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I don’t know one man who has had law enforcement get involved after saying hello. You’re doing something wrong.
/r/seduction12/12/21 02:31 PM
1

There’s a reason you’re on this thread and it shows. Ciao
/r/seduction06/12/21 07:17 PM
1

Dude that’s a lot of thinking!!!
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:47 PM
1

Do men think women aren’t afraid of rejection? It’s just as hard for us!
/r/seduction06/12/21 02:43 PM
2

FFS.
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:10 AM
1

I understand I am shy too. I’m glad you found your person. ❤️
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:32 PM
1

I’m not desperate. I was simply encouraging men to come talk to ladies like myself. The entire thread got robbed by a bunch of defensive weenies. Christ.
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:26 PM
0

Speak English: “throw choosing signals?” Wtf does that even mean?
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:25 PM
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I think people are taking my post waaaaaaaaay too seriously. I’m encouraging men. They’re all so defensive and full of excuses. They’re acting like I’m asking them to walk across the Sahara barefoot.
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:24 PM
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It’s an absolute miracle that our species is still here based on this thread.
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:22 PM
1

I know weird right? God forbid!
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:21 PM
1

Sorry, I have to really dumb it down on this thread for people
/r/seduction05/12/21 12:10 PM
1

Go see my profile. :)
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:40 AM
2

Me too.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:22 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:20 AM
1

“Hi I think you’re really pretty.” “Hi I think your mtn bike is cool.” Hi do you work here?” Simple shit. It’s called “conversing.”
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:20 AM
1

I’m begging. Clearly. Lol.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:19 AM
1

Welcome to reality.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:18 AM
1

God forbid a woman cheer you on and encourage you! Take advice from a man, because clearly you know more about what women want! Comical.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:17 AM
0

In a dark alley when a woman is alone? Yeah use your common sense, probably not smart!
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:16 AM
1

Because I’m pretty you assume all of that? Shall I assume you have a small dick based on your response? You know what happens when you make Assumptions right? Lol.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:15 AM
0

Lonely? Did I ever say that? Lol I think I’ve hit some nerves with some men. Lol
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:12 AM
1

Lost?
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:12 AM
1

What about a hello?
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:11 AM
1

I love that.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:11 AM
1

Not desperate but thanks. Lol.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:11 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:10 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:05 AM
1

Hahahhahahhahahhahahahahhaahhahahhahahaha
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:05 AM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:33 AM
1

:)
/r/seduction04/12/21 09:10 PM
2

Thanks for being nice.
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:59 PM
1

Great idea!!!!
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:59 PM
1

It’s not as easy as you think. I promise you. I get rejected A LOT.
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:43 PM
2

Totally get this. But here’s the thing: do we not like being bugged or is it that it hasn’t been someone we are interested in? If it’s a hot guy? I’m not bothered. Some old dude who is staring? Yeah gross. But it’s never annoying or creepy when it’s someone I’m Actually into……
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:35 PM
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Don’t harass us then. It’s really easy. She has a bf? Stop asking. Men misunderstand body language.
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:26 PM
1

They are grown and no, there are not “tons.”
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:25 PM
1

Well there’s a lot of things women have to endure that I promise you wouldn’t want to deal with. Each gender has their pros and cons. Trust me: being a woman is really hard.
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:25 PM
1

Read it. Seriously.
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:06 PM
1

I don’t go for looks. I like confidence and brains and funny men. I don’t mind a little out of shape either. But they never know this because they don’t give me the time of day. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:05 PM
2

Is it not good if I compliment a man to get a convo going?
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:04 PM
2

I wish men would talk to me at the gym. Yesterday I stared at a cute guy for a long time we met eyes quite a few times but I was feeling too shy. If I see him next time I’m going to compliment his fitness and see if he bites.
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:04 PM
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I’m persistent so it doesn’t annoy me it’s just life.
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:02 PM
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No. That’s being creepy.
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:01 PM
1

Ok dokay
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:00 PM
0

Thanks I was trying to cheer them on. 😫
/r/seduction04/12/21 05:00 PM
0

HahahHa ok.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:59 PM
1

Go for someone out of your league. You might be surprised!!
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:59 PM
1

Have you seen me? 😂
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:58 PM
1

Keep at it!!!!!
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:57 PM
1

I’m all over Reddit. Lol
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:57 PM
1

That wouldn’t be a good time. :)
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:57 PM
2

Just say hi.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:56 PM
1

Do you mean that or are you being mean? I really was cheering men on honestly.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:56 PM
1

I’ve met a lot of flaky men. I understand this.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:56 PM
3

Where is he?!? I’ll fuck him right now. :)
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:55 PM
0

Ok
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:55 PM
1

HahahHa I do. Most have been taken or were not interested.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:55 PM
2

No. They won’t. Don’t be a dick and stare at her tits or approach her in a dark alley way. If a woman cannot accept a sincere compliment with grace then she’s not worth your time!
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:54 PM
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100%!!!!!!!! THIS.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:53 PM
1

It’s called saying hello. Adele does it a lot.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:53 PM
1

Lame. Sounds shitty and not sexy.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:53 PM
2

Thanks. I don’t think most men understand this.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:52 PM
1

This is what I was trying to say. Not sure why everyone got so defensive.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:52 PM
2

I was cheering men on. You all took it as an attack. Sensitive much?
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:51 PM
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Hahahahhaa deal
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:51 PM
1

Not looking for a relationship was just trying to flirt and get laid but thanksssssss
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:50 PM
2

Once they say they are taken I would Back off. If men don’t want to be seen as creeps they need to know when to stop.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:50 PM
1

Hahahahha ok.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:49 PM
1

Your loss. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:49 PM
1

No i do that on my Onlyfans. Lol
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:48 PM
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That’s really crappy. Sorry to hear that.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:33 PM
2

❤️
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:37 AM
1

Boom
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:37 AM
1

That’s awesome I would laugh so hard lol
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:37 AM
2

That’s why men don’t approach me? My kids are grown.
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:36 AM
0

So how do you get laid? Or do you just Jack off to porn alone?
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:05 AM
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Get a uterus and talk to me. Fuck off. I was cheering all you men on dummy. I was met with attacks. Can’t win! Also I’m a Navy mom of a DAUGHTER in the military. Fuck off.
/r/seduction04/12/21 01:13 AM
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I posted a post trying to cheer men on and was met with attacks. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/seduction04/12/21 01:03 AM
1

Sounds about right!
/r/seduction04/12/21 01:03 AM
1

On dates?
/r/seduction04/12/21 01:02 AM
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Of course. Put it on us Women to soften the blow of life for men. Where is our soft landing? Oh that’s right. We don’t get one.
/r/seduction04/12/21 01:00 AM
1

Oh. Hahaha sorry.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:57 AM
1

It’s Friday I’m happy, how about you!!!?
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:41 AM
1

Hi Jack :) thanks for saying hi! :)
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:41 AM
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Lol!!!
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:41 AM
2

Do men read?
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:40 AM
1

Same here. It’s hard. I go to the gym and I mtn bike. I don’t go to bars because I don’t know anyone and don’t wanna sit at a bar alone as a woman.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:35 AM
4

Those women are shitty. Run for the hills from them!!! Entitled bitches.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:34 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:33 AM
2

San Francisco Bay Area. I wish people wouldn’t think that. They also believe if you’re pretty you can’t be depressed, have anxiety or be single. It sucks.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:33 AM
1

Not in a dark alley if I’m alone. (I don’t think men realize how often women are honestly scared for their life.) a compliment would be awesome. “Hey you’re really pretty!” Soooo easy. Benign. If she’s interested she can keep talking if not she can say “thank you!“ and move on. No one’s feelings get hurt.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:32 AM
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Maybe. I’m in the Bay Area.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:30 AM
2

I’m literally never approached. Sorry today a 65 year old overweight dude who lives two hours from me asked me to go golfing. :)
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:30 AM
3

I’d freak out and I would beam! I would be super stoked!!!
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:29 AM
1

Hahha thank you for stating the obvious. But as this thread clearly shows none of that matters because men don’t want to approach women!!!!!
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:29 AM
1

Thanks! I agree. Sometimes I see hot men but they are walking into their car or talking to someone etc.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:18 AM
1

USA
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:17 AM
2

Yep. Most are married are say thanks and keep doing their errand/chore/task.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:17 AM
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Would love to next time I’m there! Thanks!!
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:17 AM
2

Sounds like to me men want a guaranteed yes. That’s not the way life goes!
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:16 AM
1

But maybe I’m just a romantic.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:15 AM
2

Maybe instead of thinking about how horrible it could go you can focus on how wonderfully it could turn out? There’s a great commercial on this. Two people always run into each other in an elevator and they never say anything and plays out their life had they spoken to each other. It’s so cool.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:15 AM
0

*moment not movement
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:06 AM
2

Read Kosher Sutra by Rabbi Shmuley. Women want to be seduced and desired. Love is not the only thing women want like men think. If that was true then why ever move out of your parents house right? We need to feel like they cannot be without us another movement kinda thing. It’s seduction at its finest. Stop thinking about cumming so much and think about building tension. Drives women crazy.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:06 AM
1

But simply saying hello and not knowing someone has a boyfriend isn’t reason for drama. If she tells you that and you keep going that is another story. I mean how else do people make a connection? Someone has to put it out there. Someone is going to get rejected.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:04 AM
2

I’ve been in sales my entire life so I take for granted my conversational skills. At the end of the day remember: most people like to talk about themselves. Ask questions! We got two ears and one mouth for a reason. :)
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:03 AM
1

You are a rockstar
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:02 AM
1

Yep.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:02 AM
1

Not opposed to it!
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:01 AM
1

I’m right here. :)
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:50 PM
2

It’s hard I am too. I understand.
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:19 PM
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Perfect spot. You rock.
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:18 PM
1

I do! I always have. I’m just tired of doing all the work. It’s not sexy.
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:17 PM
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41.
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:16 PM
1

THIS. Thanks.
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:16 PM
1

Smiles and big happy eyes. Must definitely be me!
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:15 PM
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Why because I say I’m beautiful? I am. There is nothing narcissistic about that. My whole life has been taking care of others and putting my children first. Takes one to know one hon!
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:15 PM
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Doubt it. I’m very observant. I think men are lazy and have become weak and expect women to do everything and it’s so not attractive. Gross 🤢.
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:14 PM
2

I’m never with men and I have no ring on my finger. Excuses are like assholes. You guys all seem to have a lot of excuses to not talk to women. Interesting.
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:13 PM
1

Fucking talk to her and stop expecting her to do EVERYTHING.
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:09 PM
1

I was visiting family but thank you!
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:08 PM
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I just refuse to do all the work. I would have stayed married to my chauvinist ex husband If that sounded appealing.
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:08 PM
4

Do what Adele does. “Hello.”
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:07 PM
1

Yes. It’s called “detach.” Just be a kind person and see what happens.
/r/seduction03/12/21 11:05 PM
30

I gotta ask the guy out. Make all the plans. Do all the driving. Make the conversation flow (they tend to only talk about themselves.) and then make sure HE feels good the whole time? Jesus Christ.
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:35 PM
0

I could look into that. I’m a great dancer. I’m just too embarrassed to go anywhere alone. (I’m new in town.)
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:34 PM
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I recently broke up with my boyfriend. I wish people wouldn’t ask why a pretty girl is single. 😫
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:33 PM
1

I think it’s about the delivery. A sincere compliment goes a long way esp if you’re not staring at her crotch or her tits. A genuine smile is worth so much. I love when a man gives me a compliment without expectations.
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:33 PM
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I understand. I’m shy too. It’s hard.
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:31 PM
2

THIS.
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:30 PM
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Well that’s a shame. I haven’t quit trying and I’m 41.
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:30 PM
3

Giving someone a compliment is free and kind. You should try it sometime. I do it everyday. To complete strangers. Some ignore me. Most light up and smile.
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:29 PM
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I love it!!!!!!
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:29 PM
1

Anywhere!!!!!! Grocery store, gas station, work, anywhere!!!!
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:28 PM
1

Again, I don’t need help flirting or talking to men. I need them in front of me though to do that. So if they keep their heads in their phones and their headphones on it’s pretty hard to approach.
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:25 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:23 PM
0

I love shy guys are who are brave in bed. That’s the man for me. :)
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:35 PM
2

Won’t know unless you try
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:31 PM
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Definitely both. :)
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:31 PM
-1

I don’t need advice talking to men. I need men to work a little harder and also put some energy in.
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:27 PM
2

Deal.
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:25 PM
4

And they complain they don’t get laid enough. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:22 PM
9

I smile a lot. I’m extremely friendly. I’m aware of the resting bitch face look and it’s never been me. I’m a comic. I’m hilarious!
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:21 PM
5

Thank you I really appreciate your feedback.
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:21 PM
4

Hair and eyes and fine. Even had a man tell me I had beautiful skin once and that was nice to hear.
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:20 PM
4

Don’t look at our boobs or our other parts or comment on our body if you don’t know us. That is creepy and not ok.
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:20 PM
4

I think a compliment goes such a long way. Does she have pretty hair? Nice clothes? Pretty eyes? I would love it if a man gave me a sincere compliment and looked me in the eye when he said it! I would be so overjoyed!!!!
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:19 PM
7

Smh. Never mind.
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:10 PM
5

Thank you. I think you understand my point better than the rest. I was trying to encourage men to ask women out that are maybe above their “pay grade.” We are wanting men to approach us and have balls and say hello. I was just trying to be a cheerleader for men actually but everyone gets so defensive on this sub.
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:09 PM
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People need to realize there is a creepy way to speaking to people and there is a non creepy way of speaking. If you’re looking at a woman’s tits with drool falling out of your mouth it’s probably not going to go well. A simple compliment can really go a long way. It’s not that hard. I do it daily.
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:03 PM
5

I do a lot.
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:02 PM
21

I swear to you I could dangle my pussy in front of a man’s face and he STILL will wonder if I’m interested. It’s baffling.
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:59 PM
74

Thanks
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:57 PM
-5

Well they’re dumb!
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:47 PM
1

I could sit on a man’s face and he still won’t get it. It’s kind of hilarious actually.
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:46 PM
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I do. A lot. They want me to do everything. I’m not interested in a man who can’t do some of the work.
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:46 PM
-27

I’m beautiful and don’t need lessons on how to flirt. But I’m new in town and don’t know a soul. It’s not that simple.
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:45 PM
2

Thank you.
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:45 PM
0

Not eager to find a guy just trying to get laid. Lol.
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:44 PM
17

I do. All the time. They’re not single or they’re not interested. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:44 PM
3

That’s awful!! I’m so sorry you had that experience. I would never!!!! I do a lot of approaching and am tired of doing all the work for men. It’s exhausting.
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:43 PM
-1

I say hello. I wave. I’m talking about complete strangers.
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:43 PM
3

I have. A million times.
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:42 PM
21

Christ. No wonder it was so well done. Lol.
/r/seduction28/11/21 10:56 PM
21

Someone give this man an award. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/seduction28/11/21 09:56 PM
2

😆😆😆
/r/seduction28/11/21 09:45 PM
3

Ok then maybe a picnic somewhere if it’s not too cold OR a nearby bar, just not one where the ex could be. “Hey when can we sneak off for a drink?” Etc etc
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:36 AM
1

THIS
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:32 AM
1

P.s. A lot of women’s behaviors are misconstrued as “flirting.” Especially if she’s good looking. Was she sucking his dick? Asking for his snap? Winking at him and grabbing his arm? Don’t punish her for being a human.
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:24 AM
1

Or she was being nice to someone who was making her a beverage and her hair was in her face.
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:22 AM
3

Ask her when can she sneak over for drinks. Have wine and cheese or whatever at your house ready at all times. Be patient. I’ve been in her shoes.
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:17 AM
16

Shoulda kissed her!!!! Do not waste time. If she comes out to your car it’s her way of saying “touch me now.” She doesn’t have time to waste. You’re gonna have to steal kisses like a teenager. She doesn’t have privacy.
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:03 AM
20

Maybe I’m giving terrible advice. Hahahaha I just think a lot can be shown in person. Like what if you hate the way one of them walks? Or maybe she smells like farts? Idk.
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:27 PM
124

Yes. Otherwise you won’t know. People have smells and vibes you gotta experience in person to know. Don’t you agree?
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:06 PM
73

Are you ever going to meet them? Don’t make a choice until you’ve hung out in person.
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:01 PM
13

BE HONEST.
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:01 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣 I was an amazing gf. Too bad for him.
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:18 PM
1

Ugh you don’t get it.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:26 PM
1

Interesting!
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:26 PM
1

Tried all those things and more. An addict is an addict is an addict! They don’t care. They don’t want real women: it’s about not having to be emotional with a real woman. It’s not about the sex. It’s an addiction.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:25 PM
1

Why do you assume a man’s porn addiction is because of lack of sexuality on the woman’s part? Omfg you must be like 15 years old. lol.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:24 PM
1

Honestly I wondered.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:23 PM
1

Hahahaha so do you know what women want? Better than women? LOL!!! Are you mansplaining what women want, to a woman?!? LOL LOL
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:23 PM
1

Because they are triggered. Heavy porn users and gas liters are being lit up. Lol. Thanks for acknowledging what was actually a simple message: don’t hide your emotions.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:22 PM
1

I’m speaking on behalf of myself. Take it or leave it.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:21 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:17 AM
1

Triggered? Lol. Every dude that watches waaaaaaaay too much porn is very triggered by this post.
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:15 AM
1

I want to have great sex ANDDDD be emotionally fulfilled?!!!? THE NERVE!!!!
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:05 AM
1

Agreed!
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:05 AM
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I have zero nudity or porn on my account. I can speak on behalf of an addiction AND participate in sexy fun. Also it’s cliche not clique. ;)
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:04 AM
1

Men are.
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:40 PM
2

Yes. Thank you!
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:40 PM
-1

Because I had needs I was communicating? That’s the problem: men gaslight women every time we try to communicate what we need.
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:40 PM
1

Haha ok.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:56 PM
1

I’m simply sharing my experience. Not saying it’s everyone’s.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:49 PM
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Not if your spouse is ignoring you and not having sex with you! My god. Money does not buy happiness in my case! lol.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:23 PM
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I completely understand this. I’m also a mother of a 20 year old son so I get this! He’s super introverted.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:22 PM
2

He prefers his computer sadly.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:19 PM
1

Go read Kosher Sutra. Rabbi Shmuley is the author. Mind will be blown.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:19 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:18 PM
2

No. He was not having sex with me and kept having ED issues and was disconnected.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:17 PM
1

It wasn’t. But I couldn’t figure out why certain things felt off. Every time I asked for more he told me to “let things happen more organically.” So I did. I backed off.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:17 PM
3

Totes
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:55 PM
3

THIS.
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:53 PM
3

I try all the time!!!!!
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:45 PM
0

It’s none of peoples biz IMO
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:31 PM
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I don’t think it’s changed. Women still want adventure and fun. All my friends married or not complain about having to plan everything and how it would be cool if the man planned some stuff too. Not just along for the ride….
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:36 PM
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Because they want to make sure they aren’t wasting a number on a dude who doesn’t know how to fuck. I promise you that’s why they are asking. Lol.
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:11 PM
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Girls just wanna have fun. I wish more men knew this.
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:08 PM
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I can’t speak for other women but I know for me I just want the man that is authentically himself. Good or bad be true to yourself. That is sexy!!!!
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:08 PM
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Please tell me you are not asking these women how many people they have been with?!? Jesus Christ. It’s none of your business!!!!!
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:04 PM
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Well they can be alone I guess. 😎
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:00 PM
1

Don’t even give it a second thought. Move on. If women want to spend time with you they will make an effort. Next!!!
/r/seduction20/09/21 02:18 PM
2

Last thing: please be brave. Even just to say hi. I hang out where men hang Out to make it easy for them and they still don’t say hello or try. Last weekend I went to the driving range thinking there would be lots of men there. There were. I hit balls for about two hours and not one said hi. NOT ONE. I was the ONLY woman and not one man bothered to come up and say hi and talk about golf. It’s always disappointing as a woman to always do ALL the work because men are too nervous to come say hi and…
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:11 PM
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Stop calling it that. You’re psyching yourself out. Cold approach sounds terrifying. Just fucking say hi to us and start doing it every day. Get comfortable with the basics. “Hi.” “How’s your day?” These should be easy.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:07 PM
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Trust me. I’m a beautiful woman and I wish more men would approach me. They rarely do. I always have to try to start the convo and they never get the hint. They think I’m actually trying to talk to them and really I just want them to notice me or like me enough to be friends or more. I think a lot of men are overthinking this big time. A woman like me should never be lonely.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:06 PM
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Engagement. Vulnerability. Being funny would be GREAT. ❤️
/r/seduction11/09/21 05:13 AM
1

You have tons of time to become friends with women!
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:57 PM
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This is not actually true. I’m a beautiful woman and I do NOT have a plethora of men to choose from. They ASSUME that so they don’t approach or even speak to me. It sucks. Do not assume women have tons of choices. We don’t.
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:56 PM
1

I can tell by your response that you are actually more confident than you may believe and you are funny. Own your shit. You’re good. Ignore people.
/r/seduction29/08/21 03:44 PM
1

Therapy. Exercise. Hobbies. Confidence. You can do it!
/r/seduction29/08/21 12:00 PM
0

Date shorter girls. Problem solved.
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:57 AM
0

Bitches. Keep on keeping on.
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:32 PM
2

Nice work 👏🏻
/r/seduction02/06/21 06:09 AM
1

Well done 👍🏻
/r/seduction29/05/21 04:45 AM
1

Perfect advice ❤️
/r/seduction17/05/21 08:43 PM
4

La duh. It’s called taking control and being a man. WE LOVE YOU FOR IT!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/seduction10/05/21 09:50 PM
2

Hobbies,sports,outside activities. Facebook has tons of fun hiking groups. All my friends are meeting really good dudes this way!
/r/seduction02/05/21 03:12 AM
1

Smile. Make a friend. Don’t stare at her tits even if they are hanging out. Tell her she’s pretty.
/r/seduction27/04/21 01:30 AM
1

Be yourself!!!!! Smile!!! Laugh!!! Be genuine and sincere. That’s it!!!
/r/seduction22/04/21 11:17 PM
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Don’t follow girls on social media. You can be the ugliest dude but if you’re confident and smiling you’re gonna get a lot of attention. The most confident person always gets the most attention regardless of looks.
/r/seduction22/04/21 12:20 AM
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All of us are. ❤️
/r/seduction20/04/21 05:41 PM
4

I know. I agree. It’s so weird and challenging being a woman sometimes. We don’t even know what we want half the time. Good luck 🍀!!!!
/r/seduction19/04/21 08:05 PM
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I knowwwwww it’s so hard sometimes! Women can be super subtle. We really do not want to come off as forward or slutty so literally I believe that’s why women don’t approach. You must keep your eyes open and reallllllly pay attention to signals. Good ones are: laughing and smiling at you, touching your arm, uncrossing her legs, playing with her hair or mouth, exposing her neck to you... etc. men are notorious for missing obvious green lights and obvious red lights in body language.
/r/seduction19/04/21 07:52 PM
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Good man! Keep up the brave work!!! 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
/r/seduction19/04/21 05:56 PM
1

Love it!!!!!! Well done!!!
/r/seduction19/04/21 05:47 PM
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P.s. we aren’t going to spell it out for you. We don’t want to come off slutty. She’s giving you the thumbs up so just be a man and ask her out. Seriously can’t tell you how many men I’ve given every fucking signal to and ..... nothing. Be a brave man in a texting world!
/r/seduction19/04/21 05:45 PM
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Ask her out. Right now. If she says no then you have your answer. She may not be single FYI....
/r/seduction19/04/21 05:44 PM
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Thank you for not taking advantage of her. Your parents raised you right. You are a good man and human being!!! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/seduction19/04/21 05:42 PM
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You’re a bad ass for talking to her and being engaged. Women love being chased and I honestly always prefer the man to talk to me first. It’s sexy. Take a deep breath and onto the next!! Keep being brave. I promise it will pay off.
/r/seduction19/04/21 05:39 PM
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Finally!!! Men!!! PAY ATTENTION!!! We’re strategic as fuck but want the man to make the first move. Plus then we don’t seem too forward.
/r/seduction18/04/21 11:18 PM
3

Exactly
/r/PussyPassDenied15/04/21 03:20 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PussyPassDenied15/04/21 03:20 AM
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