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| 5 | How do you not get too drunk when going out so you can still pickup girls?Drink less and drink slower. Don’t let your ego get the best of you. Drinking isn’t a competition. Have a glass of water after every few drinks. Definitely eat a meal before you start drinking. | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many guys have a seething hatred for single moms?I don’t think the majority of men hate them. They just wouldn’t consider seriously dating one. Speaking for just myself I don’t want to raise someone else’s kids, nor would I want to deal with any of the baby daddy drama while there are still plenty of single childless women I could date. I think the disconnect is that women don’t realize this is a preference a lot, or possible the majority of men have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 06:18 PM |
| 4 | No fault divorce but with a twistNo it means of that 10% who get alimony. 97% of the payments go to women and 3% of the payments go to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Do older men 35+ have trouble dating woman in their mid 20’s?I think it’s pretty common. I met my wife on bumble when she was 27 and I was 38. I went on many dates with women in the 24- 30 age range around that time from dating apps. Pretty sure all of the guys my age I knew who were on line dating were dating women in the same age ranges as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Men age better than Women. Fact or Societal standards/expectations?Fact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Who has more sexual options: An average looking woman? Or a male celebrity?Never said relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Who has more sexual options: An average looking woman? Or a male celebrity?You’re missing the point. A 5-6 woman can get a date with almost any guy in the 5-9 range. A 9 man has the same range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Who has more sexual options: An average looking woman? Or a male celebrity?Yes I’m talking sheer numbers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Who has more sexual options: An average looking woman? Or a male celebrity?A guy who is a 9/10 has about as many options as a woman who is a 5-6/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 07:42 PM |
| 4 | Who has more sexual options: An average looking woman? Or a male celebrity?Celebrity and it’s not even close. Plain Jane woman vs a very good looking guy is about even though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 07:35 PM |
| -3 | Should I not pay for the ubers for a hookup?Don’t pay. | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys ever give women another shot?If you’re interested then yes. But make her do something to get your attention back. If she’s down have her come to your place instead of going out. If she’s not have her plan the activity if she wants to hang. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Can an average man have chances with a higher-status woman?Yes. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Dinner is a TERRIBLE first date idea! Why you should always avoid itI always did Dave and Busters for first dates. You can play a few games have a few beers, and it’s pretty laid back environment. | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 12:48 PM |
| 2 | fucked a very hot mutual friend, she only does serious relationships, i would like her to be fwb or a fling. What should i do?I’m positive. I’ve had plenty of situations like this over the years. I was always upfront about what I wanted. Sure sometimes they will not want to keep seeing you, then sometimes they will think they can change you, and sometimes they will keep fucking you until they meet a guy that wants what they want. You have to be willing to accept any of these outcomes. | /r/seduction | 19/01/24 04:18 PM |
| 3 | fucked a very hot mutual friend, she only does serious relationships, i would like her to be fwb or a fling. What should i do?Just tell her you like fucking her, but don’t want to be in a serious relationship for the foreseeable future. You will be shocked how well honesty works in most cases. | /r/seduction | 19/01/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do most guys not need to do any of this stuff to find relationships with women?You see how they act in public not how they act at home. These cats might be duds in public, but know how to please thier women at home. You also don’t see how they acted when they first met. Once women are invested to a certain degree you don’t have to do much. Guy might have been charming as fuck, and in shape for the first six months of thier relationship. Now she isn’t gonna jump ship because she’s too comfortable with him. But thinks he will if she gets fat, becomes boring etc. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | She flaked a second time without any excuse or rescheduling should I ghost her?Yes. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | can you call girls that aren't your girlfriend dear or babe?During banter I would use something like doll, or sweetheart in a joking manner. Never seemed to hurt. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 03:14 PM |
| 5 | How do I ask my friend to set me up with her friend?Just show minimal interest. Like hey who is that. Ow wow she’s cute. If she gets the hint and suggests introducing you then do that if she doesn’t then she isn’t going to. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | When a girl asks you to bring her food at her houseI hear ya | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 07:23 PM |
| 7 | When a girl asks you to bring her food at her houseI’d take that as an invite for a hook up. If you do that and nothing happens stop talking to her. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Can you get laid if you're a little bit overweight?Because a lot of women refuse to date shorter guys. So being tall gives you more options. What you do with those options is up to you. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Can you get laid if you're a little bit overweight?Absolutely. In fact a lot of women like bigger guys. Currently I’m 6’3 270lbs and have been as big as 315. I have never had a problem finding attractive women to date, and just hook up with. Obviously you won’t be everyone’s type, but there will be a lot of people who enjoy the way you look. Try to stay in decent enough shape that you don’t look sloppy. With my frame I look great between 260-280. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | How to reject a girl?I used to use the same things women say to guys. I don’t really feel a spark with you, but we can be friends. I feel more of a friend vibe than a romantic one with you. Etc If there is a specific reason you can tell her that. If it’s totally looks based I wouldn’t mention it though. That could crush some women. I wouldn’t ghost like a lot of guys are telling you to. I think it’s childish. I know a lot of women do that to us, but be better than them. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Need help Improving my game. Kinda shy?Only way to really learn is by approaching as many girls as you can. Expect to get rejected a lot, but learn what works. If you are really good looking you don’t have to say that much. Just a quick little snip like “you look like trouble” with big grin on you’re face and strong eye contact, and they’ll start talking if they’re into you. All you have to do then is keep the convo going, and escalate. But approaching them is half the battle in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Am beta bucks in relationship do I just cut my lossesBro if you haven’t smashed after 3 dates you’re not dating her. 3 months?? Roll the fuck out. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Confident. | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Haha that’s a great movie. I’m sure this happened before that movie came out. It wasn’t the widow or anything crazy like that. Guy I worked with at the times father passed, and she was a cousin of his. I cracked a few jokes to cheer him up outside before the funeral, and she was there giving me the smiles. At the luncheon after I chatted her up, and we ended up dating for like 6 months after. There have been very few times I haven’t taken my shot, and I’ve regretted them. All the awkward shit, a… | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 11:27 PM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]My man if you see a girl you’re attracted to it’s fine to approach them anywhere. Don’t be overbearing, don’t outstay yourself welcome, expect rejection and roll with it if it happens. Basically don’t be a creepy stalker type and you’ll be fine. I dated a girl I met at a funeral when I was in my 20s. Always shoot your shot. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 06:45 AM |
| 3 | Do girls really notice when guys are wearing colognes?Girls definitely notice. Women comment randomly that I smell good, and all I wear is sandalwood scented deodorant and a few varieties of beard oil. Nothing too strong. | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 04:37 PM |
| 5 | It's easy for me to date chicks I dont really care about, but difficult for me to actually date people I want. What should i do?College age then yes it’s all about getting laid and having fun. There doesn’t need to be a connection to have a great time(s). But, long term goals, You need to get to a point of confidence that you don’t care if you get rejected ever, by anyone, for any reason. The only way to do this is to gradually go after the ones you do feel a connection with. You’ll realize rejection doesn’t really matter and be proud of the shot you took. | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 01:32 AM |
| 8 | What kind of apartment is best for picking up womenIt doesn’t take that much. Keep it clean (especially the bathroom) and relatively clutter free. Get the best furniture that’s in your budget. Get a nice bed set, and preferably a king bed. Don’t let a girl walk in to you bedroom with a mattress on the floor. It really doesn’t have to be anything crazy nice. You got them back to your apartment that’s the hard part. Now you just don’t want to have anything there that makes them want to run to the door. Also. Have a few different drink options alco… | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 08:48 AM |
| 1 | What do you do for a living and how do you explain it to a woman on a date?I have a contracting business. Most girls are super interested because they all watch hgtv shows. I really enjoy what I do so it’s easy to talk about. Just show that your passionate about it, and make it sound as fun as possible. I think most girls just wanna know that you’re stable, and aren’t gonna be pissed every day because you hate your job. Not currently single. And my girl thinks my job is sexy. She is in a completely different field, and has a much higher status profession. As far as gol… | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 07:07 AM |
| 2 | What's the deal with girl rejecting but still crying to keep the guy as friend.She doesn’t see you as a potential sexual partner. But still wants you hanging around. Sometimes this can lead to a beneficial relationship. As in she’ll introduce you, and even talk you up to other girls she’s friends with. This is a good version of male female friendship. Sometimes they want nothing other than your attention, and occasionally to do them favors like carry heavy shit, hang a picture in their house etc. this is the bad version of a male female friendship. If she was making out to… | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 04:30 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]She wants to fuck you. You probably shouldn’t do it. But I’ll be straight up honest. She wants to fuck you on the DL. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 05:22 AM |
| 2 | What would you do if you’re at a bar and a girl approaches you and asks if she can buy you a drink?If she’s attractive then Yes yes and yes. Sometimes girls just want to get fucked. No ulterior motives involved. Plenty of times in my single days women approached me at bars and online that were quite forward. I never had a bad time with any of them. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 04:06 PM |
| 25 | Where to get laid when you live with your parents?First congrats on getting laid. Now , dude, get focused on getting a car. Absolutely no reason not to have a car at 20. It doesn’t have to be a nice car, just Something cheap and reliable that you can fuck in. Friends couches are great, but you’ll wear out that welcome in short order if your doing it a lot. | /r/seduction | 14/11/21 02:57 PM |
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