods. "Men practice monogamy out of respect for other males anyways, it's similar to why most men won't commit murder or steal." I have seen this happening when men shy away from married women. Which is very different from the post-feminist expectation that men be monogamous out of respect for their female partner. Which, by the way, is a very American/Aglo-Saxon concept. Even European western counterparts do not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Men would hate it if women had a male sexuality.What is AF/NN? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Men would hate it if women had a male sexuality.I hear you. But you talk as if evolution was deterministic. I don't want to have children (we exist!). That's why I fantasize about slutty chicks. Still, extremely hard to create and maintain stable relationships with said chicks because of sex-negative BS. Furthermore, mate guarding does not in the slightest means the male half of a relationship has to be monogamous. This is totally a feminist pipe dream that simps buy hook, line, and sinker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Men would hate it if women had a male sexuality.I literally have no problem with 1 through four. But I think a lot of dudes do. I get super turned on by women who actually fuck. The issue is, there's a false dichotomy between sex and feelings going on in our culture. Yeah, it is possible to fuck all day every day and still be sensitive to the people involved. I have a dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | It's not that women are saying being nice is arousing, it's that they are saying they don't like jerks or assholes, but end up with an asshole anywayVery good point. My anecdotal experience confirms this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | It's not that women are saying being nice is arousing, it's that they are saying they don't like jerks or assholes, but end up with an asshole anywayTHIS is the crux of the problem. Women are saying they don't like jerks, what they really want is that long-lasting love from the warm, caring, forgiving, helpful guy. Women are saying those jerks and assholes don't treat them right, and they need a nice, kind guy instead. They say the nice guy is the better , overall choice than the jerk and asshole. But, women still end up going for the asshole. When men see this, it's confusing. She's saying she wants a nice, kind man, but she's complaining a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t care about sex as much as men do.I don't resent women. I resent feminism and gender role authoritarianism. One of the reasons I resent feminism is precisely the denial that men are more sexual, on average. Male promiscuity and assertiveness ought to be celebrated. It is totally why we are here. P.S. Women are approached to the same extent that they transfer that responsibility and the exposure to rejection to men. Deal with it. Learn to look at the big picture and appreciate it, no matter how inconvenient. Or...buck gender norm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 04:49 PM |
| 10 | Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution.Exactly. And the standard for being tradcon in women is, respect your man as an authority figure, do not question his affairs outside the home as long as he is the breadwinner, do the household chores and satisfy him sexually at his leisure. Everything else is tradthot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution.Don't forget whores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 03:32 PM |
| 0 | Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution.I'm not big on evolutionary determinism. That said, evolution is the best description of average behavior we have. I have zero problem with female pickiness, as long as they have zero problem with male non-monogamy. Everything else is simp territory. As Nietzsche said, "Men are to be trained for war. And women for the recreation of the warrior. All else is folly." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerIt's not an insult. Know-it-all is really how I see your attitude. You give unasked for advice and immediately jump into problem-solving without first asking questions. You seem a little too certain about other people's lives for comfort. Plus, we agreed on everything. I don't know where you saw an argument coming from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerIt's not a compliment. It's sleight of hand irony. Google it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI never said how dare they. You're welcome to have a conversation with yourself. Pickiness in females has got an obvious evolutionary function. The problem is that, tolerating female pickiness without tolerating male promiscuity is as hypocritical as Swedish prostitution laws, where hookers are legal but johns go to jail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI would agree with that. To me the difference is that interdependence is ongoingly, explicitly, and ethusiastically consented to. It is inimical to fixed, unexamined roles and expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 08:46 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Just "be kind and respect women" is horrible adviceIf this is the case then why is it common for advice for unnattractive men from many of these same people is largely (not all) "be kind and respectful" assuming that this is the missing link for them? Because simps and feminism-influenced women are very hypocritical people. a) average women are not nearly as interested as males in casual sex at this stage of evolution, if not always. Period. b) Gender-identified females leverage sex against social climbing strategies, so that about 80% of them w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI can tell you firsthand Latin American gender-identified women are anything but empathic. They are super objectifying of individuals they perceive as gender-identifying males. Your example sounds very innocuous, indeed. Sorry, I can think of unpacking it in many ways, but don't find it worth my while to try. I think there are much better examples of lack of empathy in gender-identifying males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerThank you. I can't relate to your last sentence at all. Sounds like codependent thinking to me. To each their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerCorrecto. I think your last sentence is a perfect description of feminism, no matter how much I hear it's about "equality." Just so you don't rest so easy on your laurels, not trying to hammer a square peg into a round hole should include male monogamy. Males haven't been monogamous for hundreds of thousands of years, and that is why we're here to tell the tale. No species would survive in which males are as picky as average women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerLots of luck, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI saw your message. I don't have the headspace to read the article now, but I'll try to get to it today or tomorrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerFair enough, buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI would describe the dominant IRL ideology of gender-identified women as tradthot. Which I see as a variant of feminism, rather than its opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:59 PM |
| -1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI'm not interested in low effort replies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI would imagine. Many men play gender roles, and gender roles are inherently unempathic. Could you give me an example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI can fully relate to your first sentence. But, I'm afraid I'm a lot more pessimistic about human nature than you are. As a caveat, I don't hold it against anyone to give gender roles a shot. But I want them as far away from me as possible. Unlike you, I do not think authentic enjoyment primarily explains adhesion to gender roles. I think the default scenario, and fear of social costs are the main drivers now that, technologically speaking, there's zero reason for gender roles to remain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI do not see the relevance to what I've said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:51 PM |
| -1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerThat'd be great. I take it you're looking forward to that scenario, and I commend you. Meanwhile, we still can rely on active, authentic communication of interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerComplex. I would self-describe as bi-romantic. I am attracted to average male character traits, but I do not fantasize about men. Instead, I want to fuck every other woman I see. Huge horndog. I've always had good female platonic friends, but I find the gender expectations women place on me suffocating in any physically affectionate relationship scenario. What about you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI've never mentioned the word "unemployed." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerSure. And men are expected to be taller, to take the initiative, earn more, do the heavy duty work, carry the shopping bags, etc. Gender roles are shitty for everyone who doesn't fit into them. The good news is, one is not obligated to meet anyone else's expectations. As I haven't and feel all the happier for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerThank you for a very nuanced and thoughtful response. The options seem to be clear: a) do stuff to your specifications yourself, and take full responsibility for your decision; b) tolerate the fact others do not have the same standards you have; c) do not cohabitate out of habit or a cognitive prison that tells you this is how relationships "should be." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI was born having learned that. Thank goodness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:36 PM |
| 0 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI thank you for your empathy. Showing empathy, curiosity, and respect toward men is way underrated within our feminist zeitgeist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI think people who play gender roles are intrinsically self-alienated, paint themselves into cognitive prisons, and have conflicting motivations they are too cowardly to examine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:32 PM |
| 0 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerWhat's your source? What is your threshold for "significant"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:30 PM |
| 0 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerMen do not owe you doing anything to your specifications. Wanted it done your way, do it yourself. And take full responsibility for your decision. If cohabitating with men is such a drag, the questions still remains why gender-role-identifying women are so incredibly adamant about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerYou sound tremendously know-it-allish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 10:17 AM |
| 9 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerSo, your anecdotal experience is supposed to be more important to me than mine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerAlready do, as I said above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 10:06 AM |
| 0 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI have followed your advice before you gave it to me. Unfortunately, meeting women who'll go along with it is impossible for all practical purposes. That's also not going to change the money that is extorted from me by married couples as you mentioned above. Besides evading taxes, I am looking into having romantic connections with dudes while paying for sex with females (which I already do). It's the only way I feel I can get all my needs met given the constraints imposed on me by the popular au… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerIndeed. Monogamy is at least partially imposed by brute force. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 09:53 AM |
| 4 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerHahaha! That was great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI agree with this. Monogamy today has a vague messianic appeal to it. Whereas in the past it had the very specialized function of establishing paternity and family property transfer. It is supposed to "save." Then they realize that life (with all it's perplexing and imponderable paradoxes) actually continues unabated even with a wedding band weighing on their right-hand ring finger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 09:46 AM |
| 13 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerIf it's so hard, whence comes the female gender role's obsession in getting married? Edit: Also, anecdotally, I've had and seen women literally refuse to let men contribute to household chores or solve their own problems. In my experience, typically when women feel I'm "their boyfriend", they immediately set about solving problems in my life unprompted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 09:40 AM |
| 0 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerThat would imply women would have to pay their own bills, which is not something they've typically been fond of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 09:38 AM |
| 10 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerThe last paragraph says it all. Sex for the female gender role is overwhelmingly a survival and social climbing strategy. Shouldn't surprise anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 09:36 AM |
| 0 | Can someone be considered “loyal” if they aren’t practicing “fidelity”?What is relevant to me about cheating is the lying, not the sex. That said, I do not condone possessive relationships and therefore do not think that the partner who's cheated on is an "an innocent victim." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Question about divorce ratesMarriage in the past was a contract. People, especially women, nowadays are completely hypocritical about that fact. The "commitment" grandpa and grandma had had nothing to do with "love", and certainly had nothing to do with the expectation that the male half of a couple would be monogamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | What are your biggest hypocrisies in modern dating?I am happy to say I do not practice any of the male hypocrisy cited in the OP. I think you've pretty much nailed female hypocrisy. I would add the fact that women claim to enjoy casual sex as much as men and proceed to play hard to get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?Oh, I agree entirely. I understand you now. I think this is explained squarely by the misandryst legacy of feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?I don't understand the relevance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?Of course dating is hard because of women. It's basic evolutionary sexual selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 12:28 AM |
| 7 | Despite men and women being roughly equal in population, attractive men are seen as scarce, why is that?Excellent point. Great looks, shitty personality females are abundant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Despite men and women being roughly equal in population, attractive men are seen as scarce, why is that?Is this a cry for help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 06:01 PM |
| 5 | Despite men and women being roughly equal in population, attractive men are seen as scarce, why is that?Bingo. Alpha fucks, beta buxx for life. That is average female mating strategy. And it makes tons of sense evolutionarily speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Despite men and women being roughly equal in population, attractive men are seen as scarce, why is that?Evolution. Sexual selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Who says I want to attract traditionally feminine women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Q4 RP Men: How many of you actually paternity tested your kids?I definitely will in August if it turns out this woman who lied to me about having an IUD on is actually pregant, is able to carry the pregnancy to term, and files claims I am the father of the child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 08:51 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most annoying relationship ritual to you?I'm with you 100% on rituals being annoying (kissing is definitely one of them for me). I would go further and say that rituals can make for very inauthentic relating. Even sex can be inauthentic and ritualistic. By which I mean, choreographed: oral, penetration, orgasm, etc. I have had intense, intimate sexual experiences that did not involve climaxing, for example. It takes tremendous present, embodied awareness to be authentic and relate authentically. "Be yourself" is great advice, but it is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it?Men don't owe women knowing how they operate any more than women owe men being a blonde porn actress with huge fake tits in bed. Want something? Get off your Cinderella pedestal and ask for it like everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it?Good man. I'm with you, brother. Can't stand these fucking apps! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it?That's not enough for me. I don't want to suggest your experience is invalid, but to me that's just being betabuxxed. I understand status and money are not one and the same. Say, a drummer in a band may slay pussy like crazy and won't necessarily be rich. That said, he'll ultimately have to make the choice most of us average dudes make whenever he isn't on stage (and live with the knowledge he only slays pussy because of a superficial trait). Namely, Chris Rock's choice: "Married and bored! Or, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it?What I do know is this: If I have to 'convince' women to like me, it will be an inauthentic relationship for us both. My bar for authenticity is very high, and I rate it as one of my primary values in life (over social approval). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Evolution of Penile Anatomy points to Multiple Men copulating with the same Woman. Your Reaction.I think it's awesome. I've always been in search of the total whore. I love them and I keep looking in spite of myself. Virgin Marys bore me to no end. Unfortunately, tradthots are all over the place. Full disclosure: Haven't read primary source yet but plan on getting to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 03:18 PM |
| 1 | YupYeah. Because the male sex doesn't exist, after all. Right? | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/01/21 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Men who want independent womenI couldn't agree more with the OP. Feminism is largely about virtue-signaling. From men and women. Feministos want to gain the approval of the female population by standing in contrast to the unwashed chauvinist masses. So, they have a vested interest in the narrative that men by and large want women in the kitchen. By the way, feministos (that is, male feminists) are the driving force behind feminism by a long margin, in my opinion. Women feminists like to congratulate themselves on being indep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Even "gender equality-supportive" women tend to prefer "benevolently sexist" men despite them being perceived as "patronizing" and "undermining"Thank you for sharing. The conclusion of the study squares off with my empirical observation. I should have a read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 02:41 PM |
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